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How do I tell my gf I don't like constant contact?
She calls me when she feels like it and texts me throughout the day while she's at work. She did stop snapchatting me because I never responded or watched her snaps. Same goes with instagram.
Honestly, I just am not glued to my phone like so many people. It's on me, but I take my time to look at texts and if I'm not free for a phone call I ignore it and call back later.
She's said that it bugs her I don't respond right away because she "doesn't know what I'm up to." I've made it clear to her my stance and she says it's fine, but clearly it isn't.
Last night she video called me while I was at work. I waited, but eventually picked up and told her to chat later. She got upset and said "I always do this" and although it wasn't a huge deal it clearly struck a nerve with her.
Am I being insufferable? Am I too old-fashioned? I really don't know what to do. It's not causing a rift, but I can tell it means a lot to her that I stay "always a phone call or a text away" from her.
I just never bought into the hype of the constant contact cell phones and social meda create, and I don't think I'm going to change.
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>>17939234
just don't get mad when she leaves u for some guy who responds every minute
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Tell her to take a month vacation from her phone and you will do the same.
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>>17939234
It's perfectly reasonable not to be available at all times. Tell her you are busy and nee space, but will answer phone and respond to messages when you have the time. If she doesn't understand this, she's simply childish and you'll just have to stay firm.
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I've been with my gf for coming up three years, I love her and the relationship is good, but recently things have been going in a direction I don't like. For the past several months, she is distracted and withdrawn when we hang out. It's not intentional like a silent treatment or anything, more like she's too comfortable and doesn't put in any effort to engage. Sex became less frequent and she falls asleep right afterwards or by 9:30, whichever is first. We finally talked about it and her solution was to cut down our time together, which is already only for a few hours in the evenings between our work schedules, because she hasn't been able to put in as much free time into her hobbies since picking up extra days at work. She also told me that she doesn't want to have sex as often and from now on, just won't when she doesn't want to. I'm not happy with either of these changes but I agreed to them because I didn't know another solution. Any advice?
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find a new gf buddy
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>>17939218
I'm absolutely positive I couldn't do better
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>>17939221
That's why you stay within your league.
Better start advocating for anti frigid spouse laws.
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How to tell my Doctor I only want white or asian nurses? 2017-01-09 11:20:09 Post No.17939212
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How to tell my Doctor I only want white or asian nurses?
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Every god damn time a black or hispanic doctor draws my blood they fuck me up hardcore and leave me with a big ass bruise even if the vein is RIGHT THERE, you can even see in my pic that I have VERY vascular but these people are just hopeless when it comes to finding a vein! This is the 5th time in my life in the same relatively small area a black/hispanic doctor has hurt me and I'm tired of the doctor handing me diversity hires at the expense of my health!
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black women love a varicose man
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>>17939216
They certainly love to give me big ass bruises from their shitty aim or lack of dedication to their fucking job
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>>17939212
Ask for someone with a more delicate touch, absolutely not the same nurse as last time. Show him the pics, and keep taking pics.
No need to specify race, it just makes you sound like an asshole.
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So in the hopes of joining the military soon, I've decided to start running to build up my fitness. I can barely run for more than 2-3 minutes before becoming short of breath and needing to slow down. Anyone have any tips on how to help improve?
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Just thought I'd add that I've spent the past few years as a recluse doing nothing more than playing videogames. I'm trying to turn my life around and make something of myself, and the military is the best option for me as it offers everything I need to do so.
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http://www.coolrunning.com/engine/2/2_3/181.shtml
Here you go. Couch to 5K.
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>>17939196
Pace yourself. Start slower and keep going longer after you feel like stopping. Walk for a bit, do the same again. The ideal starting pace for running is so that you could still talk without a problem while running. Music also helps: pick a song that matches your ideal pace and lasts a certain time and then make the decision to run through that song without stopping. It gives you a rhythm to keep up and the music distracts you from how difficult it starts to feel. Building stamina is a process and won't happen over night, same with speed. Set reasonable goals for yourself and don't over do it. That how you just get injuries and have to quit. If you're in bad shape right now, running maybe twice a week is the place to start and increase the amount over period of months. Your body takes some time to get used to the change. If you want to get in shape faster, include a different sport to your regime. For example swimming is good, because it's easier on joints than running, but takes more strength and activates all muscles. Do them on alternate days and take recovery days when you feel the need.
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So my ldr gf and me are trying to close the gap in the next year. She is in the US and I'm in the schengen area in europe. You can stay for 3 out of 6 months here as a us citizen. The thing is she wants to come here and stay here illegally until she gets her citizenship. I told her it's a bad idea because I want to play it safe. Now she is mad at me says I dont love her and that the distance doesn't hurt me at all. All I want is to do it the right way even if it means we will be seperate longer. What if she gets sick for example? Just need some input if my opinion is so wrong.
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>>17939162
sexuality is not a binary affair, you fucking faggot. nobody cares about your normie problems. get the fuck off of 4chan.
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Sounds like you fuckep up to me op
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she wants to be an illegal and do nothing for years?
how rich are you?
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I am getting concerned about my younger brother who has recently gone through sexual reassignment surgery after years of being on hormones. For all intents and purposes, I will be using her preferred pronouns for this thread even though she doesn't care, to be honest. Upon her first telling me about wanting to go through this procedure I was upset about losing my brother but I eventually learned to deal with it. Her outlook on life has been an overly positive and somewhat optimistical one.
What concerns me is that she seems to have regressed back to a more childish nature. She has a few dolls she says she always wanted to have when she was young and finds that combing and braiding it to be relaxing. I am getting concerned that this is unhealthy for an adult to engage in even though she functions well in society if not better than before. She has a decent paying job which sometimes makes me feel jealous of as I am a meager store clerk and she even has friends to do things with while I am a complete shut in and a loser.
I tried to always be there for her and protect her as I assumed any big brother should. Which is why I am concerned about this fascination with more childish things and her suddenly childish ignorance. Her therapist doesn't see anything wrong with it as long as it doesn't affect her life in means of employment. She is also studying to become an anthropologist as she always found that studying human cultures to be soothing and interesting to her. Something with having to do with knowing what goes on in a pale blue dot in the universe.
She is also a cutie too and all of the men whenever we go out tend to eyeball her. So she passes very well which also concerns me about other things. She does have a boyfriend she has been seeing for roughly a year and a half. Dude seems kind of like a bro.
Tell me, I am worrying too much or is her tendencies to gravitate to more childish things such as Barbie dolls worrying?
Pic is unrelated.
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Your brother has a mental illness
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I forgot to note that she has expressed that she wanted to relocate to somewhere tranquil to live with her boyfriend away from society. Sort of like a Buddhist monk even though she isn't a Buddhist. Is this also something I should worry about? She also invited me to come but I am not sure if I could live that lifestyle if she was serious or not.
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>>17939150
no. there is nothing wrong with an adult playing with toys.
they pay adults millions of dollars to play with toys for a living.
Does anyone here shower with just water (no soap/body wash/cleanser, etc)? I have extremely dry, flaky skin with acne, so I've been thinking of try it. I've heard that a lot of guys just use water, don't know if it's true though.
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What the actual fuck
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>>17939106
what?
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>>17939101
no
have you tried sweating more?
Am i real?
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No. You're in a simulation. Welcome to the control panel. We need to talk.
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Stop freaking out.
I'll meet you on ChatBot, less suspicious there.
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Hell of a way to start my day. Got that shit man.
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Breaking cuckold fetish 2017-01-09 09:37:13 Post No.17939067
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It started with a long term fwb two years ago who was originally my sub. Overtime we started getting interested in cuckold, BBC, pegging, etc...and it turned into something more. She would go fuck other people and come home to me and it was incredibly gratifying to fuck her afterward, to smell, etc...
We stopped seeing each other about a year ago but it progressed. Her and I had a MFM once that she had me experiment a bit with the guy, but since then I've went totally off the deep end. I self-identify as straight, and feel upset after I get home, but I've met three guys through various apps that regularly fuck me. They all humiliate me and one is black. It feels hot while I'm doing it, but after I cum I feel disgusted. I'm worried about disease and I'm worried about being able to have normal sex again. These guys only penetrate me-not the other way.
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use protection
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>>17940224
We use protection with anal but not oral, which I've read is pretty much safe. But I'm more trying to break out of this asap.
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>>17939067
So basically your suffering cognative dissonance, because your gay but society has conditioned you to believe that being gay Is immoral and thus your should not do it. Well that's up to you pal, if your religious/Christian you have some thinking to do. Either cum (lol) to terms with your gayness and embrace it, or stop and feel morally superior I guess? Either way I believe morality is subjective and it doesn't fucking matter cause well all be dead soon ish anyways.
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Okay /adv/, I just landed a job after being a NEET for like a year, and would like to ask for advise.
How do I make this job a success, not just in career but also to have good relationships with my office-mates?
I've been with 4 companies by now, and from all 4, i had the same issue with the team/officemates I was with. And that issue was fitting in. I'm not really a very serious character nor am I silent "feeling cool" guy. I'm not butt-ugly, and I start/make conversations with people when needed.
I always tend to be the one break the ice and make people become friends, but afterwards i'm left as the loner.
This will be my 5th company, and I really don't want to transfer in the next few years. So, how do I become a better person and/or make better relationships with people?
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bumping with cat gifs.
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>>17939065
do your job well and figure out how the company works so you can do your job better and suggest things to make the whole company better. stop being a character. you aren't there to make friends.
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>>17939108
>do your job well and figure out how the company works so you can do your job better and suggest things to make the whole company better.
I actually do this with the companies I've worked for, but thanks for the reminder.
>you aren't there to make friends.
Yet people around you expect you to do so.
Having a job isn't always about producing successful results at times, i think it's a balance between work and human relations within the offices.
Well this is my theory anyway, and I fail to execute this.
Because from previous experiences, even if you're the most productive, there are times you are frowned upon by others by doing so, and leaves you to become the "loser who eats alone at lunch".
>stop being a character
It's hard not being one, when most of the people you get to work with are man-children who thinks and act like they're cool and demeaning.
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Whats something you'd do differently if you were young again?
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>>17939062
never date the current bitch im dating.
start streaming earlier
kill myself after high school
stop getting in bar fights
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>>17939062
Tell myself that it's okay if I wasn't a genius or a prodigy.
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>>17939062
Learn about emotions, and how to control them. Get a better understanding on how to have productive outlets for bottled up emotions.
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How are you supposed to handle sex when you don't want it? Is it better to just weasel your way out of the situation (so he gets mad because "you don't love him anymore"), or just open your legs and lay there waiting for it to be over (so he gets mad because "you don't love him anymore")?
Do muscle relaxants/painkillers/numbing lube work? Is it better to use them in front of him or try to sneak them in secret?
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I'm trying to maintain a relationship here. Some input would be appreciated.
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>>17939027
There are a few categories of sexual compatibility, like fetishes, appearance, and frequency. Frequency seems to be the issue here. You two might not be sexually compatible. This would mean that a break up is for the best interests of happiness.
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>>17939064
I don't plan to die alone.
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good night guys......
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good night anon
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die in your sleep
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>>17939016
Goodnight.
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Forgot about a salad in my garage for two days (it's where my fridge at, long story).
It looks ok and is sealed. What do you think /adv/? Eat it? Pic related is not the salad itself but the same type.
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>>17939006
How cold is it in your garage?
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>>17939019
30-50°F
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Technically u wanna keep food at below 40° to minimize ur risk of food bourne bacteria, but honestly, at just 10° more ur prob fine.
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How long after a first date (which had sex) do I contact again for a second date?
BACKGROUND: Went out with a girl. Had a great time. We go back to her place where we have a lot of sex and she insists that I spend the night (which I'm fine with) and we cuddle as we sleep. I tried to leave in the morning but she was like "wait.." and I spooned her and passed out again. When I got up to leave a few hours later she got up too, made me coffee and kissed me before I took off.
I already liked her a lot before I even asked to get back to her place. There were moments during the date and even after the first round of sex where I could tell she was trying to gauge me or make sure I wouldn't be judgemental or whatever, which leads me to think she's interested in me as more than just sex.
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>>17938946
Keep small talk over text or do whatever. She's into you. You can't really fuck up.
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>>17938946
Go for it the next day. Don't waste Time. Call her now. Live is short and then you die.
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Continuing a one night stand? Where do did you meet her in the first place? You might be over thinking things (no offense).
You do you man, you got to have sex with her on the first date, cant make it any worse than that.