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The forum is 90% males so you asking for a girl's opinion will fall on deaf ears.

Look you can't stop being introverted, but you can fake being extroverted and then revert back to your introverted ways. That means you have to take your lazy off 4chan and go outside leaving your lair of solitude. Smile, go shopping with your friends, if they want to hang out make sure to join them, do skype calls, go on facebook to chat with old associates, volunteer etc. Putting yourself out there will make you meet new people and that in turn could help you get a boyfriend. Everything snowballs into other things.

>>17468449
If a guy likes you he probly won't care that you're into video games or whatever else

I work retail part time and there is this cute chubby girl that occasionally comes once during the weeknds. She smiles at me, asks me how my day is and then tells me to have a good day. Thing is I want to bang her hard, I check out everytime she comes in but I can't make a move. I work alone during my shift and so no one will bother us.

Would asking out a customer be weird and off limits?

>>17468440
You could get fired if she complains. If she turns you down, she might feel to awkward to ever come back.

>>17468434
I claim this thread in the name of the Inquisition of Pegasus

The reprimanding is also often inappropriate and makes me cringe regularly. I am a very open and understanding person who is tolerant to the nth degree but I just don't know.
This woman and me have argued about how shes treated her adopted children in front of me before.
The 11 year old is adopted btw.
I think that is important to mention.

Record and report to child services. You already know what they're doing is wrong, you've already argued with her about how she treats her children and you know they don't deserve to have that child.

This makes me sad. There are so many parents in this world who are willing and ready to care for a child with disabilities and yet the poor girl gets stuck with shithead parents.
I would report them and insinuate that she's being mistreated and neglected

You should be able to learn how to simply cruise around by yourself if you can ride a bike or a scooter. Beyond that, find someone to teach you, which can be as easy as going to a skate park and just asking the friendliest looking person there for help figuring something out. I learned how to skate a bowl by going to one and asking someone there how the fuck to use one. Find friends who skate, skate with them. You really can't learn via YouTube very much unless you're able to autistically analyze every slide and twitch of a person's foot.

Skateboarding is one of the hardest things to learn.

Not only do you need to skate daily but you need to have a good mindset for failure and pain.

Cause your going to fail and hurt yourself alot.

first rule is commit. If youre scared you wont land anything.

When learning a trick break it down and try subtle foot variations. Wht works for some might not work for you.

Try different sized boards. Can help alot with flip tricks.

braille sskateboarding on youtube has a step by step guide to learning which goes from pushing all the way up to 360 inward heels. Maybe start there
And just try to have fun.

>>17468217
You're right but I don't have any skateparks near my area because I live in a shithole middle east country, but I guess I will try make some friends if I see someone is skateboarding around here.

>>17468223
Thanks for the YouTube channel, I really want to learn, really appreciate your advice.

Also what environment is more good for learning, a big parking garage or outdoors for a newbie like me?

Well your first plan was shit.
You don't take a girl out to the movies for the first date.
You can't talk during the movies. And generally you try to learn as much as you can about each other on the first date so you both know you're not wasting time. This means talk.
Ask her out for a walk to the park, a picnic, for drinks in a comfy quiet coffee shop. Anywhere you can talk to her.

>>17468214
I know but we did talk for 2 or 3 hours afterwards tho.
I'm thinking of taking her to this tavern where they have drinks, boardgames and stuffs.

>>17468241
Boardgames.
You know you have to be at least 18 to post on 4chan?

just fucking take her to a coffee shop and tell try not to sperg out this much.

kill them

chop their bodies into pieces, clog the tub and fill it with highly concentrated acid, then put their body parts on it to dissolve

>>17468136
Encourage a divorce if the relationship is abusive/toxic between them and cut ties if you feel the need to

You will feel an emotional void if you cut ties but this is normal, surround yourself with people who can empathize and maybe find a shrink if you're in a good position to do so

No.
Nothing entitles your parents to your attention.
You didn't ask to be born and they're terrible people.
If they weren't your parents, would you want to be around them?

Bleach works pretty good with that kind of stuff, if it still doesn't come out after that you might have to buy new underwear

>>17468102
This is a troll post. Bleach damages clothes and may ruin it, it removes the colours too. Fuck off.

>>17468104
Underwear is generally made to stand up to the occasional bleaching.

>>17468050
blowjobs and ignring smell.

>>17468050
Go for it tell her straight up.

>>17468055
Isn't there a more sensitive way of doing it?

>>17467982
women do this because they have this innate desire to make their children have their inadequacies as a human. It's kind of like that muchausen by proxy syndrome where the mother makes their children sick on purpose so that they can maintain their matriarchal role in their lives indefinitely.

Its a sad thing to see, but I think if you can get her into the habit of paying more attention to womanly chores like cleaning the house, you can have more of a positive role within your childrens life and you can counter the balance of her destructive ways.

I only have a toddler, so I'm not 100% sure about older children. When he falls down, I say "Uh-oh!" and wait to see what he does. There's a fussy cry that means he didn't hit his head, but is frustrated, to which I say, "You're okay, bud." He does a distinct cry if he's actually hurt, and that's when I swoop in and scoop him up.

Basically, just know your kids. Don't laugh at them if there's a chance that they're actually hurt. Don't coddle them, either. People get hurt well into adulthood, and children need to learn to manage minor scratches and bumps. But don't be afraid to comfort them if they're really upset.

>>17467982
I know this is controversial, but have you tried spanking your wife?

Too long didn't read:

I like a woman who probably doesn't like me back but she is a friend. Should I cut contact to free myself?

>>17467844
Cut contact and never look back.

>Burn all your bridges behind you
>So that you have nowhere to go but forward

>>17467917
But what about if you ever needed to retreat?

Also, bump.

Adderal. Should help you do it in an afternoon.

Make it quick. A 30% is still better than a 0. Then you can make it up on a test or another assignment.

>>17467717
Don't have access to adderal
>>17467777
from my experience this seems like a bad idea

>Girl invited me to her room to help her study
>Being the autist that I am, I actually help her study her calculus
>Suddenly she takes off her sweater revealing a tight white top
>I try not to stare at her tits
>We study some more and she says she wants a break. She takes my cellphone and looks through it
>I try getting it back and then she puts it between her tits
>I know I had a clear light but in my mind I was thinking this was properly her messing with me
>I demand her to give it to me, she playfully says no and then scream her to give it me
>She gives it to me and then I walk out
>I then knock on her door forgetting my calculator, pen and book

I cringe remembering it because that girl avoided me like a plague from that point on.

i once ran into my cousin i haven´t seen in a while. he said hello and i tought he´s just a random idiot hitting on me so i responded with "should i know you?". family still makes fun of me for that

>be me
>be in college
>ask a guy out and get rejected
>never look at him again but he talks really loud about himself so i delude myself into thinking he's interested
>end of the semester comes and he doesn't do anything
>make a cringey forum post the end of the semester apologizing for creating a hostile environment
>left it up for two weeks in hope to get a response
i still wince in shame. no one can top that

Go to the mall and you will see an even cuter girl there.

>>17467666
nice trips
yea she s not that hot
It s her being nice and attentionate that i like
Cant be found easily in the mall

>>17467681

Nice girls are everywhere dude. Take it from me.I used to be in love with my tutorial assistant in one of my classes. She was so caring, kind, pretty and quirky that I honestly had a huge crush on her. Came to find out she was a huge bitch on social media and that she put on a facade for her classes. My point is, how well did you know this girl? For all you know her being nice is just an image she plays out.

Go to the mall and bask in the hot girls everywhere. Hell talk to one of them if you are bold enough.

Get a gastric band.

>>17467736
i´m not that fat yet. i can´t get one.

>>17467662
Duromine. Or just put some speed in your morning coffee, much of a muchness.

I wouldn't get a buzz before an interview. They might smell it on you, or you might get paranoid they will.

Practicing may help. With a play partner or in front of the mirror. You can't predict a whole interview or prepare a perfect script, of course, but it might get you more used to it and more comfortable.

I agree with the above poster. Think about where you went wrong, and try to improve on that. I fumbled many interviews in the past, to the point where I stopped caring about overly controlling the conversation. You got to let it flow. Focus on selling yourself, but don't demand it. They want someone to fill this position as much as you want to - it's a two-way street. If you get flustered, or don't have a ready-made answer, then be honest. Also, I like to cross my legs. Being comfortable is key; even if it isn't.

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Read this book. The Highly Sensitive Person. You may be a highly sensitive person. Ask a friend to drive you to the interview, have some support. Before the interview go in the bathroom and sit and practice watching your breaths for a few minutes. But yeah try the book.