Hi adv, i might be moving to düsseldorf end of the year for work. Please any advice? Places to avoid? Good schools for kids? Best places to live?
Thanks,
Humble working-class anon
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Bumping for life support
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>>17503402
Hello there friend. You might want to try some of these resources.
>www.google.com
>/int/
>/soc/
Cheers
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>>17503408
Thanks anon, believe me I have used google but really nothing recent comes up, everything is from 3-4 years ago. One thing i learned from every page is the airports are lousy with thieves, so guard your bags like a wolf.
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Anyone here really obsessed about being perfect?
Now you may think that this is actually something good but it really isn't:
>started going to the gym 3 years ago out of boredom
>saw some results and obsessed over it
>now I want to be as good looking as (im)possible
But..
>average height
>below average penis with ugly PPP
It would be great if I could just get over it,but due to my obsession with perfection this thing is killing me slowly.
My thoughts are only about how can I be better and every time my height or D come across my mind I get really mad because there is nothing I can do about it.
I was always like that,but one particular event made it worse:
>did all in my power to be a great partner for my GF and never took her for granted
>got cheated on with some tall , better-looking guy
Every time I think about this I just want to kill myself because I know that no matter how much I will try there will be better looking men out there and no girl will ever be satisfied with me.
Any advices on how I can get the fuck over my insecurities and finally be happy?
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>>17503389
>and no girl will ever be satisfied with me.
Most people date relativisticly. If you are a 7 due to fitness and such, average girls will be into you.
>Any advices on how I can get the fuck over my insecurities and finally be happy?
Keep trying to make something of yourself.
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>>17503392
Yes average girls are into me but from what I experienced, if given the chance to 'upgrade' they will just go for it
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>>17503397
>Yes average girls are into me but from what I experienced, if given the chance to 'upgrade' they will just go for it
Sure.
Also, you are too focused on fitness. Fitness is important, but it's a baseline at best.
That feel when due to having been born with both club feet, my calves are atrophied and the muscle insertions are high. The left calf is pretty much equal to my biceps in size (14 inches), and the right is about half an inch smaller.
Do they look abnormal? Would I get looks if I wore shorts (I never wear them)?
It's a month old photo, they probably look a bit bigger now since I've taken to doing calf raises every other day (25x4, without weight since they're weak).
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>>17503383
No one gives a shit about the 1/2 inch difference in your calves but you.
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>>17503388
Lol I was born with both club feet, I mean they are both small. I don't mind the small difference between the calves, though the right one is weaker (because the foot was probably more severe), and I'd like to fix that.
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>>17503423
i like your socks
How badly will shooting myself in the head with a .22 rifle hurt? What are the chances of surviving if I put it in my mouth and aim for the base of the skull? Am I risking becoming a veggie?
Can't get another gun in my backwards ass country unfortunately.
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>>17503349
If you do become a veggie, you won't know, so it doesn't matter.
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>>17503349
With a .22 your best bet is shooting out your eye socket. The base of the skull is too thick so the bullet will just bounce off otherwise. You really can't get a shotgun? That'll take your head clean off, no chance of failure there.
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>>17503354
How would I not know? What if I'm left in a catatonic state for 60 years until I finally die of old age?
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So last month my girlfriend started cheating on me and later admitted it.
Fast forward to a week ago, she dumped the other guy via text message right in front of me, yes, I forgave her.
I think they got back together though, and yeah I still plan to stay with her.
INB4 I'm called a cuck or something.
I don't know what to do, but I'm not in a position to where I can confront her on my suspicions.
I did some digging, and I have HIS phone number, first and last name, I know his city (He's about an hour way), and some social media accounts that appear to be abandoned.
What I'm asking for is how do I make them break up for good assuming they're back together, or at least make them hate each other if they're not back together, to prevent any future issues.
Only idea I had was to have a female friend call my girlfriend snd threaten her, pretending to be the guy's other girlfriend, saying she saw texts on his phone - hoping that would make my own girlfriend believe she's being cheated on by him, or was at the time.
Other than that I'm not sure what to do, and I don't want her knowing I was involved in anything or suspected her.
Please help me out here /adv/
INB4 just dump her OP.
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>>17503335
>INB4 just dump her OP.
If it was once, i can understand staying. My gf stayed after i cheated on her, and i'm not doing that again.
But if the fact of the matter is that your gf is doing it again with the same guy, it's obvious that you should just dump her. What they have is better than what the two of you have - you can manipulate them into breaking up for good, but she'll always know that there was something that was better than staying with you exclusively.
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It's taken me a long time to realize but you simply can't will your partner to change. Your gf is a cheater, you can either accept that and tell her to make sure you never see anything so you can pretend it doesn't exist, or you can't and break up.
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Me: >>17503348
Seconding this: >>17503351
Some cheaters can change. But you gf is obviously not one of those. She'll find someone else.
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How to not hate women? 2016-08-27 19:32:15 Post No.17503330
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They are unable to ever know what true loyalty and friendship is, are manipulative, terribly boring, priveledged, naturally slutty (and that's even encouraged nowdays). How can you not hate them? Pro tip: you can't.
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>>17503330
Normally I would argue with you, but yesterday my friend told me "Women are physically as strong as men. They are weaker on average due to societal factors. There are no longitudinal studies proving me wrong. Shove your Olympic results up your ass. Stop trying to apologize, it's condescending" when told that I don't know why she thinks I am apologizing and have anything to apologize for after stating facts, she told me I am a horrible person. You just gave me an opportune time to share this story.
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Men have their own hang ups, at least when a woman blows up emotionally she's far less likely to kill a bunch of people.
Men are hypocrites, factually display more cognitive bias, are violent, shallow, (men are given the capitalist privilege where they can pick which attributes to use to be attractive, it's not my fucking fault you don't have creativity or motivation to do it) self-entitled, escapist, whiny layabouts.
But you know what, I agree with your assessment on women too. I see this shit all the time in my social circle. You'll always have this one bitch who gets passed around so she can leech the lifeforce out of the guy she's with. But you know why she does that, it's because you dumb idiots let her. She's good looking and easy! Dull as dry dog shit and a total slut, but you seriously gonna pass her up when she's laying on your bed with her legs open? For all your namby pamby whiny bullshit about how degenerate women are, next to NONE of you heterosexual red blooded males would pass it up. For all your talk about integrity and morals you have none of it, it's all just a fucking stage for you to cry about "tfw no gf"
Go fuck yourselves.
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>>17503330
Said from a bitter OP
Women are amazing and I cannot live without.
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>be me
>senior in high school
>be disgustingly beta
>notice qt3.14 talking to one of my alpha friends
>work up courage to talk to her
>she is amazing
>keep talking to her
>she's 16
>brush off 2 year age gap
>invite her to my house
>room has never been this clean
>we play vidya and chat about whatever
>"oh, anon. I have to go, can you lead me out?"
>walk her out
>her dad's car is approaching
>miraculously confess without stuttering
>"...a-anon... i-i... i.. like you too."
>celebrate
>"but... i-i... c-can't date until i'm 18..."
>stop
>she walks to her car without a word
what do i do? the last thing i want is for our relationship to be awkward. do i just ignore our feelings?
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Ask her if you two can date without having doing anything sexual, then 2 months later fuck her
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>>17503323
her dad will fuck me up if he sees me as much as holding her hand.
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>>17503318
i just texted her, she isn't replying.
she always replies.
did i fuck up?
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When texting a male love interest, is it the same thing as texting a female love interest? Like I know that with a woman you're supposed to wait a while between messages and not always initiate/seem really interested in her because you might come off as desperate and women don't respond as well to a guy who seems really invested, but this is the first time I've ever messaged a guy like this, and I just realized that I'm always initiating/sending more messages than he sends me. Is it the same sort of thing for both sexes, or is there a different rule for men than it is for women?
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Increasingly-nervous self bump
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>>17503293
That whole waiting game is for teenagers.
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>>17503293
Truth is there is absolutely no hard rule about men or women, it is all bullshit. You have to feel for yourself what is and isn't appropriate. If you feel you are constantly messaging him first, maybe give a day breather. But it all depends on context
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I'm always hungry even when full. I went off of an unrelated medication, and now I overeat to the point that my stomach is in constant pain. Why is my brain not getting the signal of satiety? How can I fix it? Will power should be the answer, but I can't concentrate/work due to the constant hunger thoughts. I'm normal weight, but I've been gaining rapidly since this started. I can't go back to that medication.
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Also thanks in advance but I'll also say thanks after the fact, because that's what friends do.
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get tested for diabetes
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>>17503286
Go to a doctor, dumdum.
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Needing some real help with Tinder. I matched with a girl who seems generally quite cute and she even sent me the first message when we matched.
However she isn't exactly very talkative. We've been at it for a few hours but most of her replies are short, quick and make it difficult to kind of expand what we're talking about.
Any tips?
Example of a conversation:
>What do you think of Frank Ocean's new album?
>It was really good
>Yeah definitely worth the long ass wait for it
>Haha yeah I can't believe it took so long
>Any favourites on it?
>Just kind of like them all
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ask her to meet up. Either she isn't interested and is just responding to be courteous or is waiting for you to make a move. In any case, asking her out will clear this up
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>>17503298
This. If you prolong this stage too much, you're going to fall in love with a fantasy. Besides you need to meet up in real life to establish once and for all whether you have conversational chemistry.
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>>17503298
Fuck it, guess you guys are right. Let's see how she responds
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I haven't had a conversation with anyone irl in 6 months and even then it wasn't a regular thing.
When does too much loneliness become crippling? I know isolation causes brain damage
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why haven't you talked to anyone in six months?Don't you have a job or go out at all?
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>I know isolation causes brain damage
It can be the other way aswell
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How do i ask out a girl who will say yes, and why am i having a hard time doing so.
>she works at a fast food place by my house
>everytime i walk in she kicks the cashier off so she can take my order
>looks at me like she wants the D
> never breaks eye contact and smiles 100% when im in the store
Why am i so beta
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>>17503231
Just ask her. You have nothing to lose, really
When asking , just smile, hold eye contact, and say that you two should do [activity] together. Then ask if she's free to do [activity]
>why am I having such a hard
Fear of failure
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Go godmode into the store and ask her out. If not you gonna regret it in the future
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Just man up and do it, I've been in the same situation with my gf. She loved/s me more than anything else, yet, I was afraid to confess to her
>2 weeks later
>meet up
>go to her house to play some games
>open csgo
>win game
>have sex.
You never know, if you know she likes you, MAN UP AND ASK HER OUT!
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Story time and I need advice.
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So a long time ago right after 9/11 I wanted to donate some blood to help. So, I made my way down to the Red Cross to donate my Universal blood, type O negative.
A week after I donated my blood I received a letter in the mail from the Red Cross. I thought cool they sent me a thank you letter. To my surprise it was a lovely letter that said "Congratulation you are HIV positive and are on a list as being HIV positive and now you cant donate blood or plasma ever again. See a doctor... PS you suck and nobody likes you" or something like that.
I was shocked and a little puzzled... Well I was very puzzled and very shocked. I setup a doctors appointment and waited for about 2-3 days. It was a great time waiting. When the time came I went to my doctors appointment and they took my blood to test and I went home to wait. It fun waiting for a week or two… Fun times. The Doctor called and had me come in to get the news. I thought for sure that the Doctor was going to drop the horrible news that I have aids. I was not in a good place but when the Doctor said “Your tests came back negative and you are not HIV positive I was so happy. I thing I clapped with joy. The Doctor wanted to double check and took more blood and tested and I waited and the results are the same. I am not HIV positive and as the Doctor put it “The Red Cross is a horrible organization that embezzles money and sells medication on the black market rather that giving the mediation to the people that need it or that they said it was for” his words not mine.
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>>17503230
OP? Are you here? Tell me you didn't die.
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>>17503230
I went to the Red Cross with the test results to show that I am not HIV positive and that they might have mixed my test sample with someones else. I was told that the tests results from the doctor does not matter and that their test results are more accurate. After a hour or so and talking to three people from the Red Cross I was informed that what the Red Cross does to test for aids and to do it on the cheap is that they take a sample from everyone that day and mix the test samples together an test one batch of a group of people and if one person has aids from that group everyone gets a nice letter in the mail and are put on the aids list.
Shocking right? This didn’t bother me until I had a kid. What if my kid needs my blood or worse? So my question is how do I get off the aids list without suing the Red Cross?
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>>17503278
I am here
If you think your life is the worst right now, there is always someone out there who had worst than you.
So... if you think your life is the worst right now and no one can beat it, post it here and we'll see. Let me start.
> be me, came from a poor family (im fine with that)
>used to be so smart
>got offer from government to study abroad with scholarship
>accepted
>went to a country which has about 6x worth money compared to mine
>15 hours apart by flight
>can only come back once a year
>being me living abroad at 20
>not used to living by my self
>have social anxiety, cannot talk to strangers well
>didnt have much friends
>got into many problems, have to handle by myself
>depressed
>going towards the drug path
>fails study, became stupid
>become broke
>family cant help much due to currency difference
>need to find job but anxiety prevent me
>still trying to fix my anxiety problem
>didnt have any progress
>missed my family
and also..
>still a virgin
>never had a girlfriend
>missed all the teenage love stuff
For me, i always told myself, there's something worst, like your dick being cut off and thrown out of a car.
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>20 years old
>living abroad
>thinks his life is bad
Go fuck yourself
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>had teenage love stuff, at16, although didnt had sex and she left me to australia.
>Crippling depression
>become alcoholic at 17 also used a lot of drugs hoping to help me get over the feeling of shattered love
>Dad dies
>Move away abroad with student visa because wanted to leave everything behind and restart
>Draining mums money
Well moving really helps. Meeting people helps. I realised there's many many awkward people out there. I can also manage to open facebook nowadays. Hope it wont fall apart again
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>>17503236
Its not bad if you are old enough, and your fine living on your own.
For me, i wished i chose to study soemwhere closer
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Can a guy really be very friendly towards a girl and only want to be friends? Do some guys just like having girls as friends and being extremely nice to them?
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If the girl is ugly and/or fat, yes of course, definitely.
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I am friends with a married grill.
I am fairly attractive and so is she. Her husband is very passive, but he's a nice guy
I am not "extremely nice" to her, if a guy is doing that to you he probably wants to get in your pants. I mean, I honestly can say without a shadow of doubt that I genuinely like her friendship and we both are great on that level. We hang out (in public, during the day) once in a while and shoot the shit or talk some bantz
Having said that, yes I'm a red blooded male so there's the "what if" thoughts once in a while, but I don't have any intentions on acting on them. Any male who hasn't thought on banging one of his female friends is a liar or gay. You just don't act on it, and realize its a primal instinct
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>>17503187
This tbqh
An ugly girl liked me and was very nice to me, talking to me always
I treated her as a friend. It felt very natural. If she was hot I probably would have tried to go out with her