The prime of my life is passing me by please help
I'm 22 and have been neet for 3 years now spending my time mostly watching youtube videos, anime and playing games
Actually I've barely done anything in 22 years, I never payed attention in school and don't even really know the alphabet
Fuck I need to do something
>>17524333
>Actually I've barely done anything in 22 years
well no shit sherlock, you were busy growing up like you were supposed to be
that's like waking up in the morning and saying "fuck, I didn't get anything done all night, I just slept and shit"
>>17524333
apply for jobs.
>>17524333
wait a minute...
>don't even really know the alphabet
how can you not know the alphabet, it's on your keyboard
get out of here, we have enough fucking troll threads
>>17524333
You like anime ? Go take Japanese lessons outside and meet people. Just move your ass to new situations and life will reward you with romance, laugher and heartbreaks
>>17524344
No seriously, I've been writing it down repeatedly sometimes to try and memorize it, but it keeps slipping me, just now I forgot XYZ.
No one cared whether I learned it or not when I was a kid, so I never did.
I'm working on it now though.
>>17524337
I mean in terms of acquiring a skill, knowledge and whatnot.
>>17524338
It's inevitable, but, man, it'll be a rude awakening after all these years isolated.
I'm worried about just slaving away and never really finding anything meaningful and about whether I should seek higher education or not, if I'm even smart enough for that.
>>17524346
Yeah something like that sounds tempting.
I wasn't completely honest in the op, I have been doing some Japanese self study, but I struggle a lot with it.
There's a soul crushing feeling when you try to read something but you're unable to after all this time, as if you've squandered your time which I'm anxious about.
>22
>prime
Just get off your ass and get a job or a degree. You have lost nothing yet.
>muh prime
your prime will come when you do something for it, little shit
>>17524386
>I'm worried about just slaving away and never really finding anything meaningful and about whether I should seek higher education or not, if I'm even smart enough for that.
Maybe, but you'll have a better chance at bumping into something at work than sitting at home doing nothing.
>>17524386
Give yourself the means to do the stuff you want. There is a lot of benefit to be helped in doing/learning things.
Also, you might want to take dance courses, just salsa or something like this, go to martial arts courses. Make a weekly schedule, not too harsh stick to it, and this will take you out of your home. You'll still have time to do the stuff you did at home.
To me it looks like your parents did not push you into doing things, this is sad... but now you realised have to do it yourself. Do it, it does not cost you that much
Anon, maybe I can make you feel a bit better, we're in a same boat. I'm 23, no work, left from 2 universities, parents still think i'm in one, don't know national language ( because of this getting work become complecated) sit home 25/8 , no money, no will to do anything, sleep till 13.00pm go to sleep at 4.00am. Because I do no activities, I have no active friends, nobody calls me but Mom, since gramma is sick, it's fine for my parents to stay home 25/8, always starved for social interations, bad sleep, overweight, depression... Too neet ofc, not sad anymore, just don't feel anything
There's no other option than to cut your losses and make a change. You are now realizing that you have so far lived your life in a way that doesn't make you happy. You have no excuse if three years down the line you haven't made changes, you'll only have yourself to blame.
It's shitty but there's time left. It will be easily another ten years before your physical youth starts to falter more seriously. You don't have to get married until you want to. There's time to grow experienced and do YOLO type stuff if you want to.