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I was repeatedly raped starting at the age of 2 up until around 12. Perhaps 30+ times in total. Am now contemplating suicide but not sure how to do it. The events were condoned by my parents and so their feeling are irrelevant in my case. I'm more looking for a peaceful way out.
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Guy or girl?
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>age of 2
do you have any injuries or long term physical damage?
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I really hate pretty girls. I can't be friends with them because I'm never happy for them or around them. I feel like their very existence makes mine worth less.
I know this is called "being a salty jealous bitch" but what can I actually do about it? When I ask myself my mind says "chin implant and nosejob" but is there anything cheaper that can fix all the hatred?
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>>17523415
yeah, get /fit/
a nice looking body goes a long way
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>>17523420
Being fit doesn't fix your face. If you're a butterface, you're just fucked unless you get surgery.
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Post a picture of yourself. Full body with your face.
We will rate you. You will get a lot of guys flirting with you and saying nasty stuff about you, which is what you want. Honestly this whole thread is about you crying for help that you don't get the same attention as pretty girls....well guess what here is your platform.
How does one develop piercing eyes?
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>>17523412
That's like asking how do people develop full lips or red hair or something
Genetics
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>>17523412
gotta be born with it
or get contacts, but we all know how lame that is
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>>17523412
Be cuttingly intelligent
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If I'm saying goodbye forever to one of my good female friends should I kiss her on the cheek or head? I am not killing myself btw.
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Uh no. You don't kiss her, just hug and tell her off.
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Don't kiss her!!
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>>17523389
why tell her off for? im not mad at her.
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I don't need advice. I just wanted to say that while I am a terrible human being, incapable of taking care of myself and guaranteed to live on the street in the near future if I don't kill myself prior, I honestly don't give a fuck.
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If you really don't want/need advice then why did you make a motivation thread?
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>>17523357
So other people can share similar sentiments on not giving a fuck.
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>>17523351
I support you, op. That´s literally the best way of thinking in this absurd world.
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>talk on the phone with my family in Russia
>tell them about how Putin sucks and how he should be overthrown whenever they praise him
>our conversations usually degrade to this because they keep praising him and insulting the West on any possible occasion
Is it safe for me to go to Russia at all at this point? Telephone conversations with the West are usually tapped and listened to, so this got me thinking.
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>>17523340
Forgot to mention that we talk on the phone very regularily, so it is somewhat likely that the conversation was actively listened to at some point.
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>>17523340
the russian government's reputation for merciless cruelty to those that disrespect it are exaggerated comrade. come to russia.
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>supporting degenerate western values
>not support traditional family values espoused by Russia
Kill yourself degenerate scum
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How should I style my hair?
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>>17523339
With a noose.
>>>/fa/
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>>17523339
Probably not, but your should lift some weights.
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>>17523339
You and your wife's son should get matching ones.
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I'm 26 and have done nothing with my life
I don't make enough at my minimum wage job to go to college and my grades from when I went are too shit to qualify for financial aid
Should I do H&R Block's tax prep course and work for them as a tax preparer until I can figure something out?
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you should figure out a way to get back financial aid. I'm sure it will be hard but isn't everything at this point? it will be hard at first but I think it's possible you can get it back, from what I've heard about qualifying.
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Check Facebook hiring groups first to find yourself a job to pay for school. I did it this way and eventually found myself working for Alaska Airlines later on in life. Then use your local bank to take out student loans. That is, if you're going for a career.
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I don't really have any solid advice to give you - I just want you to know that you're not the only person out there experiencing this.
I'm in the same boat as well.
>23
>No job because I have to take care of my elderly parents
>Dropped out of a community college multiple times (one time because my dad got cancer, the other because I started experiencing severe anxiety attacks)
>Live in a small town with no way to apply my true talents on a daily basis
>Feel like I have nothing to show for it
At the moment, I'm making the most that I can of my skills. I run sound for shows, play music with various bands regularly, go to the nearest big city 4 hours away for weeks at a time to act in plays, and I do freelance photography and videography.
I'm doing it all because it keeps me occupied and my anxiety at bay and it allows me to pick up experience and cash doing things I love to do. Problem is - these opportunities are few and far between. I'm just tackling all this in order to figure out what I want to do with the rest of my life and to save money.
Try to find something you love doing - something you're talented at - and do it. If you think you'd like working at H&R Block, by all means do it.
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It's simple. Make a funny wifi ID and make me laugh. I'll send some good karma your way
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>COMMUNIST WIFI
>No password
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Fuck sakes /adv/ is this all i get?
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Gf being difficult - am I in the wrong?
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Last night she messaged me goodnight and said not to reply because she's going to sleep. I replied because I read the message only 3 minutes after she sent because she was active on fb so I assumed she was awake still (and it was only 3 minutes). She got really passive aggressive and annoyed. She said things like 'are you kidding me? I told you not to message me'. She then demanded an apology and I refused. She then said that I never apologize and I should because it will quickly resolve issues. I replied 'I dont believe in apologizing when Ive done nothing wrong'. She then ignored me and still hasnt replied to my goodmorning (she always has).
Am I in the wrong for messaging her 3 minutes after she messaged me goodnight (despite being active on fb) or is she being shitty? What should I do about it? I feel annoyed with her that she picked a fight over something so trivial
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Why did you message her when she clearly said don't message her? Are you autistic? Do you like causing problems?
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>>17523278
Because it was only 3 minutes afterwards she sent the message. She meant dont message because she didn't want to be woken up. She was active on fb too so was still on her phone and clearly not asleep..
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It's not the fact that you said goodnight that's the problem. The problem is that you blatantly disregarded something she specifically requested you to do. It's in the same vein as the "don't touch this" thing. On top of that, it ended up bringing up something that has been a long-standing problem.
If a small annoying thing happens once, it's no big deal. But every time it happens again afterwards, the more frustrating and eventually infuriating it gets. The longer and more often you have to deal with an annoyance, the more you react to it. A drop of water dripping on your face, when continued for long enough, becomes chinese water torture.
Be honest, OP. How often does this happen? How often do you do stuff she explicitly asked you not to do?
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Alright guys, I need some advice. A few months back I was working a factory job and pulled a muscle in my shoulder, I didnt find out about it until a couple days ater when I left the job because the twelve hour shifts were too rough on me physically, I have scoliosis. Now, I got a new job, but the thing is the pain hasn't gone away, it's gotten a whole lot worse and I'm not eligible for health insurance at my current job till january, but in the last month I've begun experiencing a constant numbness in my left hand and have missed a few days of work simply because it hurts to sit all day and my shoulder stiffens and aches. Basically reached the end of my rope here and plan to go to the er tomorrow to get some tests to see wtf is wrong.
how fucked am I? what are the odds they'll actually give me some pain meds so I can go back to work and not starve and die?
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circle where the pain is
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>>17523273
basically everywhere circled, mostly in the shoulder blades and in between currently
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Getting pain meds? High but they will recommend surgery.
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is it truly possible to change your inner thoughts/monologue or is all that self help/confidence bullshit?
I don't want to go through the hardwork of trying to compliment myself daily if it really won't turn me into a better, more confident and outgoing person
pic unrelated of course
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It is, I used temporal tapping coupled with meditation
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>>17523242
I've hated myself for many years. I try to internally and consciously point out things I did well or things I like in life. Eventually it's created a large-scale habit of knowing positivities in myself.
I've got a long way to go before I'm happy but there's very notable progress, at least in my case.
You gotta couple it with things like working out/being more active. Changing your environment externally as well as internally is essential.
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>>17523242
The only way you'll truly know is by trying anyway. That being said, it takes a while to change a habit (estimated 21 days by most places). Even then, old habits die hard. Depending on the type of habit it is and how many other things it's coupled with (your identity, paired behaviors, familiar settings and stimuli), it can resurface and require attention once more. Change in many aspects of life is possible, it's the diligence and commitment that people have trouble with. A lot of your self talk may even go on beneath the surface after treading the same path for so long. Open yourself up to new experiences, take a chance on actually considering yourself a worthwhile human being and you may be surprised looking back on yourself from the other side.
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Hey anons. First time posting here
Like a lot of you skeezy fucks, I have moderate social anxiety. It's not crippling, but it's bad enough that I hate going out and my social skills are really rusty. I'm just starting college and I need to get out of this rut. I should mention that once a conversation starts I'm fine, but I can't start one for shit. How do I not look like a fucking idiot every time I try to talk to people?
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Honestly the easiest method that works for me is pretend I knew them for years. Being upbeat, smile, hand slap and then ask them how they are doing it. From there I say life is good man and go on a side talk about how wondrous the universe is. People dig positivty and like my vibes hence why the convo can go in a million directions from there.
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>>17523243
Thx. I know this shit probably sounds stupid but it's not the kind of thing I think about every day
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>>17523269
Np. Just be chill about it and things will go from there my good man. Good luck.
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need advice. pretty long text but maybe fun to read.
I'm late 20s and single.
I chatted up a girl at a get together. she was friends of the host. her English wasn't that great, but still very beautiful. had an amazing body also.
she keeps pushing me away (playfully) but I eventually get the number.
I take her out, and I don't know if it was the not getting laid in a while thing, or the, I really want to have relations with this girl thing. but I put my sweet talk in extreme mode.
anyway, can you believe it? she gets carded and I don't at the restaurant. the waitress couldn't believe it. the waitress did a triple take. kept saying I'm a lucky man. my date just smiled and said thank you. later, on my way to the bathroom, I ask the waitress what she was wowing about. my date is 45. everyone thought early 20s, myself included.
I still acted like I didn't know. I date her a few times. I eventually hit it. the best body I've ever been with. everything is still tight. the body of your favorite jav actress. small frame, nice perky tits and a nice round ass. her face is cute. so cute. she has a good heart and hates the party lifestyle. raised in a traditional Chinese family. come to find out, she has 2 children, one is almost 20 and a baby around 8yo. each from separate husband.
you know the stories you hear about the good girl always finding the assholes? she was married twice. the first guy was a beater, had a temper. didn't show until after marriage. second husband was a gambler. he picked up his old habit after they had a kid. now she moved to America. and a month after coming, found me.
I'm thinking I need to leave this for someone else. but she doesn't go out. she doesn't have much money.
now she's always around me. I am her only social life. I don't want to leave her alone in the cold. truthfully, the sex is amazing. it's a jav fantasy a few times a day.
What do? I can't marry her. I can't leave her alone either.
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First off nice trips and second off congrats on banging a milf man.
Look the women has been married twice already and so stop thinking she is some helpless creature. Be honest with her. Older women understand the situation they are in and are not idealistic. Tell her that you want to continue this arrangement of her being a fuck buddy and that occasionally you will take her out.
If she refuses you tell that you wish her luck in her future endeavor. Stop dragging her around with nothing to go on, man up and behonest.
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>>17523230
sounds so easy. it's been a few months now and she's so attached. in a new country and all.
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>>17523391
Who cares how attached she is? She is a grown women who found a young fuck buddy in you, what you think is attachment is her just being clingy.
Sack up and learn to be upfront.
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I'd like to identify something that I go through. I'm sure it's not all that uncommon at all.
When a person ignores me, I lose "feelings" towards them. I think I just get over it. Like a sort of "it is what it is" kind of thing.
When my love interest lied to me, I lost attraction to them. Like my dick had a harder time becoming erect and I couldn't stand being around them.
For example:
The girl that I'm dating didn't respond to one of my texts over the course of a few days so I just stopped there thinking "well maybe her phone ran out of batteries, she's busy, out fucking another guy, idk. Better not press it more than that".
A week later she says "hey, sorry missed your message", I ignored it since I figured she was just playing games. She comes to my place and raises hell. Her phone didn't break. She had better things to do than respond to my idle text. I understand. I'm not interested anymore so I didn't respond. This seems fine.
Am I just repressing the truth here? I guess I'm using "acceptance" as a coping mechanism to deal with the fact that people do their own thing? It doesn't seem bad or strange, I just want to understand this better. Any confirmation, disagreement, or insight would be appreciate.
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Jesus you are a child. A person has to be on the money with you all the time or else you lose interest in them and start ignoring them like a fag.
You must be a nightmare to be around. People are busy guy, shit happens that is beyond their control and sometimes they can't give you the attention you so surely crave.
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>>17523198
The world doesn't revolve around you. Just because of a rhetorical girl is interested in you doesn't mean she has to puts everything else second to you. You haven't done the same for her bu given her the space to breathe so why should she give her time?
What you are is selfish. You have this grand expectation of everyone to grovel for you but it's not like you've done anything outlandish to get the treatment that you think you deserve
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First thing -
Try to remain calm about these situations. I have a lot of friends that have gotten extremely angry over unanswered text messages, and they've let their anger get out of control.
Understand that there is a possibility that she's being honest - or maybe she has a communication problem. I know I have a communication problem. I get depressed and overwhelmed by message after message pouring into my inboxes every day. Most of the time, I decide to put off my responses for an hour - an hour turns to a day - a day turns to a week.
There was one time I sort of ruined a hookup with a girl just because I failed to respond to one of her texts in a timely fashion. She asked me a simple question - but I had sort of a complicated and conflicted response. I put off answering the question for a while so I could have some time to think about the answer - and when I got back to her it was too late.
Just (as hard as it can be) keep a sliver of a thought in your head that she might have had something legitimate come up.
What you're experiencing is normal. I've lost feelings for people when they've done something dumb dozens of times.
"Passive aggressive" is a term that comes to mind.