So I met this girl last night with a group of friends (she was friends with some people in the group). After we went our separate ways, I got a text from one of the friends she knows telling me she wanted my number. We started texting and set up a date Saturday night. Since then, she added me on social media and I've noticed that she's very SJW. She had blm stuff on her twitter and listed her gender as them/they and everything. I'm a pretty chill guy but I not a huge fan of SJW's and their rhetoric. Should I be worried or just stay positive? Any ideas?
>>17522327
I'd recommend getting away now. Anyone whos deluded enough to think gender doesn't apply to them, and that the whole world should cater to this delusion, is a ticking time bomb.
Bail, dude. If you aren't into SJW-type women then now is your chance to cut contact. I can almost guarantee that if you keep her on your friends list long enough you'll come to hate everything about her posts. Don't date it. Don't fuck it. Just don't.
>>17522327
my gf was a self-described "feminist" and "liberal" when i first met her. i gave her a pass because she's pretty cute desu and i wanted my dick in her mouth.
we're going on 1.5 years now and i've manipulated her to be much more conservative. she tends to agree with my viewpoints and finds the opinions of her friends (20-something college kids) to be asinine most of the time.
you know those groups of men in bumblefuck areas that establish religious cults and promote polyamory to it's followers? they get all their male friends to join in with promises of an unlimited supply of young, underage pussy with the only requirement be that they propagate this bullshit ideology?
yeah, that's how fucking easy it is to manipulate young women.
Yet another post asking about depression, I've greentexted for brevity's sake.
>22 about to be 23
>Been depressed for a long time
>No goals I'm willing to work towards, no reason to wake up in the morning
>Never been seriously interested in a romantic relationship
>Had a grand total of 3 "friends" by 21, now have none
>Went to the doctor about it, tell him things I would only tell someone very close to me
>Doesn't give a shit, gives me Zoloft and calls it a day
>Stop going after the third visit, stop taking pills
And a bunch of other stuff which no one wants to hear about.
What do I do now?
I'm reaching the point where I'm beginning to actively hate everyone for simply existing, probably due to the isolation and negative experiences.
>>17522317
Go to another doctor. I went to three therapists before finding one I didn't want to slap.
Also - Start doing something active with your life. Work out, shower, study, clean around, read, whatever. Just do something.
>>17522317
Forgot to add, I want to kill myself too.
Silly me
Doctors' and psychiatrists' jobs are to prescribe medicine. Ask for a recommendation to a psychologist. It's their jobs to listen to you talk, teach you coping mechanisms, and help you change your thinking patterns. Also don't stop taking antidepressants like that, you didn't even give them a chance to kick in. Antidepressants aren't a cure-all but they make doing the legwork to actually improve your life and return to a baseline of normalcy easier. They're important.
In the interim, here are some things you may find useful.
http://slatestarcodex.com/2014/06/16/things-that-sometimes-help-if-youre-depressed/
www.getselfhelp.co.uk
The latter is recommended by actual psychologists and psychiatrists in the UK for non-urgent patients, they ask them to do a few weeks of CBT to see if that helps and then come in if things aren't improved enough on their own. It's no substitute for professional help if you need it, but it can be a useful tool.
I've recently become very aware of how alone I am and although I used to be content with being alone. Honestly I loved it more than anything, but I'm having a bit of cognitive dissonance here.
I like being alone and all by myself, however I also long for love and intimacy, not even in a romantic sense just knowing someone wants to be around me. So to put it simply, I want to be alone but I don't want to be completely alone all the time.
This newfound need to be around others is really fucking with me, i feel weak. I've always been independent and I don't like having to rely on anyone for anything. How do I find contentment within my loneliness again /adv/?
Play some vidya, cook a pizza, enjoy doing things on your time instead of having people blow up your phone telling you to come hang out or you're a horrible person
I love being alone
Introvert: The post
>>17522247
Not sure what your personal life is like, but you can work as cashier and have short conversations with people, or play online and make friends there.
Hey /adv/, I understand that this issue might be a bit confusing to understand but I'd be thankful of you tried. So my question is- how do I know if the girl I'm seeing is into me and if so then how do I make a transition from "we're seeing each other every other day" (think coffee, cinema, lake, museum) to "we're in a relationship"?
Now I'm not socially retarded or anything, Im a really sociable guy, empathic etc. but when it comes to "the dating Game" I think I'm pretty behind. I belive that I have wasted what I've had with few women just because of me being totally oblivious to how they feel.
>>17522216
>how do I make a transition from "we're seeing each other every other day" (think coffee, cinema, lake, museum) to "we're in a relationship"?
Are you doing anything physical with her?
If not, do it.
If you're already doing physical things, then go for the "what are we?" talk.
Then again, it depends on the culture.
>>17522224
No, not really
>>17522224
not op here, but what do you mean by "start doing something physical"?
I like her. And I don't mind some curves. But she's a little big for me. She's very pretty. I'd love it if she would loose 20 lbs over the next year or so. ... Is there any reasonable way to approach this subject with her? I'm open to being somewhat indirect about it, but I don't really like playing long term games just for the sake of suggesting my intentions.
>I'd potentially date you if you drop twenty pounds
No, no way to tell someone that.
Just work out with her, do fun things like tennis or hiking. She'll lose weight naturally.
>>17522187
You don't.
Don't start dating people you don't like. If you like someone the way they are, go for it. If you don't, find someone else.
Former cheaters on /adv/, do you regret what you have done? If so, why will you never cheat again?
I cheated on my bf.
Sex was a problem, I felt it was not good enough, but he really took care of me and was good as a person.
All my friends encouraged me at the time, but they were young, and so I was. I think they didn't think I was really gonna do it.
Do I regret it? No. The sex was great and it made me realize the relationship I had was not good and I can do better.
I don't think I will cheat again. We usually cheat when we date someone a league below us.
>>17522125
>former
Heh
No, in fact if anything i wish i had cheated more. There was this one girl i worked with that i wish I'd given a try.
She started taking birth control pills 2 months ago. After finishing the first tablet of pills(first month), 2 days passed and her period came. Last week we had lot of unprotected sex, and cum inside 1 time. Now four days passed since she finished her tablet of pills. Is it possible that she is pregnant? I read and heard about girls without period at all sometime when taking those pills, but I am very insecure. Thoughts?
>>17522117
Maybe take a pregnancy test??
Just a thought
>>17522124
>pregnancy test
Nah, just roll for it.
1-5 she's pregnant.
6-0 she's not pregnant.
Dubs and she's expecting twins.
Trips and the kid isn't yours.
>>17522132
rawlin
Hey /adv/
How common is it that a girl can't orgasm from sex?
I've been seeing this girl recently (i'm 22 and lost my virginity to her 2 months ago.. lol) who claims that it's impossible for her to reach an orgasm from sex. The only way she's got off is by her or I rubbing her clit, or me licking her clit in a very very specific specific way (the same way she does with her finger, but just with my tongue instead) which I don't mind doing, except that it's exhausting and literally takes 20 minutes if there aren't any distractions.
Also, I've tried to make eating her out better by trying different things, for example trying to do that one tutorial that gets posted here, but she just tells me to stop and just do it the usual way.
Of course I enjoy it with her, it's just frustrating that the only way i'm able to make her orgasm is from rubbing her clit with one finger, or eating her out for a very long period of time. I just feel like whenever we have sex she's merely letting me fuck her until I come, and that's it.
Always tough to say. They say 70% of women can't orgasm from intercourse, but there's also the "no, 70% of women just can cum from intercourse with the 90% of dudes with average sized cocks that they don't really know how to use" factor to consider.
>>17522113
Relatively few women can orgasm from penetration. It's awesome that she showed you how she can climax; that will make sex more enjoyable for the both of you.
I think the problem is that you guys are either too orgasm-orientated, or have problems incorporating the way she climaxes in your sexlife. Or, a little of both. It sounds that if you guys play around a bit more, discover what you both like (without reaching orgasm immediately) and do other things than simply work up to an orgasm (for both parties), it will feel like the two of you are less in a rut.
Also, most women who can't reach a vaginal orgasm stimulate their clit while fucking. If she's very particular about the way you rub her (sounding like it should be very constant stimulation), a vibrator on her clit while penetrating her might be a very nice (new) impulse!
>>17522265
dont worry
enjoy your life to the fullest
I suggest doing pure math.
Be patient, in a few years your virginity will be converted into a significant contribution towards human knowledge.
I'm ready to move out. my bf says he doesn't wanna till January. I'm ready to move next month and we discussed this before and he said he would move but now he wants to wait till he has money set aside?
idk if he's bullshitting me. but I don't wanna stay here for another 4 months. I have nothing here for me. so I told him I'll probably
find roommates and move out, and he was like why can't you just compromise? but like how do I even trust hell want to move out in 4
months?? if he doesn't I'll have wasted time In this shitty town living in a bad situation at my moms house. he does have money and enough to move
out in a month if he really wanted to.
in another side of things, I don't even really wnana live with him desu bc I've been thinking about leaving him ffor a while ..I kinda just wanna get away from him and have my own life Bc he takes me for granted
opinions ? help
>>17522083
lol whore
He doesn't want to move and only said so because he's lazy and wants to keep fucking you. Just leave him and get out of the shitty moms house
>>17522089
I don't get why this makes me a whore lol ok
If I used a condom but afterwards my dick somehow stinks, do I need to get checked for STDs?
Couldn't hurt.
Also try washing your dick better and eating healthy.
>>17522072
Nah dude there's dick stink and pussy stink. I can tell the difference. There was definitely pussy stink on my dick.
>>17522068
Condoms smell bad dude.
>Had kidney stone
>Now is bladder stone
What do?
Seriously is there any good method to pee it out?
>pee it out
Kek, that's the problem, you dont want to pee it out.
>>17522059
No
Good luck with the pain, bro and remember, drink at least a litre of water every day
>>17522059
There are some teas that help, idk which ones but you can google it. And drink water, faggot.
I may or may not impregnated a very ugly and unstable woman. I want the custody.
Also, she is my uncle's wife. They have two little girls and the relationship is almost over.
I find her absolutely disgusting. I just don't want my son become human scum.
The only reason I fucked her was....
I don't know, I was too horny to think straight that day and she was always flirting.
>>17521940
I just want to hear want you have to say about this
>>17521940
you're pretty fucked, best you can do is potentially manipulate her to give up custody to you. but considering you let a crazy ugly bitch manipulate your dumb ass into fucking her raw, i doubt that will happen.
you can take a pretty discrete dna test of the childs mouth, order one, look it up online, they'll send you a mouth swab and you send it to them. make sure its your kid first. don't even tell any one.
ITT: Redneck problems.
>female friend complains to me that her boyfriend doesn't want her going to a club (at least not without him)
>she's never gone without a boyfriend before
>I tell her that she should let him come with her because guys will be hitting on her left and right and trying to get her to have sex
>"teehee anon that's silly, clubs are for dancing not hooking up. Guys there are just friendly"
Do women just not understand what clubs are for?
>>17521931
Yes, they do understand.
Do you not understand how shit women are?
>>17521931
They understand and are evil and manipulative
>>17521931
Let's generalize based on one woman. Great thread.
Ugly guy here, how much better is my life going to be if I work towards being handsome?
How hard do normie shit on ugly people in life?
I don't have any friends and it's painfully lonely but I don't know how to change.
>>17521905
you could probably look half decent if you tried. half of the time people look shitty because they dont know how dress, have a shit hair cut, dont wash their face properly and too skinny or fat
Life is easier if you're not ugly.
>>17521911
I'm doing /fit/ stuff and finding it easy, but my /fa/ is pretty shitty and I dunno how to fix it. I'm not really a creative person
I have been trying to work out Speed, Distance and Time tests for a job interview and most of them are fine. But there's this one type of problem that always fucks me over.
Basically it's the Speed Questions. Sometimes it's easy. But sometimes it's fucking impossible.
Here's an example of the question I cannot answer:
What speed covers 81km in 2 and 1/4 hours?
So I go to the equation which as we all know is Speed= Distance over Time. So that's 81 divided by 2 and 1/4 or 81 divided by 9/4 which is 81 x 4/1 which is 324/81/ which 4/1.
How do I get from 4/1 to the answer given in the textbook I'm working from, which is 36km an hour?! How the fuck does that work? HOW THE FUCK DOES THAT WORK?!
81/2.25=36
Convert to decimals it's easier.
>>17521888
Holy shit, I've been barking up the wrong tree.
Thanks so much.
>>17521893
By the way, the textbook I had DIDN'T SAY THAT IN IT'S WHOLE THING ABOUT SPEED, DISTANCE TIME TESTS.