21 years old still virgin some chicks came to my friends house we all drink a little 1 of the girls talk to me she sit on my lap we soon lay in floor with covers we cuddle I rub her thys and stuff eventually start fingering we fall asleep wake up next day finger her again friends are around & prolly know I'm as HARD as diamonds grab her hand direct her towards penis she slowly gives hand job friends leave we shower and go in room and try to have sex I'm flaccid I I eat her for about 5-10 min still flaccid she tries to suck penis still soft try to watch porn STILL SOFT what the fuck is wrong with me why when the big moment is here I can't get hard for the life of me is it because people were around is why I could be hard I'm so upset and I feel like shit help me so this doesn't happen again if I ever manage to come across sex again
>>17938305
stop watching porn
>>17938305
probly just performance anxiety. Get some viagra if you're really that worried
>>17938318
Why the he'll would I do that I don't have sex how else do I release stress and dead with life's bullshit
>>17938318
But why was I able to be erect when we laid together but when I have her ass naked I got nothing
My GF invited me out to meet her best friend. I got uncomfortable because they asked me how much the perfume I bought for her cost. I refused to answer and they groaned. Her best friend revealed her yearly income and then asked me how much the perfume cost. I told them I was uncomfortable talking about such things. Then my girlfriend told her best friend how she likes being tied up during sex. I was in disbelief that she actually told her best friend that and her best friend simply replied that she would like to try that some day as well. Is it normal to be this open?
My GF and her best friend took 3 bathroom breaks together. Why did they need to talk about?
>>17938304
Complaining about the size of your penis.
>>17938304
No, it's not weird about the sex thing. My roommate skypes with her boyfriend and will bring up sex stuff with me. He's bewildered by the fact that we discuss it, but I really don't think about it any further.
The money thing is weird. I wouldn't bring that up in front of you and if I was really curious I'd just ask the best friend in private.
That's just my opinion though. It's different for everyone. If she's an adult, then just mention that it made you uncomfortable and you'd rather she discuss with her friend in private. Girl talk is girl talk, but that doesn't mean you have to be directly a part of it.
>>17938304
Just telling you right now that you can tell a lot about someone by who their close friends are and her best friend sounds like the very definition of "basic."
So does your gf though, desu. And I think you kinda know that, which is why you're making the thread.
>New girl I'm dating seems a little autistic
>Literally shares some of the same qualities as the autistic kids I used to look after at my job
>Her sister is also an edgy wiccan, who literally told me if I hurt her sister, she'll "hex" me
>Didn't know what to say so I just say "yeah, okay", and it pissed her off
So I'm dating a girl who may or may not be autistic, who has a sister that thinks she is some kind of fucking wizard.
I'm not sure I want to continue dating, but I can see that the girl is really sweet. How do I cut ties without hurting her feelings? I really don't want to hurt her, but I obviously can't let myself be held hostage.
>>17938303
Women are just children in and adult-sized body and most are also fucking crazy. get over that fact
P.D. I hope both of you are of the same fucking race
>>17938343
I've dated other girls, who didn't literally seem autistic. So I guess you're wrong?
Also we are the same race, not sure how that is relevant you fag.
Girls can't be autistic. That's just women; no sense of sarcasm and all that.
I grew up with my single mother for the longest time. I'm 21 and still live at home. I am mentally stable and have a good job lined up once I graduate at the end of this year. The thing is I have sexual dreams where my Mom makes moves on me. I love my mom to death and in a lot of ways am sexually attracted to her. I would have sex with her if she made moves on me. But I would never make moves on her. I thought I got over these feelings and I haven't even thought about it for months until last night when I had a dreams of her taunting me sexually and being naked. What do I do and how do I deal with these emotions?
give her the
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Just be honest with her about how you feel anon, for all you know she probably feels the same way.
Post results.
You don't do anything.
They're now basically arising in your dreams because you've suppressed it yet subconsciously you still want to fuck your mom.
I would just continue to suppress it and enjoy your new found dream fap material.
There's no sound way to deal with it, some plebs might say therapy but that's fucking retarded, if you talk about it, you're gonna think about it more.
The best way is to move on, not think about it and eventually you might forgot you ever had those thoughts at all.
I would like to know if a person with mild autism can join the Marine Corps. There's a lot of confusion and what I found is it's a yes or no type of deal. So could you join if you had mild autism?
They don't even let people with ADHD join, much less autism.
Just looked it up, you have to be medication free for at least 2 years.
>>17938296
Mental/social limitations are almost a prerequisite for the military.
How do I manage to steer the conversation to the topic of sex and manage to persuade a girl to send nudes? This just in a social network scenario. Also, it's girls that I've never met before.
I'm fairly good looking, so girls not hitting me up is not much of an issue.
Also, how do I turn a simple conversation into a deep meaningful one with a stranger in the Internet?
>>17938288
Bump
>>17938288
Bumping
>>17938288
never ask for them. they give it to you if they trust you and they dont see a relationship coming.
So my old roommate is suing me for unpaid lease stuff.
He prefers to power-trip rather than accept my offer to pay him what I owe him minus the security deposit he's still in control of.
He has a solid case and I'm pretty sure he can get a favorable judgement, but I don't think he can actually get any money from me?
I have my computer, my car for work, a chair, and a mattress, plus $1,000 in savings.
If I just move my money into my dad's account I don't think there's really anything to take?
I live in Texas, and did some research, but thought I'd ask here in case some lawyer was passing through.
>>17938275
OP again, also nobody has any idea where I live.
I use my Uncle's address for important mail, and my job is a mobile business that I basically work from home.
Don't they have to serve me to do anything?
>>17938285
>Don't they have to serve me to do anything?
Not necessarily, if they can't serve you it's possible to get a default judgement entered against you
>>17938285
If he takes you to small claims court, then yes they have to serve you. If they can't contact you though and he has a solid case like you said then there's a possibility they could just drop the unpaid lease on you. In which case a credit company will probably have taken over the payments at this point and they'll try and contact you. If they can't contact you then it will go on your credit and I don't think you want that.
Who do you owe money to? Him or a company? What documents are there are that bind you?
I'm a 20 year old guy currently going to a relatively large public university. I'm not too involved in the campus life, as I still live with relatives 20 minutes away to save money rather than living on campus. I got out of a four-year relationship that started in high school a few months back and am trying to start dating.
I barely ever go to parties, usually because I don't know where they are, but partly because I just dislike them. This is going to sound autistic in the extreme, but where exactly am I supposed to go on the campus to find dates? By which I mean, where is it considered acceptable to walk up to a girl, strike up a conversation, and ask for her phone number after a few minutes (besides bars)? Or have my friends been lying and that's not acceptable anywhere? I honestly don't know what would be considered "normal" and acceptable at college and what would just be considered being bothersome when people just want to get on with their lives. Would anyone with experience in this regard care to lend some advice?
If it affects anything at all, most females I know (e.g. acquaintances and friends of friends- don't have too many female friends myself) have referred to me as somewhat good-looking.
>>17938230
join a club and start hanging out with the other guys. one of them will know where da parties are at.
>>17938264
Currently attempting that. Is there any context besides parties where this is acceptable though?
>>17938272
yeah anywhere but it depends on how confident and calm you are and the girls response to you.
usually bars/parties are easier to approach because thats when its expected.
It seems a lot of us here are weak willed people. How will you challenge yourself tommorrow? How can I challenge myself?
>>17938222
We can't.
Nofap
>>17938222
Let's just get all of /adv/ to go on killing sprees in their cities.
Im a simple guy who likes a peaceful quiet life I completely abstain from drugs and alcohol because I see them as self destructive habits that are unnecessary to have fun. It frustrates me quite a bit to see that the lifestyle I like to live is ridiculed and tossed aside in favor of hedonism. How do I become more tolerant of modern culture which glorifies most of the things I don't want to be a part of, I'd like to have friends but it seems like people like myself are becoming rarer and rarer so I guess my only option is to learn to live and let live
>>17938218
Live and let live is really all you can do. It's how we are now. Some of these things in moderation are okay and not self destructive imo. There's a difference between enjoying a good red wine with dinner and binging every weekend on vodka cruisers.
>>17938218
>It frustrates me quite a bit to see that the lifestyle I like to live is ridiculed and tossed aside in favor of hedonism
if you actually payed attention in history you would realize the baby boomers did 20x worse shit. heck majority of them just chain smoked all day
>>17938265
I suppose you're right, it's the hammering vodka every weekend that I'm wary of
>>17938271
Im not familiar with them as this is not my country of origin
A girl I like is going on a date with a guy she doesn't know to get to know him better and find out if she wants to date him. Meanwhile i'm sitting here with that sick feeling in my gut and I don't know what to do. She's made it clear she doesn't want to date anyone right now but shes obviously about to throw out that fuckin rule. Nobody knows either and I want to tell someone that I like her. We've gotten close but haven't gotten "close" like dating.
>>17938135
how do you know shes made it clear that she doesn't want to date ANYONE ?>
"I like you."
aww that's nice, i like you too anon.
"no, i mean i really like you, and i wish it was me and you going on that date."
>>17938135
Sounds like she made it clear that she didn't want to date any of the people she knew at that time. IE She doesn't want to date you.
She met someone who she thinks that she might want to date now, and she's figuring out if her instincts are right.
Also, just because she didn't want to date when she said that doesn't mean she doesn't want to date anyone now. And just because she is going on a date now doesn't mean that she secretly wanted to date back then. People change.
She doesn't like you.
I fucked up
I majored in economics because of pressure from my parents and now I'm stuck with a degree I don't want.
I've had two jobs since graduating, both are soul crushing office jobs where I sat/sit in a cubicle from 8-4:30. Every day I come home and watch King of the Hill or the Simpsons for about four hours until it's time for me to go to sleep to make sure I get up in time to make it to work.
My hobbies don't interest me anymore, the only two friends I have do nothing but play league of legends all day every day for the past 6 years and have become increasingly aggressive when you try and convince them to do something else.
I can't remember the last time I was happy and I don't know what to do. Where to I go from here? How do I break this cycle? Do I try to get the money to go back to school to get another degree? Do I take my money and use it up until I run out and then kill myself?
I've tried talking to my parents about this but they just insist that it'll all get better if I keep working hard in a job that I hate to make more money that I don't even need/use. They're immigrants so to them money and status is everything.
How do I become happy /adv/? how do people do the same thing I do every day but are perfectly fine with their lives?
>has a college degree and decent job
>still complains
what the fuck, i would literally kill to be in your position, maybe you need some perspective, your are better off than 99% planet earth, also fuck you
>>17938257
>you're not allowed to ask for help because people have it worse than you
I guess I came to the wrong board
>>17938119
It's your life. Fuck your parents. Get a new degree. Worst case scenario is that you won't make it with the new career, and you can just go back to your old job. It'll suck but at least you'll always have a plan B. Then rinse and repeat.
So a long time ago my grandfather purchased my parents house and he put my name on the deed. Alot of stuff has happened over the years and I no longer speak to my mother.
Heres my problem, I have a crazy sister who thinks that when our mother dies she is just going to move into the house. This is unacceptable for many reasons but regardless it cannot happen.
I just want to know if anyone has any legal advice on what I am to do here
>>17938068
The deed is in your name.
Unless it has been changed without your knowledge, or there is something else not apparent in your account that should be all there is.
Im not interested in signing a quitclaim either I want it all. They dont deserve the satisfaction of buying me out
I just worry that my sister was added to the deed without my consent which probably isnt even needed and when my mother dies my horrible sister will sneakily move in and destroy the property fucking up everything my Grandfather tried to protect me from
>>17938085
I hope she forged my name. Thats what I am banking on
I'm 30 years old. I've never been accused of being needy, or clingy, or desperate in a relationship, but it's only because I've forever put such a conscientious effort into
"playing it cool."
It's tiresome.
I don't think I've ever been in a relationship where I didn't have this constant fear of "if you do these things, you run the risk of losing her." It's textbook abandonment issues, I know.
I'm wondering if anyone here in a lasting relationship who has struggled with this overcame it, and if so, how. What does it take to feel secure with your significant other? I worry that I'm too naturally sensitive to ego motivations and to the conditional nature of relationships to not feel like I need to be constantly working to keep my partner.
>>17938029
Holy shit. You are putting pussy on the pedestal. You need to exclusively date women who aren't Westernized ASAP.
>>17938029
You should learn to be secure in yourself. You don't need anyone to feel secure and fulfilled.
>>17938029
Males with beta personalities, like yours, accommodate and see to a woman's every need and are the reason why Western women have become insufferably entitled. Please stop.
How do I ask a single girl out when Chad's in the picture. It's demoralizing. She talks to others about me more than Chad but I want Chad outta the picture
>>17938011
>but I want Chad outta the picture
That's your problem sonny. There will always be people around that will make you envious. Learn to cope.
>>17938027
How? He spends his time with like three women each night
>>17938099
That's up to you man. If you can't stop thinking about him, then you are the one with the problem. Find something more important to occupy your time.