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>>17514235
It's possible the world told you you're special and you can do anything. So you quit anything that is either too hard or too easy.

>>17514235
Maybe that stuff isn't for you. Instead of freaking out, take time out and do some introspection. Try not to focus around what job you want to be saddled with for the rest of your life, and instead think about what you value most in life, and find a job that allows you to acquire those values while also being somewhat interesting.

For example, I love learning and music. I put those pretty much above everything else. I don't care too much about having a nice house, or expensive car, or anything like that. If I could find a decent job that covers the bills, and gives me loads of free time, that would be perfect for me. Ideally, a job IN music would be great, but that's not always likely.

First you need to think about WHY youre constantly changing jobs and majors. Is it because they become too challenging, are they boring, etc? If something "isnt for you" what is it that makes you come to that conclusion? Address those issues first and work from there to think about things that ARE for you. What do you like, how much effort are you willing to put in?

>>17514221
The world will always need plumbers. And electricians, and carpenters, and construction workers, and auto mechanics, and barbers, and mailmen, and garbage collectors, and truck drivers, and . . . .

Honorable and well-paying professions all.

>>17514223
Money is less important than feeling fulfilled and engaged in my work. Office work is soul-crushingly awful.

Do you know if already having a bachelor's would hurt my chances of going into trade school?

>>17514241
Most college degree don't pay off unless it's an advanced degree in a desirable major.

I doubt it hurts that you are educated and skilled at whatever you do.

>>17514123
I don't think you become asexual, you are born asexual. Sounds like low libido to me, possibly caused by other problems, like depression.

>>17514127
depression has been an ongoing issue in my life. Was clinically depressed for awhile, but now I'm on meds for it, and feel infinitely better.

>>17514123
Why does 4chan of all places buy into this asexuality bullshit?

OP you are a fag.

>>17513907
Depends your view of "fashion" it depends on what style you want to be more like. Go on /fa/ and check out the different styles

IMO, slightly too big sweaters and jeans or just a regular shirt and tight jeans are the best look for girls.

I'm not super into those dresses unless you have killer legs.

Basically, fashion depends on whoever. Just wear what's comfortable but looks semi nice, that's what's most attractive to me.

I personally prefer a girl who wears a dress. Regardless of her body. But then again I like conservative girls.

>>17513810
There are theories about it, I personally think it's about building trust back with any type of relationship. Thinking positively about someone tends to subtly change body language and communication skills. I've worked security and EP and for years and it's hard to explain to guys you train why your gut instincts should be trusted. Now, long distance communication with no change in writing style or randomly having an ex hit you up after you thinking about them. Well that's another mystery I think will never be answered.

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Funny you ask. When I was in bed I would imagine sending my energy to my girlfriend. In my head I would pinpoint her exact location and throw my energy.

Shes my ex now.

I think if they believe it, it works, if not... Greek goddesses say no other mind could change yours.

Bed bugs maybe?

Those are fresh stretchmarks. You should start losing weight immediately if you don't want any more of those. They will fade in time, but will always be visible.

>>17513755
stretchmarks

you are probably lower than second anon

yes you are being insecure

13 men holy crap m8

>>17513697
>where I was on the bedroom scale
lol sure she's being honest

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She's likely not telling the truth, mane.
You went after damaged property when you started getting after a heavily used homie hopper.

Ok, here's what you do. You take 4 hits of acid, minimum, then you go to youtube and keep clicking on random videos until you find one that makes your genitals feel tingly. Have a nice trip

Best times I've had tripping were at small raves where you camp with friends. Not close friends, with close friends I've known for a long time shit usually gets weird because everyone has hidden feelings they don't want to think about, but with less close friends you can have genuine relationships from the start become closer from the trip. With people you're already close to but aren't completely honest with it could tear you apart. I think a lot of anxiety comes from the fear of admitting how we feel

You'll have to get in the right mindset before you take it. If you go in thinking you'll have a bad trip then you'll have a bad trip. Surround yourself with people who you feel comfortable with normally chilling and maybe even have a sober lifeguard and you should be fine.

Try to talk things out. Fight for your love #nohomo.
If you think it doesnt make sense, fuck it

>>17513620
Given what you've posted here, I don't think either one of you is ready for a serious romantic relationship (if any kind) and you should consider this a second chance.
You almost dodged a potential drama bullet, and only got grazed by it. There are probably a half billion fucking people who haven't had that opportunity.
Just move on with your life, try to improve yourself, and enjoy your life. It's pretty obvious you aren't enjoying it much at present.

Your gf is a dumb social media whore
Drop her

>>17513598
Oh forgot last thread: >>17502888
Haven't made the OP in months. I bet half of us are still around though.

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I'm sorry, I have to get this off my chest.
I got into an affair on July 4 and got the girl pregnant at 19. >She don't want no child support
I left my job because they fail to provide pay on time. >shit pay system
I've lost my money to failed business ventures in the past year. >I learned a lot, but not enough
My bestfriend left the country for a better life in 'murica. >TFW lost with no friends to lean on
Friends that stay close can't help me. >no resources
now all I have is my GF. Says she won't leave me, and she's proven it twice already. > I love her, but sometimes I stray from the right path
Family turned their back on me, now all I have here is me. >no emotional support from them since elementary
Want to end it and be an hero, but I still have a lot to live for.
>GF
>The baby from the girl I knocked up
>plans
>hopes
>friends
Currently waiting for a call from any employer I submitted an application to.

>>17513598
I think I'll never meet that special someone i can start a family with

i'm scared that that no longer scares me and i'm slipping closer and closer to suicide

i don't want to be that guy who comes home to an empty, dark and cold house

Im 23 and we are the same before the part where you mention the weird stuff you did to those two girls but I see that's probably how I'll end up as well.

You're disgustingly lonely and because you're an inherently bad person, you're now on the path to becoming a rapist. You're welcome.

>>17513436
It's a very dark place. You don't ever want to be there. I've never told anyone about these endeavors. It's horrific!

How big is your penis?
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and it still hurts me in certain positions, especially the one in pic related but with my feet up on his shoulders. I'm 5'2 and 95 lbs and he's got a humongous dong so it will obviously hurt even if I'm wet.
Try different positions, and try not going in too deep. She's probably also nervous, too, no matter how wet she is.

>>17513118
Try different positions. My ex always felt sore initially but it never hurt her in doggy or on her side.
The thing is you need to have sex with her more often... three times in 2 months is not enough to get her used to it. Have her stay over every weekend or other weekend.

I need to know about this too.

Gf is a virgin and when we have sex I don't want to hurt her so bad.

I'm 7x6

Funny how? Like a clown?

>>17513114
No like my friends actually laugh and don't have to be stoned

Chubby pretty much means no or very little gf. Try ugly older women or other fat people. My guess is you're trying to compete for desirable women, but that isn't going to work. You have to settle for third or lower tiered females.

>>17512899
That's a cute dog

>>17512899

Dude, you got the number, it's all good.

Next time, instead of asking her when SHE was thinking, you should TELL her when YOU were thinking.

"I'm free this Saturday at 10, let's grab a coffee and meet at the dog park."

Problem solved. Just make the plans yourself.

She wants the D. She wants the Dog

You're clearly underage, so
>My friend has had luck sleeping with girls on Tinder on like the first night of talking.
your friend is bullshitting you.

also b&

>>17512707

nah I'm in college and can drink legally. you kinda just seem incredulous that people actually have luck on tinder or something.

>>17512707
>your friend is bullshitting you.

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