Still can't make him fuck me

let me guess, you neither asked him directly, nor did you attempt to just start sucking his dick?

>>17512223
this. have you tried communicating with him about it or are you trying to play mind games. He can't read your mind, so say whats on your mind.

>>17512223
>>17512235
I did everything he likes, kissed him all over his body and he loves it on the neck.
I started sucking his dick when he got hard, but he kinda pushed me away, but either way, I know he won't fuck me once I start, so it's not really a good option.

After that I gave up and I told him it frustrates me when he won't just tell me "no" straight away, because I was doing shit for 30 minutes. He even played with my tits which he knows gets me going.

Also, every time I say I want to fuck him, he just kinda laughs it off and doesn't say anything.

God I'm frustrated

>>17512255
if he's not responding to your desires then its not really a two-way street in your relationship at the moment. He might not be worth it if you respect his wants and needs but he doesn't respect yours.

>>17512214
Are you fat, ugly or otherwise unattractive?

Honestly surprised this happens, I can't keep my hands of my gf she puts out like once a week once a night, any time I offer to go again she says she hurts and feels icky.

>>17512290
He says he gets sore after we do it, so it's never more than once a day, but hardly even that. I feel you man, I can't keep my hands off my boy either.

>>17512214
>Seriously, I thought at least one thing girls do best is making their guy want to fuck her,

Kek, not these days. Shit, seems like most of you do best at deterring men from even trying...

"mug soggy knees" aside, what's work like for him? What does he do?

Stress, exhausting manual labour, shit like that can affect a guys mood. Shit, he aint gonna want to fuck if he's just come back from a shitty day at work, and is worried he might not even have a job next week because some assholes higher up expect too much and pushing their employees well beyond there limits.

I'd know. Daily masturbator here.
Works gone downhill for the last couple of years, Company did some real shady shit, I eventually snapped and caused some serious damage. During that time I barely touched myself once a week.
Reduced my hours, send a complaint off to HQ, threatened legal action, threatened to report them to whatever government inspection agency I could find so they could check them up against compliance law - now they don't bother me and I am horny all the fucking time again.

Seriously, it's probably shit at work.

inb4
>Then why won't he talk to me about it?

Because opening up to women is never a good idea. Ask any man dumb enough to have tried it.

>>17512280
>every time I say I want to fuck him, he just kinda laughs it off and doesn't say anything.

probably

I used to be like that with my ex, i was super attracted to her.

But i was sexually repressed, not sure why. With my current gf im a sex maniac, wish i had been with my ex though

>>17512319
Even if op was ugly why would he date her and not want to have sex.

If you have been with someone for a while you sort of stop seeing them for what they look like, and are still attracted to them.

Plus he is a man, I couldn't go more than a week without having sex or I would lose my mind with hornyness.

>>17512314
You're implying I don't work or I wouldn't get the same issues from a job though.

We're both unemployed, he just finished his bachelors and we've literally just been fucking around for 2 months now eating take away and doing video games and tv.
Today he was in bed all day, I made him both breakfast and dinner. So no he's not exactly overworked.

>>17512337
^ this, I'm a Norwegian who is fairly fit so I don't see myself as ugly as such, but even if I was I give him credit and say he'd find someone else.

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>>17512301
>my boy

How emasculating

Op your man either has a lot going on his mind, he either wants to break up with you, or he just doesn't have a high libido.

I used to be incredibly sex crazed. My first girlfriend broke me into it and was a nympho so I was used to sex on a nearly daily basis. After we broke up two years later I associated sex as some activity partners do. I rarely ever just had sex with random people. I always either dated, or wanted to date after. When I dated my last ex, things kind of changed. I couldn't see her as often as my previous ex, so for the one to two days I saw her a week we had sex and after 8 months of that she breaks up with me. And it hurt me when she admitted I was only physically attractive not mentally. Then we kind of continued having sex. Strictly sex. Because I took her virginity and she didn't want to risk catching something from other guys. This lasted for 4 months. I told her I'd only do this if we were friends and she outright lies and ends up using me. So I was hurt yet again.

I slept with 7 girls since. One was an erotic massage therapist, the others were one night stands from tinder and okcupid. I am dating one girl now and sex to me at this point of kind of an activity that I don't really care to do on a weekly basis.

If you need sex that badly you need to reconsider being in a relationship with your guy.

>>17512345
Is he depressed?

That might sound like a good life to some, but for me if my life was having no drive I would be very down and would start to worry about my life not going in the right direction.

Some people react differently to different problems, maybe he is worried he won't find a job now he finished his degree.

>>17512337
>He says he gets sore after we do it, so it's never more than once a day, but hardly even that.
>every time I say I want to fuck him, he just kinda laughs it off and doesn't say anything.
>I started sucking his dick when he got hard, but he kinda pushed me away

what are the chances hes a atleastihaveagfbeta and shes fat?

Say some kinky shit to him, like that you want him to fuck your asshole or something.

>>17512365
mm that might be! I'm in the same boat, but I could definitely see something like that be part of the reason.
Thanks for the adv anon, I'll ask him about it tomorrow :)

>>17512377
I keep telling him how hot he looks and how amazing he smells, but he kinda jokes it away and makes funny voices. It really frustrates me.
I also say he's hot, I wanna fuck him, he gets me so horny, he's so soft, "wanna have some fun tonight?" +++

Am I missing something?

What is the sex like now a days when you have it?

What was the sex like in the past?

Has your sex changed at all?

>>17512397
>What is the sex like now a days when you have it?
Quite short, we usually just get on our sides, we both cum after ~10 min and we're done for the day. If I want more than that it's up to me, he'll mostly be happy with that easy format.
>What was the sex like in the past?
A lot better, best sex of my life. :) lots of different positions and a lot of moaning from me.. Not so much of any of that anymore.
>Has your sex changed at all?
Less frequent and a lot less variation.

>>17512424
How long have you been dating? I feel like I can relate to this, my gf is the same I try to do different things but she doesn't really like it because she says its painful from behind and stuff. We used to do different stuff but were like 3 years in now, and its just either I'm on top or she is.

I am trying a getaway to see if it helps, maybe it will work for you too? Or maybe get drunk with him, it might help him loosen up.

>>17512393
You didn't get what I meant. He's probably bored of fucking you, you need to spice shit up. Guys don't respond to compliments the same way girls do, you need to describe the new, dirty shit you want him to do to you. And seriously, it needs to be new and exciting.

>>17512448
Two years for us now.
We actually regularly get drunk (2-3 times a week), but I cannot remember the last time we had sex while drinking so it probably won't happen at this point.

The thing is that we're long distance, he lives in the UK and I'm in Norway, so when we get to be together for a couple of months you'd think the sex would be pretty frequent, but he just doesn't seem as eager as me:/

>>17512460
Okk.. I can try that I guess, but dirty talk isn't my strongest ability

I have always been hesitant to fuck girls because of my insecurities...

I don't last long at all. It makes me not want to fuck. Is he insecure about anything?

>>17512475
It doesn't have to be pornstar dirty talk. Just talk about the shit you know he likes. Does he like to fuck your ass? Tell him you want him to do that. Does he like you to eat his cum? Tell him you want to eat it. Fuck your tits? Etc.

>>17512490
Not that I know of, he can last as long as he wants, and he strikes me as a pretty confident dude.
Only thing I can think of is he doesn't like saying no to me because I keep having to finally ask if he wants to fuck or not after trying for a while.
>>17512495
OK gotcha, that makes sense.

1) Not attracted to you
2) Doesn't like sex
3) Stressed other shit on his mind

>>17512214
you want him to stick a pokemon inside you . gross

>>17512214
Just play with his dick and touch his body?

He's probably cheating.

>>17512369
maybe he's gay

>>17512214
Sex becomes a chore.

I'm 24 too and my dick dont work likr it used to.

When my ex wanted to have sex I knew that meant foreplay, getting sweaty, and needing to take another shower before work.

Once every other or every few days is good for me