i want to die
how do i do this
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You don't
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Try out old age
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OP, you'll have eternity to be dead, why not live for a little bit while you have the chance?
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Feel like my life is over. What to do? 2016-08-07 04:46:22 Post No.17436433
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As I've turned 18 I feel like my life is over. I'm 19 y/o now but this past year it's felt like everything I've done, everything I prepared for through schooling and the like has led up to this anticlimactic ending.
>pic related, i feel like everything shinji went through, in my circumstance was fast forwarded to this scene, right after the beginning of the first episode.
I feel like I'm just waiting to die now. I'm not depressed, and I know my death might come a bit early since I am a bit irresponsible but everything feels too complete now. I don't have any passion for anything in specific, I just want to hang out here, play vidya and masturbate. I have no urge to do anything else, and everyone else is perfectly content. I am not saying my life is perfect, nor am I saying it is terrible because I know other's are truly suffering right now, but I just can't relate with anything anymore.
I have made a list of some skills I want to gain over the next few years to become very competent as a human being. Stuff like coding, making music, 3d animation, yada yada yada.
Does anyone else feel like this?
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yeah, im 18 and i know that feel
stop watching porn
if you smoke weed stop smoking weed
if you dont, start doing physical exercise
if you can afford it, get therapy
dont know what else to tell you
good luck
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also stop watching anime, read books.
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Guys I need to quit weed. Should I quit weed? I'm torn...every time I smoke a bowl, I think to myself
>damn that whole bowl and I barely feel different
>being high used to be psychedelic, man I miss that
>I know I'll quit for two weeks easy
I quit for a day, and bam, immediate depression, and it's not crippling/suicidal or anything, but presently there's enough depressing shit in my life to put me on a couch for 5min to an hour just thinking about it.
And I don't eat and can't focus and I don't do shit, the dreams are like real life memories which is cool but overall it sucks, I have gotten past the depressive mood swing phase before, but meanwhile my life doesn't get any better, so I pick up a bag just to get my goals going through my mind again and basically figure out what the hell is going on with me, I load that bowl
>mm
>sweet sweet sweet medicine
And suddenly everything's gonna be alright, I feel functional again, I ask myself why the fuck would I put up with another week of that shit, when a bowl of weed gets me to clean my room, brush my teeth, plan tomorrow, laugh, smile, be happy, feel normal ETC
What do?
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Get rid of your weed and stop yourself from buying more. You are weak, as is shown by the fact that you try to justify your relapses to yourself. You need to go cold turkey and literally get rid of everything weed related.
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You smoke too much. Stop smoking for like a week or two. When you smoke again you'll get high as shit
You're tolerance is high. Everything in moderation. If you can't moderate your weed intake you should probably stop
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It's not hard to justify relapses when the choice to me is essentially, be happy this week for 10 bucks, or be miserable for some unknown stretch of time but it'll get better don't worry. I mean give me something, I need good reasons, good mind tricks, preferably from other weed enthusiasts who have been here done that.
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douchey guy wont leave my gf alone 2016-08-07 04:28:56 Post No.17436383
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this guy has tried literally everything to get my gf to hang with him and before i explain anything, my gf is not an idiot and she's acknowledged that the guy is pretty.. let's just say not the brightest person.
anyway, he's tried snap chatting her topless, telling her he found her favorite pokemon brand new and packaged in his garbage, asks her at least twice a fucking week to hang whenever local things happen and like, it's just getting really annoying. i'm really heated right now and i'm not an overprotective person but today in the group chat that i barely participate in, he asks her to hang with him at some bloc party thing going on in town and it just pissed me off. idk, i really dont know what the fuck is going on anymore because she doesn't sleep with me, it's only if she's pretty drunk or feeling really bad for me i guess.
i'm fed up, i'm pretty done with most of the things going on in life and just wanna know if i should be buying this shit, if he's someone i need to deal with somehow or if this is some bigger picture that i just cannot see.
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Kill your girlfriend and fuck the guy. No one will ever mess with you again.
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It's pretty obvious.
Break up with your gf because she's riding that boy's dick
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Do you know him personally? If so tell him if he doesn't stop that you're going to fuck him up
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can't get references from professors 2016-08-07 04:20:10 Post No.17436354
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can't get references from professors
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I'm an engineering major and I've got no professors to give me references.
To be honest I struggled through many classes so I don't think many of my professors will agree to serve as a reference for me.
Should I get a professor to serve as a reference when job hunting? What are the alternatives?
And if so, how do I go about asking when I've not been an A student. It's rather embarrassing.
What do I do now?
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>What are the alternatives?
Were you retarded to buy into the "study STEM and you'll have to fight the job offers off!" meme, and you don't have a part time job or something?
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yeah i was retarded.
do you have any advice to give, or are you just on the advice board to ridicule people looking for advice?
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>>17436369
Get a job, that's my advice.
Or just ask your professors for references. As long as they know who you are, you made an effort to show you were trying, and you're not a douchebag, they might be willing to vouch for you
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Am I spending my 20's wrong? 2016-08-07 04:19:40 Post No.17436353
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Am I spending my 20's wrong? I feel as if I have not done very much. I know people my age who have kids and are married already. I personally am super scared of kids and petrified of marriage. As a male, this shit seems terrifying.
However, I feel as if my life is less fulfilling. I am astounded by people who even decide to get married. It seems like such a full retard idea.
Is there even a correct way to spend your 20's? I am obviously not having sex or partying much. What will I think when I am 30?
Is there stuff every male in his 20's should do before he is 30 or older?
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You could always travel. Or pick up a hobby
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>travel
Don't fall for this meme. If you do, don't go somewhere far or expensive
>hobby
This is good advice. Try a few things and see what you like best
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>>17436353
Only advice I can think of is do what YOU want. There isn't a 'correct' way to live your 20's. I mean, society dictates that we should be drinking like fish and fucking like rabbits, but as far as this anon is concerned, living your life according to someone else's norms is a recipe for disappointment.
If you don't want marriage or kids, then cool, you don't have to.
Take some time to reflect on what you want in your life, then go and get it. I believe in you mate!
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How do i recover from academic burnout? 2016-08-07 04:12:36 Post No.17436332
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How do I recover quickly and effectively from academic burnout? My exams are coming up, I've worked so hard that now when I wake up my eyes feel tired, my neck hurts, some joints are sore, when i try to work i start to get migraines, I originally thought this was flu, but it isn't serious enough to be that, and it is continuously recurring in this period of stress and i've lately been pushing myself very hard. Please anons, is there anyway I can get back in shape in correct health and mood for preparations for exams in about 2 weeks time. Thanks for your replies, sorry for run on sentences, really tired, can't really think straight now. Serious answers appreciated.
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what are you so stressed about?
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Exams, failure, expectations, competitive school, etc.
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I'm not sure if I should marry my cousin through an arranged marriage. He is my first cousin (he is my mothers brother's son) and the marriage will not take place right away, my father just wants us to get engaged and stay engaged for a few years while I am finishing up my education. It's not forced, my parents have given me the choice but my mom really approves of him and it's a little obvious that if I don't pick him she will be very disappointed. She just feels like she can really trust him. I'm 20 and he is 27.
My parents had brought up the idea of our marriage in may of 2015 and they told me to just watch him and see if I like him. Well, I actually did end up liking his personality. He is smart, kind, positive, and a very hard worker. He is well educated and has a good career. Overall, I find his qualities attractive. In the looks department I think he is fine although my brother has complained he has a weak chin.
My hesitations in marrying him are that:
1)He is my cousin. Someone told me intermarriage like this could work only for one generation. After that I shouldn't do it but at least it makes me feel a little better if we have kids (i'm not sure yet but i'm not opposed to it and I feel like it'll just happen).
2) I'm not sure if i'm making him out to be greater than he is. For awhile I felt like he was my soulmate and it was meant to be. He even came into my life after a heartbreak and I actually really do have this gut feeling that our personalities will get along well. But i'm not sure because of the way my mom talked about him and becuase maybe I was thinking of marriage that I ended up projecting my ideals onto him.
What is making me so conflicted is that if I say no now I may end up loosing the opportunity in marrying him forever and I may end up losing a really good guy :(
Pic not related, it's just a girl that I think is pretty.
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He doesn't sound like anything special. He sounds exactly like how every other guy presents himself when he wants to get a girl.
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He doesn't know actually. My parents only old me and wanted me to watch him to see if I like him. They haven't even brought up the idea to his parents yet so he doesn't know. My mom says that's good becuase he's not putting on an act.
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pics!!! we'll rate him >:)
I have issues with eye contact that I believe weirds people out.
My first problem is my tendency to look to the floor or slightly above a person's eyes when talking to them. Is it normal to stare right into a person's eyes when talking to them?
My second problem occurs when I'm not in conversation with a person. I find myself making lingering eye contact with people while walking across campus and while sitting in class. I'm more likely to do this when I see somebody I know or an attractive female. I have a very hard time keeping myself from doing this. I've tried looking a fixed object in the distance and looking at my feet, but these solutions are impractical. Wat do?
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Look at them in the eye.
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I dunno, I was always told that you should look people in the eyes when speaking to them. I think communicates a level of respect. Also gives a better impression in general. It implies a level of confidence.
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>Is it normal to stare right into a person's eyes when talking to them?
Yes, it shows confidence. And if you're talking w/ a chick, it's creates some level of intimacy
But you should not death stare them. Look to the side for a second every now and again, but re initiate eye contact
Never ever look down or up when talking
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jealous of friend who landed the same job as me 2016-08-07 04:02:05 Post No.17436295
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this year i'll be a senior in college, getting my bachelor's degree in neuroscience. my specialty field is behavioral neuroscience, and i spent all of last year and this summer doing animal research. i'm quite adept at stereotaxic surgery involving rats, and one of my professor/primary investigator's favorite students. he asked me last school year if i would be willing to be a TA for two of the upper level classes this coming year along with another guy who works in the lab. i'm excited to be a TA, and i know i'll do an excellent job (this type of research/lab procedure is basically what i want to do for the rest of my life.) however, my professor needed more TAs, and he had the other TA (who has more of a senior role in the lab) ask my best friend to TA as well. her specialty is not in this field of psychology, and she is no where near as experienced as myself or the other TA dude when it comes to surgeries. anyway, I can't help but feel... well... jealous? i'm upset that i'll be ranked similarly to my friend who isn't experienced, and doesn't take the job anywhere as seriously as i do. this is my passion, and to her, this is just a way to earn some extra cash. i feel so awful and petty for being upset about this. obviously my talent will shine through regardless, and besides, she's one of my best friends. how do i get a grip and come to terms with the fact that we'll both be doing this TA gig??
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You're just a cunt. That's all. Don't worry, there are tons of people like you
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yeah, i feel like a cunt. hence why i posted here, i would like to be not-a-cunt. thanks.
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>>17436295
Have you tried growing up? Passion or no passion, you're not going to be able to handle the real world if you throw a tantrum because someone else - your FRIEND - is doing your job with you
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Hey dudes, so I'm in a situation.
>7 years ago
>have girlfriend
>first love, head over heels, ect.
>breaks up with me
>never get over her
>improve life, get fit, get education, get job ect.
>she contacts me
>misses me, she never got over me
>we meet
>she is abusing alcohol, smoking a ton, talks about changing but doesn't show it
>I still get along with her base self, but don't like all her problems
I'm thinking abandon ship, right? Like I can't wait around and hope that she fixes her shit, like she claims she wants to. Time to drop the torch? Or do I stay and help her, and go for the fairy tale ending? I got my own problems too, but I don't think they are spilling over onto anyone else. Anyone think I'm making a mistake by moving on?
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Well, well logical choice would be to abandon ship , but really it all depends on the strength of your feelings for her and how much of your precious time are you willing to spend on one person.
Do you have the will to help her even though it might (often does) fail ?
Age is a factor as well, how old were you when both of you met ? How old are you now ?
Anyway, stay strong and congrats on getting fit !
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>>17436284
yes bro, just dump her and move on since you've already basically seen how much better your life has been without her
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Take her. Mold her to your liking.
Do not fuck up your second chance. What I would give to have a chance with my first love again
CLAIM HER
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Any job recommendations? Preferences:
>solitary
>low stress
>little training required
>money isn't that important
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mail carrier
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Security guard
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>mail carrier
>low stress
fuck you a thousand times.
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Girlfriend feels torn a lot of the time between spending time with me and social events with her friends. How to make her feel better? Can anyone relate?
She loves doing both, but if we're spending time together and she is informed of something going on like a bbq/picnic or something with her friends then she feels like she is missing out and i feel guilty and dont want her to miss out so i usually push for her to go do whatever it is and sometimes she will take my pushing the wrong way and think i don't want to spend time with her.
I don't particularly want to tag along either as her friends dont bring their partners either so i don't want to be an outsider and have my girlfriend worrying about if i'm bored or whatever.
This indecisiveness in her personality and fear of missing out often leads to her feeling anxious and worried of not pleasing everyone, this is why i try to make the decision for her a lot of the time and push her to do these things that come up.
Am I doing the right thing here? Can anyone else chyme in on this situation.
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Why not support her by going to said events? You should want to spend time with her regardless of what it may be. Not saying you have to go to everyone one, but offer to join once and a while.
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beat her into submission
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By this point i would like to but given the things ive said about her friends not bringing along their partners and them not particularly being my type of people means my girlfriend wont be able to relax and enjoy herself if i'm present with all of her friends there, we've discussed this aspect before and both agreed we like having our friend time and quality time together separate, not all of the time obviously but for the majority of events.
We're both lucky enough to have a decent amount of spare time so these social functions occur on a regular basis with her friends, this is why she often feels torn on where to spend her time.
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Do I tell my best friend that I have feelings for her? 2016-08-07 03:17:07 Post No.17436164
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Do I tell my best friend that I have feelings for her?
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(1/2) I'm wondering if I should share my feelings with my best friend. Here's some details:
I'm male, she's female. We've been friends for about 10 years. She's been in a successful relationship for 9 years and it appears to be going great, they'll be moving in together soon.
She and I (and two other friends) are a very, very close-knit group, and essentially share everything with each other. It's great and I love every moment of it.
I'm wondering if I should share my feelings with my best friend. Here's some details:
I'm male, she's female. We've been friends for about 10 years, ever since I met her in high school. She's been in a successful relationship for 9 years and it appears to be going great, they'll be moving in together soon. While I'm not exactly close with her boyfriend, he's a great guy and I have no problems with him.
She and I (and two other friends) are a very, very close-knit group, and essentially share everything and anything with each other; all of our secrets, our desires, feelings, hopes and dreams. It's great and I love every moment of it.
Here's where the problem is, it was only in the past several months that I started truly developing feelings for her, and it feels like the one "secret" that I haven't told anybody. She considers herself asexual, so I'm sure there's no sexual desire floating around on her end, but she's very affectionate. We've held hands, we hug, we've even cuddled and spooned every now and then, but this is only when her boyfriend is not around that day. Even though I don't mind the guy at all, I can feel my heart just sink when I find out he's coming along when we're all going to hang out, because I know it means there's just no chance that I'll be holding her hand that day, even for a second. (cont)
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(2/2) For a long time, her boyfriend lived two hours away finishing up his degree, so he wasn't in the picture much, but recently he graduated and now the two of them are moving in together and unfortunately I'll probably be seeing less of her.
Those details aside, it's a lasting friendship that has proven the test of time and I know we'll stay friends, but I don't know if I should let her know how I feel, or if I should just try to fight through it. I have no goal here, I know she won't leave her boyfriend even if she loved me back, and the best case scenario is that practically nothing will change, but it hurts to not express my feelings to one of the few people that I share everything with.
My worry is the possibility that 1) she might pity me, or see me with less respect, or 2) she might think it means our friendship has less merit, because it's clouded with other feelings.
tl;dr do I tell my best friend of 10 years that I love her simply for the sake of expressing my feelings, even when I know if she loves me back, she also loves her boyfriend and would likely never leave him
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no.
Go out with one of her ugly friends. If you have sex, and are good, this ugly friend will tell her about it. Then maybe if you get her drunk one day, she will fuck you, but don't expect a relationship. She's above your league.
So long story short I've been with my bf for several years with no problems. All of a sudden he stopped wanting to have sex with me even though he tells me nothing is wrong. I'm pretty depressed about it so I went over to my friends house who has also been going through some issues and we started drinking to forget our problems. Well we drank too much and the next thing I remember was waking up next to him in bed the next morning. We agreed that we didn't mean to do it, we should forget it happened, and never drink that much again. Well it's been a few weeks and I started feeling really sick and moody and then I missed my period. I took a pregnancy test and I'm pregnant with my friend's kid. One horrible mistake and now I don't know what to do. I haven't even told him yet because I don't know how to break it to him. What the fuck should I do? Inb4 "you're a piece of shit for cheating." I know I'm a piece of shit, we were both blackout drunk, and I don't want the only mistake I've ever made in my relationship to result in our breakup.
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gee wonder why he wanted to stop having sex with you.
> I don't want the only mistake I've ever made in my relationship to result in our breakup.
so i guess the next step for you now is to lie to him and tell him the baby is his.
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I can't lie because we haven't had sex. And I would never saddle him with a baby that isn't his. And I don't know why he doesn't wanna have sex with me. I'm attractive, I'm not bitchy to him. Literally nothing changed. He just started saying that he hasn't been in the mood lately.
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He could be cheating on you. People don't just stop wanting to have sex out of nowhere unless they're going through a traumatic experience or they're finding it somewhere else.
Also fucking talk to your fucking friend. Tell him you're pregnant and discuss keeping or abortion. Are you seriously that oblivious on what to do?