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>>17438491
was in the kindergarten. made some parkour tricks to make her fall in love with me. got kicked out of the kindergarten because they thought i was hyperactive

One day she kissed me on the cheek as an "hello", 5 minutes later I was literally jumping out of joy.

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OP here
> met Sofia at our sutdent association
> fall for her, ask her to a prom (traditional way, letter and everything)
> she says yes, invites me over to her place
>we watch two movies, halfway the second she sits on my lap and me start making out heavily
>she takes of het clothes, mine too
> spend the entire night in bed, kissing, snuggling, up to third base
> I've never been this far with a woman before
> fall in love eventually

>she's amazing
> great body, awesome personality, same humour
> every now and then she has lowkey panic attacks when she's with me
> she doesn't tremble or anything, but her mind is suddenly racing and panicking
>explains it to me
> I don't really know what to do
> she likes it when I say/do sweet things, but sometimes it's suddenly too clingy for her
> often it goes well, we talked about going in a holiday together

> out of the blue
> anon we need to talk
> she breaks up
> it hurt, but not as bad as I imagined

it's been about six months now
> one month ago she went on a five months exchange to Indonesia
> we had some really amazing goodbye sex the night she left
> still have contact now and then, used to sext in the beginning

I just miss her man, I want her back but I don't know how she would react

>My* age and younger

what is your job?

>>17438479

life is a cohesive process, and a sense of fulfillment rarely comes from a single thing. while we may attribute our fulfillment to a single thing, there are many people who achieve the same thing who feel nothing, because other parts of their life are lacking.

it seems to me you are realizing that the 'happily ever after' meme is just that: a meme. when we think of that life we imagine happy little casual moments of just coming home from work and seeing our wife. we dont realize that day in and day out that can become hard to appreciate, and 23 is hardly the time to start settling for that sort of thing.

I am not suggesting you break up with your girlfriend by any means, but rather that if you intend to keep her, and you intend to make this new journey of self (and life) discovery, she needs to be motivated to do the same. Women often are not, partly because they mature faster than men. men tend to want to find themselves up til their thirites. girls have 'found themselves' about a year after college and are ready to create the routine of life.

>>17438382

Well fat contains estrogen so losing it might be fucking with your testosterone levels and/or hormone balance.

Maybe she thinks you're losing the weight to find a more attractive grillfriend.

Maybe she's teasing you.

Maybe you just need to take it.

>>17438382
Just keep losing weight, especially if you were fat before and start looking for a new girl.
You should also try to talk to her about it if you haven't already.

>>17438382

Do you spend enough time with her? If your work out routine has kept your busier than normal, it could be that you're drifting apart in her opinion. For women sex in a relationship is often bound to how she feels about the relationship in general. If there's enough intimacy, closeness and romance, the willingness for sex as a culmination of this increases. Take a look at how your relationship fares. When's the last time you did something nice together? Or had a good conversations? Or did something romantic?

My bet is herpes or he's emotionally abused. Proceed but with caution, you'll be alright.

i don't get the herpes comment.

could it just be that he's been married for so long, he just has no game..?

>>17438196

Your car is pigfat.

Hey, op, if you have some time, would you mind laying front of my door for a while? I need something to wipe my feet on so track dirty inside my house

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Change your roll man. Obviously living in her oneitis closet isn't working because Chad is taking ur girl.

This is ur fault.

Read on dating and blast this bitch in the mind. Hit the gym get swole n show her ur quads. Jelk for max penetration.

SRS this age u can do anything u want bro. I bet you won't even want her once u reach God teir.oh, stop being a bitch xD

>>17438189

Don't shave it for a month. In most cases 3 days is not enough for those patches to go away

People might start to say things like
>"get those pubes off your face"
Don't let it discourage you though

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>>17438189

Patience young Padawan.

I can't grow a full beard, it just doesn't get long or straight enough; it looks super Jewish.

So I go for the chinstrap/soul patch combo.

Took me a year of growing hair out and cutting it back a bit to be even before I had a beard I liked. I've met two guys in my life who could grow an actual beard in a week and one of them had to start shaving in 6th grade.

I'm not a chick, my girl gives me really mean blowjob's.

She just takes it like a hoe, haha n swallows ;)

>>17438186
Do you not know what blue boards are? You new 4chan users need at least a year of lurking before you can post.

I used to be terrified of blowjobs, when I first started dating my boyfriend i gave him a bj, not very experienced. I just saw him squirm around a lot then he said "stop stop i'm done!" and i was like "what?"
turns out he had actually came in my mouth and i swallowed it thinking it was my own saliva.
maybe you won't notice it if you focus a lot on the bj itself

>>17438138

Try to balance one on the tip of your dick

Im out of ideas

>>17438138
buy a plasma rifle and kill some bandits
get high on their low quality jet and then chill with some radaway.

>>17438138

My faggot friends collected aluminum cans for like 3 years. Then they made a forge. And melted them into an ingot. It was about the size of a tic-tacs box. Then they made some shit out of it.

But they are faggots. You should probably not be like them and throw that shit away, unless you can find someone crazy to pay you $100 for it.

>Native American
Don't you mean Indigenous peoples of the Americas?
Why are you so racist?

>>>/v/

>>17437657
Sounds to me like you are fucking racist biggot.
Check your fucking privilege :)

>>17437274
To add a detail I forgot, when I called her it was already 11PM, so pretty late for her since she can't stay out.

>>17437274
What are you worried about?

>>17437319
The fact that she can't go out until late, said she wouldn't go out, then disappeared until 11PM and didn't answer her phone the first time. I would have no problems with it had she warned me "hey, I'm going out now, might take a while", but she didn't at all, and on top of that had two friends I didn't know about.

It's like when somebody usually gets home from work at around 8 and then they disappear until midnight, and you don't know where they are, if they're ok, what they're doing, etc. That kind of thing.

>>17437255
>I do have a habit with flirting and getting girls to send me nudes online

That's fucked up. What if your girlfriend was doing that behind your back?

Not having a spark is fine, but you are taking advantage of how content she is with you. How awful. You make me sick.

>>17437262
>>>17437255 (OP) (You)
>>I do have a habit with flirting and getting girls to send me nudes online
>That's fucked up. What if your girlfriend was doing that behind your back?

She's done sketchy stuff herself. Nothing I'm uncomfortable with.

That's another thing, I don't feel any jealousy over her. With Ex's I would get pissed if I saw a guy hitting on them, with my GF I just let it play out.

Do I trust her more, or am I not afraid of losing her?

All he has to say to his girlfriend is that you two are friends, because men are allowed to have female friends, and then hanging out is not a date.

>>17437227
It's not even that he got a girlfriend, I guess he's interested/courting someone and felt bad not telling me about it... And still I'm sure a lot of girls would feel weird about their guy hanging out with someone he had sex with not long ago

>>17437225
i can't tak someone who doesn't capitalize their "i"s seriously

Hey brosky, actually there are a bunch of people who think being gay is a choice, or at the very least, something that can be encouraged or discouraged. While I can't say anything for fact, it is the idea of nature vs nurture. Where you been with ur weird creepy sexual interest? Or was it learned? Perhaps through some weird creepy thing that happened to you. Or maybe just the idea appeals to you. If it's what I think it is, I would say wait for the lil baby bunnies to develop in to legal aged rabbits, and u can fuck til ur hearts content. There is nothing particularly special abt bunnies except they're perceived innocence and submission to older donkeys, such as yourself. Either way, don't do anything you'll regret or anything that might wind u up in prison. If it were the 80s I would say sure, but that ain't the case anymore my friend. Welcome to the century of the cuck

Born instead of been*
Their instead of they're*
Shut the fuck up

Don't bring Esperanza into this

SHE DIDNT ASK FOR THIS

>I was coddled and now I can't cope in the real world
About time you grew up and faced reality. Did you really expect the world to pander to you your whole life? You're not special.

Another is not touching my food. I'm a Type One Diabetic, and I've had several instances where if I don't plan my meals perfectly, or don't have a snack at a certain time, or whatever, my blood sugar goes crazy and I could end up in the ICU (and this has happened before). What might seem like "borrowing" a bottle of juice or some bread for one could be a trip to the ER for me. This hasn't happened yet, but I'm very paranoid.

I definitely don't want to be the douchebag that is like "it's my way or no way," and I think so far I've been accommodating to the other guys, but I've been very independant and sort of avoidant of the stuff one would expect from living with people up until now. How do I get over some stuff, and stand up for myself for other stuff? How do I differentiate between the two? Thanks.

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Just don't live with other people, most of them are awful and it's not worth it. If you're anything but an absolute slob (like most people) you will have nothing but headaches. Best to just budget your life elsewhere and splurge on the solo apartment.

>>17436305
I feel like the "you're not special" goes both ways. It's not entirely your house. You don't get to leave messes around or blast music just because you don't care about your roommates.

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We hold hands, we have kissed, we hang out almost every other day.

I just really like Disneyland, and I'm 18, she is 21. I've known her since March, but we really haven't started talking until like last Month.

I have asked numerous people and everyone keeps saying the same thing. At the formal party we were at, I drank and I was so touchy with her, and she was completely comfortable with it. But when we were drinking with this other girl and the girl's two guy friends, when one of them kept bothering her (girl I like) , she told the dude to chill out and back off/relax. We have opened up to each other alot about our personal lives, we are pretty much match in everything concerning politics to almost same behavior.

It's just a lot of mixed messages desu that I have seen. Hard to explain.

Guys:

How can you still wear boxers? They literally rip all the time if you do anything semi-intense. When will you join the boxer-brief master race?

Girls:

Why don't more of you wear one piece swimsuits? It hugs a lot of the curves you like to show off and brings a subtle sexy mystery to you, instead of just letting all the skin out immediately.

When are you going to join the one piece master race?