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Alright /adv/ I have a fairly unique situation that I’m wondering if anyone has any advice on.
I’m 20 years old, and have been crippled since birth. I have cerebral palsy and use a walker to get around (think walt jr. from breaking bad). I can walk (with a severely fucked up gait), drive and do most day to day tasks well enough, but I am severely limited in a lot of activities.
Recently I’ve been feeling more and more depressed and I think the major cause is my loneliness.
I’ve never had a girlfriend (closest I got was one date last year), and I can’t help but feel this will never change because of my condition. I’m not completely retarded when it comes to interacting with women it’s just that I don’t think women will ever see me as “boyfriend material”.
Throughout my life I’ve always tried my best to not feel sorry for myself and look at what I can do as opposed to what I can’t, but recently every time I hear about my friends and their significant others it really hurts to think of the situation I’m in.
What do you guys think? Anyone in a similar situation themselves? Am I just being a whiny bitch?
Feel free to ask any question, I’ll be monitoring the thread for the next few hours.
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first you get the money and then you get the women
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Are there no cripple dating sites?
"sure your spine is broken, but your heart doesn't have to be"
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>>17524502
Money is not a problem.
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off.
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Sluts: Are you envious of playas?
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Girls
If your brother wanted to fuck you, what's the easiest way into your pants?
Money? Being drunk? LSD?
I am dead set on fucking my sister and cumming inside her. I have saved up about $800, gonna get about $1200 dollars more and get her really drunk and high and offer to pay her $2000 dollars for one night of sex, and then never talk about it again.
>but this could ruin your relationship with your sister
My boner and blue balls are ruining my relationship with my sister
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wtf should i do? I met a really cute grill yesterday at a college nightclub and she started cuddling with me, we were both drunk as fuck and tired so i really didnt think clearly.
>tfw a girl starts pushing you against the wall while you're making out
Anyhow fast forward an hour and we decided to go to another club. We couldn't get in there so we just laid down on the grass and continued cuddling until her friend showed up and they went home, she was clearly not feeling okay considering her drunkenness so i didn't really mind not going with them. Before leaving though she told me she will go home with me next time and we made out for a long time.
Typical drunk bullshit, I know that messaging her now will probably fuck everything up so what should i do?
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How do I get rid of these fucking bed bugs. I don't have enough for the heat treatment or to replace all of my stuff. We've had them for years and they've moved with us wherever we go. The Diatomaceous Earth and rubbing alcohol trick helps for like day at most. I want to genocide them so fucking bad.
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Please anyone I'm up in the middle of the night clinging to my sharpened back scratcher
I need to kill the fuckers
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You need to hire a specialist and fumigate that shit.
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>>17524488
Yeah we're looking into it, but we got estimates for the heat treatment for like $1500. desu we're pretty poor right now, and I'm just looking for a temporary solution until we get the money together.
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Hey /adv, im here cause i dont know where else to go.
I really want to abuse animals, ive hated them my entire life, especially dogs.
Last week i wanted to abuse dogs i saw on the street and in peoples backyards.
Its gotten really bad, to the point where im fantasising about it every hour or so. I havnt touched one yet thou
My mental history, clinical depression and generalized anxiety, if it matters.
Please help
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>>17524466
If you get caught you'll be the guy who abuses animals. So don't even start. Morally you know its wrong as well. Go talk to your therapist about it.
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>>17524466
See a therapist.
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have you ever thought about joining the butchery business? or go to china, they dont care as much.
otherwise, definitely therapy and talk about it, and they might help you find a solution.
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How do you talk to people,make friends etc.?
I moved on my last year of school, and i ended up in class with men and men only.
I used to be a tomboy and always hanged around boys, so i didn't worry much until now. However apparently i lost my ability to start conversations and i just end up being awkward and cringy. I need new friends around so i want to make friends, no just live trough the year. Help?
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>>17524406
dunno much about that but I think joining your classmates in study groups might help getting close to them
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>>17524547
There are no study groups, in fact i don't think many of my classmates open their books outside of school. Some of them seem to be ok people though.
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Do you have short hair?
I must know
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My GF is sweet, loves me like crazy and has done nothing wrong. I still have to break up with her because I started fucking someone else. How do I pull it off without making her commit suicide and preferably without looking like the massive dick I am?
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by killing yourself ofcourse
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Yo my ex did this to me. Fuck you bro :) ill dominate her for u so she could let go and get all kinky with me, then after she could get all cuddly with my and your friends.
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I'm kinda serious about not wantig her to develop psychological issues. Gotta talk to her today. So how do I do it?
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The prime of my life is passing me by please help
I'm 22 and have been neet for 3 years now spending my time mostly watching youtube videos, anime and playing games
Actually I've barely done anything in 22 years, I never payed attention in school and don't even really know the alphabet
Fuck I need to do something
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>>17524333
>Actually I've barely done anything in 22 years
well no shit sherlock, you were busy growing up like you were supposed to be
that's like waking up in the morning and saying "fuck, I didn't get anything done all night, I just slept and shit"
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>>17524333
apply for jobs.
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>>17524333
wait a minute...
>don't even really know the alphabet
how can you not know the alphabet, it's on your keyboard
get out of here, we have enough fucking troll threads
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Scared boyfriend going to cheat on me with best friend 2016-09-02 07:44:41 Post No.17524316
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Scared boyfriend going to cheat on me with best friend
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Long story short last year I went through a pretty traumatic experience where my long term college boyfriend cheated on me with my best female friend in college who happened to also be his housemate. It was a series of lies and red flags that I purposely chose to ignore and when I couldn't deny the truth anymore I basically developed a whole shit ton of trust problems.
I have a new boyfriend now, and he treats me absolutely perfectly, but the problem is that we're doing long distance since I got a new job and things unfortunately worked out so that my current best friend (who I've known since highschool) is now his housemate. Of course they've been spending a lot of time together. He hasn't done anything that would suggest he likes her, but I'm so terrified of history repeating itself that I become paranoid and stress over tiny things, like when they hang out alone, when they both don't respond to my messages because they're with each other, small things like that. I've talked to him about my past before and why I'm so paranoid, and he reassured me nothing would happen, but I can't stop stressing.
It's going to be awhile before we move in together and close the distance, and in my head I get so jealous thinking that my best friend and boyfriend will inevitably spend more time together than I can since I'm far away, and I'm constantly stressing that the same cheating will happen.
What do I do? I love him a lot but I'm afraid the paranoia will ruin the relationship. I find myself feeling angry towards him and I don't want to lose him.
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He's going to fuck her if given the opportunity. Just bail out and find you another one. Not being a dick on the internet, just being honest with you, hon.
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long distance relationships never work unless the guy is a virgin or a man who went through a divorce and is seeking new love from a girl he met at his friend's wedding
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>>17524342
I really like him though :(
>>17524354
Its long distance but we see each other every weekend since we both take turns making the drive
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My car was parked legally in my drive way. first thing in the morning my stupid ass neighbor drove way too fast , lost control of their car and ran into mine. the police and fire department came and stated they were totally wrong , no questions asked.
however, this was weeks ago. their cheap insurance is not returning my calls; they stated the one time we spoke when this initially happened, that if they dont get an official statement from their client and a police report they wont process anything. And if they did they still have alot of restrictions on if they'll pay anyone.
So far, i've rented a car and my insurance isnt involved because there is an active open case elsewhere. Over all im frustrated, and just want my shit fixed . if it's not going to be fixed because both insurance companies fuck me im going to hurt someone
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cool blog faggot, no one cares
ask a question or fuck off
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WHAT DO I DO ABOUT SHITTY INSURANCE TRYING TO FUCK ME?
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>>17524298
Your fault for not staying on their ass about it.
Okay this may sound odd but I'm afraid to suck my boyfriends penis.
I have no clue why. We've been together for over 3 years and I haven't sucked him off once.
He says he doesn't mind that I haven't done so but I REALLY want to.
How do I go about getting over this fear?
He's also never got me off from eating me out.
I'm afraid of that too.
Any tips??
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>>17524297
Did someone touch you before? Were you forced to do oral on someone in the past? This sounds like something you need to talk with your boyfriend about and experiment; let him know what works and what doesn't when he eats you out. Direct him, and let him direct you when you do oral to him.
It's good that you "REALLY" want to. That's the origin of any good sexual experience. An enthusiastic want to pleasure your partner.
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>>17524305
>Were you forced to do oral on someone in the past
OP probably blocked that memory out
or perhaps it happened at very early age (<2)
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>>17524297
How old are you grill ?
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What sorta job should I get?
I was going to do warehousing but apparently it requires a good level of physical fitness and I'm a malnourished skeleton.
Should I go retail?
I just don't know what to do. I've been depressed for years.
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just continue to live off your parents until they die, then kill yourself
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>>17524295
Retail is shit. Do u like ppl? Well if the answer is no, that's not the job for u for obv reasons. If the answer is yes, still, retail is not the job for you. It will make you fucking loathe people eventually.
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>>17524302
I don't want to do that. I'll kill myself out of despair within 2 or 3 years.
I get my money from the government, my parents give me a small amount of money each week.
Though to be fair, the government taxes the shit out of the middle class in my country so the money I get from them is technically my parents money anyway.
>>17524306
I don't really like people but I don't think I would mind dealing with them in a professional environment.
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Is it bad to be a jack-of-all trades? Is it delusional to think that you can succeed in life forever jumping between interests, never fully committing to one and sticking with it? If you can't decide on one thing to put the majority of your time and effort to, is it a matter of people simply operating differently, or a lack of discipline and being flaky? Is it acceptable to be this way, or should this be changed for the sake of being realistic?
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people who are successful are generally very focused on their craft. you can branch out and do things that are interrelated, but jumping all over the place is a waste of time. You might think you're good at something, but there's guys who do it every day for years and are better, and they're the ones finding real success.
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>>17524263
Is switching pursuits once you get bored with them a form of weakness and inability to focus? Is being able to "not get bored", in the sense of staying motivated and disciplined to stick with the same thing a form of strength?
For the people who focus on one craft, did they find their's from switching pursuits until they found the right one, or was it simply possessing the willpower needed to succeed, excel, and achieve?
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I never got the deal with people being mad at a jack of all trades.
Spending your entire life making glass bottles, programming or sewing aprons will get old after the first couple of years. Yeah, you get the big bucks, but at what cost. Especially with programming, 90 hour work weeks are not fun.
what was my point? oh yeah, doing more shit means you learn more instead of pigeonholing yourself into doing one thing for the rest of your living life
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How do smokers deal with girls who don't smoke? Or what do girls think about it?
Been talking to a girl for two weeks and we have a long date tomorrow. Gonna get drunk and I'm kinda worried about smoking in front of her. What are the options?
She's 18 I'm 20.
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quit
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Any normal person is fine with someone smoking, even if they dont smoke. As long as this girl isnt an autist triggered by cigarettes, you should be ok
Side note: If you arent worried about being drunk infront of her, why are you worried about smoking?
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Continue wasting your health and money on a disgusting habit that makes you smell bad and insecure.
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An ex who cheated on me just recently messaged and told me that he can't forget about me like he's done with his other exes and that after all this time he still wanted to be with me. It's making me feel so bad to see him say that because I have a boyfriend and it's so emotionally draining.
He said he was willing to fly here and get a hotel room just so he could stay in my town for the weekend and talk things out with me.
I just like talking with him I don't like him romantically.
I think the best thing to tell him would be that It is not a good idea to talk to him anymore right? I don't know what to do.
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>>17524208
>I think the best thing to tell him would be that It is not a good idea to talk to him anymore right? I don't know what to do.
I don't see why you're unsure when you already seem to know the right decision. Do you still have feelings for him?
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>>17524208
look you've been down this road before. do you want to go down there again? you know how this shit ends.
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>>17524218
I just like talking to him
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How does one cope with failure and not let it effect their self-esteem too greatly?
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you gotta fail now so you can kick ass later
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>>17524189
failing isn't what failures do. failures never do anything. everyone is scared sometimes.
everyone loses sometimes. literally everything anyone does has a probability of failing. sometimes you're unlucky. sometimes you're unprepared. sometimes you cripple yourself because you dont think you'll succeed and your brain literally enjoys being right about that kind of thing.
try to learn from it. if you're doing your best to improve that's all anyone (even yourself) can ask from you. nothing more. if you're not doing your best to improve, then start. leave no stone unturned. that is what succeeding is.
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>>17524210
this. it's hard not to beat yourself up over it, but you have to try. even if it means just recognising when you're starting to slip into the habit of berating yourself, and then consciously thinking about something else instead. or reminding yourself that even successful people fail.