Am I spending my 20's wrong?

You could always travel. Or pick up a hobby

>>17436364
>travel
Don't fall for this meme. If you do, don't go somewhere far or expensive
>hobby
This is good advice. Try a few things and see what you like best

>>17436353
Only advice I can think of is do what YOU want. There isn't a 'correct' way to live your 20's. I mean, society dictates that we should be drinking like fish and fucking like rabbits, but as far as this anon is concerned, living your life according to someone else's norms is a recipe for disappointment.
If you don't want marriage or kids, then cool, you don't have to.
Take some time to reflect on what you want in your life, then go and get it. I believe in you mate!

>am i doing something wrong

if you are breathing, you arent

>am i doing something wrong

if you are breathing, you are

>>17436353

if you dont want to get married or have kids, dont. just be open to changei f you like the idea.

but never go into a marriage unless you are certain you can handle a divorce. if ur okay with getting divorced, then go for it.

>fulfilling

the problem here is you equate being too busy to do anything with being 'fulfilling'. dont get me wrong there are parts of parent hood that are going to be very fulfilling, but by your logic anyone who doesnt have kids is not fulfilled, and theres always been more to life than just that, and its true now more than ever.

>as a male this shit is terrifying

it has nothing to do with being a male so dont know why you youd throw that in.

>is there even a correct way to spend your 20s

young adults are known for their 'finding htemselves' phase. its the reason most tv shows starts young people in their early twenties. they are the kind that go on adventures. by thirty you tend to be tired a lot easier and just like to chill out.

ideally you should be exploring hte world and exploring yourself. but exploring can mean anyhting that makes you happy.