My girlfriend of about 3 months now will occasionally have days

I'm not her but I just wanted to say that I had this sometimes when I was younger, and what happened was that I'd be pissed or insecure over something, and then it would wear off and I realized I'd been silly. Too embarrassed to admit that something so trivial was bothering me, and afraid to scare a guy off if I was negative too much, so I'd just try to talk over it so to speak. Perhaps it is the same for her.

>>17470814
If she shrugs when you say you love her is no good, do you offer her what a woman needs?

Like, do you have a good social status, good looking, money and that kind of stuff? Maybe she can't see herself with you in a future.

>>17470817
I know she can be super insecure, but I try my hardest to boost her confidence with encouraging words and such. Should I just not think anything of it?
>>17470826
I'm 18 and she's 17, but I'm fairly well liked by people, she often tells me how attractive she finds me, and I buy her things all the time. But she does like to talk about the future and she often assumes the worst when it comes to things like that.

>>17470847
If you feel too unsure, ask her about it at a moment when you both feel relaxed and at ease. Don't be accusative, just tell her very calmly and friendly that you've noticed that she gets a bit withdrawn once in a while. You've not really done anything about it so far and you're wondering if you should be worried about it or let her be.

If she tells you to let it go, just kiss her and start cuddling or something.

>>17470847
You two are probably too young to be thinking about that kind of stuff, future its not very clear when you are your age and you see a lot of problems like probably you two are still studying

I personally would tell you to just try to tell her to live the moment when you are still young and dont have to worry about future, because you will have plenty of time to do that.

But depends really on the girl on how serius she is about it.

>>17470854
I'll do that. Thanks, anon.
>>17470866
I try to tell her this all the time, but it's gotten to the point where saying "we shouldn't be worrying about this yet" just makes her worry more because she thinks if I don't worry about it, then I will set myself up to fail.

>>17470887
You're welcome, best of luck!

>>17470887
Show her this thread to let her see how much you care