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>be me
>have a friend who is a 20 y/o girl
>one day, her best friend's dad called her up to meet him at wendy's to "discuss his daughters boyfriend"
>when my friend showed up, they briefly talked about the boyfriend, and then the father asked her for $500
>my friend is a very unassertive person, and in a panic she gave him the money
>the father promised to pay her back, and at a later date gave her $150 which he asked for back a few days later so he could mail her a check.
>my friend, being nervous and unassertive again, gave him back his money
So i know she is being stupid, but any /adv/ in this situation? I'm thinking she should tell her friend, but the father begged her not to and now she is afraid of "betraying him" and hurting the relationship with her best friend. I want to help, but this is such a weird situation i dont know what to do.
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Yes? Tell someone? Get video proof of them exchanging this shit?

$500 is no fucking small amount of money, and god knows what he fucking needs $650 dollars for, and is acting so sketchy.

You or somebody else needs to go with her when she does these 'meet-ups' because she is being taken advantage of.
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>>17439295
>650
First of all, its only 500
Second of all, 500 is a small amount of money
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>>17439279
You need to tell your friend right now to tell her parents about the situation, and you DEFINITELY need to make sure she does not meet up again with this man alone. Something sounds seriously fishy about this guy, and god forbid he tries to rape her or hurt her for more money. The fact that he asked her not to tell his daughter is sending serious warning bells out.

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I posted an ad on craigslist to give away some games. I posted several pictures of the games with my laptop. I was in a hurry and the the text of the ad said that I was giving away everything pictured for free to the first person to reply. Craigslist is notorious for people who don't reply after you email them or who just don't show up. So I put on the bottom of my ad that I guarantee everything I offer, always reply, follow through, etc.

Well, I had people reply looking at my laptop, not just the games. It's less than a year old and I dropped a bit of cash on it at best buy because it's okay for gaming. I didn't intend to be giving away my laptop but is it the right thing to do to give it to the first person that replied? Did I just chump myself?
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>>17439274
If you put a lot of money towards it and you're not in a good position to be giving it away, you could tell the truth, and say including the laptop was an error and is not up for grabs, or lie and say it has already been claimed. Mistake was made, but in my experience with craigslist, people can be rather understanding.
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>>17439293
He knows that it hasn't been taken. He wasn't happy when he asked for the specs and I said it wasn't part of the deal. I sent him the specs, kind of confirming that I'd give it away :-/
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>>17439317
He may not have been happy, but morals aside, you had no intention of giving it away. If the guy isn't reasonable about an error, then it might not be a good idea to do business with him. Also should probably edit your ad so it uses pictures without the laptop in frame, that way more people don't request the laptop.

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What do you think of guys with girl names?

Like a dude named Kelly or something

What's the limit to you?

Do I have any chance of dating?
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>>17439203

if ur name is kelly simply introduce yourself as kel

or do what i do and just use an entirely different name. everyone calls me Christopher.

my names Richard
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>>17439203
Is your name Sue?
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>>17439212
Nothing wrong with Richard/Dick, imo

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What are some standard first dates?
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>>17439202
Fish Market
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>>17439202

depends how heavy it is.

casual date is going out for coffee. slutty date is going out for drinks. romantic date is going to dinner.
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Bowling at night.

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Does anyone need a canadian 28 y/o bf? I've got a decent job, some ambitions to self improvement, non judgemental but with some strong morals, ok looking, and a bit nerdy. If I fit what you might like, please comment within
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You're desperate, aren't you, mate?
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>>17439110

Well, yeah
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>>17439106
Is the lobster a good film?

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How to stop getting fat? Being neet is hell.
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>>17438912
Eat less, exercise.
It is not rocket science.
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>>17438912
Thats disgusting
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>>17438912
>How to stop getting fat? Being neet is hell.
That looks a bit like me. Most important thing is to eat less, then comes to eat right and then comes exercise.

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So....I'm not sure what's going on with my roommate, but I definitely have a crush on her. It's weird, and I don't know what to do about it, so I'll just share the relevant info.

I'm a 28 year old guy. I moved in to an apartment at the end of May with S, a 26 year old college student . She had been living here alone for a while, had a 2nd room, and needed a roommate. S is friends with the girl I was seeing at the time, L. At the suggestion of L, when I needed a place to live, she suggested her friend. I dated L for about 4 months, and just earlier this week it ended.

On Wednesday, I get home from work. It's around 11 at night. I walk in the apartment, and it's quiet, and about a minute after I get in, my roommate comes out of her room roaring drunk. She was more friendly than usual, but that was probably the alcohol. We ended up talking and sharing until almost 1. Until this, we hadn't really spent too much time talking before. If you are cute, and can hold a conversation with me for more than an hour, I will probably start to have feelings for you. I don't think it was just me, though. Ever since that night, she's been more talkative with me. She hasn't mentioned her friend (my ex) or even asked about it. She's been stopping and chatting with me when we're home. She's been making vague plans for things we could do in the future, like cook breakfast for dinner together, play Pokémon Go, thrifting, etc. Today she texted me to chat while we were both working. Then later last night we played Pokemon Go for a little bit, after she got home from work, then we talked for another hour or so before she said she went to bed. Then she said if she didn't leave now we might end up talking all night

She's not seeing anyone that I know of. She recently had a breakup with a guy that she had been seeing for a bit, because it turned out that this guy was secretly married. So maybe she's feeling lonely too.

Am I being crazy? Am I making something out of nothing? Probably so.
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>>17438902

>Am I being crazy? Am I making something out of nothing? Probably so.

Probably not so. However, you will have to make a romantic move soon if you want to confirm.
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Sounds like she is opening up but even if she was interested I don't think you should go for it. Don't shit where you eat OP. Unless the idea of moving out because things become too sour between you two is something you dont mind then dont go for it.
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>>17438918

What makes you think so? I'm very distrustful of my own perspective when it comes to things like this, because I get proven wrong a lot.

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Average run of the mill people you'd run into, particularly people at college

Because if you don't have something to talk about that they are into, (and you have to know at least a little bit about it) then all your conversation is gonna be is little common niceties until you both go away


So what are some stock topics I can read up / watch up / whatever on?
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>>17438892
People they both know.
Events that happened in their community. News. Sports.
Your life. Their life.
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>>17438892
Smart people talk about ideas,
average people about events and
dumb people about people
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>mfw that make sense

Since most of the people I'm gonna run into aren't smart what events are interesting to college people?

Celebrities? Sports?

Cant really think of anything else

A while ago one guy said game of thrones and mocking all politicians

>18
>British accent
> ~6 feet tall
>long blond hair
>usually introverted but periodically extroverted
>limited experience (partially due to being homeschooled for half my life)

I'm starting at an elite liberal arts college in about 10 days, what advice have y'all to get some American pussy without being accused of rape etc? All my hs friends were awkward virgins, how do I associate with more alpha people during my time? Any game that Yankee birds like in particular?
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Bump that shit.
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>>17438810
Get in touch with as many people as possible, take part in activities for the college and be yourself times 10. Find a way to have something to talk about, with everyone while being pretend chad.
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>>17438853
>be yourself times 10

>autism does not compute

What do you mean? More enthusiastic? More assertive? More friendly?

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Met this girl and we hit it off really good, found a strong connection between us but found out she has had a boyfriend for around a year... I want her to be mine. Any tips on how to win her over?
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Girls are sluts. Just ask if she wants to hang out
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>>17438734
I talked to her boyfriend and her and she seems so loyal and faithful. He's lucky to have her but I want her. We do hang out regularly and I try to initiate or joke around about us being together, I've even dropped hints about liking her but she laughs it off... Even told me she was uncomfortable when I talk about trying to get with her
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>>17438741
>Even told me she was uncomfortable when I talk about trying to get with her
Then you need to kindly take the rejection and move on. At this point you're probably just pissing her boyfriend off,

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Sup guise
I'm going to be a pornstar for the first time tomorrow. After I get the money from my first paycheck should I get a manager/agent?
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>>17438684

>star
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Movie star here. Maybe you recognize me from my work as "man in background #5" or "cashier #3" from various films. All of my roles are non-speaking parts, probably because directors recognize I can effectively communicate with just my presence. Just wanted to brag since op is doing so already.
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Guys I'm really doing porn, I'm not lying, I live in Florida and I'm about to go down to Miami to do porn. Someone please give me some good advice

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Okay, at the moment I am feeling really well about myself, I have my anxiety controlled, and my insecurity is something in the past, but every time I talk with one of my parents they bring those past times to make me feel shitty, it does not bring my old problems back to life, I know myself too well to let someone fuck me up, also, I kinda love myself.

Why would someone, at most, a mother, bring these issues just as a way to win an argument?
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>>17438675
>Why would someone, at most, a mother, bring these issues just as a way to win an argument?
Narcissism. It's a way to keep you down so that you're kept under their control. They don't want you to get better.

You should look into the online support group raisedbynarcissists and see if you can find any other similarities. It's pretty eye opening for most people.
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>>17438739
Thanks a lot, I did some research about it, and I found that I feel similar as people with Borderline Personality Disorder, so I will dig deeper to find something to help myself, thank you!
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>>17438675
You're an adult, right?
So are they.
You have equal footing now.
Your parents gave birth to you, and it's great if you can have good bonds with them, but if they're exploiting your anxiety like this, just leave. You are your own free-thinking person that doesn't have to take shit from these people.

I am a 38 year old man who is currently dating a 26 year old trans-woman (male-to-female) and I admit to beating her on a regular basis. I cannot help myself. She is literally as stupid as any cisgender girl that it feels good to put her in her place. If she wants to be a woman she should be expected to know her place.

Well, recently. Her friend caught me slapping her and has threaten to call the police. My girlfriend is trying to convince her not to because this could lead to some very bad public attention, especially nowadays. A domestic abuse case involving a transgender person? SJWs would freak the fuck out and she doesn't want that kind of attention. Plus she always hated the transgender community and doesn't want to be outed as one.

However, her friend, who is a feminist bitch continues to threaten us about going to the police.

What should we do?
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Either stop hitting your friend or get better at hiding it
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How about you stop being a worthless excuse for a human being?

>>17438651
And which "friend", praytell, are you referring to?
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>>17438658
a trans, a feminist and a physical abuser

he only one not worthless is him desu

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So the ex is telling me about some guy she's met who's a mutual friend of her other ex, but her ex said for him not to talk to her cause she's trouble. Anyway, none of that matters at all. But she's messaging me last few days like 'aww so sad, situation so bad, however will I cope, what to do?' I'm not about to actually answer those questions so I just change the subject cause frankly I don't want to hear that. But the main question is, is she doing this to make me jelly, cause I've got no advice to give, and furthermore, if she's trying to make me jelly that means she's still into me right, and she's using this guy to get me jelly. Which btw, is exactly what I'd be doing to her if I had a girl somewhere because it would work.
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She might want you back, and is testing you.

She might not want you back, but she wants to know if you still want her. It's an ego thing, and a need to have the upper hand.

She might simply want to make you jelly.

She might be socially retarded, immature and self-absorbed and simply doesn't see how this is strange or uncomfortable.
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>>17438628
Why the fuck are you talking to an ex?
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>>17438935

Cause I'm still into her, and she's probably still into me.

>>17438932

Yeah well if it's 2 or 3 I'm not rising to it obviously, just changing subject immediately and acting blase. Assuming it's no1, what to do?

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Been hanging out w/ this gril for about a month, we're practically the same person. We instantly clicked from day 1, and have become romantically involved, kissing, all the basic stage one stuff.

Then, about two days ago, she suddenly cuts off communications. No texting, no snapchatting, no calling, no video chatting, completely out of the blue. she won't answer, or return.

I'm incredibly confused, we had a good thing going, and it suddenly died, from no seeming fault of my own.

I have no clue what's going on, and feel like shit. Any advice is welcome.
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Maybe you should visit her house and check if she is alright (´・ω・`) . Maybe she had an accident or she is going through something very though and just wants you to visit her.
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>>17438602
That's actually a really good idea, thank you. I just don't want to show up at her place unexpected, and come off as stalker-ish.
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>>17438637
Don't worry about it, just ask her straight away if everything is okay.

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