"Asexual man" seeking advice.

answer this question with only a yes or no.

are you personally responsible for what this girl does?

>>17512382
I personally believe everyone should do whatever they can to make themselves happy within reason. You do not seem happy in this relationship. Relationships do not seem to bring you happiness. Therefore i think you should end your relationship if you really do want to enjoy your hobbies and focus on yourself..

And about your gf "killing herself" if you dump her. If she really is suicidal, she has other mental health issues. If you werent in her life, some other thing would push her over the edge and make her commit suicide. You can't blame yourself if that were to happen.

bump.. this guy needs help and i think this is a pretty unique situation.

>>17512590
To be honest it's not unique. This occurs wayyyyy too much. My best advice would be to locate an alternative foundation for her mental state, get her help, bring others in. Once she becomes comfortable with the alternative you slipping away won't force her into extreme despair. Also, be honest with her! Don't say you don't love her but say you're not happy with things at the moment. She might understand to a certain degree.

Just an idea...

>>17512647
yeah do what this guy said.

>>17512382
Don't date her out of pity. That's unhealthy. And if she threatens to kill herself, that is manipulation. And if she does hurt herself it is not your fault. It is not fair for you to be forced to stay

>>17512382
try to get her into your weeb shit or find a girl who also watches anime.

>>17512400
No...
>>17512758
It's also not fair me to walk away when she's in a pretty bad shape and situation. As true as may be that she forced me into this relationship i kinda owe her something, because i let all this happen... but i want my freedom so bad. she constantly demands attention and i can't give that much to her, you know?

>>17512911
that's not the case, buck. i hate anime.

I kind of feel like this too, I'm not asexual though but I masturbate like once a month. I feel like no other person really gets me and relationships bring more harm than happiness. If I say this outside of 4chan, all I get is "aww, you just haven't found the right one yet :)"