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My fiancee cheated on me, denied it, and then became girlfriend of the guy 3 months after we broke up our 4 year relationship.

I still love her. I won't give up. If she's such a whore I'm sure she'll leave that guy too (or he'll be smarter and ditch her at the first sign), the worst part is that I don't even care.

I wish I could have penetrative sex. It's ruining so much I could be doing
I'm scared I'm weird.
I'm scared he'll not want to have sex anymore

I'm heartbroken, I feel so fucking lost and miserable. The pain never alleviates, you inch into every aspect of my life like a goddamn virus. Every day I hope something bad happens to me, either to put me out of my misery, or for you to care about me again

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Op here, I'll start

>Age?
20
>Last job you had/Last level of education you finished?
I had a waiter job last spring
>What did you do today?
Play vidya
>Last time you went out?
about a month
>Any plans to get your life back on track?
not at the moment

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>Age?
19
>Last job you had/Last level of education you finished?
Never had a job/High School
>What did you do today?
Played vidya, Watched anime, Cried
>Last time you went out?
Sometime in December
>Any plans to get your life back on track?
Nope.
>Anything else you want to mention go ahead
I wanna die

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>>17397408
>Sometime in December

What did you do?
What's keeping you indoors for so long?

>>17393566
>>17393566
Can you recommend some theoretical texts?

>>17393602
I guess I'd have to ask about your current knowledge base. Can you read music? Have you had any theory before?

>>17393612
I havent read music before

>>17404394
That is fucking disgusting.

I wouldn't worry about your dick op, as it's mostly clit stimulation that gets girls off anyway. I'd be worried that your girlfriend is catching her period in a cup.

>>17404407
Its actually far more sanitary than tampons or pads. The smell from periods come from the blood oxidizing and since this is silicon and forms a seal inside her vagina the blood never oxidizes until its dumped. Also there's less mess as it gets dumped the cup gets rinsed and repeat. As opposed to bloody tampons and pads that all need to be disposed. Plus you are less likely to have a heavy flow stain your panties.

I 100% get why its appealing to her.

And if clit simulation is all thats important why is all anyone ever talks about girth? I hear it everywhere I go, even girls in real life I've heard talk about how girth is king and thinner dicks just don't feel as good. Used to think I was in the clear because of above mentioned reasons. But if she can take this thing she could take a bigger dick. I worry she's going to out grow me, get comfortable enough with her body and want something bigger. Not that she would leave me for that. But I can't live with the idea that I'm not satisfying her, or that most guys, guys with average sized girth, could satisfy her more than me.

>>17404394
You do realize womens vaginas are meant to birth babies and can stretch to accomodate certain things. Yeah she could take a bigger dick but in theory could fit something even larger than a dick up there if she wanted

Anyways, be grateful she using one of those cups. One girl I was with did and it was nice staying overnight when she was on her period without the bathroom smelling disgusting or seeing discarded tampons in the trash.

Here in first world land, we have shrinks and support groups for that kind of talk.

>>17404323
I live in 'first world land', I'm just finding it retarded and backwards that we can't have honest conversations and that our social interactions are reduced to the minimal expectation.

>>17404345
Maybe get friends who care about you then who you are close to. I hope you're not going to random people or people you're not extremely close with and doing this, thats just weird.

Do you mean a contract phone upgrade directly from Verizon or a whole new pay-as-you-go phone altogether? How is this a difficult concept? What are you looking to get out of your phone? What's your budget? Give us details anon.

Contract phone. I currently pay 150 for 2 lines. Two Nokia lumias. My friend said she paid 600 for the new iPhone. I literally don't use apps. That's why I was just looking to pay like 20 bucks for a new smartphone.

>>17404242
I jusg got an s7 after having the s3 for 4 years (with sprint). I payed $30 for upgrade fee and then pay $25 a month for 2years and can pay it off conpletely whenever.

>>17404229
Your girlfriend is a lazy fuck if she even needs a maid when she's not working. Tell her to get a job. Taking care of the house is not difficult.

>>17404229
If she doesn't work it seems really unnecessary man. I am sure she can handle it unless she says otherwise. Talk it out with the gf and see what she wants you to do now.

You have anxiety anon. Talk to.your doctor or a psychiatrist. They will go through things with you, and perhaps give you medication and a plan. Something like valium will allow you to get out into the world, and the good experiences you have will replace the bad ones that your mind has formed

The only way to get over it is to face what you fear. Once you do that you'll find that most people don't even care.

Go for a daily morning jog, proven to reduce anxiety and build confidence. Humans are meant to be active in this manner and get rewarded for such.

Take magnesium, the majority of people are deficient in magnesium which serves over 300 biological functions including keeping you calm

>>17404189
Here's what you do: Find any other stashes in the house and just drink it if you don't have the willpower to poor it down the drain. Once you have it all out of the house try being sober. Go to meetings at least at first. I know it sounds stupid, but it did help me a bit at first. My wake-up call was getting a DUI. After that I decided I needed to get sober even though most of my friends and family were saying I didn't need to since I wasn't really an alcoholic. I still saw some alcoholic tendencies in my past so I thought I would give it a go. Been sober almost a year now. I don't go to meetings anymore. I got my license back, paid all of my fines, did my work program, and all my DUI classes. So life is back to normal for me other than having a criminal record.

>>17404188
He probably doesn't want to deal with cooking, cleaning, and raising the kids when he gets home from work. Probably doesn't want his kids to be in daycare either. I can see the appeal of wanting a housewife, but the way things are now you need to have top-tier income to live off of a single parent's income. If you guys can make it work though more power to you. Just cook, clean, rear the children, and doll yourself up real nice before he gets home. That's basically the appeal of housewife and was the norm before the 60's.

>>17404221
Apparently you need something like $15-18 an hour for two adults to live comfortably without kids (which we do not have and I have an IUD so no kids for a while thank god). That's hard to find, but not impossible. He's going to school for a PharmD and I just don't know what else I can do to make his life easier while he's home.

Whats your education?

>>17404119
You sound like you have severe autism. A windscreen is like $200. Just get someone to paint the bumper, again, 2-300. Shit happens mate, you have to learn to deal with it. Some people will be driving their car, then the engine shits itself and they are up for $8k. You have a broken windscreen.

Forget about your car completely. Spend the money on a psychologist and fix your life. Your happiness cannot be affected that much by your car.

>>17404127
>Some people will be driving their car, then the engine shits itself and they are up for $8k.
You act like I havent dealt with this. Service engine light comes up with a new code evry 2 weeks. Currently fix is a 400$ part.

Also have had to repair my car bc people going under it at night to tie mardi gras beads over moving parts

Oh also, there's no clicking either when I attempt to start.

How many miles, what motor, 4x4?

We had a 94 Burbin growing up. Good vehicle, until it's not. The steering wheel will get loose habitually. The transmission will go a couple times. It's a beast and a gas hog. Does yours have the 40 gallon gas tank?

I recall that we sold it for not very much money about 10 or more years ago. I can't imagine that yours has low miles.

The positive is that it's probably easy for a mechanic to work on. The negative is that there's a lot to be worked on.

What do you think is wrong with the motor?

Have you taken you question to /o/ ?

>>17404076
Read your post again. Just get rid of it. 230k miles is a good run.

Probably is a bad starter motor. Find out what it is and get underneath and check the connections. Then bang on it with a hammer, perhaps while someone is trying to turn it over. Be careful.

Starter motor is easy to replace. Probably will cost you 50-100.

It's not really worth taking unless you actually have problems with sex. If it's not personal, how long do you usually last?

>>17404064
Let me tell yah playboy. I took some and it turned my dick into a god damn lead pipe. I wore her out until I was out of breath and still couldn't cum. For some reason it made it really hard for me to cum. She had to jerk me off afterwards for like 20 mins of hard deathdrip jerking and pecker head stimulation. It was a good time I don't see anything wrong with it.

Both are close together however if you're going to study physics make sure to get some lab work/ computational work, I can't vouch for a 100% theoretical education even if it's my favored area.

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bumpin'

Which would /adv/ prefer, the left, or the right? I have a thing for curly hair so I'd go with the left.

>>17404024

had to re-read you post, thought it was about him being lazy

Morals is another story, if he wants to work at a more "moral" company, shouldn't he be encouraged? Tell him to write in his give-me-work letter (the name eludes me) that he wants to change tracks, eezy breezy

>>17404104
the cover letter is what you are thinking of. I like your description of it though.

I can't really think of a good analogy, but it would be sort of like a current PETA employee applying for a job at a meat plant. The meat plant would rightly tell the applicant to fuck off.