Lost erection before sex

She saw you fail at sex she's losing interest and respect for you the only thing that makes a women dry up faster than a soft dick is a man crying

It's anxiety related, and it happens to a lot of guys. Don't try to think or anticipate it, just keep your head clear.

>>17936165
Is there the possibility of it being to do with too much masturbation or desensitisation?

>>17936174
could be.. but that possibility, in conjunction with anxiety is a killer. if you feel scared or intimidated to perform, simply don't. just hug her and kiss her instead.

>>17936135
>feel kind of angry at her
how in the world is this her fault? It's your dick and you've put her in a damned if you say anything and a damned if you don't say anything position.

This is all on you. Here's the funny part. For 100's of thousands of years dicks have been penetrating pussy so its not new ground.

That's called anxiety performance.

She not saying anything is actually very considerate of you, since talking about it might make you feel worse. She's not making a big deal out of it, which is better then keep bringing it up.

did she say something when it happened?

>>17936135
>Also is it normal for me to feel kind of angry at her for

no this is totally fucked up pal

fuck anger totally you should be sad your penis isn't working right

could be as simple as you're dating the wrong girl - or maybe you need some practice with looser girls ie sluts - or some therapy to talk about specific techniques

as for her - she is probably thinking - wtf ? he doesn't like me ? his dick wilts when it gets near my pussy ? forget that clown

>>17936135
How old are you?

>>17936165
yup.


Anxiety.

I had it happen a lot to me when I was younger and inexperienced. It goes away after you've had sex a few dozen times or a few dozen blowjobs

Do you watch porn? How often do you masturbate OP?

>>17936165
This anon is right. Anxiety. When I was in University I had the same thing happen to me. Even though I had had sex with 7 or 8 girls before (no problems). I was worried about being too quick or terrible since I was friends with this girl and didn't want to be bad in bed and then have to face her the next day. I worried too much and made it worse than it would have been it I was a 2-pump champ.

It happens to the best of us OP.

For the record all guys are terrible their first time and girls know it. But you do get better and girls know that too.

>>17936135
its just you being a faggot,
1st don't be angry to your girl as she is being very understanding (unusual for a girl)

2nd when you're about the get sexual, just free your mind of silly things and focus on the moment and how good it is

3rd don't put her on a pedestal, when getting sexual, just imagine her being the filthiest slut craving your semen inside her

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>>17936703
Losing my virginity was one the best experiences of my life. I banged her for 3 hours.
I never thought losing my virginity could be so perfect. It was beautiful...

>>17936135
Im like that. After a few tries you'll be fucking her with a 100% success rate. Then you'll change positions and the problem will come back until your anxiety about that position resolves

The sooner you stop sweating it the faster itll resolve

>>17936135
Just have her give you head and then try again

>>17936877
>3 hours
What a waste of time...

>>17936135
Stop watching porn.

Might be porn induced erectile dysfunction . Google it if you think it matches your symptoms you gotta do nofap

>>17938217
Virgin

>>17936877
Pic related? She looks nice.

>>17936135
It's just performance anxiety. Happens to the best of us.

>tfw fucking a blond chick for the first time
>eating her out, hard as a rock
>put on condom, suddenly soft
>Fuck it, put it in anyway, doggystyle
>She pushes her ass so hard on my flaccid dick that it becomes hard again inside of her

Feels good man.

Try doing more foreplay (yes, guys need foreplay too) or just try being a little drunk/high next time you two start fucking. Helps take the edge off.

>>17939493
Yeah that's her :) She pretty.