>Broke up roughly 4 years ago
>Still facebook stalk them
>Made a fake facebook account and still talk yet they don't know it's me.
>Deep down I hate them. I hate their taste. I hate what they did to me. I hate them.
>I know it's useless yet I hold on to my anger because I need something to hold on to.
>One girl is now a raving SJW and the other is dating an adult emo with jacked up teeth.
I want revenge, I can still feel the pain they gave me everyday. It never goes away. I want to let go so badly. But I can't.
You lack willpower and self control. Delete your stalker accounts and any account where you will have to encounter them. The only way to recover from this wound is the cauterize it with fire, and this is the flame to close the wound. Get rid of EVERYTHING that they've given you, trinkets, clothing, notes. Even if it's the most comfy shirt in the world. Get rid of it all. Purge anything that is a reminder of them.
Once that is done, start a brand new hobby. Engage with new people who have no connection to them. If you run into them, treat them like a regular person in the crowd. They're not special to you anymore, so obsessing will only keep them in your mind longer.
And always remember that the best revenge is silence.
>>17403498
You're bad off bro.
>>17403498
Don't be such a fucking beta pls.
Where do I start to begin a career in sales? I'm not talking about scummy, shady car salesmanship or related ilk. I mean building relationships, following leads, asking questions, and such.
What does a path in sales look like and where are some places for entry level training and experience?
Eventually I want to find what I'm passionate about and sell that even as an entrepreneur.
I'm currently searching for a way tho
>>17403282
bump
i want this too
It's not that hard to find entry-level sales work. The company will be shit and desperately hiring anyone who is willing to take the job. Also, you will be paid only in commissions.
Like I said, entry-level. I worked for an insurance company nobody has heard of for a few months, then switched to an extremely reputable financial company and am taking advantage of all the relationships I built while at my previous company. What I learned over there was how to prospect, how to book appointments, and how to close. That knowledge was well worth the time and money I put into working there.
My advice is to work for a person with good numbers. Whatever company will hire you without experience will suck anyway, so don't worry about that; focus on working for a person from whom you can learn.
Also, I hope you enjoy long hours.
Protip: Learn your fucking scripts. They were written by people much better than you at selling the product. Learn them.
>>17403644
How do you find insurance companies nobody's ever heard of?
And what is an example of a reputable financial company?
Also are there opportunities out there that aren't insurance, cars, financial companies, and pharmaceuticals?
When someone goes full elliot rodger over being a virgin?
Or even just normal suicide over it
>>17403276
because there are many people who dont get laid but still manage not to do mass shootings
and because its a lot easier to get laid than it is to murder a bunch of people.
>>17403293
>and because its a lot easier to get laid than it is to murder a bunch of people.
about that
>>17403276
>Or even just normal suicide over it
>normal
>suicide
What are some general things that average college students like to talk about
So far I've got it down to
>rap and pop music
>Trump is the worst xd
>gym
>random physical activities like kayaking
>americas got talent
What else
>>17403222
the average person likes to talk about what they like. you have some specific stuff down but the
>Random physical activities like kayaking
is an example of what i mean.
most everyone has a physical activity they enjoy, each ones different. its eaiser to do something like TV cuz everyone likes the popular shows.
Game of thrones, orange is the new black, etc. movies are the same
>this big marvel movie
>this big DC movie
>this big other movie
at the end of hte day people jsut want to talk about themselves. what they like is simply an extension of that.
>>17403239
any more?
Also do I need to actually watch those shows or just learn basic trivia about them
Are you an alien learning how to live among earthlings? Or a robot who desires to be human, perhaps?
Hello,
So, there's a potential I knocked a one night stand up. The facts.
>She was on her period. It lasted one more day after we had sex.
>I pulled out, despite us having unprotected sex for some time.
>She's not on birth control (Tells me after the hook up)
>She's like 4'9 90lbs and probably cant carry a fucking child
I'm 22, she's 19. I have two years left of college, she just graduated high school and is basically doing nothing with her life. SHE DOESN'T WANT TO HAVE AN ABORTION IF SHE IS PREGNANT. We're both from poor families and have no real money.
Idk anymore. What are the odds she is actually pregnant, and if so is there anyway to convince this girl to have an abortion? Fucking idiot doesn't realize she's going to ruin three lives with this decision.
>Rare Claire
Are you retarded?
>>17403124
What are the odds that you have AIDS?
>>17403124
Kids don't ruin lives you fucking imbecile. Grow the fuck up and stop being a worthless pile of trash or go kill yourself at some club snorting too much "dank" stuff.
There's about a 14-19% chance realistically assuming she is in good health due to the fertility likelihood between y'all.
And no, don't try to convince her of an abortion. If you don't want it explicitly tell her you are not sticking around and then attempt to cut contact, potentially getting her to sign an agreement that she will not peruse child support.
PS - Money is no problem, you could send the kid my way and as a single 18yo I would provide them a good home with no money issues, as I know how to fucking manage money and I know I don't need a great phone plan, cable, or new shoes every couple months.
Worst case try to tell her to put the 'lad up for adoption, hell you can even make some money from that. Only condition is she'd have to eat and act clean or you could get in major trouble. As long as you're both white(ish) there is a huge demand for you babbbies.
Ever since the beginning of this year some relatives I don't get along with well started frequently coming over my house more than usual and since I still live at home, it's hard to ignore them with their behavior.
Recently they started to recall alot of things I do when I am out which is really odd. Like one day I decided to ride on a local trail for an hour and when I came back home they recalled the exact location I rode my bike, knew what town I rode through and all. Got really paranoid then. They even recalled the fruit parfait I bought moments after. They even started to mention photos on my phone I never shared with anyone.
Within the same month of them being over my bank login password was changed twice. I called my bank and personally asked why it happened, but they decided not to look at it, but changing the password and changed it for me, ignoring the other shit why it happened in the first place. I asked if they could send me an email or something the next time it mysteriously changes, but they don't want to do that.
Now last week I decided to put my phone in airplane mode and play a game while they were over. After five minutes all three came into my room and asked what I was looking at on the phone... Definitely suspicious. I flipped out on them and they got pissed and went into the next room.
I went to the store of my phone carrier and asked for service. Told them the situation and they said it's unusual to hack into a current iphone or do anything with the SIM card, so most of the paranoia is gone.
I don't know what to do now. These relatives stole from me before and show a very shady character so I really don't know what they're doing. All I know is they stay on their laptop all the time and carry around several phones.
Thoughts?
Thoughts?
>>17403048
Prepare to sold into sex slavery
>>17403048
Also get a new phone under a different name and don't connect to the house WIFI
Psychiatry resident here on a slow day. Ask away
I've been dealing with Bipolar 1 for 3 years now, currently unmedicated. I feel 10x better than I did on the meds they had me on. However, I actively have to control my emotions, especially my anger. I'm like the Hulk, I'm always angry, filled with blind rage. On the meds, I was sedated to the point where I couldn't normally function, but my emotions flatlined. Is Bipolar 1 eligible for claiming disability?
>>17402927
It sounds like you need anger management so you can learn more about yourself, the causes of your anger, and how to properly control said anger/emotions.
And no, you don't get a free ride just because you're a ticking time-bomb.
>>17402927
What mess we're you on, and what kinds of problems were you having with them? What were your manic episodes like?
There's a longer story here but a couple of months ago, I fucked up with my girlfriend of two years by getting lingerie pics from another girl, and when she said she wanted to go on a break after prom (I'm one year older than her and she just graduated), it messed me up a lot and I tried to seek comfort in getting nudes from the same girl.
After I did I immediately felt overwhelmed with guilt and told her the next day, it wasn't easy but we worked through things. I know I was stupid and wrong but I did everything I could to show her I love her.
The only thing is I never told her I sent the girl a dick pic in return that night, feeling like I owed her. I just started thinking about it again. It's not worth bringing up again and pouring salt in old wounds, is it?
>>17402718
Better than me. I cheated on my girl, she broke up with me, then I went and fucked some other slut, but I was only wanting a blow job.. Then I felt I owed her a dicking, and now I got herpes.
Does anyone have any actual advice?
>>17402761
not worth bringing up. Just something that got lost in translation. Make sure you break all contact with the girl you sent dick pics to, and try to not get caught in the future.
Why am I not doing the one thing that I'm good at.
I am fairly good at painting pictures. I started painting with oils 13 years ago. Sold about 50 paintings the first couple of years. Went to art school. Got screwed over by academia and distracted by my love of building things. Instead of just painting canvases that sold easily, I made a big deal out of conceptualism and artistic discourse. Gravitated towards the abject, using garbage for materials, which I only show in self-initiated exhibitions, and don't sell. No gallery knows about me, and I haven't tried to look for someone to represent my work.
I could at any time just go back to painting stuff that people actually like and want. I could be making money.
I think the best two reasons I can come up with in regards of why I don't manage to make enough money, is that I'm afraid of success and that I get bored with 'good' ideas. I like stupid nonsensical ideas, and I don't expect people to be into it, which means I can go many months without making anything, because there's so little point in making anything good - or rather, making something good is predictable. The world is so full of 'clever' artists, and I don't want to contribute to the pool of decadence.
What would anon want to see more of? I need ideas that aren't my own, because I can't seem to get inspired by my own ideas.
Pic related, it's a painting I made with a friend that I think is both beautifully painted and silly enough to be funny.
Anyone?
>>17402783
Maybe you should just do what you did before, get together with a friend and paint something that you feel like
>>17402364
>I need ideas
You don't need ideas, just paint some stupid shit that any retarded can do and make up a story behind that shit.
Always a retarded will buy it, doesn't matter the cost.
This is how modern art works.
Pic related.
Not sure if many of you have experienced this.
But who has had a girl you once liked treat you with indifference/disdain, but suddenly started liking you after you got over them/moved on?
I have a situation where I want this to happen to me, but I'd like to hear from others first.
Well if you are truly over them, then there affection towards you will come out of the blue. Sounds like you are not over who ever you want to come back. But maybe I'm misunderstanding you. can you elaborate?
>>17402002
Like i said, I want this situation to happen to me.
I'm working on the getting over part, but I'll try to elaborate.
She is being an attention whore who has no interest in you other than the validation that she is desirable.
Dunno why the fuck you'd want that happen to you. Those whores are cancerous.
Tell me your problems and I will tell you the solutions.
I want to find a nice girl to marry and have lots of kids with. What do I do?
find a girl then retard
>>17401299
Easy. Go to a place with nice girls like coffee shops or gyms or general hobby places and be a nice guy. Maintain your dignity by not humping her leg or putting her on a pedestal with the usual "I want to do everything for you" or "I want to make you happy" approaches and go into it with the mindset that you want to be with someone that isn't necessarily this girl, and eventually you'll find someone and things will come together. Work to fix the issues in the relationship, be open about yourself, and don't stop trying. You will be successful if you just try.
GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off.
So guys,
Does swallowing the red pill actually work?
>>17401282
Depends
Don't swallow the /pol/ pill
Girls: if you fell for somebody else, would you leave your current long term partner?
Or more generally, if you were in a long-term relationship and fell for somebody else, how would you react?
>why is it that all kinds of birth control/contraceptives seem to suck
>condoms seem least likely to fuck over your body, but it's relatively easy to get pregnant even with those on
>IUDs and pills cause hormonal imbalances
>yes i know there are liberal women praising that stuff like it makes the sun shine out their asses
>but I've also heard the horror stories
>and the praisers are the same people who gush over menstrual cups, which are honestly horrifying
>sterilization is worse
>vasectomies can cause post-vasectomy pain syndrome, which is no joke
>tube tying is even more risky
Honestly, it's like for most methods, your body biochemistry and hormones will just scream "fuck you for trying to change things around you, imma screw you over". But still, come on, it's CURRENT YEAR, you'd think medical science would've gotten this shit down pat. But no, I think they're more concerned with marketing their products than improving- what with many doctors disliking to talk about post-vasectomy pain even being a thing.
Tragically, their marketing appears to be working, because so many people now seem to think that this is the age of having all the sex you want- I very much wish that is the case, but I would have to be deliberately ignorant of all those lousy contraceptives and the risks of STDs.
So yeah, really, is there a way to not have babies while screwing someone, and which doesn't suck? I really don't want kids, and I might be getting married to someone opposed to abortion. I can certainly persuade him into using condoms at first, but he might eventually want kids, so advice on female birth control methods specifically, would be preferable
>inb4 Essure
>the tsunami of complaints over Essure only proves my point on the med industry rushing and over-marketing products
>>17401078
What about Implanon? Those sound pretty damn effective and don't seem to have too many side effects, and they only last four years.
Paragard is a copper based IUD that does not use hormones. It's an alternative for women who can't use hormonal birth control as the copper kills the sperm on contact. It's fairly reliable and hasn't really affected my body or periods. Been using it for 5 years now.
>>17401078
I can't give any solid advice on different birth control methods, my girlfriend just takes the pill and is happy with that. That's all we use.
But menstrual cups! They're not horrifying. My girlfriend absolutely swears by hers, and I'm the one that suggested it to her. She doesn't have to pay for tampons or pads, she never has strings hanging out, there's no potential of toxic shock from tampons, she can go to the bathroom with it in, and it's no harder to put in than a tampon. And it's actually an easier cleanup than a tampon or pad, you can just dump it out in the toilet and flush, instead of requiring a garbage can or baggie to put it in if there isn't a can. Also it's not the most pleasant benefit, but she can actually see what colour and consistency the discharge is, to make sure everything is normal.
She thought it was super weird at first, but now she couldn't live without it. It makes both of our lives easier, seriously.
what the fuck do women even want?
>>17400788
women don't know what they want
In my experience, someone who can never have problems, never make mistakes, and treat them like a queen every single second of every day. Then they go like pictures on instagram that say shit like "you deserve someone who treats you lke a princess even after they have you"
>>17400788
A giant dick made out of chocolate that ejaculates money and diamonds
>Black and very unattractive
>fit, social and I have a lot of friends
>I'm in graduate school and I have a house
>24, never had a girlfriend
>Girls keep telling me how nice and wonderful I am but they don't want to date me
>The girl i like told me that I was marriage material but she doesn't want to date me
>What do?
At least you have friends who are nice despite not wanting to date you - are they attractive girls? They don't want to date you because you're unattractive, that's the only reason. They would if you were attractive, that is just how it all works.
>>17399668
Increase your attractiveness. You wouldn't date a girl you weren't attracted to because she had a lot of friends. Girls are the same. Become someone worth dating physically or lower your standards to someone who is also very unattractive.
>>17399692
Yeah, I figured as much. Nothing is more annoying than when your female friend who is single tells you that you deserve a girlfriend but then turns you down when you ask her out. Why even fucking tell me all that shit.