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Need a hard reset, how? 2016-08-17 10:23:21 Post No.17469754
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Need a hard reset, how? 2016-08-17 10:23:21 Post No.17469754
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I graduated college and hooked up with a looooot of girls. Tinder made it super easy and I watch a fuck load of porn. I've had group sex, one night stands, creampied randos cause it was hot, was basically a giant man whore.
But I think I've become a full blown sex-addict, if that's even a legitimate medical thing. I can't just enjoy life without thinking about self improvement or sex... Ever. At work all I can think about is fucking my female coworkers, at the gym I look at models on insta or tinder between sets, i masturbate at least 4 times a day even though I have a full time job, and being able to actually have sex with women successfully reinforces this shit. I don't see the point in marriage or having a long term relationship because i primary want to just fuck- I've regularly used well-meaning LTR worthy girls for sex and I've felt no remorse in doing so and I see them as walking fleshlights. I've read medical journals and facts about STD transmission rates and their long-term effects.
I just don't know how where to go with my life anymore- I feel like if I'm not actively having sex or masturbating I'm useless. I can't even get back into video games like I did as a kid because I'd rather try to get my dick wet.
I feel like I'm in a sex nightmare and can't wake up. Women in my eyes are quite literally sex dolls to be jnseminated and tossed aside, but I have a sister and a mother who I definitely do not see that way. Help me?
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Bump, I'm emotionally numb
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1) Get tested for STDS
2) Go to school and finish a bachelors, not an associates
3) Get a meaningful job
4) Get fit
5) Get a nice car
6) Fuck even hotter girls until you end up with a babymama
7) Enter oldfag status
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>>17469754
Go see a psychologist. Sex addiction is a legitimate thing.
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Should I go for it?
>made a new friend
>she's kinda into me
>a bit chubby but still cute
Should I smash?
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>>17469730
Don't support fatties in their obesity. Fucking her would only give her validation she doesn't deserve.
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>>17469732
She's not fat though. Not the skinniest either.
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>>17469735
Dick test: do you get ENGORGED at her sight?
So here's the deal. GF starts talking to ex again. She mentioned before that he has self destructive tendencies and she talks to him to make sure he's safe. Says she no longer loves him and loves me. I tell her it makes me feel uncomfortable that she still talks to him and ask her to stop. She refused and tries to make me feel guilty for asking her to do that. What should I do?
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Some more info: she has been with him for 3 years before me, I've only been with her about 6-7 months. She was going to spend the rest of her life with him and was going to get married before he hurt her emotionally and mentally. He also lives like 6 states away.
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>>17469725
She still loves him and is thinking about moving in with him over there. His probably got himself a job or something, is more Alpha/Chad then you and you've been acting all weird, which is a turn off.
Girls and guys don't just start talking to their ex's for no reason.
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She is definitely still into him, you ought to move on, OP
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>horny all the fucking time
>all day every day
>I'm fucking 22 not even a teenager anymore
>on my mind every day :FUCKFUCKFUCKFUCK
>love my gf dearly been together since I was 15
>we've pretty much fucked every which way
>every single day my heart and my penis play tug of war
>i can see no clear winner
Are SSRIs guaranteed to take away your libido?
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Just look at execution videos and do maths. That works for me.
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>>17469672
>not posting the one where he's letting a bayblade rip
Why even live
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It killed mine but I took them pre-puberty all the way through to adulthood so no idea if they would do that after you're body has settled
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I'm starting college soon as a commuter because i'll be earning around $4k per semester doing so, and I can't get all of the stigma about "commuters being lonely and missing out" out of my head. Any advice for a commuter? Should I get a nearby apartment during junior/senior year?
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>>17469669
You'll miss out on the study groups.
Don't worry about the social life, but the study groups are important.
How long will your commute be, and how restrictive are the timetables?
If you can stay until 7-8pm, and have 1h of commute, you could make it.
Again, don't sweat the social life, it's easy to crash someone's couch once every month or so to go out on the weekend, just bribe them with alcohol.
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Do you have friends or acquaintances from high school? If so are they commuting to local schools, too?
What about siblings?
Also, as a fact if life, it's going to be harder to have a social life whether you commute to college or not. As an adult, youre going to have to force yourself to bridge the ties you want. You can't be passive and expect it to come. The first two weeks of college are your only real opportunity, so do all the legwork now and you won't have to worry about it later. Don't think "I'm above all this" for what would normally be stupid interactions. Actually try to conversate with everyone with the intention of you being best buds forty years down the line and eventually it'll stick. Make sure to stay on campus for as much of the day as possible until those two weeks are up
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I'm at a uni where the majority of us commute. I can't say my social life has ever suffered because of it.
>Any advice for a commuter?
Take advantage of it. Get readings or homework done so you have more free time when you get home. That's assuming you're commuting by public transport, that is.
>Should I get a nearby apartment during junior/senior year?
No, don't move out unless you absolutely have to. You're basically throwing away your money otherwise.
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>Almost 30
>All i want to do is go out at night to meet girls
>I dont even fucking care i dont have a job
>All my friends are in a relationship and dont want to go out
>Just had 2 weeks of heavy drinking/partying and only had sex once
>Im depressed as fuck right now and thinking about ending this
Seriously, i know im not gonna meet a good girl, only sluts at night, and i really dont know what bothers me, that im getting old and this has to stop or the lack of gf, or that i dont know what to do if its not getting drunk and clubbing...
Sorry for my english btw, pic somehow related
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Why don't you get a job?
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How do people not get bored of this by the time they're 22?
Move on you manboy, even if you don't get a job
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>>17469714
>Move one
I thinks its pretty obvious i cant
I lost almost my whole family between October 2015, through April 6th 2016. I'm currently "homeless" I suppose (I live with my gf). I was diagnosed PTSD around 2010 from combat related trauma. I don't use the VA. I used to drink heavily, but stopped mostly after dad died. I can't sleep now. I take bynadryl but it doesn't help. What can I use to sleep? Should I go talk to someone? I can't afford a therapist, and like I said, I don't use the VA. Just mini clinics. I think I'm not doing well. I dont feel well. My dads birthday is August 28th. I really miss him. He was 82nd back in nam. He had cancer.
I wish I could talk to someone.
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Don't take Benadryl especially if you don't perceive it to work
Sleep aides shouldn't be long term things
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>>17469639
This is true. I just can't sleep. I keep thinking of killing myself but it seems silly at my age. Plus I know I'm just not doing well. I keep thinking about asking for SSRIs or something but j know eventually I'll stop taking it and be back here or worse. I had to go through that before around 2011. I ended up a zombie and ate a whole bottle of Paxil and tried to shoot myself but my weapon malfunctioned. I think that was my last suicide attempt
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>>17469625
Man, I'd love to talk to you. Your situation got me a bit teary-eyed here. You know that this is the advice board, so talk to us, my man.
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sup /adv/
I've finally found something that I like and want to do, but there is some disadvantatge about being a french lawyer that bugs me for my personnal development and it would be really useful to have some advice about it
The problem is not about working hard, too much or too hard studies.
I've made some reaserch, and it seems like a new lawyer are living hell, about 1k2 euros for 50/60hours every week. (It rise every year little by little)
I've seen that this salary is up to 1% of the lawyer community, so they might just sucks hard or this is just a random % and its actually really hard to have a good salary.
The real problem is not the salary is about how much I'll be working for pretty much nothing, i'll be like 28 when i finish university and I'm scared to not enjoy my youth, i really love sport, traveling and i want to eat healthy, saves... If I start at this salary I wont be able to enjoy both, only when im 40 or smthing. (I've got other thing that i want to do but its irrevelant since i can do it even with 1k2/60h)
I'm confidant about doing well in this job, but there is still a chance that i do not and be stuck with this salary and almost no time to myself, letting myself be fat, ugly, old... I might dramatize too much the fact of being old too. I'm 20 y/o atm.
What to do you think about it ? I've asked friends and its just "u will be the best!!" so not rly useful.
Thanks guys.
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Why would it take you 8 years to get a law degree?
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More like
PenILE lawyer
Hehe
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>>17469647
I'll start at 21, 5 years of studies + 2 more years to be a lawyer
>>17469650
fagget
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I did something stupid. I filled an empty bottle of spray thc infused liquid with water and sprayed it in my mouth a couple times. Not inhaling. Now I'm thinking what if I did inhale a little. lipoid pneumonia, right? There was a little tiny bit left in the tube.
I'm not going to lie. I know I fucked up. No use insulting me. Also the poison control guy was rude and basically refused to answer the question.
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Nothing will happen.
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Well if damage was done, it'll already have happened so I'd recommend going to the urgent care tomorrow if it's not open right now. If it wasn't I doubt whatever the copay is will be too much to learn this lesson, but if damage was done, it's better to get treating it sooner.
I'd err on the side of caution here, you probably didn't but at least know for sure
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Well it was a fine mist. I learned my lesson from this panic attack.
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I think I really have a problem with certain fetishes, I used to be quite vanilla, but after discovering places like 4chan and FA, I got into certain things I no longer feel comfortable with. I don't like how weird I have gotten, and I want to put certain fetishes on the backburner, or get rid of them from my life permanantly. I've been spending lots of money on getting fetish comissions from artists I like, such as characters with hyper genitals or other weird features. and at First I was pretty happy with them. But now I'm constantly thinking about them at work, and worrying about people finding out I payed for fetish related drawings. And I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't have any friends I can turn to talk about this, I'd rather not tell my parents about this and I can't afford therapy either. So if someone can help me out here, I'd really appreciate it. This problem is affecting my work life, and I can't enjoy my hobbies anymore because of this either.
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The bad side-effects of 4chan. Don't browse /b/ or any of the porn things. Hey, at least you're not gay for traps. If I had continued browsing /b/ it probably would've happened.
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Yeah I decided to cut back on viewing certain fetishes, and I threw out some stuff related to them, so thats a step in the right direction. But I'm still worried about people finding out I bought fetish art from people. Can future employers or something find out about this?
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Wants a cheap commisshun? I can draw pretty well and need some cash.
Jokes aside (unless you actually want one h-heh), I assume you use accounts with nicknames to make your requests, and then maybe only give your real name when you use paypal. How is an employer, or in fact anybody at all, supposed to find out it's specifically you who got that weird ass commission?
I did some weird commissions during my "career" and honestly, I don't think those people have any problems with that.
Actually, you'd be surprised to find out how many people who do white collar jobs and make huge cash in their everyday life actually have weird fetishes and go to BDSM themed parties etc etc
Don't be paranoid, bro.
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I got sent some sexual messages from my TA back in January. I never reported it and still feel the need to however. I know it could potentially get him kicked out of university or his TA-ship revoked. I feel like it would be bad karma and to just let it slide however what if he does this to countless other girls. What do?
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Nothing. You waited too long.
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You are not responsible for any other girls that MAY be receiving these messages.
Really you should have confronted him about it and based on his reactions decided if you would take it any further.
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Do you want revenge for getting flirted with?
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So ive been trying nofap for months and many people say nofap its a meme that noporn is legit.does this mean i should be masturbating? If yes how many times a week?if not why??
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Just fap once a week or before bed
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What is even the goal of nofap?
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>>17469731
Makes you feel hornier, more aggressive and more driven, which is good if you're an apathetic loser. I got good results when I tried it, but after a couple of weeks my prostate had swollen up with fluid and was making me need to piss every 15 minutes, so I had to give up.
Hey adv/, I have a problem.
I just broke up with my girlfriend of 9 months after a huge argument where she suspected i was talking to other girls which wasnt happening. We had been arguing quite a lot over the last 2 months and are no strangers to constant arguments but we always seemed to get over it in the end. Mainly me just telling myself "just leave it"
To describe her, she is a 7/10 physically, but when it comes to her personality she is a bit hard to describe. She was either super attached to me and loved me or cold and distant when she wanted to be, and I never knew what personality i was going to get.
She cheated on me once with a girl (Didnt know what to say), early on in the relationship but i brushed it off.
All of my family and friends who i was talking to agreed that i was unhappy but now all I can think of "but we were happy the last couple of weeks and she was one of a kind" and i feel like i made the wrong decision. But at the same time i think, if my family and friends hadnt got involved, I would still be with her.
I'm feeling really fucked up right now and dont know what to do..
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Dump her. Don't let yourself get stepped on, you're a man.
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>>17469557
Sounds like she could have BPD. If this is the case she will probably come running back to you once she gets through her phase. You need to decide if she's worth giving another chance or not.
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/adv/ need help badly here
I've never eaten, or smoked before. I ate 15mg in chocolate and I'm reeeeeeeeeeeeeeallly fucked up, everything is spinning and it's really hard to write this post. I don't understand what I'm doing. It's a little terrifying, really terrifying, but I am laughing at myself writing this but also horrified by myself.
This has taken like 10 minutes to write.
Please give /adv/ how can I mitigate this. Horrible.
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Just lay down somewhere and put on a good album.
Pink Floyd will save you anon.
Anyways, nothing bad will happen. you might have a headache, but that's it.
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put on your favorite tune and dance it out my man
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Zone back and listen to either music or an audiobook.
Audiobooks are great and music just becomes sooo good!
Which part of the neck should be strangled, in order to block the blood flow effectively? Lower neck? Middle-ish? Upper neck? Right below the chin?
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Wait, do you think that you die when you're strangled because the blood is blocked?
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>>17469511
What? That IS how it works
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>>17469515
You're some kind of fabulous moron, aren't you?