>Girl kissed me a few nights ago in front of her place
>Told me she wanted me to come in
>I told her I was tired from work but wanted to meet up again soon
>Texts me the morning after and mentions shes free on Monday evening
>I text her this evening to see if she still wants to meet up
>She says shes Too tired to meet up
You fucked up, move on.
so you rejected her twice and now you wonder why she has lost interest?
wew dude. time to go get your autism checked
>>17940365
>Told me she wanted me to come in
>I told her I was tired from work but wanted to meet up again soon
you dumb
any dads here?
would you have been mature enough to have a kid at age 22?
why or why not?
I'm 23 and have 2 year old daughter. No probably not but I am. I'm still just a kid but I manage, I guess.
Not a dad, but I've worked in kindergardens on and off between 2004-2016. Last three and halv years I worked in a private establishment, having sole responsibility of 4 toddlers for eight hours each day.
I've seen how tired the parents are, and although they only have one toddler each, they were the ones having to get up at ungodly hours, often spend hours putting them to bed in the evening, running errands and dealing with all sorts of medical advisors etc, eager visitors and play dates, reading the same books over and over again, worrying about wheather the stuff you buy is poisoneous, listening to awful children's music whenever you're driving your car. Your life as you knew it, is over.
Fuck that shit at 22, mate.
>>17940343
the thing about being a dad is that you don't suddenly get enough maturity points to do it. its having a child that makes you mature.
our parents didn't have some magical training the day before they got pregnant. they just got pregnant and said 'guess were having a kid' cuz thats the way the world works. then you have a kid.
you realize its stressful but not as difficult as it sounds. there are very few ways you can fuck it up unless you legitimately can't handle baby sitting.
that is essentially what it is, babysitting for 18 years.
I have a serious mental problems I assume
>be 22
>student
>kissless virgin
>decent looking
>always mask on marking alpha everyone buys it
>jack off to straight porn with hot girls
>get close to hot girl I like
>no spagethi or autism drops ever
>be alone with her at club
>dance
>cannot do anything
>go home
I never told anyone in my life regardless whom I love you. When I jack off I can get rock hard even thinking about some whores. If I am with girls I really do like and want to engage in a relationship with I never even get 0.1% erect and just can't go further. Wtf is wrong with me? I had so many chances fucking the hottest girl there was but I never did because of this shit.
>>17940293
You're watching way tooooooo much porn. I had some trouble like you some time. Cut the porn for good and save your sperm. Testosterone will rise and nature will do it's trick.
>>17940298
I haven't watched porn since 2 weeks before going partying with her... I didn't even feel the urge to fap to watch after other girls or anything just because of her. That is why I am so frustrated.
>>17940293
you are an anime faggot, what did you expect?
Broke up with GF. Uni is hitting me like the soviets hit the 6th army in stalingrad. Lost interest in most things. Could be depressed, I have no apetite(eat once a day). Parents stressing me out over weed.. Any advice on how to cope and save semester ?
anyone help ?
stop smoking weed for one
>>17940352
I don't smoke constantly it varies between 2 times a week to 2 times a month. Even if I cut it down(which I have for finals) it won't help atm.
>go to frat party last weekend
>get drunk out of my mind
>a girl grabs me and kisses me
>fuck yeah
>she brings me to her dorm and we fuck
>wake up with an absolute brutal hangover
>the girl turns out to be FAT
>not as bad as pic related but FAT
>bounce the fuck out of there
>everyone at the party saw it happen
>from being a cool guy I'm now the laughing stock of the entire campus
>even those """fat positive"""" feminist freaks finds it hilarious and mock me
I'm fucking seething
How do I get my status back?
You did this to yourself. Own it.
>>17940262
>How do I get my status back?
You own it.
Have you ever witnessed someone NOT lose status from a hookup that should have been shameful? They make you think they wanted it the whole time, that it satisfied a deep, maybe rarely seen, desire. They're all grins, high-fives, and joyfully pantomiming the questionable sexual acts.
>>17940262
Did these things happen all the time when I was in college and just nobody told me? Negro, I went to school with 35,000 other kids and I didn't even see more than a few hundred of them. The more triggered you are by these comments, the more of an issue this will become.
New girlfriend is ghosting me after saying she's unsure about her future, to which I gave some advice (she needn't worry about it) that she seemed very upset about.
I talked to her in person today and she seemed cold towards me, and she has opened my messages but not replied to them (one on Sunday night, one today).
Am I fucked?
what was your advice? that she shouldn't worry about it?
oh boy
Girls are weird man, I hope it's all good.
>>17940257
I said she should just go with what happens.
Now I realise that's probably the worst thing to say - it's not bad advice, but it's the opposite of what she wanted to hear.
Guys, my girlfriend suffers from inferiority complex
I'm much, much more successful, more educated, better looking and have wealthier family.
However, I still want to marry her.. sometimes she gets this "depressive" moments when she's sad because according to her one day I'll find someone more suitable than her..
How can I convince that she's wrong?
>>17940242
Give her the one thing you can never do.
Pump a baby into her
encourage and support her to achieve something she can be proud of
>>17940242
>gf has inferiority complex
>guy praises himself multiple times
Yeeaah, that's how you help overcoming depression! Keep up the good work! Hurray!
If girls show no remorse when cheating, dumping a guy, or branch-swinging...
How come it fucking kills me inside when I do it? If I cheat on a girl, or if i branch swing, or if I date a girl while fucking a couple others, I always feel like shit. Like I'm fucking worthless, a shitty human being, and "dirty".
I grew up strongly believing in monogamy, love, devotion and commitment. I wanted to get married one day, have a family, take my kids to visit their grandpa, and teach them and watch them grow with a woman who loved and respected me.
Breakups, oneitis's, being cheated on, being cheated with, and that whole dream is fucking shattered, so I just bang everything, but that longing for the Disney love fantasy won't go away.
How do I become truly heartless so I can be happy?
>>17940241
>How do I become truly heartless so I can be happy?
How do you kill yourself so you can truly live?
Joy comes from love, you know that you disillusioned fuck. You have good moral fiber. Don't give it up because you're surrounded by weeds.
Don't worry too much about being hardened by the misfortunes you've suffered. Let that hardness be an unyielding standard to which you hold those around you.
Woman is dishonest? She's gone, immediately and forever.
Your problem isn't one of soft vs hard. Your problem is moderating, giving softness where it is deserved, and hardness when it is warranted. This takes good judgement and discipline from you (because you want to be soft and kind and forgiving to everyone).
But some people need tough love. That's not really part of the Disney fantasy we were brought up on. You can still be the good person you've always been. But you're going to have to grow a backbone and maybe a pimp hand.
>>17940241
women are emotional things. Today their emotion is on you tomorrow it's not.Meaning they do not think for the consequences. That's why you have cheating exes trying to get back to you (or exes in general). You should simply accept yourself and be true to you and your partner. Hey ! Nobody shows whats after the happy end in those disney movies.
>>17940266
Also dubs of truth.
girls, can you help me out pls?
i have a hard time reaching orgasm, especially if my bf tries to get me off.
somehow i had the idea that my clit might be too small. it's really small. and i fear the whole thing (meaning, the "legs" that reach inwards") is small since i also can't feel any g-spot or so.
can you tell me, how big your clit is and how easily you can reach orgasm, especilly if you can have penetrative orgasms and if you can experience pleasure from your g-spot?
i've seen porn where the clit is about pea sized when aroused and you can pull back the hood and see it. mine is not visible or palpable, even if fully aroused and pulling back the hood.
>>17940233
>i have a hard time reaching orgasm, especially if my bf tries to get me off.
Not a guaranteed fix, but based on what you describe, you may be focusing on the goal and trying too hard.
Try making pleasure the goal, instead of orgasm.
If you're really really enjoying yourself, you'll either have an orgasm or a good time. That's at least a good starting place.
>>17940311
not trying to sound rude but i have worked on the mental part of reaching orgasm for years and i think i have reached the limits of the possible there. i'm really starting to believe this is a physical problem and not a mental one.
>>17940322
If you believe the cause is a lack of stimulation to the clitoris, use some tools to improve stimulation. Maybe drugs. Some of that tingly lube. Toys.
If you've done everything possible mentally, the only thing left is to change the physical.
Are you actually here looking for advice, or do you just want to poll 'women' about their bodies and sexual habits? Not trying to be rude. But knowing how often other women get off, based on their clit size, won't really help you get off. You're not going to remove your challenge by nodding to a statistic or norm, nor by feeling vindicated. Know that whatever your situation, it's normal. You're not defective, even if you are physically not average.
So focus on what works and nurture that. What has brought you to orgasm in the past, most reliably?
Girlfriend is in japan studying three months, a life dream of mine, how do I superate the jealousy killing me?
Even searching this pic felt painful
>Weeb
>>17940229
Go to Thailand to make her jealous.
>>17940229
Why aren't you in Japan?
What holds you back from going to Japan?
I've been in Japan for the last month and let me tell you your jealousy is perfectly justified, it's totally awesome here.
On the other hand, mobile data rates are hot garbage. Japan has really fallen behind on cellphones in both hardware and service. Sad!
Yesterday night I saw on my girlfriends phone that she was texting her ex, he texted her first but she kept texting back and said she didnt want to seem like an asshole when i confronted her about it. It honestly seems like to her that she isnt doing anything wrong, she didnt tell me she was texting him and was even doing it when we were watching tv together.
I really don't know what to do I feel like ive been betrayed. We are going to have a talk tonight about it and I was thinking about ending it. We have been with each other for a year.
Just tell her it's cool if you want to talk to your ex but I can't date you if you stay in contact with past partners. I think we should just be friends, let me know if you want to work things out in the future.
Stand up for yourself now, or she'll learn that she could walk all over you and you won't do anything about it
>>17940182
She already knew that I didnt want her talking to her ex, she just "didnt want to be an asshole" when he texted her . You are right though I do need to stand up to my self
Hey OP. This is probably not true for all women, but this is what happened to me when I was in a very similar situation.
>gf is in shower, she gets text from her ex
>I read through messages, and it seems like just a casual conversation
>decide not to bring it up for now
>few months go by
>one day, I discover she has a tumblr
>she is posting things like "ugh had another dream about him last night. Why can't I get him out of my head"
>decide it's time to ask her about it
>tell her one night that when she was in shower a few months ago that I noticed her ex texted her
>she is casual about it (much like your gf seems to be)
>ask her if she still likes him
>she says she doesn't think so
>however, she doesn't know I've seen her tumblr posts about how she can't stop thinking about him
>decide she isn't being honest with me, so I tell her we should take a break
>she starts crying, but agrees
>the very next night, she fucks him
The moral of my story is, if you do decide to break up with your gf over this, it is almost guaranteed she will fall back on her ex and fuck him. So, if she decide to break up with her, keep in mind that it will likely be the end of your relationship for good. She most likely wouldn't be evil enough to straight up cuck you with him if you remain together, but if you break up, she will go back to him in her vulnerable state.
i just watched The Forbes list and there is only 2 type of powerful people (mostly) : country leaders and very rich industrialist...i'm opting for the second type : so How do we get rich ?
>>17940168
If you have a big enough why, you will find a how.
What's your reason for wanting power?
>>17940168
>>17940168
Money. Lots of it. So now you just need to become rich.
>>17940168
Putin is a bald manlet. He should be the hero of /adv/
I'm an 18yr old guy who can be described as 'feminine'. I am 5ft 5in (167cm), and have been since I was 12, have no facial hair at all, I wear 'androgynous' clothing and have a 'girly smile' and facial expressions (according to various people).
The thing is, I'm comfortable with that. I'm not one of those guys looking to change who I am just to attract more partners. I obviously am a more elegant feminine guy acting covertly. I wouldn't wear something like a dress or high heels that would bring attention to myself or my partner and make them highly self conscious in public. I also don't have camp behaviour. I reject the 'base-masculine' for a more andro-feminine look but keep assertiveness and dominating behaviour expressing it in a more soft manner rather than an aggressive one.
Thing is, I'm graduating in June 2017 and going into college. I currently don't have any friends let alone a woman or man to possibly get into a relationship with. It's not a priority however I would like one.
Cutting out the BS, I know that a good number to 'majority' of women prefer more masculine men in the world. Even a lot of gay men prefer masculine men. Not necessarily alphas but quite an element of masculinity.
My question is, will it be hard to date in college? I'm bisexual and willing to date both sexes however maybe more geared towards women.
>>17940062
>I'm bisexual
yea, say that first, faggot
back to tumblr now
>>17940062
>will it be hard to date in college? I'm bisexual and willing to date both sexes however maybe more geared towards women.- 0 post shown.
yeah you really shot yourself in the foot now. majority of woman on this earth even feminist ones don't fuck with bi guys.
idk its possible but its not gonna be a normal relationship and definitely not something you tell them from the start. I always find art girls to be more open to this stuff so hang around those types.
>>17940089
> art girls
Not to be stereotypical or judgemental but are 'art girls' those who usually have multicolored dyed hair and dress quite low maintenance?
I swear to god my life is taunting me.
I've always had a hard time connecting with women. A lot of them don't get my sense of humor, seem to kinda have cookie cutter personalities.
But lately I've just kinda been meeting more girls I actually feel comfortable around, find me funny, and it just isn't a chore talking to/being around them.
But the thing is each and every one of them are not and will more than likely never be interested in me. It's like my life's saying "hey here are all these people you might actually be able to form a healthy relationship with for once, lol too bad you can't have them"
It's really bad with this one girl. I've grown absolutely crazy about, I've never felt more comfortable in terms of simply being myself around anyone in my life. But unfortunately I can almost guarantee its never ever ever ever ever ever ever going to happen either.
I get I can't make someone like me, but lately my life has been disappointment after disappointment after disappointment and it's wearing me out emotionally.
Same shit dude.
I don't even know what to do.
BUT
I'm sure someday I will meet someone who will be into me.
Same for me too. Just met a girl I really clicked with but she's having problems with her ex/depression so it's probably not gonna work out and it's majorly shitty.
I'd say just keep trying to stay comfortable around people and eventually someone you like will like you back, believe in yourself. There's a lot of girls out there.
>>17940094
"Having problems with ex" is just an excuse to distant you.
It's nobodies fault but mine. Whole life I thought the point was to marry the girl, have the kids, white picket fence.
Married six years to beautiful sweetheart, second child born few months ago, have the dream house and making good money.
And everyday I wish I could go back in time and undo it. I was happiest single, poor in my single bedroom apartment working just to get buy. Life had promise, it was exciting because I was a dreamer and the possibilities were endless. No one told me what to do, I was free.
I fucking die everyday I wake up and see that it's all a lie, I just want to be happy and alone again. I swear to God I just want to be alone where no one talks to me no one bothers me no one controls me goddamn it what do I do.
Hello, future me.
Some mistakes just have to be made desu senpai.
>>17940042
Maybe talk to your fucking wife
>>17940042
May I refer you to the delightful community of MGTOW?