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Is it bad to hang out with a girl who you're close friends with, but romantically rejected you recently?
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>>17514813
It's not bad, just counterproductive.
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>>17514813
Yes, it's called the friendzone.
She just have it around to satisfy her own attention-whoring needs.
There's nothing in that relationship but the void hope that she would put out one day. Which she won't.
Eventually this 'friendship' would be ruined once she finds a boyfriend that satisfy her sexual needs and you'll be just butthurt about it.
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>>17514839
I've already accepted the fact that she will never date me.
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Taking Xanax for the first time, recreationally of course.
Any advice? I'm damn near clueless
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>>17514778
My first experience with Xanax wasn't much.
I think I took half a bar, and then after a few hours, the other half and I never noticed anything.
The next time, and last time I did Xanax, I took two whole bars and I blacked out for at least a 12 hours. The only thing I can recollect about that experience was that, when I first took the Xanax I was pre-heating an oven for my pizza, and when I woke up, the pizza had been devoured, and the oven did get turned off appropriately.
I did smoke marijuana with both experiences.
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>>17514778
Don't do anything dangerous that you suck at. For example, skating.
Reason being, it might become difficult to work up any adrenaline.
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>>17514789
nice to know I can smoke with it. I hear alcohol is a bad mix tho
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How well do INFJ and INTJ friendships work out? I sometimes feel like my INTJ friend is too cold and only cares about herself, not really thinking about others or anything, and I always have to initiate the conversations as well which bothers me.
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MBTI. IS. BULLSHIT.
When do people finally learn?
You aren't married to your friend. If you two don't get along, tell him to fuck off and cut contact.
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Who the fuck actually cares about these fucking personality tests enough to use it as a soul searching algorithm?
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there's no evidence for MBTI. it was designed during the typology craze and has been resurrected on the internet to fill the niche between people who do and don't believe in horoscopes (although lots of people believe in both)
A guy i know owes me 80 dollars. It's been about a month now and he keeps giving me excuses to why he can't give me the money right now.
What should i do to make him give me the money? I can't threaten him or something like that because he's a wannabe gangster and will probably send some people to beat me up.
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>>17514770
This is your lesson to never lend people money. A friend once owed me money for weeks straight and I beat him up, he payed right then and there.
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>lending money to wannabe gangsters when you're a pussy
Nothing to be done, except wait and pray that he'll feel like returning your money. And yeah, let it be a lesson. Never lend money to anyone, but your closest relatives and family.
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>>17515042
Nice friendship, anon.
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any medfags here?
noticed this red spot on my neck a while ago, can't remember when exactly, dismissed as dry skin and didn't worry about it.
now i've got them all over my body. on my arms, in my armpits, around my crotch and there's one on my dick too.
what are they?
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Ringworm
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>>17514760
very definitely Snoo
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It's cancer, Anon.
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Normies (if there are any here) how much do you spend on clothes per month? What is a minimum amount of money one should invest in clothing per month?
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>>17514745
You don't have to buy clothes monthly if you invest in good quality and timeless style, so that you can combine your clothes in multiple outfits.
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>>17514758
any guide/tutorial on how do I do this? (I'm eurofag)
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>>17514758
This desu.
Normies are the last people you should ask for clothing advice.
Lurk /fa/ and look for their basic guides for business casual and you'll be set for years.
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Hello
Yesterday got wasted and fell down spiral stairs on my back. I feel alright. No back pain, ribs in place. Just feel abit hit. Buut im caughing like these sometimes and when inhale deeply it hurts abit. I had plenty of injuries and first time like this when im spitting blood. Would like some advice on this. Should i see a doc?
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internal bleeding in the lungs, see doctor asap.
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>>17514739
this
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You have nice hands senpai!
A guy I had known for about 3 years and with whom got pretty close to, suddenly is no longer wanting to be my friend for the most ridiculous reason.
I'll keep it as short as possible, but basically I recently had some stuff I've been though and I went to him for help like we always used to do for eachother. The issue is touchy for him due to a recent religious conversion, where it wouldn't have used to been. For the first time ever he came off as really rude and condescending, even though I'm the reason he is where is now; I've done nothing but helped him. I called him out for this, and after some tenseness he backed off and apologized.
I had a development and came to him to discuss it, and he basically just shit on me even worse. This time I just backed off, and we haven't spoken since; It's been over 2 months.
I'm going to message him again. Should I get into his face about the way he's been acting and call him out for being a fucking child and discarding our friendship so easily, or should I try to be soft and nice and try to keep our friendship? I really want to confront his bitch ass, but that might not be the best idea.
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Well it depends on what you want?
Do you want to "win" or do you want your friend back?
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I want him to apologize for how he's acted towards me and find out why he would throw away our relationship like this.
And it isn't just me; he hasn't spoken to any of our mutual friends either.
In a lot of ways he seems too far gone; willing to throw away relationships for the sake of ideological/theological differences.
I would prefer to stay his friend though.
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maybe the topic is just that delicat, maybe he has some hidden personal issues concerning said topic.
either way, more informations pls
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Anybody ever ran a forum, or an online community?
If so, how do you deal with a few people who constantly whine and say how everything sucks, and spread their negativity around the community and its leadership?
Should such people be banned?
Last time I ran a community, it got very popular up until a few whining assholes started destabilizing it, and it split. I tried to contain the situation, but it was too late.
I'm starting with a new, better community now. But how do I avoid this shit from happening again?
I'm all for constructive criticizm. But when a few assholes spread division and hatred, resulting in flame wars, should I just outright ban them? If not, how to contain them?
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i ip ban them
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>>17514637
What a fucking useless post
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>>17514637
Shadow ban them so they think they're participating but nobody can hear what they're saying
Should I quit my fast food job for an entry level bank job?
I have no knowledge on finances or dealing with large amounts of money. The idea of leaving my current job also scares me, as I tend to feel like I'm not up to the task of learning a new job without the rest of the staff thinking I'm incompetent.
It pays a lot better, and people at my current job have really begun to piss me off.
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Yes. It will help you grow as a person and not stay stagnant.
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>>17514635
Yeah senpai you should do it. Banks are the best form of retail in terms of pay and advancement opportunities (plus sane hours). If you have customer service experience you're definitely qualified, and if you're hired already the company thought so too.
>The idea of leaving my current job also scares me, as I tend to feel like I'm not up to the task of learning a new job without the rest of the staff thinking I'm incompetent.
Don't worry about that, everyone else there had to learn too.
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>>17514635
They're not going to put you in charge of millions as a beginner, so there is a limit to how much you can screw up. Chances are it is just another customer-service job just like in fast food - teller or greeter or whatever, and no harder to learn than 'Do you want fries with that?'
>27yo male
>party last night with coworkers and friends
>been making sexual inuendos in text with this girl
>she's a friend I know for a few years but getting close only recently
>things get crazy last night
>everybody drunk/wasted
>she comes to my place without having to ask
>intense sex from 4 to 7 am
>sun rises
>says she feels weird and get back to her place
>tonight there's another party with coworkers
>she'll be there
>we shared texts today
>she's usually bitchy with a massive ego
>today's text made her sound like a cute and kind person
>says she's also enjoied the sex
Do I take her to my place again tonight? How do I do it? How does she become a proper FWB?
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>>17514552
Repeat the situation last time, get her and you drunk and let the alcohol take the wheel on your life.
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>>17514583
Already had an alcoholic fwb in the past, not eager to experience it again
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Party everyday?
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I can't get through my trust issues. I am a girl and have been unable to trust anyone since I was a child. Got too used to know that mommy wouldn't keep her promises and instead she'd punch me. Should I just abandon trying to get a relationship since I just can't trust?
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Considered therapy?
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>>17514381
Done it for 17 years now, isn't really helping :/
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She..she would punch you? Wow. And you've already tried therapy, I'm really sorry to hear that OP. I sincerely hope things get better for you. I have trust issues as well, I keep my social circle very tight knit. Is there no one in your life you can trust even a little?
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So in order to take my mind off a crush who went out with a friend of mine instead, I started lifting again, picked up a new hobby and started talking to other girls.
Actually went on a date with a cute girl soon after, was having fun, she was great to talk to, we spent 5 hours together, she kissed me at the end and said she'd love to meet again.
Week later I asked if she wanted to hang out again, she got super cold, one word replies to texts, doesn't want to hang out, never initiates contact.
Tried again a week after, same story. Stopped contacting her and gave up, don't wanna be a creep. I guess she met a more interesting guy? I've been told that girls are always seeing a few different guys if they're not in a relationship already.
Is this what approaching/dealing with girls is always like? I don't have much experience, hell, that was my first proper date, before that I'd just get girls in night-clubs or parties and never deal with them again.
Guess I'm back to square one again, but how do I get better at dealing with this shit?
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Bomp
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You did fine man. This is the nature of dating in 2016. Just keep going on dates and you will strike it lucky eventually. Don't spend too much time on people who don't want you.
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>>17514513
It just feels so weird that she did a complete 180 so quickly. I fucking suck at texting so maybe that's what turned her off?
Doesn't matter now anyway, time to move on again.
Is it like this for most guys? A game of numbers?
So today for basically the first time ib years I was speaking to a girl my age one on one, and I don't think I dropped my spaghetti this time. We do ROTC (Army shit in college) and people were leaving the group to go to class at the lunch table and it was basically down to us at the end. She even moved a seat over to sit next to me. Before she was cheering me on when we were foing buddy lifts ( puck someone up and squat them) and made me happy for once. However, I have a tendency to complain a lot, but we just ended up conplaining about things together and I walked her back to her hall. It was fairly mundane but it was totally new to me. How'd I do? What are things I can do different so that I'm less of a sperg? I'm literally tfwnogf /fit/
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Sounds like she's already in to you and everything went well, good job OP!
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>>17514562
I hope this isn't sarcasm.. I've never had someone I like like me back before.
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>>17514377
Bump, similar to op
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About to be kicked out of home.
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Ok, I think its coming.
I'm about to get kicked out of my home There is just too much friction and division building in the family. I probably have a week/fortnight or a month tops.
I've got a permanent part time position work wise, though it doesn't pay well, I have a wide variety of marketable skills, activities and extensive volunteering experience on my resume, and I am starting to send off applications in about about an hour after I listing and start packing my essentials quietly.
I've got about $3000 to my name with a clear credit card. I'm very proficient in outdoors survival, I can live in my car for a little while if necessary, but it is co-owned by my father so I cant really count it as an asset.
I'm a reforming NEET so my social skills aren't really top notch but they'll do for now, on the up side I am pretty much fine with social isolation. I've never really gone through the process of renting a place and need some advice.
What advice can you give me regarding finding a place and basically finding steps towards some stability before getting my life back together?
Suicide is always an option, as most NEETs can sympathize, but ill leave that last.
It brings me comfort, a degree of control at least.
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>>17514335
Invest in tinted windows if you're sleeping in the car that's a huge plus if you're living in it. Know the window for places you can shower and change at places like gyms for example. Unless you have a good metabolism or walk a lot don't load up on carbs, the stress and probable lack of sleep will slow you down and fatten you up or make you more depressed.
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OP bump for a few hours sleep
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have you talked with your father about the car? ask him, politely, if it's possible to transfer the title to you as a gift.
there's a website called padmapper that shows geographically where apartment listings are for your city/region. that might help
alternatively do you have any grandparents or aunts/uncles you can go live with? at least temporarily to give you time to sort stuff out.
good luck anon