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>>17525635
A hard life turns a warm heart cold.

>>17525680
That doesn't explain why rich celebrities are cold irl. It also doesn't apply to some people I know who are very warm and loving probably because they have endured pain and suffering themselves in the past.

>>17525680
So basically what you mean is that the people that talk down on other people were once belittled before?


So basically we can't have faith in humanity right?

>>17525628
>christian
>superior
kekd hard

>>17525628
Is this bait? The wording is so bad I have hard time figuring it out.

>>17525640
No.

>>17525586
Why are millennials such whiney faggits?

>>17525588
You can thank social programming for that

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=grmwVG2glL0

>>17525588
How did people deal with this in the 80's and 90's?

>>17525575
you find anything incriminating? If not you are fucked.

I didn't. I did find a porn-site profile she has where she just added friends on it. I'm not at ease with that at all. I didn't mention that yet, as I know this Will piss her off even more.

There goes the trust in the relationship.

Did you find any nudes or signs of cheating? Tell us the juicy stuff and post pics here.

>>17525547
Tor and a VPN. Tor isn't allowed for 4chan and will probably lead to a "permanent" ban.

>>17525863
Not OP but how does tor lead to a permanent ban? I am not asking to get around it, I am just curious cause I thought Tor gets a new ip address every time it connects. Wouldn't it be impossible to ban Tor?

>>17525877
That's exactly why. Those IPs are owned by people voluntarily giving up theirs and Tor simply bounces your IP around the network as to obscure it among the sea of IPs, or something of that line as I know, /G/ can tell you more, and those IPs, since they are used by many different people, confuse 4chans mods or prograns or whatever runs bans because it's just too hard to keep track of who's really who. For this reason 4chan has stopped supporting Tor use and you can be wrongfully banned for other people's shit. I got banned for around 20 consecutive cases of breaking Global Rule Number 1 just a few days ago for leaving OrBot on without closing my 4chan tabs. If any mods see this <3 thanks for the quick appeal.

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>>17522485
>I should be on meds.
Don't get your hopes up. BPD is a higher-level psychological dysfunction and cannot be simply treated with any medications (unlike lower-level dysfunctions eg GAD). Many doctors and therapists don't use meds at all.
For that matter, are you seeing a therapist at the moment?

>>17522485
>But I'm sure that won't happen since I'm emotionally reliant on others.
Remember that we're not animals. We aren't slaves to our base desires.
We often have to deny and suppress them for our own good and that of others.

Don't lead the guy on if you don't know what you want or what you're aiming for.
You have to figure out your goals and plans for the future.
In the meantime, just tell him the truth: that first of all you're conflicted and need to sort things out.
And if you just like spending time with him even if it's only temporary, tell him that! Maybe he feels the same. A relationship can be fruitful even if it doesn't last.
A relationship involves 2 people, anon. Bring him up to speed, and you can figure things out together.

>>17525180
>I know I'm a shit person.
>I am, in fact, garbage.
That's the BPD talking. As long as you recognize right and wrong, you're not that bad. Truly garbage people are the ones that hurt others and never feel sorry or guilty, never recognize the pain they've inflicted.
There's plenty out there, and you're a damn sight better than any of em.
Keep your chin up.

I'm a 24 year old male and my mother made me cry today.

>>17525476
I think I might be Bi-Polar.

Some days I'm ecstatic and the others I'm down as fuck. I also have quick short bursts of extreme emotion, they last like 2/5 seconds. My mental state is really fucked up right now, sometimes I just have moments of madness by myself and do things that would make people think you should be locked up somewhere.

I think it's all the emotional strains I went through growing up, keeping them bottled up and now I have snapped.

kys

>>17525466
ask your folks for some shitbox money or finagle a loan

weres your insurance payout?

Well, without a major relocation it's probably going to blow up in your face and there won't be much you can do about it. Maybe take an extended vacation so the press can't get their claws into you, or actually get out ahead of this and disown that family member outright in the media, and if you come from money set up a charity / donate to an existing one for victims of the same crimes. It's either radio silence or over the top positive optics that will keep the shit storm turned down a bit, but it will be a shit storm regardless.

May I ask what the crime was?

Also, it seems like scandals are a dime a dozen nowadays. It's actually good fortune that this is going to drop during an election (assuming you are in the USA), as it could get buried on page 10 and at least keep out of most national news.

>>17525474
>>17525465
It's been my intention to relocate for a while and obviously that seems more tempting than ever right now, but (for a variety of reasons, including the age of my younger siblings) I don't think the other family members are planning to relocate, and I think I need to be here to support them, at least in the next 6 months whilst the shit storm rages. If it does make national news (and this might depend on whether the case goes to trial and what the outcome of that trial is) then I think it will only be a small story so I'm not too worried about that (although obviously it's very unpleasant), I'm more worried about the fact that it will be a big story in the local news, and my family name will be dragged through the dirt and the people we've been friends with all our lives turn their back on us.

I don't want to talk about any specifics with respect to the incident, but it's probably fairly easy to guess the nature of the alleged crime from my posts. The reason I can't be specific is that the police were tracking the IP address of my wifi. I don't know if they're still doing it (and I'm now using a VPN, which might make me properly anonymous, I don't know), but I think it's certainly possible that my internet activity now could be retrieved at a later date and used in a trial, if it were relevant. Therefore I don't want to say anything that could possibly me misconstrued and be used as evidence against this family member.

If you have any weight to lose, you could ask her to do it together. You know, just say it would be easier for you if she's in it with you.

>>17525389
just start liking nothing but fit girls on instagram/fb
she'll get the memo

>>17525389
>Honey, PETA called today acusing me of having sex with a whale! Crazy isn't?

>>17525378
you wont do it, faggot

>>17525413
It's either that or the psych ward and once I'm there life is basically over anyway.

9mm or .45apc

Don't. You'll get more tired, more unmotivated and more suicidal.

Just go to therapy, drugs are shit.

>>17525382
been in therapy 2 months, not much improvement yet mate

I do remember the tiredness being very bad last time I took lexipro a few years back but I'm willing to try anything at this point

>>17525396
>2 months

Nigga therapy takes years. If you can't wait that long you're better off to just kys.

>>17525366
I'd be genuinely worried.
Just the fact that she is living with her parents are 20 is a massive red flag.

She's in her 20s if she can't handle herself alone she has a problem

>>17525366
Yes but i wouldn't leave just so she can he alone.
I would definately talk to her about responsibilities, though (assuming i haven't before which i would have).

Too late he is on /pol/

>>17525361
You have to talk to him. Tell him how you feel. If not about your romantic feelings for him, at least about the ways you value your friendship.

Shut your fucking mouth and go breed with another sandnigger and go back to arabia

>>17525349
have you considered you might be gay

>>17525359
What? If I was gay I'd probably love talking to women.

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Where do i meet women? I don't like clubs; bars. I don't want to dance. There they come with a boyfriend anyway. I'm planning to go to tae bo; what do you think?

>>17525313
Tell yourself you will become that 1 percent, and make it happen. If you doubt you loose, If you can't you loose, If you will not be driven and motivated you will loose.

>Stay focused, driven, and motivated. Like nike says Just Do It.

>>17525313
This do not just talk about it. You must take action.

>>17525327
Thanks, those are some kind words