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>>17670806
They are just a bunch of toys sorry to break it to but really gotta rid of that shit if you ever want get some pussy

i strayed away from anime too at some point,which is good,i guess its like a phase lol

>>17670806

I have a tall bookshelf just filled with manga and I regret buying it. When I was 19 and had money I just bought a bunch of that stuff, and now that I'm turning 21 I'm thinking about my future and how I won't like to have these things out in the open when I move into my own apartment. I'll most likely sell/give it all away.

I still like anime and manga, but just the physical copies of the dvd's and books is dorky as fuck

>>17670798
Why would trade school be a meme?

>>17670891
Im just asking if its a good thing to get into instead of college I just don't know if I could handle the back breaking work

I've been in Computer Science. Failed it hard. Just got so depressed sitting there trying to finish coding assignments and knowing how I would never figure out such algorithm, etc. I now do IT/Networking at a college going for a 2 year diploma (+ 1 more year co-op work term hopefully). I couldn't do it OP, but you could try Computer Science. Otherwise I think community college then Uni for some degree would be best

NO

If you really are that ugly, which I am sure you aren't, then start trying to do things to improve your appearance. Also kinda hard to give advice with out a pic.

Lmfao yeah. Kill yourself, bitch. No one will miss you.

don't kill yourself. there's stuff to live for. like food and nice dreams and good movies.

>>17670735
It's normal to worry about the future in these times.
But instead of worrying about your own future, you should make your own luck.
Think about the things you need to do to get what you want and how to do them.

Do you need a gf? How do you get a gf? Money? Read about money etc.

>>17670735
Remember this about humans: we make the future. The future is not an inevitable 'fate' kind of thing. The computer you're typing on was not going to come into existence automatically, people had to act on making it happen. This principle applies to everything we do.

Now if you feel global things are out of your control, invest yourself in politics that align with your own philosophies, and act on them. Be a little idealistic. Politics for the past 20 years has been filled the world over with power-hungry opportunists with no ideology, which then has a trickle down effect to the people where they think you can't have strong ideas. This is bollocks and right now things like the rise of Sanders and Trumps as well as Brexit have proven the people do still actually believe in things, and they're making them happen.

>>17670735
viva la revolucion

Is she legal?

>>17670715
Time to masturbate.

>>17670752
>>17670949
I love you /adv/

>>17670715
Likely yes.

>>17670701
find a bf with a compatible sex drive
you can change people like that. trust me, ive tried several times

>>17670701
How about finding a therapist

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>>17670701
Here's a few solutions to your issue
>find a doctor to help you treat it
>find someone with the same sex drive
>be my gf

no. masturbation is a sin and you are disrespecting God's Gift whenever you do the devil's handshake.

>>17670700
but it kinda feels like I shouldn't. like I haven't jerked off for a day and I would have sex with a female tree.

maybe it'll encourage me to find a girl.

>>17670698
you should masturbate even if you have a girlfriend.

>>17670697
cats are about the easiest pets to own. Once they're trained to shit outside all you need to do is feed it and desex it and cuddle it.

>>17670697
If you're that lonely get a dog.

Not because cats are terrible or anything.
But dogs are excellent animal companion s. They're a bit harder to deal with, but the bond is built and your dog will love you. Dogs are also attract girls (or guys) on walks.

"Awe your dog is so cute"
Then mac your way to that number.

If you live in apartment just get the cat I guess. Unless you don't mind taking your dog out for more walks.


Either way OP. Make sure you're actually up to the task of taking in another livig creature that depends on you for food and comfort. It's pretty easy, but it also cost money. Food, shots, lisences, health, toys, treats. Don't stress out about it.

Also, make sure you actuslly like the animal and aren't making an impulse decision.

>>17670703
I live in an apartment, so it would probably use a litterbox rather than wandering around outside.

>>17670713
See above on the apartment bit. A dog is too much work for me to maintain, as far as I can tell they require a lot more love and devotion. I'm just looking for something to share the time I spend in my apartment with.

I'm not really interested in women at this point, so it's not much of a selling point anymore. I'm 27, I'm from /r9k/, that ship has sailed.

I'm not sure if it's an impulse decision, a rational one, or a fantasy. I'm pretty shit at taking care of myself, so I'm not sure how well taking care of an animal would be. I want to try, but I would feel like once I had it, it was here to stay. I wouldn't want to turn it out once it got older or if it became too much work, so I'm trying to consider it carefully.

You feel a spark.
I was on a work break getting high in a park on a rainy day when a stranger asked if I had a light. I offered him to sit under my umbrella. We exchanged numbers and met up for a date about a week later. Talking to him, I felt sparks. I wanted to have sex but I was worried he might not have the penis type I like. He did. We had crazy sex.
I went to a wedding the next day and had a feeling it was a sign.
5 years later we have a family together.

>>17670686

what happens if you feel no sparks. ever. or maybe you feel it and they don't?

Then what?

>>17670689
Then there is no progression

What do you like doing what hobbies do you have?

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>>17670663
>calls himself a genius

>struggles at math

ehl oh ehl

>>17670663
If you were a genius you could easily learn it and grasp it. Anyway, so just go into anything that isn't STEM.

For not making out with your GF's friend?

>>17670662

She gave you a kiss, I don't really see that as a negative sign.

She might be a tad shy or doesn't want to go to deep to quick and get burnt. The fact she brought three friends also suggests that.

If this shit happened real recent and you haven't talked to her since just message her asking if everything is okay with her friend bla bla and go from there.

No she's not my gf

Depends what your life is like now and what you hope will change.

Probably not.

College is only good if you have friends and social groups to spend your time with. Otherwise it's just being poor, going into debt, learning nothing useful yet spending all your time working and stressing over large workloads and exams.

>>17670635
This, but university is what you make of it.

You already had a falling out so what should it matter?
I personally wouldn't find it weird if someone asked me to take down a photo.

>>17670791
They are still friends with some of my friends so slightly concerned they may shit talk behind my back about it

>>17670796
Assuming your friends are decent human beings and friends why would they care? Would you laugh about a friend asking to have a photo taken down?

If you are like me and think up all the bad scenarios then the way I get over doing things like sending a message or text is I set a timer for 30 seconds and write out the message, then click send before the time runs out. That helps me not think about it too much.

>>17670599
LSD & Shrooms. Acid will change your life. I wish I had some right now as I'm hella depressed and just want to blast some records while on it. I have XXX on vinyl btw.

>>17670624

Nice taste friendo, AA was an excellent album one of the best this year.
Cool. Yeah I've been recommended that 1/8th of a tab will give me the right amount of high for public use.
Maybe a stupid question but will this impact my ability to concentrate in lectures? Whats your experience with bad trips?
Also have you tried 5htp before?

>>17670599
you're playing with fire anon. why not just stick with weed and quit whining about how its messy. dont smoke on campus you tard. eat it if you have to. i would suggest getting high at home for the first few times just so you can build up a little tolerance so you dont act like a dumbass in public.

>>17670597
Yes you are losing interest in sex. You've accomplished what takes most men decades of marriage to achieve.

Currently going thru this, 19 years old m here. Quit porn and fapping for one month and do sports as you already are but keep going it will get better

>>17671347
>Yes you are losing interest in sex. You've accomplished what takes most men decades of marriage to achieve.
Why? Why is it better that man lose interest in sex?