What are some interesting hobbies to meet people?
Check your local website on events and join a club in your area. Was how I made friends after most of my high school and college buddies went our seperate ways.
>>17467550
music, literature
going to swinger parties or joining a medieval role play club
I'm killing myself tonight. I'm a horrible person and I don't deserve to live.
peggy pls
Well before you do, tell us why and give us as much detail as possible. We might be able to convince you otherwise.
Can you stream
Is lifting worth it?
>>17467334
>2016
>not lifting
next you're going to tell me that you're not being physically active in any capacity which would truly rustle me.
ask >>/fit/
All I know is that running is shit. It sucks, is inefficient, and actually really bad for your knees.
Go biking (pref. Outside) at 25-30 km (16-18mi) and you burn more calories.
Lifting is fun, but push ups/pull ups are fucking shit.
Should I go to a concert with this girl I like even though she has a boyfriend?
I was under the impression I shouldn't even be talking to girls I am attracted to with boyfriends as it will only cause heartache in the future.
>>17467329
It could also lead to sex if you have no morals
>>17467346
shes "asexual" so that's not happening anytime soon
Puck is cuter and you know it.
How to deal with people constantly spewing negativity towards you?
I just passed my state boards, which is notoriously difficult and at the same time, I'm restoring an old truck for fun. I'm also working full time.
The day after I pass my boards, instead of getting any praise, most of my "friends" basically belittled my career saying its not difficult, hardly considered work, thinks its mostly people who don't know what real work is complaining. The irony is I have never once complained about my work.
Then later on, one of my neighbors decides to show up while I'm working on my project and then belittles the entire thing, calling it a turd and pointing out all of the obvious things I'll have to fix.
Then when someone who is actually nice to me asks for help, I project all the pent up negativity on to them. How do I fix this? Do I start being openly hostile towards downers until they just shut the fuck up or what?
Just tell them to fuck off if they don't like what you have going on. You seem like a nice person so hurting feelings is probably not your strong suit, but once you get used to getting it out of your system at the people who deserve it, and learn how to deal with all the come backs that come out of them because they are innately insecure (hence the reason to insult you), you'll be a better person. They will either wise up and respect you or they will leave you alone, in which case were they worth it in the first place?
It's obvious to me you need a new set of friends.
You sound like you're whitewashing something that you've done
I need help with this, because I'm unsure of how to handle it.
>Be me, going to school full time to get my transfer credits to a 4 year uni
>Apply at a job on craigslist for a job at an ambulance company as service worker(Maintaining the rigs and such)
>Get the interview, they love me
>Offers me part time, 15/hrs a week
>Take it, had my first official day yesterday
>The job is not what I really expected, it matches the jobs description, but I find myself not enjoying anything about what I'm doing
I want to leave this job, but I have no idea how. They are nice people, and they like me. But the job just doesn't work out for me. I literally just started so I'm unsure of how to proceed from here, do I just cal them and say I won't be returning? He put in hours for me yesterday, so I'm in the system and everything
>>17467158
as a general rule you should give two weeks notice. go in and say that the homework load at school has been a lot more than you expected, and you cant keep the position and you're very sorry for the inconvenience of hiring you and now having to hire someone else, but you're already missing certain assignments and NEED to make sure you do good in school.
if they are nice they'll understand (sad cuz ur a fucking liar).
seriously though, you had one day on the job, and its a job its not suppsoed to be that fun.
Only one day on the job? Fuck it just text them and say you'll quit. They will eventually mail the check. It'd not like you will use them as a reference anyways.
2ez
>>17467158
>it matches the jobs description
>not what i really expected
are you a retard? what are you trying to say here?
>one fucking day
kek
After the honeymoon phase ended for your relarionship, did any of you begin to notice physical/personality flaws with your partner you didn't notice before that began to bother you?
How did you get over it? Did your relationship survive?
Yep. Today as a matter of fact. Been seeing a girl for 5 weeks then today I sat down realised how her mood switches from day to day, how she said it's just casually but she's actually trapped me to the point I can't back out which I told her is the opposite of what I'm looking for. Now I'm scared because I don't want to carry on but don't know what to do
>>17465030
You either want to be with them enough to push through it and accept them for who they are, or you move on. Don't stay in a relationship that you don't believe in.
>>17465483
How to end it though? How do I go from being loving to completely disconected
I impregnated my 15 yo tennis student. How fucked am I and how can I salvage this? She hasn't told anyone yet
>>17463541
pretty fucked and cant salvage your mentality, thats for sure.
Is it bait? How old are you?
Pics?
How are there no one of these?
Say it folks.
I got it off my chest once and threw up copious amounts of phlegm, fuck you!
I'm really afraid to move on with my business idea
I have the money to start it up
I hate my current job
I have friends and family members that are certified accountants and business professionals with resources, advice, and experience
But I'm really afraid of failing
I'm still really young, but failing so early in life with something so big, I don't know how I would recover from that
>>17462713
You're right to be extremely cautious.
90% of small businesses fail.
What do you offer that shit like Walmart or Starbucks can't?
That's the bottom line
Most people like a beautiful face, a nice frame, but aside from all that what do you find attractive in a person? From big things like personality type and background to little things like the way they wear their hair/facial hair or speak.
Do you prefer sex appeal or personality? Will you only go for the good looking athletes or models or will you only go for the outgoing/quiet types or the daft/intelligent ones?
Post your sexual orientation and race if comfortable.
Straight white male.
I find a lot of different things attractive but I seem towards gravitate to women with dark hair that are average height when it comes to dating
Straight female anon.
Sex appeal def hooks me in easier but personality seals the deal. Unless their personality was toxic or abusive I'd pick sex appeal over personality right now because not interested in long term dating. I def have a type and it's usually quiet slim guys with bangs and occasionally glasses.
Straight white male. I like cute slim girls that are intelligent and not shouting too much. Often attract quiet types. Prefence for white girls with blond hair, but other hair colors can be great too. I am Skinny AF and wonder if any girls are into my body type at all, not being chad.
>Wife & I agree to have 2 orgies both with each other
>First with a good looking girl I know
>2nd with my best guy friend
>Only guy willing to do anything gay because the price gives him the right to fuck my wife
>He has a huge thing for her so willing
>Recently had the first orgy
>Best sexual experience I've ever had in my life
>Day approaching for 2nd orgy
>Starting to feel sick to the idea of my friend fucking my wife
>can't back out I already did the first orgy so obligated to do the 2nd
How can I mentally prepare myself for one of the worst nights of my life? Recently I have been thinking about how one time a month or so ago he admitted to masturbating to the thought of her every other night. I think the biggest thing is the fact I have to do things like rub dicks or even suck. I'm feeling sick just typing this.
>gay cuck you get what you deserve
Can't back out now can you? Would have been smart to think ahead if you're not bisexual.
Really don't know how you'd get used to the thought, maybe by watching the right porn to get you even slightly curious to try it out?
I am sure your wife had some hardships to go through aswell.
Protip: this is instant karma for cheating on your wife
Don't care if it was a consensual thing or not- call me traditional but having sex with someone else after getting married is bad fucking mojo
How do I do this /adv/?
I've been trying to get up at 5 AM, because of reasons, but I always
>1. Get up when my alarm goes off.
>2. Reset it.
>3. Lay back down.
This is either for only half an hour (I'll get up at 5:30), or I go "oh I can get up at 6", at which point I just keep resetting it because I go "oh why bother".
How can I get myself to wake up and stay up at 5 AM, instead of either semi-automatically resetting my alarm or thinking I'm too tired to get up at that time?
Don't ask why I'm getting up so early.
>>17468766
Wake up and do some push- ups like 20 ish like straight when u wake up or just put your alarm.. example like you want 2 wake up at 5:30 so u put your alarm on that time and then 5:35 then 5:40 etc... that's how I do it bro
put your alarm or phone across the room so you have to get out of bed, then go to the washroom and splash your face with cold water
or sleep earlier if you can, like 8:30-9:00pm
This is gonna sound weird but what worked for me was to start sleeping on the floor.(on carpet with a thin covering). When the body is not more comfortable than it needs to be, it doesn't cling to sleep as much. In addition this more or less solved my back pain issues.
I think my friend is suicidal how do I try talking him out of it if he brings up the subject? I don't want to be preachy and I know that in the end it's his decision but he's brought it up before and I think he wants to talk to me about it tonight. He said he wants to talk to me for a long time about something later and I'm dreading it being that. He's younger than me by a good couple of years so I just keep seeing it as wasted potential and I have tried in the past to tell him he should give life some time.
Listen. Really listen. Don't dismiss his pain as something that will pass or try to reassure him with promises that his life will get better. Show that you are willing to be an active participant in his recovery and that you will actually support him instead of sticking around out of some sense of obligation hoping I'll just get over it.
Also after the talk Invite him to places. Sure he might say no, but it really helps to know that people want him around. Also, just being around helps (assuming you're not being an asshole). Not to talk about his feelings or anything just to chill with the guy like a friend should.
>>17468730
>wants to talk someone out of something
Oh grow up. It's not the end of your world, but the end of theirs. And it's their decision, not yours.
>>17468741
Solid advice thank you. I have always tried to listen instead of just hearing.
>>17468748
No. I'm selfish and I care about them. If they decide to go through with it I will try not to be bitter and I will eventually 'grow up' and move on but I'm not content to just let it happen if maybe they really just need someone to talk to and be with.
Is it over between me and her?
Everything she is doing is making me mad. Whenever she disagrees, it makes me mad. Everything little thing she does makes me mad. It wasn't ever like this until recently. I'm 19, she is 17. Whenever she doesn't go with my opinion, it makes me mad. Not mad mad but like it just pisses me off you know.
We had a big argument and I almost broke up with her last week because she lied about where she was going. She was going to a gay bar and told me she was going to see a movie with her friends. I asked her if she was being honest and she said no and admitted she lied but still went and everything. All summer we had arguments normally started by her actions such as changing plans around, doing things she said she would do then not to them, being unreliable etc etc. She's never lied to me in the 7 months we've been dating except that one time last week. When we first met, the only thing I liked about her was her honesty and loyalty. She didn't have a past that I liked and we have nothing in common except a simple connection.
I feel like I love her but I don't... I can't bring myself to breakup with her because I still feel something for her. Does this make sense? I know I would regret the shit out of it if I broke up with her. I feel like I'm maybe too hard on her. She earns $8/hour and drives her little shitbox 30 miles to see me. She doesn't ask for much if anything at all. Am I being too controlling? I feel like I am being too control and guilt trip her.
I just need someone to talk to guys. Is there any hope for this relationship?
based on your respective ages and the length of the relationship, things like that, i'm guessing this is your first "real/serious" relationship. it sounds like you aren't happy with her and you want to break up, but you don't really know how to do it.
that being said, if you aren't enjoying your time with her, if all she does is make you mad, pull the trigger and break it off. you're young, you'll have other relationships, they'll be better.
>>17468778
I enjoy BEING with her. I really do. I get mad when I'm AWAY from her. Like I want to see her everyday but can't anymore since she started school and I have school and work.
The slightest thing with her will make me unhappy when I'm away from her. I want to see her everyday and it made me mad that we can't and she wasn't willing to only work weekends so we could see each other on weekdays. I almost NEVER feel unhappy or mad when we are physically together and we see each other 2-5 times a weeks. 1-2 times a week now.
This girl loves me to death. She's willing to go to pretty far lengths to make me happy and make us work after all the shit I give her. She's been honest to me except once I feel like if I break up with her I will regret it and realize how good I use to have it come the new year and I am glamorizing this relationship. I don't want to make a mistake.
Seeing radiant bracelets of gold,
well-made by a smith,
clinking, clashing,
two on an arm,
wander alone
like a rhinoceros,
[thinking:]
"In the same way,
if I were to live with another,
there would be careless talk or abusive."
Seeing this future danger,
wander alone
like a rhinoceros.
>Be 1st-year in college
>Hot girl that goes to my school
>Talk to her briefly on the Facebook page, follow each other on Insta (she likes my stuff recently)
>We are from the same state
Would it be weird if I messaged her asking her out for coffee or something?
Never under any circumstance ask a girl out on instgram or facebook. Get her number and then ask her out via a phone call.
>>17468725
Worried I may not see her around campus
>>17468722
Start a conversation the next time you see her in person (maybe stalk her a little to make sure your paths cross). Then ask her out. You're much more likely to get a positive response if you ask her verbally.