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The past few days she's seemed kinda distant and not her usual self. She gets down sometimes but it seems a bit different. I asked her what was wrong today and she said she was just really tired and that she had a dream that she cheated on me and we broke up and that the dream upset her.

Her dream concerns me. I asked her what happened in the dream but got grumpy and said she can't remember. Is she thinking about cheating on me? I find that a weird dream to have, I'm not sure if she actually dreamt of sleeping with someone else or she just had a dream where she knew she cheated or something. Either way I found it weird. How should I interpret?

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> I am travelling to Japan right now with my bf and another couple.

> At first we wanted to travel alone, but then this girl (we were not close, but she seemed okay) proposed that we should go together to share some expenses.

> We really did not know they could be so obnoxious. She is incredibly rude and loud and I am sometimes so ashamed of the situations we are in because of her behaviour.

> Her bf always has to make comments and comparisons and always says he does not like the food or how stuff is so expensive.

> They also seem to be fighting a lot and have weird relationship, she acts like a mom and he is always dissatisfied.

> On top of that they think everything is so expensive and judge us for spending too much.

> Also, back home she told us she does not have fb, but now she has to drag us around just to take a photo and post it on fb.

> We tried to make it clear that we do not have to go together all the time, but she always wants to go where we want to go.

> I think that somehow, they think we are good friends and have a great time together.

How can we enjoy the rest of our trip? And no killing them is not an option.

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>want to be popular
>don't ever want to smoke
what do?

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How much chores should a 20 something neet do?

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I am in my early 20s and I more often than not feel attracted to women in their late 20s or even early 30s. The kind of women like pic related that works at an office or an university. Put it quite simply, how do I seduce them (aside from money)? What are some important qualities to have in order to be seen as a prospect?

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I've been with my gf for maybe 5 or 6 months

the first 2-3 months were weird

I found out later that at the start she was still actively seeing somebody else she was in a long distance relationship with

she went to visit him and fucked for 10 days straight after the first time we were intimate together but weren't really official

then we dated for 2 months

after 2 months she went on a secret 4 day trip which I figured out another few months later was to see him

she never told me I figured it out and confronted her

she was also actively talking to him even after the trip I had to basically force her to cut contact and she pleaded not to but eventually did

they at least kissed and she slept together with him for the whole trip

she says she would have fucked him but she was on her period which is true

she says she went to decide if she still loved him or could love me or some shit

she says we weren't exclusive but I think I was pretty damn clear that I was and wanted to be

she never explicitly said she was exclusive though, she just left shit out, I thought it would have been insulting to ask her if she was seeing other guys since we were actively fucking nearly daily

she said after the trip she realized she wanted to be committed to me and that she madly loves me

now she's sending like 200-300 texts a day like these apologizing etc and saying she loves me and is committed now

shes in a different country right now so its text only

I do love her still but I don't know how much I should take

what do you guys think

this is the sicily trip guy by the way if anybody remembers that, I haven't had time for a follow up but if any anons remember my thread I can post a follow up here

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so I'm 27, single and a virgin. I'm not a hopeless or kissless virgin and I've had girlfriend's in the past. My most recent girlfriend expressed interest in being intimate with me but I never got around to it due to feeling like I'd be taking advantage of her (she claimed she loved me but I have a feeling she's just prone to getting into relationship's with people she's bad for out of fear of being alone). There's been a couple of girls from my past that I had been attracted to who at some point or another told me that they were attracted to me but never acted on it. I take this to mean that if I try hard enough I can find a girl I'm attracted to and have sex with her if I wanted to. The problem is that the girls that I'm currently attracted to all seem to fall into two major groups. The first is younger girls, ages 18-24 who have little experience with, "real world," who would probably be down to try out all the freaky sex stuff I've always wanted to do but never did due to being preoccupied with my own issues with depression (major depressive disorder) and anxiety) out of their own sense of curiosity. The second group is single mom's who are still young (mid to late 20's) who are really attractive but very clearly looking for a long term relationship. The second group is the one I probably have a better chance with. My problem arises from the thought that in order to have success with women from either group I'd have to go into it being slightly disingenuous about my motivation's and manipulative about how I deal with them emotionally in order to do so. I find doing that to be very difficult as I'm not good at being dishonest or manipulative with people unless I decide to consider them as my enemy (which I'd really rather not do here). So my question to you guys is should I just stop giving a fuck about all this and get laid already or would I be better off taking the long road with someone I genuinely like?

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I was diagnosed with autism a decade ago, but recently, I am become more and more self aware of my different thought patterns. I think even before the diagnosis I noticed something was off. I was made fun of a lot, and later, given self esteem issues. I tried to tell myself that autism has no effect, but it does. Recently, I've been more embarrassed by myself and way of thinking. There are times where it gotten too deep into depression and I would think negative things. I wish my parents didn't give birth to me because I think one of them had the gene. I just want to be normal, and think like normal people. It seems no matter how well I try to act, people will look at me as a disabled person or someone lower. I've been raised to think I was equal, but really, I feel like a functioning moron. I can't even take myself seriously on opinions or anything else.

Any advice? I can't find anything on this subject. I also can't go to therapist because of money reasons.

Picture unrelated.

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Hello adv,

I come today with a burden on my chest. I'm an Asian woman in her late 20s and I come from a Southeast Asian country. I wont be mentioning from where because I want as much anonymity as possible in case someone who might now me comes across this post.

I am married to a Nordic man and we are currently living in Finland. We have been together for almost 4 years now. I don't speak the language and could barely understand it so I am currently enrolled in a language course and I have been receiving some aid from the government. €700+ after taxes. My husband mostly pays for everything and every month I have to send €200 to my mother back home for her medicine and other medical expenses.

My husband is not poor nor is he rich but he lives comfortably enough and has no real financial problems as he has his own house and a stake in the family business. He's a few years older than me, in good shape and travels abroad regularly (at least 2-3 months of traveling every year).

I, on the other hand, have no financial resources to speak of and have left everything behind when I move here. I have no friends, no family or acquaintances nearby. The only people I see outside of my language courses is his family and the one thing that kept me sane is our pet dog. Don't get me wrong, his family is wonderful and I get along pretty well with them. They're the kind of family I always wished I had while growing up so I am more than happy with them.

We live in the middle of nowhere where the nearest neighbor is almost a kilometer away. There's not much to see but forests and farmland. We dont even have lamposts or proper roads for at least 10 kilometers!


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>Be me
>22
>Got a killer gf 2 months ago, first in the past 3 years
>Happiest I've been in the past 4 years since I was put on medication for depression
>Never took it because it wasn't a real happy
>GF was happiest little ball of greatness for first month and a half
>Now she's started talking to me at most for two whole convos a day that I start with her
>She's barely seen me in the past week, almost as if she doesn't want to
>Have trust issues do to somebody from 3 years ago, and i'm deathly afraid of abandonment from mother and father
>Spent the past two nights being a little bitch and crying myself to sleep because of the overall fear
>Can't stop thinking that what we had for that first month doesn't exist and I always feel like I'm annoying her

Any Ideas on what to do about this overall situation, as the bored says, I'm just here for advice on the subject. I honestly don't know if I could live properly if this happens again, or if I'd even want to.
Every time that I had brought it up that she was acting more different she just avoided it and just last night she had said that "A lot changes in a month" and that's all I've had. Anything would help a paranoid man at this point.

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in 2 days i will turn 25, i live in the states.

Does /adv/ know what kind of resources I could apply myself for, before i turn 25? a lot of scholarships, etc, have an age cap of 24.
I'm more specifically referring to resources that would help me better myself, or lead me to have a better future.

I'm willing to provide some more details if it helps with suggestions.. Any ideas?

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There's this dumb bitch I'm trying to forget, but can't. Is this love?

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How to make myself eat more vegetables and fruit and actually like it? My diet is crappy and I sure as hell don't get enough micronutrients. I like to eat cucumber and salad in sandwiches, but those don't even have much nutrients. Berries are good but too expensive. I might eat a banana every now and then, but I get sick of them quickly. Apples make my stomach ache and oranges are awful. I like orange juice though, but I heard you shouldn't drink that a lot.

All the veggies that are considered healthiest are disgusting as fuck. I hate broccoli with passion.

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What do you say to someone who says they don't want a relationship because they need to love themselves first?

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I've been having chest pains across the front of my upper chest for about two hours now, and I'm kind of worried. They feel deep, and not necessarily at the heart, but more in the center. It doesn't hurt when I breathe, but when I move my upper torso/shoulders and lay down it feels like something is squeezing on it harshly. It also hurts when I lift my arms. Nothing is numb or twitching.

Stats:

>21 yr old female
>5'9" 313 lbs
>I have considerably severe hypothyroidism and PCOS.. I am on medications for both
>I'm on a high dose of estrogen and my breasts have grown a bra size in 2 weeks
>I ate pretty poorly today, but for the most part I've been eating a good diet and exercising regularly (doctors orders)

I've never felt this sensation before. Can it be any of those things causing these kinds of chest pains? Has my fat caught up with me, giving me a heart attack? Or am I just getting scared over a lazy fart? All I get in a Google search are inconclusive answers.