Why are men so sensitive nowadays? It's like in this generation most of them are more emotional and moody than women. What's that about??
Blame the existentialists. What did the existentialists promote? Protestantism, atheism and muh fee fees. They built the foundation for the white male genocide.
>>17404769
The media, lgbtifhsgsbd community etc.
>>17404769
Feminism. If you act tough, they put you in jail, unless you are super handsome.
A year ago i had this weird yellow puss emanating from my crotch region.it had a very awful smell to it.i took care of the issue and.now the puss is coming from the back of my arm pit,i think.the same smell is coming from there,even though i shower everyday. What is it? I wont go to a doctor or whatever right now because i think its just a minor infection.is it?
You're turning into a zombie.
sounds like bubonic plague to me
Go to the fucking doctor. Could be jock rash or whatever. Its just from sweat and friction but it usually doesn't leak. It can though I think. Go to the doctor.
Alright /adv/, here's my personal dilemna. I know this seems stupid and not worth caring about, but bear with me here.
So, sometimes I have these dreams. No, they aren't wet dreams, in fact, I NEVER have wet dreams. Maybe this is due to my asexuality, or something, but I've always thought it strange anyway.
Anyway, in these dreams, there's always a girl. Always a different girl, but through some event or another I always end up with a romantic attraction to this girl. We do some stuff (never sexual) and then the dream ends.
When I awaken, I am absolutely FUCKED UP. I mean, devestated. Deep feelings of loss, regret, and depression slam into me immediately, and to each dream a varying degree of intensity.
Like I said before, I'm asexual. I've never met a girl I've been interested in, and I probably won't for a while. I don't want sex, but I don't ever feel romantic attraction either. Thus, these dreams confound the hell out of me.
And I just had another last night.
What do I do? How do I deal with this?
its your mind's way of calling you a faggot for pretending you're "asexual"
(Took a name for recongnition.)
I should also mention that these feeling stick with me for weeks, until I can successfully force it out of my mind. In my spare time, I'll drift back into thinking about the dream again and again, and every now and then it cripples me. I'm lost, here.
>>17404711
Thanks. I feel reassured.
>Be 18 y/o
>Meet girl on [spoiler]Craigslist[/spoiler]
>Says she's looking for a long term fwb
>Shoot her an email with face pics saying I'm interested
>Send pics back. A little bigger but I dig it and has a sort of cute face
>We start texting, just casual talk
>It's going well so I ask her out for coffee on saturday
>It's been a few days and we've texted occasionally. We've only now started exchanging more selfies
>Called each other cute a few times but sex hasn't really been brought up yet
I guess she's just checking to see if I'm not a weirdo, which is fair since lolcraigslist. But my experiences with woman aren't incredibly vast so I'm wondering if I fucked myself over with the "long term" wording. Advice?
And yeah, she's real. Facebook checks out.
>>17404699
>And yeah, she's real. Facebook checks out.
Famous last words. Every watched catfish? Never send photos of yourself that you can be identified in. They should teach this shit in school. Just meet her. If she doesn't want to meet, she's probably a man in another state jacking it to your photos and messages.
>>17404706
She didn't send the facebook. I just looked up her name on Facebook. If she's catfishing then she's been planning everything out for five years and is ridiculously convincing.
None of my photos can be identified and we haven't sent anything lewd. She seems like she genuinely wants to meet. My question is if she's actually looking for a long term relationship and just said "friend with benefits" to idiots like me in.
>>17404725
Oh well, go for it then. Who cares, she wrote fwb, if she wants more that's her problem.
Is it possible to hunt for mushrooms like people or is it rare as fuck to find any? I live in an area with a fuck ton of cows and fields but I'm not sure how to just walk around with them with a flashlight without getting caught and I don't know how many farms I would have to check
google my man
>>17404696
Wouldn't do it. Mycologists spend years learning from a veteran how to identify mushrooms. There are too many poisonous ones that look like edible varieties.
>>17404696
picking mushrooms is dangerous is you dont know what the fuck youre doing
Ive been on the toilet for the past 30 minutes peeing at first i let everything out but now it's coming out as short little spurts (pretty sure im clearing out my bladder) (my pee is clear so i know im hydrated af) so is this normal or is it just because i decided to spill everything ( i could still keep going) theres no health thread well i dont think /fit/ is health thread more like a exercise and diet
You're fapping too much.
What the fuck is wrong with me? Last night, I dreamed that there were a bunch of puppies with me in some underground mine shaft. They grew fangs and before they did anything, I began smashing their heads against the walls because I knew that if I didn't do it, they would kill me. I feel so awful about it now; I love dogs and I've never done anything violent or wanted to do anything violent to dogs. I'm really scared, /adv/!
it sucks, but disturbing dreams do sometimes happen try to put it out of your mind if you can
If you're worried about this having some kind of deeper meaning then don't, the overwhelming consensus of the psychiatric community is that dreams have no psychoanalytical value and are simply experiences that are randomly created by the mind. The fact that you killed dog-monsters in a dream does not say anything about your state of mind, it doesn't say that deep down you secretly want to hurt things or are fearful that things will hurt you, it merely means that of the infinite possible combinations your mind could have created last night this was what it made.
Don't worry about it. I had a dream once just about watching some alien, tentacles, Lovecraftian monstrosity get examined. It was my first wet dream and I was 16. Shit happens.
Well be fine :)
>Got slightly drunk at a bar,
>nice good looking girl is my bartender, really sweet
>sent me a facebook msg after she got off asking to join her for drinks,
>slightly drunk but when a girl ask you that you don't turn it down.
>get to the other bar she went to
>had 3 more jack daniels on ice,
>previously had 10various rum/whiskey drinks.)
>I can still walk straight at this point, just have to focus on doing so
>having a good time, laughing, smiling, actually started talking about deepshit,
>says she just got out of a 2 1/2 year relationship, moved back in with family? idkwho
>oh so I'm rebound?
>imokaywiththis.jpg
>stay there for hour, she's ready to go home
>understandable, worked from 11am to 11pm bartending and it's 12:30 now
>she has no car, take her home, hugs me goodnight says we'll do it again sometime
>cool just drive home straight dude avoid curbs and lawns
>next day wakeup, go get some coffee cause slight hangover, barely even noticable
>send her msg on facebook
>"thanks for the great time, i'd love to do it again, blah blah, here's my number
>basically copy pastas my msg back to me with her number
>exchange a few meangingless messages
>one thing she said stuck out
>"i had a great time, it's good to have a friend you can really talk to"
>well fuck me there's that old line...
>but two weeks out of a 2+ year relationship? I can play it slow
>okay fine I text you
>did that
Posting desktop backgrounds for the assistance.
>here's the text between us,
help me out, she's awesome I'm just tarded at flirting.
Yes I'm going to type them out.
Me: "There we go, it's anon, again had a great time, when are you up for drinks again?
Her like a solid day later at 10pm:
"Hey sorry I'm just getting back to you. I'm off tonight but I work nights the rest of the week. I'm going to Oklahoma after this week. Lets just play it by ear lol.
Me the next day when I'm on lunch at work: "Hey that's fine, I'm pretty much up for anyday of the week except Fridays because I have to be at work at 6 in the morning on Saturday, but I get off at 3 so I'll have most of the day that day. I'm off Sundays and Mondays. I can stop by, "herplaceofworkhere" to catch you before you leave. You visting family or just vacation?
Her at 4pm: "My dad and brother live in oklahoma so I'm going to see them, should be fun.
Me at 7 when I got home from work: "I hope it is, always good to see family. Flying for driving?
Nothing heard back yet.
Give up mate, that's the friend zone. I hope you didn't buy her drinks. You didnt, right?
How do i de al with the fact that my ex gf which i still love is dead?
I mean, idk if she is, i have reasons to believe it, her mental state was awful and her family cant deal with that, her life was stucked she have pretty much nothing to Live for, i thought after dumped me she would be OK against si i didnt fight back but she still talked and search for me like she doesnt have anybody else but shr refuses to go back with me
anyway, she is not showing signs of life anymore and im affraid this time could be serious , she leave a "goodbye" as status and never get back, should i be worried? should i ignore this and move on with my life? i think im getting depressed i cant deal with this and it may be good to delete everything from her and never search what happened but i often think she is lurking for my attention and that i could do something but im so mad at her that i cant talk ,what should i do?
Pd: happy comandante day
I'm confused anon.
I need to get ahold of some Xanax that doesn't require me going through a drug dealer of Doctor. Anyone have a link to a reliable online distributor?
Why can't/won't you go to a doctor?
Ordering that shit online is
1) Massively illegal
2) Highly likely to get you some poisonous shit.
Just go to the doctor, they prescribe that shit like candy.
Get some phenibut or kava instead.
Don't try ordering prescription drugs or controlled substances online. I suppose you could try silk road, but I'm too cautious to trust even that and can't say much about it. Don't risk poisoning yourself, etc.
and that day his balls grew three sizes...
feels good not caring what others think.
random pic
>>17404633
>not caring anymore
literally posting about not caring which means you do care, if you didnt you wouldnt have posted this
Not sure if here or health is where this should go but whatever.
I kind of want to compare experiences as I'm at the point where it would be a disruption in my life if I were to take a large tolerance break so I want to see how bad I'm fucking up with it relatively speaking.
Just some basic questions:
-How much do you take a day, typically?
-What do you use it for?
-How many days a week do you go without it?
-Do you take anything with it?
-Is it impacting your life negatively?
-Could you see yourself functioning the rest of your life without it?
Off topic but... I'll take yours if you don't want it.
How hard is it to get this shit anyways. Oh, college student asking...
how do you deal with the death of your patients?
how do you deal with death anyway?
>>17404613
easy
losing a patient is never easy, but people die and sometimes you need to let them
as for dealing with death I mainly just console myself with the fact that I've already not existed for the 13 billion years before I was born, so I'll be able to handle however many billion come after I die.
>patients
Go watch any medical drama show, inevitably the quirky innocent attending will lose their first patient and the wiser, more experienced doctor will give a heartfelt speech about it.
>death itself
You and every other organic thing is a slowly decaying robot trying to pass it's genetics along before it disintegrates.
Death is an inevitability. It could be 10 seconds from now when you have an aneurysm or 90 years from now when medical science can no longer prop up your useless corpse. Nothing is forever.
Life is pretty tiring. Growing up my piece of shit father treating me like crap. Mother treated me like crap. Father would call me names, call me ugly, say my nose was huge. Gave me crippling anxiety. I worked hard, made friends. Then they decide to move just as I am doing well.
Abuse gets worse blah blah. Relatives call me names at parties, laugh at me and mock me. Got picked on in high school.
Now I am in college and the same shit. Everyone assumes I am a genius and asks me for work. Women feel so empowered they test all sorts of seduction strats on me, then dump me like a condom. I meet a cute shy girl but I spend 40 mins of my class time seeing her eyeball the hot guy to my far left, who has probably fucked the 3 girls he sits with.
Seems like I lived my life on a bunch of lies that were never true.No one ever loved me and no one ever will, they may love what I accomplish, gain or can give them. Lately I notice alot of old ladies are nice to me and give me comments, my professors are incredibly nice to me as well - basically they pity me and what a joke i am. They see me as a struggling rat running on a wheel inside a cage, and I will never get out of that fucking cage. Lately I am so overcome with emotions I think im probably gonna get a heart attack and die, be at peace for once.
>no is caring for ME
>ME. ME. ME. EVERYONE HURT ME
>I stare at a girl for 40 mins of class
>why isnt she attracted to me, instead of the hot guy
>i let others decide how I feel about myself
>im letting myself feel bad because I don't want to take responsibility for my own life
>>17404627
>>everyone says that car is red, but I say it's BLUE! :^)
>>17404570
It sounds like you're uglier on the inside.
Is Spiral Dynamics any good? Have you guys read it? Would you say it's a good purchase for someone who wants to learn a little more about philosophy?
>>17404509
If you want to learn some philosophy, just get some intro to philosophy textbook or something.
Spiral Dynamics is just pseudoscience.
>>17405043
>I didn't read it.
Thanks for your shut the fuck up.