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I downloaded a friend of mine's diary onto my computer and have been reading through it, just trying to find out some embarassing juicy dirt on her. I actually ended up finding incredibly graphic sexual fantasies involving myself and a couple of mutual friends... a lot focused on her basically being treated like a fuck toy and made to do chores and basically being "forced" into sex... its all really dirty, all extremely graphic, she goes into some detail... I feel like I might have ruined her in my eyes and I don't know what to do... how can I look at her as my bro when I now know she has graphic sexual fantasies about me.
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For fucks sake man. Do you understand the concept "private"?
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>>17554751
I didn't think I would find shit like that... just shit about her thinking some celebrity is hot or other shit.
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>>17554718
Fuck her and threat her as a toy
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The only women I'm attracted to physically and emotionally are 2D. I've been this this way for almost 7 years. How can I fix this?
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Its pretty fucking miserable but
>stop masturbating entirely
>exercise so you will have a sex drive again
>remove all 2d from life even 4chan and 2d related websites, full cold turkey
>buy a book for social skills. Example: how to win friends and influence people
>begin going on dates with women and attempt to fuck them
>fail until you almost fuck one but are disgusted by them
>repeat repeat repeat repeat repeat
>if in 3-5 years you have not succeeded consider suicide as a very real and viable option.
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>>17554747
Bullshits
>>17554673
First of all,
How old are you?
Do you have friends?
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>>17554673
get a blow up doll version of ur favorite waifu
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How should I deal with this situation? I woke up today and tried to unlock my phone and couldn't, even though I hadn't changed the pattern since I got the phone months ago. I've got tons of muscle memory with this specific unlock so I have a hard believing I somehow forgot it over night. Luckily I also have finger prints set up, so I could still get into my phone.
Basically, I figure that someone broke into my phone with the stolen pattern (that they must've stolen by looking over my shoulder) and then changed the security settings (but for whatever reason didn't steal my phone). The only person in the past couple of days who had access to my phone was my college roommate, because I often leave my phone in my room when I shower (I also leave it on my desk in the night).
This guy left to go home last night so I haven't had a chance to say anything to him about it. I called the RA and told them what happened and they said they could talk to him (with or without me) if I wanted, but they're leaving it up to me.
My roommate said he was going to come back sometime today and I don't know how to confront him about it when he comes.
/adv/ice?
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Anyone?
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One last bump?
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>>17554637
Are you there?
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Ditched my gf twice because im lazy and now she wont talk to me. Want to make it up to her. What do?
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>>17554630
Apologize for your bad immature behavior,and never ditch her again,if she accepts you back
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Do nothing. Wait for her to get angry because you're not doing anything about it and then ignore her anger and pretend like nothing ever happened. Whenever women are showing anger and/or frustration, you just ignore it. Never apologise and never explain your actions to her.
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>>17554660
This only works if she's young...very young.
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Life with my parents had never been fun. I understand that families have their moments, but mine takes the cake.
They were drug addicts most of my childhood into my late teens, and after that they went from heroin to uppers.
They even got hepatitis from IV drug use, but that didn't stop them. They stole all of my personal possessions and sold them to get more drugs. I've been through more gameboys, home consoles, and other electronics than a store. In my father's words, they would buy me stuff for my birthday and christmas that they knew would get them enough money for drugs when they were desperate.
The only thing they stole and sold that they showed any remorse for was my sister's violin.
I'm autistic, so they have always used that to their advantage. Telling people that they speak on my behalf. Collecting payments from the government for caring for me. Even throughout the past 6 years I have lived alone, and struggled with life on my own.
A year ago, they were selling their car. My job was paying me well at the time, so i asked to buy it.
In january through to april, i was forced to take unpaid weeks off from work, so I got into credit card debt. I told my parents I would pay the $900 owing when I could, which they were fine with.
Until now.
They are demanding payments, even if that means I have to ask charities for food. They say they can't afford food. But they smoke weed, and being computer illeterate they have got me to order groceries online with their bank card, delivered to their house.
They have given my sister 3 cars, because she has children. They have made me feel terrible regarding this car sold to me. They know how to manipulate me, they know my autism inside out.
I want nothing more to do with them once this car is paid for. They are so vindictive that they keep changing their will to reward whichever of their children are getting along with them. I tried explaining my situation about finances but mum kept gaslighting me.
What do i do?
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>>17554617
maybe you can try selling ur car to pay off credit card debt. just try to block them out until u have enough money to move out and block their phone calls and etc/
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I'm sorry op. Find any charity or things you can cut back on to save money. Every little thing counts.
Get it out of the way as soon as possible and then cut contact.
You'll be free with no strings attached.
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>>17554841
I live alone.
I've thought about selling the car. I don't need it. My partner has one, and when we move in together i can save up and buy a truck.
I've blocked them out, but they are getting more aggressive. Phoning from private numbers. Phoning as soon as i finish work. Phoning all weekend until i answer.
When i phoned back yesterday I was met with abuse over paying for the car, sprinkled with emotional blackmail.
"We can't even come visit you"
>Yes you can
"But you never answer the phone"
>you know my address
"We know you don't need us anymore"
I want them out of my life when this is over with, but I feel like ass for removing my parents from my life.
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That's the plan anon, as it is, I live on schnitzel on bread. Costs me $30 a fortnight. I'm trying to cut back on expenses. The scary part is once this is all done with, they'll start acting like sweet old parents again, and try to headfuck me into keeping in contact.
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Is going bowling an alright first date? I already know her a little, from chatting in class.
How do I ask a girl to bowl? It seems weird to just walk up to her and ask if she wants to go bowling. Should I just ask her to go on a date generally and then bring up bowling as an idea?
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Bowling is a group activity IMO, not a two person thing. Just ask her out to coffee and then suggest going for a walk if the date goes well. If it's still going well, then suggest dinner.
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>>17554579
So since you chat in class,ask her out! Well bowling is an original idea,and sounds fun! Go for it. But ask it when you are only you both. If there are other ppl in the conversation will ask to join you and you don't want it!
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Bowling is fun, but it is a group activity. Personal if someone asked me to go bowling I would want to bring other people.
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How do I survive living in a car? I have a job and im going to college. Im trying to see if I can use the showers at one of the campuses connected to the one I go to since the ones there are being renovated. I have $80 until I get paid on Thursday which could last me. The other big problem is that its illegal to sleep in your car at night and I was almost caught on my first night until I decided to stay in the same area my work is by so I have an alibi. Any tips or advice would be helpful.
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What kind of horrible despotic shithole do you live in where you can't sleep in a fucking car?
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>>17554590
San Diego
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>>17554590
Some places are horrible despotic shitholes in that pedestrians will fuck with you. The police will fuck with you everywhere.
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How to be successful in life
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I will try to make this as short as possible.
So i'm currently 19 years old and want to become successful in life.
Success for me is earning lots of money and living a happy life with my future wife that will love me, and i will love her.
My main question is, how do i get to this point?
Also another question, are playing games for entertainment fucking retarded? Right now i want to begin playing Starcraft II and i will obviously not get pro in that game. Should i start playing it because it might be fun or should i just don't bother wasting 100's or 1000's of hours. Right now all i do in my spare time is sitting home browsing 4chan, reddit, watching latest Youtube videos of my subs, skyping and playing Rainbow Six Siege with my friend. I feel like i should do something else with my time, like living my life or something? Remember i'm 19 years, aren't the 20's the time where everyone is "Living their lives"?
I also want to learn Korean, how hard will it be to learn this on my own?
If you are wondering the reason to learn the language this is the following: Kpop, Kdramas, interesting culture, Korean E-sports are great. Might want to move to Korea in the future? I guess i should start learning the language instead of doing what the paragraph above is about.
Last question: On the part about earning lots of money, i currently saved up 19K USD. What are some smart things i can do with this money to make more? I have no idea how investing works.
Please help me, any answer is appreciated.
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>>17554563
if you want to be financially successful then you should stop consuming so much media, and start honing skills and creating things of value
that said, financial success isn't going to make you happy. external sources of happiness are fragile and easily lost. internal happiness is physiological and philosophical. exercise, improve your diet, and learn how to be present and feel fulfilled.
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>>17554594
>start honing skills and creating things of value
What are some good skills i can learn at home? I'm planning on learning advanced Excel.
>exercise, improve your diet
Actually started hitting the gym a couple of months ago, with a serious diet (not counting carbs yet).
Also i'm basically socially retarded so i need to work on that...
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>>17554971
>asks 4chan how to be successful
>thinks people here are actually qualified to reply
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She stayed with us for a month or two, kicked her out when we realized she sold my dad's laptop and ipad.
We told her to never use our mailing address for stuff. It's been a year since we kicked her out and now we're getting her health insurance forms and other random shit in our mailbox.
I've sent the stuff back to the post office saying that she doesn't live in our house, but we still keep getting the same stuff.
What can I do to stop all her mail arriving to our home?
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write your names and the word only on/in the mailbox. also: what do you care?
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>>17554552
She's done worse stuff than stealing my dad's laptop and ipad, including sneaking in my room and stealing some of my emergency money, getting our social security numbers from my mom's important papers pile, opened a credit card in my brother's name, all of which we found out a little after she left.
She's a junkie but she is not dumb, her ex husband was an identity thief. She's not a good person, and she keeps trying to find a way into our lives and I don't need that shit here.
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bamp
I'm 20 and my home life is going out of fucking control
My dad left us, likely for another woman/family
My mom constantly belittling me
My brother verbally abuses everyone because he knows we wont fight back
For fuck's sake, I just wanna leave.
How do I move out? What're some necessary things to do before? No one ever taught me what to do when you're ready to move out. I dont wanna dive in head first either without preparing
I live in California, if that matters.
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>>17554516
Do you have a job? Savings? Enough for an emergency fund? Do you know how to cook and clean and generally look after yourself? Do you know how to budget? Are you prepared to live with a roommate?
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Figure out your budget (how much you make and if you can pay for phone, food, car, gas, rent, etc)
Figure out if you can live alone in a studio or rent a room, or if you have a friend who can rent a 2 bedroom apt with you
Call potential places, arrange walk throughs
Have your information ready for background checks (usually $30-60 for a background check in CA)
Give them a move in date
About a day or two before you move, change your address with the dmv and post office
Move in
What part of CA? Are you in Orange County?
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>>17554516
Why is your mother belittling you?
How old are you?
Are you working?
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>19
>Starting college soon
>Thinking about a major in economics
What's a good degree to shoot for, and how do I not get screwed out of job viability?
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>>17554500
Medicine is the way to go son.
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>>17555213
I won't lie.
I have no motivation to become a doctor.
The terminology alone would probably tank me.
I don't think I could last in a field I care nothing about in the slightest. The money alone wouldn't be worth it for me.
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>>17555213
I think I could really care about the people though.
I don't know if I could have my life become my job though.
I feel really frustrated
All I can think about these past few weeks is girls girls and girls. All I think about is wanting to take a girl on dates. Generally my sex drive is low, but lately it's been really up. the problem is I don't know what to do. Fapping doesn't work, infact it makes it worse.. and I'm not in the position to even date to begin with. I'm seeing therapy for anxiety, and in a slim white dude, which makes me feel self concious anyways..
I'm really trying to just focus on my career. But it's not working completely, Any advice on what I can do to not think about dating?
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>All I can think about these past few weeks is girls girls and girls. All I think about is wanting to take a girl on dates.
this is exactly how I feel right now tbqh
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>>17554537
It sucks. Like I don't know what to do
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>>17554428
sounds like you're working on yourself- that's great. Lots of people refuse to see anything wrong with themselves and don't bother.
It's great to focus on your career or bettering yourself, but you can't just keep ignoring these growing feelings- it likely won't go away. It's ok to devote some time and energy to chicks, just don't let it become priority over more important stuff.
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Hey guys I need your advice. Anyway, there's this girl that I used to talk to about 4 years ago and we were together every day. She was really good looking and she was just everything I had ever wanted. Things were going great and they were getting better and better as time went on.
Interestingly enough, this girl was a girl that I had a huge crush on back in the 8th grade. It seems interesting that an underacheiver like me was able to get with her some years later.
I was about 250 lbs when we started talking and it wasn't an issue for her. I'm pretty tall so it's not like I looked really fat at 250. Anyway, she moved away and I haven't seen her for almost 4 years. She has now moved back. Were just now starting to talk again and we're going to be hanging out soon. Since 2013 I've gained an extra 20 pounds and I'm now 270. (I was still a minor back when I was 250).
My only worry is that she's not going to want to be with me or talk to me since I'm a little bit bigger than I used to be. We've really only talked over text lately.
She used to tell me how much she loved how I held her and she didn't want me to lose any weight. But now that I'm a little bit bigger I don't know what she'll think.
I was wondering what weight loss tips you guys could give me. I'm also wanting to do it for myself because I've wanted to for a while now. This is just something that has pushed me to actually do it. I used to weight lift at school but since I don't go to school anymore I can't really find the time to do it. I really want to go to a gym but my social anxiety kind of gets me.
Anyways, thanks. Am I being stupid? I really do feel like I'm just being an idiot right now.
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>>17554403
>weight loss tips
Eat less, move more. Basic thermodynamics.
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>>17554410
I was thinking about biking a lot. I'm also trying to eat a lot healthier lately. Its been a week or two since I've started eating better an for seems I've lost about 4 pounds. I'm not sure exactly if this is body fat or if it's water weight.
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>>17554403
post a pic at 250 and then 270- you're more than welcome to blur out the face.
Also, if she liked you at 250 she'll probably still think you're cute at 270. Girls that are into a little chub are pretty flexible in that area.
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got the number of a girl - coworker, works a few of the same shifts that I do. mostly I've just made small talk, with a bit of 'cocky + funny' thrown in (just to see how it works out). turns out we have a lot more in common than I first thought, and she expressed interest in meeting up.
I got her number last Sunday, and texted her this Thursday just gone. I got a reply, an hour later (slow is not always a good sign in the evening), saying that she was sorry but she has a lot of family stuff going on at the moment. she didn't give me a definitive time on when it would all calm down, which leads me to think it may be her flaking already. She asked for a 'rain check' (first chick that's done this in a while).
I replied saying that she should enjoy whatever she has planned with her family, and I will try to get in touch some other time (not committing to contacting her was the right play, I believe).
So I'm at a loss, is it worth keeping this girl on my dating list? It seems strange she would flake within one text, and from this I naturally overthink it and wonder if this is a sign of low interest overall.
tl:dr worth meeting up with a chick who asks for 'rain checks' after the first date?
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>>17554401
there is no such thing as a no sale call. A sale is made on every call you make. Either you sell the chick a date or she sells you a reason she can't. Either way a sale is made, the only question is who is gonna close? You or her? Now be relentless, that's it, I'm done.
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She's stringing you along. She might have some other guy she's seeing. In any case don't commit and find some other chick
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Jesus Christ, if you go through life thinking that every little thing like this is a girl trying to get you and you see it as a game that you have to try to win, you're going to end up old and lonely.
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How to handle cunty, passive aggressive girls in ones circle of friends when you are a guy?
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You stop being friends with cunty passive aggressive people. It's not that hard, idk why anyone would hang around with people they don't like.
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>>17554406
I have to. She's a good friend of my best female friend.
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You made a thread about this before, didn't you?
Can you give an example of what she does?