whats it like to be in love /adv/?

Like complacency... don't feel anything, don't mind if she's in my private space or touching me.
Sure you want to be a team and protect them, but that's the same feeling as having a blood-brother.

>>17551609
I feel unreciprocated love all the time and it makes me wanna kill myself

It's a great feeling knowing someone else wants to have you around. That they'll give you a lot of themselves and open up like that. Of course it comes with the possibility of the worst feelings you'll ever experience.

>>17551609
If you find a good one: amazing

If you find a bad one: like you're a substance addict and you just can't quit no matter how shitty it makes your life

>>17551640
this. absofuckinglutely this

It's overrated. The most fulfilling love you can derive from someone is from yourself. Sadly no one else can ever love you to the same extent you can.

>>17551609
Simultaneously the best and worst feeling ever.

>>17551609
Im 24 too.

Ive only had 1 gf ever, i loved her but i lost her

Trust me, "its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved" is the biggest fucking meme on the planet.

I WISH i could go back to the time i never had a gf

>>17551609
love... being wanted really. being free to be yourself and they like it and you feel relaxed. Or you can tell them what you are thinking and feeling and they really care about it. And you feel the same way about them.

I feel like a lot of guys think the whole fit thing is the way to get someone to like you but it's really about liking yourself and putting that out there and someone eventually likes it too. Nothing wrong with improving yourself but if you let it mask your own inadequacies you'll never get to the point where you need to be. You have to be okay with putting yourself out there and socializing with people and not really worrying about how people view you. Just going out there and showcasing who you really are and hopefully someone meshes with that.

>>17551609
It's kind of shit. You feel drunk and ignorant of what the fuck is actually going on. You get submissive and tolerant in the sense that you allow your partner to act and do shit you usually would be very judgemental of and would kick them out for it. Your libido also increases ten fold.

Don't do it. Accept friendship as the true healthy form of having a healthy relationship.
Be best buds forever, it's a much cozier and happier satisfying feel than love. You actually feel comfortable because you're not in way over your head when discussing marriage and having children.