Boyfriend is angry because whenever I post a picture on Facebook

Stop posting shit that will trigger instability in your relationship. Stop infuriating your bf needlessly. Stop being an attention whore. And ffs get off those dumb ass social media sites if you plan to have a steady relationship.

Develop some inner strength, gtf off the apps n social media.

>>17926875
Break up with this insecure faggot.

>needless to say they're all women
Oh Jesus. Also recommend him a counselor. Nigga got issues.

>>17926900
I don't post anything triggering, just pictures, they are the ones who comment. And this is pretty common joking around here.

Run, jealousy that extreme is toxic

>>17926900
This.

There's literally no need to post this on social media. Be a good girlfriend and stop showing off your crotch to acquaintances.

>>17926875
OP if you really want this relationship then >>17926900 is right. Stop posting pics that you know are going to bring about that type if reaction from people. Even if it didn't make your bf uncomfortable, that's still not cool. And this is coming from a girl.

If they were dudes posting that stuff and you didn't do anything to stop it, then yeah he'd have a right to be upset, but it's other fucking girls. Hell, I see random chicks posting that kind of stuff on other random chick's pictures when I'm just randomly browsing and I myself think it's pretty funny when they do that. Tell him to grow a pair and get over it, this is what true insecurity looks like.

>>17926966
But they are not special pics, I hope you're not thinking I'm pic related on the OP.

For example, I posted a face pic and a friend commented "Gorgeous, kiss me" with some naughty faces, then another friend of mine came along and said "She's too easy, don't kiss her" and I replied "I'll kiss both of you" and he got angry over that.

He gets angrier when they are bisexual or lesbian as if that has any effect on me at all.

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>>17926875
It's disrespectful to your boyfriend to post pictures knowing they will get that reaction. Worse, flirting even "jokingly" (coughhorseshitcough)

Stop being an attention whore.

What's so hard to understand about this.? It's simple empathy. Just think to yourself "If my boyfriend posted pictures of himself near-nude where a bunch of friends comment "I want to suck your cock so badly." I highly doubt your reaction would be calm.

I had an ex that would lose her fucking mind when I just posted a picture of my face. She would claim I was being flirty, the photos were sexual, and other dumb shit. At the same time, she would post photos of herself literally nude or in see through clothes with no panties/bra on. She also cheated on me and when I found someone new she got furious for "Moving on so quickly" and said to me "I would never do that to you." while she was literally laying in the bed of the man she cheated on me with.

I DO NOT understand people's thought process with the stuff.

It's as simple as thinking "If my partner did this to me, how would I react?" and "This simple action hurts the person I love just so I can get attention from near-strangers. Who do I care about more?" If your answer is "near strangers"... you should rethink your views on relationships.

>>17926875
maybe you should stop being an attention whore cunt who needs validations from others on social media.

>>17926992
>>17926996
Learn to read kiddos. They aren't provocative pictures. They're just regular pictures any girl would post. And even more so, they're her FEMALE friends that are posting that stuff. They're just goofing around. Maybe if you two stopped hating women so much you'd be able to see that it's just innocent banter and the boyfriend is overreacting.

If you are being 100% honest when you say only women do that and you responding that way doesn't seem to invite guys to make similar comments, it's a rather childish response on his part. At least if you've never insinuated to him that you'd actually want to fuck another girl.

>>17926992
> Just think to yourself "If my boyfriend posted pictures of himself near-nude where a bunch of friends comment "I want to suck your cock so badly.
Not OP but my boyfriend gets similar comments from his close male friends on social media every once in a while and we just laugh about it together. They're clearly just messing with him and joking around, so no point in being an insecure bitch about it.

> near-nude
Where did OP say that those comments are only on racy pics? Girls also post these kinds of comments on pics as mundane as a simple face shot.

>>17927089
>At least if you've never insinuated to him that you'd actually want to fuck another girl.

I guess being fair, he has gotten insecure over this in the past... When we met and started dating I've told him I was totally straight and had never done anything with another woman, but he later learned I did a triple kiss once and said he felt kind of lied to in a weird way. I've also told him once after sex I was curious about how it would feel to eat myself out, but in a masturbation sense, not wanting to do oral on other women. From what I read here most men would give themselves bjs if they could.

Ignore the r9k tards who think it's your fault. Your boyfriend is insecure and it's his problem. Yes it would probably go away if you stopped posting them but it's perfectly normal to do and you shouldn't have to stop.

>>17927037
>believing that bullshit
Sure, whatever. My ex use to post "totally normal, non-triggering, totally not nude or sexy at all pictures" where you could see her ass clearly. Cheeks, form, and all.

Or wearing nothing but an apron.

not to even mention there are lesbians/bi girls saying these comments. Just keep pissing your boyfriends off for no real good reason. it clearly bothers the guy, it doesn't affect her at-fucking-all to NOT do that shit openly. This is one of those battles that just would...

Ah fuck it. She's probably going to dump him in a year anyways.

>>17926951
Dude just get off social media. That shit is not a natural means of communication. Like posting here on 4chan. Talk to your partner more, watch tv together, run together, do stuff together. Quit wasting your time attention whoring.

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>>17926875
Needless to say the guy seems like a control freak

Dump him

I was gonna go off on you OP, but then I reread and found out they're other girls.

He is being extremely insecure and it's not your place to fix that. Tell him that needs to relax, and that he needs to fix it himself.

The only thing I can give to him is, he might be thinking "If other girls are doing this and she's responding, how do I j ow she's not doing the same thing with other guys?"

Sort of like a, if you're doing A, then you might be doing B.

You can't blame a man for being sceptical of his girl. In this day and age it's common for a girl to be unfaithful. Girls don't realize how much guys put onto relationships l. We put in 100% we would do anything for the girl we love. We want her to ourselves. So jokingly or not when other people comment sexual things to YOUR girl, the girl you love so much you'd die for, you get jealous. And that kind of stuff leads to infidelity.

>>17928063
you like cuck porn dont you

>>17928150
Abhor it. All women who cheat should be branded so you know to stay away from them

>>17927718
they're lesbian and bisexual girls

they're the same as if she was flirting with straight men

>>17926903
This.

>>17926875
>>17926967

Why are you so homophobic?
Saying you'll sit on a woman's face isn't really that much better than saying you want to sit on a man's face.

>>17926875
>Is there something I'm not seeing here or is this incredibly silly?

Both.

1.) Your boyfriend is obviously insecure/possessive as fuck
2.) You are being kind of inconsiderate by continuing behavior that you know your isn't comfortable with

Is he being a dumbass? Yes. But he's also the guy you've chosen to be with.

So, what that means for you is you need to try to talk to him about it and if he's not at all receptive, then you either need to get the hell out of this relationship and find a boyfriend who ISN'T insecure in that way, OR you need to change your own behavior.

Those are pretty much your two options, because--regardless or not if he's completely in the wrong--you can't realistically change him, you can only ever change yourself.

And if you're not willing to (because while some compromise is always needed, there are definitely a lot of cases where you need to stand your ground and be true to yourself), then it's time to bounce and find someone where you don't have to.

you didn't even try. BAITTT.

yeah it's stupid of him to be jealous if they're straight women and that's how you guys are joking around, but if it's gay or bi women, there may be a problem. that's competition to him or people that you could cheat with, even as a drunken mistake.

>>17926875

Social media is truly awful. Why would you post an image like that if you don't expect anything less than raunch responses like that?

>>17926900
>>17926960
>>17926992
>>17927145
>>17926967
>>17926996

ITT: guys who don't know how to read, and /r9k/.

>>17928284
You too. FOR ANY FUTURE REPLIERS, OP's PIC IS NOT OF HER.
It is a joke image of some dipshit woman who used photoshop to put a tattoo on herself, posted it on Facebook, and got called out when her friend noticed the Shutterstock watermark.

Stop being so eager to call women whores that you can't take 10 seconds to understand what you're seeing or reading.

>>17926875
>I have friends who comment "kiss me/sit on my face/hot as fuck" etc
> needless to say they're all women
LESBONICS YES

>>17928156
>>17928191
What difference does it make if they are lesbian or bisexual? Or even if they were diddling the skittles furiously as they were commenting, what difference? They're my friends and it's all jokes to me.

Do you want me to question them about it to prove it means nothing?

>>17926875
My girl used to fool around with her lesbo/bi friends, but won't do a FFM threesome with me.
I was not jealous of the carpet lickers, but it ain't fair that I'm not getting some, too.

>>17928494
Let's put it this way, if your bf was flirting with other girls would you be fine with it?

Would you be fine with girls saying they would let him face fuck them?

No? Hello double standards.

>>17928641
No one would actually "facefuck" anyone, it's JOKING, so yes, I would be fine with it.

Again, want me to ask them?

>>17926875
Allow me translate your post into what the rest of us are reading OP.

I post pictures of body that most guys would be upset about other people seeing and make light of overtly sexual advances. Why is my boyfriend such a dick?

If it's not from the shoulder up or fully clothed, don't post it. I understand posting your tats, but you shouldn't also post your naked legs and barely covered vag, because I know where my eye is drawn and so does your bf.

Honestly, I think this whole thread is just a cam girl ego trip for you, but on the off chance you're serious? Stop doing shit that deliberately pisses off you BF if you legit care about his feelings.

>>17928667
Can you fucking read?
The pic in the OP isn't a post from OP, it is just a funny pic.
Her boyfriend is jealous of her FEMALE friends bantering and making stupid overly sexual comments under her pics.

>>17928652
Not him, but you are hard headed. You don't deserve him as you are. You can't give up social media for his peace of mind sake?

I hope he realizes how screwed he is soon.

>>17928494
>What difference does it make if they are lesbian or bisexual?
because they might actually be attracted to you and you are enabling them
>they are my friends
just like the ones you kissed i bet

>>17928695
Why would she give up on something she enjoys so he doesn't get upset over jokes?
He needs to grow the fuck up and stop being offended over jokes.

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>>17928695
>>17928700
Alright guys, let's see if I'm a crazy person or if I just know how normal, sensible human beings joke around.

>>17926900
Literally fucking this. Stop being a showy-off whore slut OP.

>>17928707
Because she's annoying. She's a pain in the ass. That's why.

And if she intends to be any kind of decent gf, she better learn to stop pissing ppl off and taking perspectives into consideration. She just sounds like a selfish attention whore type to me.

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Hello /sci/ and /adv/. I have a question regarding Alprazolam. I mother takes 1.6g a day for a year now. I've been wondering what you think of this dosage and length.
My other question is she lives in a high stress environment, stress involves from her personality and her anxiety/depression. She works as a teacher. Last year her mother died and I had an incident with my school which caused her distress.The family is very dysfunctional and very spread apart. I've been wondering what the best possible scenario would be for her and what I could do.

Do you think if she were to spend some time alone she would recover?

A lot of the stress comes from the house. The screaming, finances etc. My father has no relation with my mother yet they live in the same house to raise me.

My mother is also stubborn to were she tends to not listen to her doctors. She was told to be hospitalized until she recovers but ignored this, a few weeks later she had an anxiety attack while driving.

Is her spending alone time a proper solution or is it just going to isolate her?

>>17928710
even if he says no
a) she might be lieing
b) it's still flirting with someone whou could potentially find you sexually attractive.

>>17928722
Because she posts on social media? Most people do. She didn't do anything to make you think so.
If you were playing a videogame with friends and one of them said he was going to fuck your ass or something, and your girlfriend got upset over it and asked you to stop playing with your friends would it be reasonable?
It's the same thing. It's obviously not a serious sexual advance, it is just banter. He is getting offended over nothing.

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>>17928727
Let's see. Worked together with her the entirety of last year. If I am wrong I will literally get down on my knees and beg for forgiveness.

Ah fuck this. Not posting the rest. I got nothing to prove.

>>17928748
Oh, come on.

>>17928765
I just ruined a friendship and I'm gonna get shit on.

If you can't see why these kind of pictures are an issue, I don't know what to tell you, but it won't be good.

Can't wait for this "Oh my god sexist pig" meme to die.

>>17928710
You COMPLETELY missed the point!

>>17928735
>playing video games

>"friends"

nah.

>>17928743
Now you're just embarrassing yourself. You didn't even need to stoop this low to understand...

You'll sit there all fucking day attempting to justify your annoying female self versus actually changing a fundamental aspect of yourself because it's so addicting to be on social media, that you don't even care if it jeapordized your relationship. INSTEAD, you go to the very people your bf told you pissed him off to reationalize your failure.

>>17928767
.....uhg.. it wouldn't help to shit on you at this point..

dude, listen to me with your heart, not your brain.

STOP ANNOYING YOUR BF. Stop this shit now. Now.

bye.

I didn't read the entire thread but so far I saw some pretty horrible advice. Look at the situation from his perspective: I'd wager the real issue for your bf here aren't the comments but the pictures, he does not want to brinf this issue up directly so he brings up the comments as an issue to help you understand what has been bothering him. People calling him out for being jealous are the sort of people lacking the empathy required to give proper advice, do not listen to them. Id suggest you stop posting almost nude pictures of yourself.

Go to your relationship for support and respect.

Clearly OP is disrespecting her boyfriend by keeping her black book tempted.

>>17928785
You should have read the thread. OP pic is a random funny pic, those comments are just banter from her female friends under perfectly normal pics (pics of her face).

>>17928743
did you even read what i wrote?

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>>17928767
>>17928765
kek she said yes, didnt she?

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>>17928805
>>17928807
I have to go out now and I don't wanna be a bitch and back out on my promise, but I will say that regardless of what the messages said

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>>17928832
It doesn't make a difference FOR ME, because I personally know I am just joking, and that's what should matter to the other person as long as they trust you.

>>17926875

You're an attention whore and if your boyfriend had any self respect he'd dump your ass

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>>17928834
And now that I know, for example, that this person is not good to be around in a relationship, I won't joke with her anymore, so thanks for the advice, and I will be more careful, I guess.

>>17928839
T-thanks for the boner

>>17928832
>>17928834
>>17928839
top kek, white kinghts BTFO
And it should still make a difference for you since it bothers your bf and for a legitimate reason.
Congrats on admitting you should be more careful tho

>>17927145
> OP: it's like this
> No OP, you must be lying
How the fuck do you presume to know more about the situation than OP? You have no idea what pictures she's posted, you're just inventing things in your head and presenting them as fact. You're not fooling anyone but yourself.

Of course OP might be lying, but your guess is as good as anyone's, and doubting is different form asserting that it's untrue.

Hahaha best trolpost in a while. You're looking for attention and your boyfriend expressed his dislike and you still want to keep doing it? (Even though his concerns have been proved to be valid) it shows a disrespect towards him imho

>>17928839
Do a threesome to thank your BF for not fucking your shit up when he was right all the time.

>>17928869
OP is always a faggot, do not forget that.

Can't tell if the seriousposters are so dumb they're falling for the bait, or if they're baiting the baiter.

>>17928776
i feel stupid posting this..

look op, addictions are hard to overcome, but it's for the best.. I'm not perfect either.. but i know what pisses men off, because I'm a man.. the last thing you want is to be disrespected with annoying behavior by someone you love.. if you like this guy, stop this. just delete your social media accounts, and watch your life change for the better. he will see it as an act of kindness and commitment to the relationship. and it will make him appreciate you more. it will bring you closer together.

>>17926875
Don't post sexual in nature pics. What do you expect when you upload pics only of your vagina area? For what reason do you do that anyhow?

>>17928502
>omg yassss i'll totes let you suck my cunt inside out

>tee hee i'm just joking lel

honestly your bf should dump you, not because of the facebook thing, but you just come off as utter filth

>>17928839
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>bf was literally 100% right


holy shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit

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>>17928304
>Stop being so eager to call women whores

Literally nowhere did I call anyone a whore, quit projecting thinking everyone who doesn't support the mindless drolling that today's society supports is automatically an /r9k/ autist.

>>17928292
>ITT: guys who don't know how to read, and /r9k/.
Opinions and advice...this /adv...

>>17928865
>>17928875
>>17929717
No joking, now she thinks I made a move and is acting awkward. What do I say?

>>17930070
Threesome, girl. Just tell her you would do it if she would fuck the two of you tofether.

>>17930119
I'm fucking serious dude, I would never wanna see my boyfriend getting it on with another girl and I'm not into women. I'm so fucking embarassed.

>>17930070
>>17930146
Just tell her you only asked because your bf was paranoid.

Also I'm sorry for ever doubting you /adv/ you were right all along and I'll never white knight again

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>>17930179
I guess I'm also a moron then. This never happened to me before, I don't know how to react.

>>17930187
I already told you what to do. How is this complicated for you? Literally just tell her the truth. That you only asked because bf was paranoid.

>>17930146
Hotttt
But also so very stupid :DD
You dun goofed grill

>>17930193
But I don't wanna make her hate him for no reason, he didn't ask me to ask her.

>>17930146
She would get scared I bet. Just mention it to her.
Best way to get rid of her comments.

>>17930196
Tell her that too.

Nothing simpler than the truth.

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Jesus Christ I fucking hate 4chan.

>>17930213

ABANDON SHIP. ITS ON FIRE.

>>17930196
Don't do what he said! I had the same thing happen with my GFs friend, and shit hit the floor hard because her lesbo friend thought I was jealous of her.

If you make her think your BF had a thing going on for her, sexually, it would make her feel ashamed of the comments and stop being a bitch.

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>>17930220
The good news is she wasn't nude. I seriously feel too embarassed to reply anything. I think I'm gonna hide.

>>17930236
You have to make boundaries known now, she probably thinks you really want to fuck and she'll prob get more pushy

>>17930236
just say something along the lines of "i'm really sorry, I'm not into girls, I was just trying to make a point to my boyfriend :x"

>>17930251
Why even bring her boyfriend into it???

Just let it go. She already explained she was just curious. Leave it at that.

>>17930259
I think that mentioning the boyfriend is bad, but leaving it at that is a bad idea if she wants to stay faithful to her boyfriend. Now, the girl might try to get her drunk, you must set boundaries now while it's still fresh.

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>>17930251
>>17930244
I'm horrible at rejecting people, I swear I'm not doing this on purpose, but I just feel really bad when I have to and cram up.

>>17930268
Just say soemthing like, "I don't want to make a big deal out of this, because I value our friendship, but I just want to make it clear I'm straight." and then just put some girl bullshit after it

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I DON'T KNOW HOW TO STOP IT, I MADE IT WORSE. I think I'm gonna stop posting screens now. I'm gonna stop replying. I'm gonna go do something else.

>>17930279
Give affirmative and definite answers, you dumb. Making ambiguous responses, of course, is going to make is worse.

>>17930279
Don't abandon us in the darkest hour!>>17930287

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>>17930279
Haha she is messing with you OP. She knows its bothering you and is probably having some fun with it.

Also your fine. If she ever comes onto you in person just tell her no and she will get it.

>>17930279
>Yeah, whatever
So you want it too lol?

Stop denying it you want to fuck her too

>>17930300
This guy is probably right, but it's better to just say here and now and make yourself known than to leave the window open

>>17926900
Can't handle the bantz

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>>17930313
I'm just going to kill myself now.

>>17930313
>>17930318
You're either a troll or autistic. Stop making excuses and just say it clearly.

>>17930320
I guess I'm autistic then, I'm terrified of turning people away no matter who they are and destroying relationships, plus I work with her daily. I'm just gonna let this blow over.

>>17930302
>>17930313
Like I said you're flirting too.

Why did you start this thread saying that it was just jokes and all platonic?

You don't have to lie to internet strangers we're not gonna tell your bf lol

>>17930318
Say something like, "Listen, you're my friend and I value you, but this conversation is making me uncomfortable. I want to make it clear I'm straight, so can we please talk about something else now?"

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There. Jesus.

>>17930330
Show us the pics now.

Reading this thread was a nice "told you so" adventure.

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Wow, OP really is always a faggot.
Literally.

Well... this has been illuminating.

OP you should tell your bf about this, he deserves to be in on the laughs here too.

>>17930726
I talk to her all the time and am still talking to her as friends do, so he doesn't need to see anything.

Let this dumpsterfire of a thread end

>>17930728
I would certainly understand, seeing how you rebuffed her.

In fact that would probably make me feel a little more comfortable, considering right now he is insecure about it.

You could both confirm his fears but also reassure him that he has nothing to worry about.

Your call though, and I also think you need to confirm this by asking a few more of your female friends.

Can you retards really not see they "shutterstock" watermark on the "tat"? Jesus Preist.

>>17926903
>>17928183

Moral degenerates with no hope of long term stable relationships.

>>17926900
First post, best post

>>17928839
boyfriend was totally right lol, OP sucks

>>17930187
someone's hitting on you despite the fact that you're in a relationship, and you react with blushing emojis rather than a fuck off?

>>17930313
>>17930318
Can you guys imagine how unacceptable this would be for her to keep responding if the person in question was a guy and had sent her, for example, dick pics?

>>17930330
>put herself in situation to get hit on
>continues conversation and opens nude pictures from suitor
>tries to "restart" conversation rather than recognizing this person actively disrespected her romantic partner

OP you literally belong in a trashcan.

Stop posting on social media. Stop flirting with your friends. It is to me with to grow the fuck up.

>>17926875
And everyone took the bait.

Hats off, OP.

>>17926875
Why bait? Like come on...shutterstock comment that no one sees. Go somewhere else...10/10 though. You did well on this one anon.

>>17931391
Cheating will be sown into your future.

>>17930330
how did she respond op?

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>>17931179
>>17931773
You are both very dumb... I never ever claimed it was me in the OP pic, in fact I said I post face pics. I took that image from imgur, and it's literally titled "funny", the joke is that she faked having a tattoo.

>>17932012
She sort of understood and sort of not, we had a discussion about it for a while. It's really hard talking to horny people.

I don't know, I can understand this behavior to a degree. Once or twice, or in a situation where a photo is attempting to portray an artificial sense of sexuality... Sure. Then it's a joke. If it's on nearly every photo, that screams sexual tension to me. I feel no need to tell anybody to sit on my face, as a joke I think it would wear out very quickly and become annoying, so for it to be a continual thing, either the person is really annoying, or sexually interested.

If somebody is sexually interested in my partner and my partner doesn't mind, then I feel that's cause for concern. Simple enough.

>>17932016

And then what?

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>>17932028
More attempts at seduction and some discussion. I'm not posting the convo beyond this point. I know I should have stopped replying but I'm too polite to the point of self-harm.

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>>17932032
Nah, it's because you don't respect your boyfriend. Honestly just breakup with him and fuck the girl, because you seem to want to.

>>17932032
>no one will ever text you this

Has she sent any wet pussy pics?

Share the wealth

>>17932061
I'm done posting. Honestly I fucked up replying.

>>17932068
Well you now know what your boyfriend is seeing and can repair things with him.

>>17932149
I can't. I fucked up. I have seriously just cried all morning.

>>17932151
What did you do?

Did you send pics back?

>>17932152
Will OPs next thread be
>I slept with a coworker that was coming on to me and sent me nudes.
>How do I tell my bf to stop being an irrational baby about it because I only did it because they were really nice and turning them down would make it kinda weird
?

So tell me if I got this right, what OP wanted was not to check if the bf was overreacting since it seems she doesn't care about that at all, but to confirm her friend as a viable option for her.

>>17932152
I don't wanna talk about it. I'm ashamed.

>>17926875
>My boyfriend gets jealous when I'm a slut on the Internet

Either be less of a slut or dump him.

>>17932213
Well if you are the OP than kek.

That boyfriend knows what's up and should be preparing to jump ship

post the rest op, come on, let us judge it. who else here wants it?

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>>17932213
Maybe actually follow the advice you're given the next time you're on /adv/.

>>17932213
No need to be ashamed in front of anonymous internet strangers

And not saying anything just means we'll assume the worst

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>>17932335
>>17932595
Crucify me then, call me names, whatever. I probably need to hear it.

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>>17932816
After this point we switched the conversation to snapchat. I know I'm a horrible person and I should've stopped replying, I don't know why I made this thread, it basically ruined my life.

>>17932820
I'm not sure if this is real, but if so you're one spineless cunt.

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>>17932795
>>17932800
>>17932806

>>17932820
You completely lack self control and sound judgement.

>>17932820
Just like we all predicted you wanted this all along.

Why lie to internet strangers? We're not judging you. Just admit you want to fuck other people. We can't tell your bf or anything lol.

>>17932820
Lol you did this to yourself. Everyone in the thread was telling you to stop, warning you what was going to happen, yet you did it anyways. It seems you actually are into women from the fact that you keep leading her on after she told you she wants to eat you out.

But this thread gave me a boner, so one good thing came out of it at least.

ITT: Bitch is reaping what she sowed.

haha, good ends still do exist!

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>>17932881
>>17932896
>>17932899
I didn't want shit, and for the record I didn't send her any NUDE pics. Also she sent me this today and I haven't replied, nor will I. Just give me advice on what I could obviously improve now, please.

>>17932937
You lack judgement because you didn't know how this would end. Politely tell her no.

>>17932937
>I didn't want shit
If people do something towards you and you accept it, then you want it. No two ways about it.

>>17932937
>I didn't want shit
You kept saying stuff like "yeah whatever" when she was coming on and even told her you're horny lmao

Just bang her already

>>17932937
Say:

"I'm sorry I led you on last night but I really am not interested in women and I am in a committed relationship. I just didn't know how to respond and I thought you were joking all those times you posted on my Facebook pics. I asked if you were serious because your comments were making my bf uncomfortable.

Could we put this all behind us?"

>>17932945
>>17932964
I'd rather not reply. I might be dumb but I know she wouldn't believe I'm not interested after the conversation we had on snapchat.

Ask her would she rim you and finger your ass. Women are usually put off doing that. Should kill the mood

>>17932973
This right here is why we think you want her. You have an easy out, but you won't do it because you like the thought of her lusting after you.

Also what did you say on snapchat? And why? If you didn't like her why did you say these things on snapchat that makes her think you like her?

>>17932973
You don't have to explain it. Just say no politely, and sit on your boyfriend's face to make up with him.

>>17932973
Doesn't matter what she believes, it's your responsibility to tell her that shit or break up with your bf. Pick one.

>>17932980
She kept saying what she'd do like in the screencaps I posted, and I went agreeing with it, then she started sending pics and using this tactic >>17930318 of "don't leave me alone, don't make me imagine" etc to get me to send pics, I only sent two, in underwear, non-nude. One was of my legs and one was of my butt. Then she got off and we stopped talking for the night.

>>17932984
>>17932986
And this is why I don't wanna reply at all, because I know she'll just start turning it sexual again.

>>17932999
If she turns sexual, you stop replying.

>>17933004
I'll decide based on the following: Are there any women helping me here? Because if it's just guys it'd be hard to believe you're not trying to sabotage me further.

>>17926900
what he said

>>17932999
So block her? Even if she is your friend, if she can't respect your boundaries, don't let her harass you.

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>>17933013
>ignore any advice given
>dig yourself deeper and deeper into the hole you created
>waaaah why you guys keep sabotaging me

you have already given more than one valid advice to properly deal with the situation

but you know what, i aint even mad, im enjoying this ride way too much

>>17933004
Well you need to decide if you want to maintain your relationship or explore this with her. If you want to maintain your relationship then getting off social media would be a first step

>>17932999
Fucking hell, you sent pics?

WEW LAD

I'm having a real hard time believing you aren't at least bi. But regardless, tell her it was a moment of weakness and that you want to forget about it all because you are committed to your bf.

Tell her that regardless of your sexual orientation you don't want to cheat on your bf. Even if she doesn't believe you are straight (who would at this point?) she should at least respect your relationship.

For the record I showed this to my gf and she wants you to break up with your bf. I know you wanted a girls perspective so there it is.

>>17933033
>>17933036
I'm naturally a very submisse person, I grew up in a family that would always talk down to me and I wouldn't say anything, so I'm not good at confronting or rejecting people, and with that in mind, yes, I feel like I got roped into it. It was late night, I had stopped posting here already, it was just me and the conversation, and with everything she was saying it got me bothered and I felt like I couldn't escape it, so it happened. I don't think it has anything to do with sexuality, just my personality.

Anyway, fine, I will send her this >>17932964, now watch as I'm right and she won't believe. And I didn't want to blame her entirely because she was completely normal to me until I created this thread and asked her the question yesterday.

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I told you. Plus she's lying, it wasn't exactly like that.

>>17932937
There's no going back you idiot. Your only option now is to block her and forget.

>>17926875
>Is there something I'm not seeing here or is this incredibly silly?
Your boyfriend is a jealous faggot. This probably won't change.

>>17933071
Hawt

Time to download some lesbian porn

>>17933044
You're not submissive. You're a people pleaser coward who does everything to avoid confrontation regardless of long term consequences. Grow the fuck up, exercise self control, and start acting like an adult human being taking responsibility for your actions.

>>17933071
Tell her that you won't reply if she doesn't skip the topic.

>>17933071
>it wasn't exaxtly like that

So it was exactly like that?

>>17933071
She thinks you are playing hard to get and leading her on. Some people like the chase and some like be chased.

Bitches like you give men trust issues. You're trash, and you'll tell yourself and others anything to hide that fact.

>>17926875
From a female perspective, you must be a whore to be okay with comments like that - single or in a relationship. Grow up

>>17933087
I just lied. I sent one final pic without underwear because she wouldn't stop asking, just like she wouldn't stop asking me to tell her to finish. Like I said I'm fucking ashamed of myself.

>>17933077
>>17933082
>>17933085
>>17933090
Okay, so is the consensus that I definitely do not reply anymore with anything?

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Saying this now.

>>17933102
Yes, but you're going to continue ignoring our advice and bitch out when she starts pressing you.

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>>17933102
>I sent one final pic without underwear because she wouldn't stop asking

She just sent me a snap after I continued not replying. Is there any way to screenshot it without it notifying her, in case I need to use it as proof later on?

>>17933234
I think you taking a photo of the screen is pretty much the only option.

>>17933234
What's in the snap?

>>17933380
The snatch I would guess.

>>17933234
Hahaha, you mean save a pic of it for further masturbation material without admitting to her you are into chicks?

Post pics.

>>17933380
Haven't opened it yet, but I read on Google if you switch your plane to airplane mode before opening it won't send a notification. Might try.

>>17933102
Whatever you do, don't go back on what you said. Otherwise you are just playing hard to get.

Seriously, just tell her sorry again, and block her if the temptation is too much.

Or go break up with your bf and fuck her brains out. Your choice. But if you do this you gotta post pics.

>>17933393
Nevermind, tried this on myself and still got notified. Too chickenshit to try it. It was literally just a pic of one of her thighs out of the blanked with the caption "when you got chills."

>>17933392
I haven't done anything to myself once thinking about her.

>>17933404
And there is no temptation. I just don't wanna be roped into anything else. I understand now in this particular case it was wrong, but I have other friends who post "flirty" comments and I'd rather think she is the exception in this case.

>>17933427
I was actually gunna ask if you did haha.

Well if you are being completely honest (I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt here), then you should learn from this mistake.

Sure, your friends might be joking, but you don't know if they are or not. You can't say for certain that this won't happen again, so the next time this happens shut it down asap.

If someone is making a comment on a pic of yours that would be inappropriate if it wasn't a joke, send them a pm saying: "I know you are joking but can you not post this on my picture? It makes my bf uncomfortable."

As for this girl, just ignore her or keep repeating that you aren't into women and that you are committed to your bf. Say that was a one time thing and that you were drunk. Stick to this and don't say anything else and she might finally give up. Realize that the moment you give in to her that is a blatant message that she was right all along

>>17926900
>when the first post is the best post

Oh god. I hope your boyfriend leaves you.

>>17926875
Quit making yourself look like a whore and he'll settle down

>>17926875
You fucked up and your continuing to fuck up but its not too late. We make mistakes it happens but you just keep making it worse. Sender her pics and telling her that it made you horny is encouraging her behavior. Ignoring her will end badly. Tell her that you just wanted to prove a point to your boyfriend and it got out of hand. "Don't say shit like it did make me horny tho". You need to be stern. Good luck op

>>17927145
at least we know why you're projecting this hard

>>17933458
/thread

>>17928231
this

if explaining yourself and compromising don't work, that is

>>17933458
>Let me stop having innocent fun because my boyfriend is too insecure

Yeah, no.

Fucking hell OP, why would you encourage flirting?

That's so shitty to do. I respect my bf way too much to do that to him, ever.

You're clearly a bit of a bitch.

>>17934474
Have you read the thread and how hard OP fucked up with her "innocent" fun?

>>17932806

>tell me you're not horny at all and ill stop it

>I cant tell you that

OP, you fucking suck.

>>17933071
wow, you're awful

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It's ok now, she sent this this morning.

>>17935652
>Hey let's try on these clothes
>Anon come in and tell me what you think
>exposedwetpussy.jpg
>Don't just stare at it, eat it!

Don't forget to bring mouthwash so your bf doesn't know where you've been

>>17935652

post your response and the rest, dont bitch out

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>>17935667
>>17935673
For the record, this is how we normally banter, so I'm just trying to stay friendly and not have to cut contact now that she gave me an out.

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>>17935681

>>17935685
>>17935681
please please please next time she tries something (she will, I think) be assertive so that never happens again

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>>17935726
I will. Here I tried to deflect talking about another girl who works with us but I probably fucked up with the "really why"

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>>17935758
And the end.

you're still a piece of shit, OP

You chose a very bad picture op as an example. Anons don't read here. No wonder you're having communication problems. Either stop pushing the boundaries or dump.

>>17935685
>>17935758
>Judge the puss
This dyke is a Chad kek

Also I thought you didn't send her nudes. Just dump your bf and fuck her. You know you want to otherwise you wouldn't be lying about the stuff you sent and said. Let your boyfriend find someone else who will make him happy

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>>17935998
I admitted that I lied, she can come on very strong and I'm a bitch I guess. She sent me this a few minutes ago. Anyway, gotta go out with the boyfriend, goodbye if the thread dies while I'm away.

>>17936049
Dammit op, you fucked up. She basically has figured out that you are willing to play along with her as long as you don't have to admit you like women. Hell I bet you she's gunna make some moves on you tomorrow, and you being as passive as you are, you probably won't be able to turn her down. She knows this, and that's why she wanted to hang out in person.

If you have this hard of a time saying no through txt, you won't last in person.

As payment for all of our patience I think we deserve some more pics. Or either you or her.

>>17936049
Well, keep her away from your boyfriend because she's your sidechick now.

>>17936049
That's a fine behind.

>>17936357
There's nothing to admit, I don't like women. And if that's the case I'll just find an excuse not to hang out.

>>17936496
Yet you were getting wet for your friend sharing pussy pics...

I still think you should find out if she would rim you

>>17936049
haven't been this angry at a thread in years. OP, you are a bad human being, go fuck yourself.

>>17926951
>hurr durr I'm not seeking any attention, they're the ones giving it to me! the-he-he X3

Kill yourself

You're a spineless cunt and your boyfriend was right.

Holy shit this thread is gold, this better be a great lesson for you to not be vague af with your replies.

If I didn't know better I would call all this out as a comedy act.
But seriously be more assertive and communicate better, if that's how you are with this girl (which you lead on from my pov), then how do you think your bf feels when you are being vague af to him?
It makes me wonder how you really feel about this whole situation...

>>17926875
He's just being a little bich

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>>17937236
>Not reading the thread

Okay, got some free time, let's see...

>>17936435
We're talking normally now as we were before all this. It's good. And it gave me perspective on the problem I was having in the OP, so great.

>>17936470
It's not bad, I wasn't lying to her.

>>17936699
It was nothing to do with that, but more so with the pressure of the situation and feeling kind of trapped in it and the long and explicit descriptions.

>>17936738
>>17936910
I know I made a mistake joking with this particular person, but I still do not believe that all of my other friends are like this, so I think we were both right and wrong on this issue.

What are the odds OP would lose her shit if she found out her bf and some chick were swapping nudes. OP you are literally human trash with the mentality of a 5 year old
"I-i-if i say im submissive it means nothing is my fault!"

Fuck you

Op post a pic of your body

>>17937686
this.

>>17937307
>I know I made a mistake joking with this particular person, but I still do not believe that all of my other friends are like this, so I think we were both right and wrong on this issue.

Bitch, you kept conversating with her, sent her nudes, accepted nudes from her and complimented her body, and then accepted an offer to spend time with her (one on one) afterwards.

Let me ask you something: do you think this conversation would have been at all okay if the girl you spoke to was a man instead? Like a guy sending you pictures of his chest and abs, and you "submissively" sending something back?

I've watched this trainwreck of a thread for three days now and I can honestly say that you're one of the worst people on 4Chan in this exact moment. Obviously not ever, and probably not even next week. But today, right now, the moment you read this, you're sitting pretty on top of the scum pile with the worst of them.

I'm never looking at this thread again, and I hope your chickens come home to roost.

tl;dr fuck you

>>17937307
>I know I made a mistake joking with this particular person, but I still do not believe that all of my other friends are like this, so I think we were both right and wrong on this issue.

OP the only way to know that is to test it on other women you know. You can't assume that ANYONE isn't interested in you, especially when they're making sexually charged jokes all the time.

I'm starting to think OP is a brilliant troll.

No one is this naive, and I don't want to believe that someone would be stupid enough to still be in denial about being bi.

Also she won't post pics.

>>17938155
>No one is this naive

Honey, we all know that isn't true.

I can't help but think OP is just confused about her feelings and she feels awkward in the situation that she is in.

>>17930330
What does playing the piano mean?

>>17938063
I'm just hoping her bf follows his instincts that have been telling him that something is wrong and dumps her for someone better.

>>17938184
He will when he smells pussy off her breath

This is the yoni threads all over again, isn't it?

>>17938178
Flicking the bean
Bashing the bishop
Flogging the monkey
Schlicking

It means masturbating, what are you 12?

>>17938204
No I'm 30'and I've never heard such weird awkward converse tho

>>17938206
Well to be honest I've never heard it either, but I bet you had a suspicion that it was masturbating like I did.

Trust your instincts.

Kami.

Stop posting pictures of yourself on the internet. You should not be on any website that requires you to use your real name. Social media is a cancer that needs to be destroyed.

This is internet rules 101.

He is insecure. Honestly in that position id be trying to figure out if you were open to a 3-way.

>>17938798
She said she was straight if you read the thread.
(although although she is lying to herself and those around her, so nvm)

>>17936867
This

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I'm not naive nor stupid, this is what happened when she came home last night.

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>>17939274
I realize now she's not gonna stop, and I'm not gonna play along anymore nor go to the mall nor ask any of my other friends. This friendship is over.

You're an attention whore, you should stop that

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>>17928839
>mfw you fucking whores think we just make this shit up

>>17939279
>>17939274
>>17935762
>>17935758
>>17935685
>>17935681
>>17935652
>>17932937
>didn't want shit
>rub your pussy on camera for a fucking dyke

You %100 vindicated your boyfriend and he was %100 right that you have no self control

>>17939279
Why were you playing along in the first place?? Just be straight forward about this, be blunt if you have to, jeez. If you two were really friends, you would talk to her in person. Instead of shutting down a friendship.
I feel really bad for the other girl, you forced the question on her and won't tell her the reason.
>>17935681
>>17935685
Your the reason her feelings for you awakened, and your just going to burn them. That's messed up, your the one that brought her into this mess. Honestly, I thought this thread was funny at first but now this is disappointing, OP your not a good person, and have no self control.

If you want to redeem your self, talk to her in person and be honest, none of that vague shit. If you want a relationship with her; go for it, if not; then don't. However dont leave a person like that, after what you did. You also need to talk to your bf if you respect the relationship you have.

Anyone else thinks OP is bi in denial? Not that there's anything wrong but sexually enabling someone while claiming you're straight just reeks of "no homo".

>>17939279
OP this is your friend of a year, who you've joked and bantered with repeatedly.

Remember that this started with you alone. No one in this thread said you should message her in particular. You chose this 'friend' to test on, and like any friend would she took you seriously. You owe her better than this.

It's clear that at this point she's just messing with you, joking around and you need to cool it. If she wanted to 'seduce' you then she would be doing what she already (successfully) did before.

Besides, imagine what it will be like at work if you just stop talking to her or start acting really cold. She'll be hurt, and she could easily vilify you or tell people that you're truly bi. Imagine how much disharmony it will cause your group of friends.

And you owe it to your bf to find out which of your friends you CAN joke around with, and which ones want to jump your bones.