Should I teach my friend a lesson? She frequently leaves the front door of her house unlocked with nobody home while she goes to work. I'm thinking about going to her house while shes at work and taking some "valuable" but replaceable items.
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I understand what you're trying to accomplish but this most likely would make her very angry at you and possibly shatter your friendship
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I don't plan on ever letting it be known it was me.
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So you're planning to actually rob her?
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what is a good genre of porn to get me off.. im just desensitized to most of it, squatting porn (cowgirl riding) used to do it for me but now i cant, i tried all sorts of weird shit even gay porn but to no luck...
nothing illegal pls, no links just genres or weird shit
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how about you stop watching porn and degrading yourself and the abuse victims who get themselves off on camera for you
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>>17554976
shut up man, give me a genre or get out
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This is /adv/, not /r/.
Honestly, I would say stop and give it a break. You will lose to the urge in the beginning, but if you're able to fight it once every other time, you'll get in the habit of stopping yourself, and it'll overall become easier to stop.
I myself am in kind of the same funk as you are right now, and I haven't masturbated in about three days. The urge comes back, but I think of a certain someone along with flexing my abdomens and blowing out air to get my erection to go away. That's just what I do anyway.
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Can someone still worship nordic gods? Or is it social inappropriate? I am really interested in this stuff
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If you want to be a LARPy faggot, sure
Otherwise go to church so you don't become a "I'm spiritual but not religious" SWPL
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Obviously it's not socially appropriate but you can still do it if you want to. Join an organization like Asatru Folk Assembly and read a book like pic related.
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>>17554964
Go to eight chan, the board you want is /asatru/.
Though it tends to be either a) >>17554972, b) an attempt at ethno-nationalism by people of nordic descent or who THINK they are of nordic descent but are just really insecure about their own identically (socially, racially, etc), c) edgy counter-culturalists.
But don't do it, because then you'll be dirty pagan filth.
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high school sweetheart 2016-09-10 23:58:31 Post No.17554936
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I've been with my high school sweetheart for 6 years and everything is fucking amazing, I couldn't ask for better. She's hot, smart, caring, etc. We've never been with anyone else.
Are we missing out on anything by not being with other people? University years were pretty difficult, you see everyone partying like crazy and fucking nonstop. We are both trustworthy and would never succumb to something like cheating, but we are just curious.
Is there anyone else here who has only been with one person and will probably remain with one person? Should we open up to more sexual experiences or if we are satisfied just continue to be with each other only?
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Bumping cause there's gotta be other people out there
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I've only been with one person for 6 years also. Sometimes I don't even know why we're together - neither of us are exactly what the other looks for in a partner and we never had anything in common in the beginning but I guess risk aversion kept us together long enough to get married.
Deep down I feel being with anyone is going to be underwhelming due to my demandingness so no point switching. No attractive girl has ever indicated sexual interest in me outside of a relationship either.
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Sometimes I wish I could be with someone with bigger tits I guess - still debating whether to push wife into getting implants...
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How can I gain life experience, I am failing on aspects of life, physical, mental, and emotional.
>200 pounds
>21
>Never been in a relationship before
>Part time shit job at a supermarket
>Recently quit a community college after I went there for 4 years for general education and got nothing
>Lazy
>Lose motivation quick
>Play video games on my free time, only go out when my friends want to which isnt alot since they have gf's
>Have no other real hobbies
How can I gain more life experience, I am doing horrible right now and I have no idea how to move forward.
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Travel?
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>>17554951
I work a shitty part time job there is no way I can make enough money to travel and make it meaningful
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>>17554927
Start by improving your body. Run. Lift. Make your body better.
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Depression as a part of myself ? 2016-09-10 23:52:19 Post No.17554920
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Depression as a part of myself ?
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First of all, I'm french, and only 19 years old, so that's why my grammar isn't perfect, excuse me about that.
I've always been a depressed kind of guy.
I've been seeing a therapist for three years.
I'm entering my second year of college. I attend a computer science course, which is not bad but almost all people there are associal men and I don't like the lack of diversity in the possible encounters there.
I got my first girlfriend in November 2015 by acting like a confident guy. Slowly I acted more and more like the depressed piece of shit that I am around her, and that made her dump me in January.
I attempted suicide (with medication) in April because of that, I ended up puking blood for ten hours straight, and they sent me to a mental hospital for a week.
I still got good grades as you can guess since I'm entering the second year, but I don't really care.
Here are my two questions :
1. Being in the mental hospital felt very great because of the sense of security it gave me. It felt like I was free from every responsabilities in my life, I was happy even though they didn't gave me any treatment.
Since then I've been feeling like everything in the real world is agressive, am I broken ? I've had a strong lack of pleasure in all activities for a long time, but never have I felt so in danger just by being me and outside.
2. My dad is a depressed piece of shit just like me. He cried a lot infront of me when I was a kid, he was always shouting insults over me and my brother, sometimes beated us, and often he would practice emotional blackmail on us, bullshiting us about killing himself.
I often feel like I'm a clone of my dad, even though I make everything possible to become a good person. (He was jobless and I'm working hard in university right know)
I know that I'm reproducing his comportement, but could genetics be involved in my depression ? And also why is it so hard to not act like your parents ?
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I kind of lost myself into my own story. What I'm also asking is : can depression be a part of someone nature and personality ?
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Predisposition to depression is genetic, and recurrent depression is largely genetic. I wonder how much is really going on in therapy if you don't know this and still call yourself a piece of shit. I'll tell you now that not all mental health care is good, in fact most is not.
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I've heard people saying depression is genetic, and others saying the countrary.
That's why I don't know.
It could just be that, being raised by depressed parents makes you depressed, as an environmental factor. And that has always been my opinion.
My psychiatrist told me that there is no genetics involved but he could just be wrong.
My dad told me that there is genetics involved, a long time ago, but I have trouble trusting him on this type of facts.
And searching about it on the internet leads me to nowhere, maybe I just can't find the trustworthy articles. I'm not that guy that trusts everything he reads.
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How to maintain a positive mindset. 2016-09-10 23:51:03 Post No.17554916
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How to maintain a positive mindset.
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I am generally very negative, tired, and passive person, with no energy, and only angst and apathy in my mind. Despite no longer being as deep in the pit of depression I was some time ago, I still haven't completely escaped the pull of that black hole.
Anyways, sometimes, I get episodes where I am unusually happy, energetic, and confident, which is a welcome change of pace for me, because life is generally more pleasant in that mindset. The problem is, that those states of mind are fleeting, couple of days, or maybe a week at best, and I got no real clue of how to maintain them, or even return to that state of mind.
I can be dropped back into negative state of mind by even the most inconsequential shit, like losing a piece of a miniature I am building and not being able to find it or being unable to draw something the way I envision it to be.
Right now, I am in a more positive state of mind, possibly due to watching picture related recently, and it is refreshing to me, as I have been down for a while now. I am however, already dreading the inevitable return to my depressed state of mind.
Is there anything one can do to consciously maintain this sort of positive state of mind, because I sure as hell prefer it over my negative, potentially self destructive, self.
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I'd say find a passion.
Keep busy doing an activity that you enjoy. Get better at it. Have fun with it. Get frustrated by it.
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I have hobbies like drawing, and assembling, painting, collecting and playing with tabletop miniatures. It is just that neither of those hobbies really drive me as much as they used to.
They don't fill the emptiness inside of me, they just distract me from it, just like playing vidya, watching anime, and masturbating does.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NFjE5A4UAJI
Try reconnecting with someone from the past while flattering them
It worked for me
Yare Yare DAZEEEEEEEEEEE
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>24 turning 25
>starting university in a week
How badly have I fucked up? I want to get the ball rolling on having a higher quality of life as an educated middle class citizen, but am I ever going to attain that starting so late? Its finally dawning on me that people I went to school with have graduated with masters and are planning to have kids already while I'm only getting my shoes on to join the race.
Maybe if I knew of any people who decided to change their life in their mid 20's and succeeded I'd have more belief that I won't just end up an unemployable 30 year old graduate with debt and no connections.
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Possible, but the odds are arrayed against you.
Just to know: what HAVE you been doing in the past 7 or so years when you could have been in college but weren't?
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Better late than never famirino.
I sure hope this move is part of a concrete plan tho. As in, I hope you're positive what you want to do with your degree and shit.
You're not too old to make it work but you can't afford to drift anymore either.
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>the odds are arrayed against you
Not OP, but what? I know plenty of people who have started studying in their 20s and 30s and have gone on to do just fine.
OP, it is what you make of it. Your age isn't going to make you unemployable.
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I'm new to btc.
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ok?
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>>17554859
I'm really curious if there are any real ways to acquire btc without actually paying?
>faucets don't pay
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>>17554865
I really set it up to gamble online. I'm trying to figure out how to get btc for free
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My boyfriend and I are in a LDR and I wanted to talk to him today about plans for him to visit soon. I wanted to discuss it over Skype, because I wanted to see/hear him and I wanted his undivided attention (he multitasks whenever we're not in Skype) and he said no, because he didn't want to give me his undivided attention.
I tried to talk to him about how it's important to me to have his full attention once a day or so and how it's transparently obvious when he's not giving it to me, how it makes me feel shitty, unappreciated, like he's not listening to me, and like I'm second to whatever else he's paying attention to. He repeated he doesn't want it and didn't say anything further. I said he was being unreasonable by not letting us open up a dialog about it and he ignored me. I asked him to stop ignoring me and running away and he said "you're not gonna see my side of it though, you're just gonna keep forcing what you want on me and not accepting what I want". He kept trying to tell me that's what my motives were even though I repeatedly tried to tell him it was to resolve things and reach a compromise, and kept being extremely antagonistic and turning everything I said back at me.
We've had this problem for a while with how we communicate and he acknowledges that he does it when he's calm but says that he can't see it during or figure out how to change. I've been with him for a very long time and I love him very much. I want us to work through this but I don't know what I can do to improve that, and I don't know what I can say to him to make him feel like we're on the same team so we can resolve any problem we have again like we used to.
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Sounds like he has found someone else. Probably trying to push you away so he doesn't feel guilty about it.
LDR relationships never last.. without a physical side to the relationship it is very easy to forget feelings / stop caring about the other person.
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>Sounds like he has found someone else.
I can assure you that is not the case.
>LDR relationships never last
We've been together two years, and in total we've dated on and off and loved one another for eight.
I agree with the rest of what you said, which is part of why I want to Skype so much. It's the next best thing to being in person. Its hard because there's a lot of very obvious miscommunications when we start arguing but he denies they're there and he won't go into Skype or voice so we can rectify them - and gets even more against it in the midst of an argument. But in Skype we're much better able to resolve things even though it's gotten worse than it has been in the past.
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If you have been together for so long, why don't you live together yet?
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My Girlfriends keeps ending our relationship 2016-09-10 23:26:01 Post No.17554834
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>be me and her, together 4 months
>I'm her first serious boyfriend, first kiss, first everything beyond that (including sex)
>We get on so well, I would give her this look and she knows what I'm thinking (something dirty for example)
>I treat her like a princess, always do cute things, buy her things, says she's not used to it
>But she gets real moody sometimes and then just ends the relationship
>happened like 4 times now, get back together almost straight away
>write me a nice long message of our 4 months together, how she cant imagine spending it with anyone else, I've helped her low self esteem, and she loves me so much etc.
But once again, she does it again. I just don't get it. It's like she tries to pick at things or make up things in her head to start an argument. Went for a walk yesterday and seen her, I tried ignoring her but she was basically cutting me off and begging to talk to me. I could hardly look at her because I was close to having tears because this is all so exhausting for me. She tells me she's sorry and how lucky she is to have me because most guys woulda left by now.
I was talking to her today and just trying to understand why she does this, and she says she doesn't know she beats herself up over a lot of things, and kept saying how sorry she was. She even gave me a letter while I was at work, and I just had to give her a hug and I could feel her shaking. Letter said how she hates herself for hurting me, she hates seeing me sad, and she's so so sorry and she misses me and loves me.
Please help me, I just don't know what to do anymore, she's promised me in the past she won't do it but she does it again anyway.
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>Likes to make things to argue about
Next time she does it, don't pursue her. Make her come to you. If she comes to you, tell her that if she does this again, it's over. For good.
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I dont think this is someone you can build a life with.
Curve her now and maybe in the future you can reconnect... but right now she has too many issues.
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self esteem issues
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So I'm trying to learn to play the guitar. Is my chord book wrong or something? When I look up how to play a song, the way Google tells me how to play a chord is extremely different from the way my book does. Also, any tips on learning to play guitar for beginners would be appreciated
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jesus fuck get a better picture can't see shit
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Its not very relevant. The point being its very different from what other websites say it is.
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Try to make a side by side comparison with stuff from google and this book and post it here. Hard to tell what I'm looking at with just a snippet and a blurry picture. It'll be easier to see what source is more correct.
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Why am I so mediocre at everything?
>Drawing
> athletics
> looks
> overwatch
> so many awkward situations
People say life is worth living but when you're a mundane black man its not.
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Also meant to say practice never helped
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>>17554813
Bump
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Alright if no one wants to help me not be so bland and pathetic can they at least help me with suicide. Life is too painful and I just got out io high school
my bf seems annoyed when I speak to other people...
examples:
a- our uber driver called me cuz he couldn't find us so I was talking to him and he's likeijust say we'll be there in a second and I did but he was still talking to me and he goes say we'll be there in a second and hang up (this guy was a middle aged man and not attractive ...)
b- our uber driver was trying to leave my university's campus and he was clearly lost and frustrated so I said "if you need help I know how to get to the highway so I can guide you" before I could give him the next direction my bf abruptly tells him to make the next turn
c- called a restaurant to ask a couple questions and he's like you don't have to tell them all that you could have just said etc etc
D- waitor once was making eye contact w me and asking if we want appetizers and my bf cuts in and answers for me
etc
what should I make of this? is this controlling behavior or what? I don't get it.. and a while ago he used to criticize me for not talking and being talkative with ppl and a lot of time has gone I try to get confidant and stuff and now he acts like he wants to speak for Me or something??
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Your boyfriend is possessive and controlling and this will eventually escalate into at least psychological abuse if you stay with him.
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it's just weird tho.. even if the person isn't even attractive he like cuts me off ?? makes me feel like I'm dumb and can't talk to them or something ?? (I'm really good with ppl and they think I'm nice!)
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>>17554741
Talk to him about it. He could just be doing it so you don't have to talk to people because it seems like you are introverted.
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Meeting a girl through whisper. She's 28 and I am 19. Didn't even talk for 30 minutes and wants to meet up. She broke up with her ex who was 6'4 and she wants to meet up. I am 6'5 and she does like taller guys. She sent me pics of herself and I asked her to send one pic of her touching her nose with her pinkie. Did google reverse search and nothing showed up. Got her number and searched it through facebook which lead to an inactive asian girl who hasn't posted since 2012. She's not fat at all but very good looking. Going to meet up at the mall. Is this a trap or something? Kinda scared :(
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>>17554721
Also she's latin. Not asian
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>>17554721
If you are meeting her in a public place, how could it be a trap? You should be able to tell from how she acts there if you wanna go through with it
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>>17554734
Isn't kinda fishy that she wants to meet up so fast? Does she think I am very attractive or something? Should I go to her place if she wants to have some fun too?