>yesterday friend breaks a $50 bowl to my bong trying to clean it without even asking while Im out of the room for a while
>wont buy me a new one because he claims was only trying to do me a favor
>seemed like he felt bad at first and we unofficially worked out it out, Id be fine if he could get me a cheaper one as long as it hit fine
>says he can do that and I forget about it
>comes over today wanting to smoke out of the bong and I havent got time to get a new bowl since then
>ask him if he got me one yet
>lol dude I donno what youre talking about
>went from there
>known this guy 3+ years and hes never done any kind of weird dick moves like this
How am I supposed to handle this? Just conceed and accept a friend did something really out of character and dickish for no thinkable reason except he could? Its not something I want to bitch about to mutual friends about and kicking his ass over something this insignificant would be stupid.
All that weed killing his brain cells desu.
Maybe you need new friends
>>17673231
>friend for 3 years
>breaks something of yours
>doesn't tell you immediately, apologize and offer to replace it
What the actual fuck? Wait a week, maybe he's going nutty from some random thing in his life.
Then sit him down and tell him he's being an asshole and he needs to replace the thing he broke, and that friends don't do that shit.
Have you broken anything of his?
I'm looking at getting a few tattoos over the next few months. I want to get one from my upper arm to my elbow which could be covered by a t shirt but the other I want to get on the inside of my forearm. I've heard employers are more lax on tattoos now days, has this been anyone's experience or is it still safe to get them where people won't see them?
>I've heard employers are more lax on tattoos now days
Sure, if you only ever want to work in a bar for the rest of your life.
>>17673175
That's valid. I'm a professional so I'll keep the tattoo's hidden. It's difficult because I see so many guys covered in them but also I imagine most of those guys have mcjobs
>>17673172
Get them where they are covered by clothing everywhere but the beach. Have you wanted to get a tattoo your entire life? Then go for it. Otherwise, you will probably regret getting it at some point. You don't know what kind of a person you will be in 20 years, and chances are you will be so different that you think the tattoo is stupid by then.
For example I've loved video games and Pokemon pretty much my entire life. Now at 25 I suddenly find I don't give a flying fuck about them anymore, as I've finally gotten good enough at the game of life that reality is a more interesting game than anything on a computer. I'd be irritated with myself if I had a tattoo representing one of these things that I'd literally loved my entire life up to one year ago. Imagine if you got a tattoo of something you cared about when you were a teenager. Wouldn't you be ashamed of that now? Also hepatitis is a thing, a life destroying awful thing that an irresponsible tattoo artist can give you.
Give it a lot of thought. I'm not saying all tattoos are a bad idea, but a whole lot of them are. Make sure this is something you really want, and always will.
should I cum and start over?
>>17673143
no, keep your energy where it needs to be kept
You already know the answer is no. Go outside and go on a run or something
>>17673143
If you eat what you ejaculate instead of putting it into a tissue it doesn't count as fapping desu.
Il start from the start
Until I was about 10 I never had a dad then my mum got married and the fella adopted me
he was always a nice guy and I liked him but growing up my mum and dad use to kick the shit out of me if I done anything wrong I was always afraid of them and would just take it they had two kids who I see as my full brother and sister because I grew up with them but they have never even been grounded before never mind getting hit to give u an idea of what happened while I was growing up one day before school I put potato bread in the toaster for my breakfast my mum turned round to me and said don't be putting butter on it incase it gets over the car on our way to school I didn't listenbuttered it anyway .. I went out the back to grab my trainers and when I turned round my mum and had my bmx over her head an threw it at me as hard as she could I was on the ground destroyed from the blow and I just got dragged from underneath it and put in the car ... that one stands out the most next was I got home 15 mins late my dad picked me up by the scruff and literally put me through the doors of my wardrobe all I can remember is all my clothes being all over me and hangers sticking into me the 3rd that stands out is my mum getting drunk and trying to take my dirt bike out while all my friends were round and when I took the bike of her she slapped in front of all my friends there the 3 that stick out in my mind anyway as soon as I could I moved out at 17 and everything went well we got on well and I would call round every few days to have the Craic but about 3 months ago I was moving house and had no ware to stay for a few weeks so I asked my family if I could stay there and they said yea no problem
I'm now 25 I had been staying there about 5 days and dad started treating me like a child telling me what to do I told him ware to go so he punched me down the hallway I gave him a chance to stop but he didn't so
So I broke his nose eye socket and accidently his leg
No, you're not in the right. Two wrongs don't make a right, and you're now just as bad as he was
>>17673135
>two wrongs dont make a right
>just let the other nations keep bombing you, at least you'll have your morals
fuck that shit. if someone attacks you, its your right toe defend yourself. and you dont have to stop there. prevent them from thinking they can do it again just cuz your guard is down .they showed no concern for your life so why should you stop yourself?
"2 wrongs dont make a right" is something they tell kids.
>>17673149
What he did was totally out of proportion to what his stepfather was doing. His stepfather could have him arrested for this and OP couldn't claim 'muh self defence' because it wasn't.
People are always talking shit about me because I'm a special snowflake and they either can't mind their own business or are snobby college kids. how do I deal with this bullshit?
Fucking snobby college kids, they constantly gossip and can't stop talking about other people. Men, men are such douchebags, especially when they're in their 20s. My fucking generation is incredibly immature. College kids...
>>17673095
well you're correct but you haven't demonstrated you're any different yet.
why are you different?
>>17673095
>People are always talking shit about me because I'm a special snowflake
might be your attitude. People in my uni, especially the girls, talk shit about people all the time. no one says anything to me because i dont give them a reason.
>Men, men are such douchebags, especially when they're in their 20s
most men i meet in their 20s are much nicer than they where when i was younger.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmHA6JueisA
Is is better to speak your mind and then ask for someone's opinion or to ask someone's opinion and then speak your mind?
Depends on how comfortable you are in the situation. Asking someone to share their opinion first puts them in the same situation you're trying to avoid.
>>17673078
Depends on the subject at hand. I prefer the latter approach generally, since it won't cloud the opinion of my speaker with mine first.
>>17673078
depends on what you wanna do
if you want to be liked, it's better to ask for someone's opinion and then speak your mind (or never speak your mind and agree completely)
if you want to influence the person it's better to speak your mind then ask his opinion
I've had plenty of crushes on girls before but I don't think I've ever known anyone well enough to be in "real love". Like knowing her bad sides and accepting them as well, loving "her" and not just my ideal image of her or her looks.
How do I know what love is if I don't think I've ever felt it before? Without comparison and experience how can I say it without really knowing and not lie?
>>17673064
baby don't hurt me
>>17673064
Chemical reactions in the brain.
>>17673064
we have no real proof that were experiencing the same kinds of feelings. love is up entirely to interpretation. there is no actual definition.
dictionary dot com just calls it
>an intense feeling of deep affection.
a lot of modern definitions don't even refer to it as just a feeling. like you mentioned it could be stickign with someone even when seeing their bad side.
in that way its like bravery. you don't feel bravery, you do something brave. in this case you don't feel love, you do something loving.
tl;dr no answer. define it yourself as you go along.
I for one think that love is love. those feeligns are feelings. you can be in love iwth someone, or parts of someone, or the ideal of someone.
i dont think anyones ever really just in love with the way someone looks, unless they've literally never talked to them. i think the man who killed his wife for cheating on her loved just as much as the man who forgave her.
i believe love is just that rush of feelings you get. there can be more to it, but thats the baseline.
I think people that insist that their definition of love is the only definition of love are pretty self righteous.
Okay so I was masturbating the other day with a dildo and I think I might have ripped a bit of my asshole at the part directly above it. It doest drip blood but whenever I sit on the toilet and wipe my ass it completely soaks the paper in blood. I wipe it with more paper and some moisture paper and it stops bleeding but then continues the next time I go to the can. Is there any way I can fix this at home with scar cream or do I have to go to the doc and make up a lie? Help me bros.
See a doc and avoid plastic dildos. Or ones with mold seams.
No point trying to internally apply cream. Just go to the doctor. At most I'd wait some more time if you really really really want to avoid it, but the issue is that these tend to heal only to be torn open again once you shit as you notice.
Also don't bother lying about it. They're absolutely not going to believe that you slipped and fell on something anus first or whatever. Besides, for you this is a humiliating low, for them it's just another day of work. They see people who put weirder stuff up their ass than a dildo.
>>17673058
It's not internal. It's external. I've actually tried to look specifically where it is with a mirror but I can't see it. It looks like it's between that little cove you have above your anus. It's definitely not inside because I tried to wipe the inside with a moisturized paper and no blood came out. On the contrary, whenever I touched that area above the anus the blood was there.
Let me explain this the most honest way i know: I'm poor and i know i'm the only one that can change that but here is the thing: I live in Venezuela, here all is fucked up, we are the most dangerous country in the world, you cant go to the street (this morning police find 14 bodies of mens with shots near to my house) but in ecomony the thing it's even worse i make 30.000 Bsf in a month working in a hotel <--- thats its 30 dollars a month and thats a good salary here: 360 dollars a year: a pair of Yezzys or a Iphone 6 with no food and nothing else, thats whats the average citizen make in a year, and 1kg of rice is 2500 Bsf: 2 dollars, 1 cheap pair of jeans 30.000 Bsf: 30 dollars my salary in a jeans (also there is no food and necesaries products like toilet paper and colgate). My salary goes to my university and my parents brought everything else for me and everything we have like clothing and the house its from another time when everything was good, i going to be a lawyer...that make 80.000 bsf a month: 80 dollars a month, a plane ticket to the united states cost 360 dollars here (the goverment grow up the cost of the ticket to make people live in slavery and never leave the country) (also the goverment always cheap in the elections so they take ours money and we eat their shit), i have no car and my father sell his car for us so i cant sell one to take a plane ticket, my question its: how do i leave this fucking shit of country where i have no fucking future and maybe can starve to death? seriosly there is no hope, yestarday in a prision three mens kill one guy and eat him for all the hungy they are passing so i dont want to steal to other people in the same conduition and go to jail with the most dangerous, crazy and even canibal criminals in the world
Tambien si hay un Venezolano que esta leyendo esto, vos sabeis que esto esta asi
>>17673003
Two options. Quit school and work more hours, save up to go to the United States. Or complete your education, then go to the United States. Good luck, I mean that.
>>17673003
Here is the notice of the canibalism in prision but its in spanish http://rpp.pe/mundo/venezuela/denuncian-canibalismo-en-una-carcel-de-venezuela-noticia-1002042
Ok so I plan to go to school this spring to become an Accountant. What am I in for? Is this a shit idea? Do Accountants want to kill themselves? Any Accountants have any advice?
How okay are you with being bored for 40+ hours a week for the next 40+ years?
Do you enjoy accounting? You'll be able to find work, but it's a tough program and if you don't at least have somewhat of an interest in it you'll have a tough time
>>17672999
What's so tough about it
>hanging out with a girl
>she's on one couch; I'm on the other
>she's doing some homework on her laptop
>talk intermittently
>she turns away from her laptop and starts gazing into my eyes for I don't know how long (maybe 5-20 seconds)
>eventually she broke eye contact and sort smirked/smiled
What exactly is this? The lack of a smile is what's confusing me.
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She wanted it and you punked out
Should've grabbed her by the pussy
>>17672994
This
Help, I've shaved my pubes now I think their growing back and their razor sharp and hurt like crazy, the area is completely irritated, what can I do?
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Very little, most you can do is avoiding it beforehand with brand new razors, not shaving against the grain (you get a less close shave but also less ingrown hairs and irritation), using plenty of water and foam, applying ointment afterwards and exfoliating beforehand.
Depending on how sensitive your skin is, some irritation/bumps just cannot be avoided though. The skin is quite sensitive there already.
Right now you can sit in a bath to get some relief, apply cold fatty cream (store it in the fridge for maximum effect), wear cotton underwear and wait for it to grow out of this stage. If you plan on getting laid, you can use alum stone to quickly make it less red and puffy, but it will hurt like an absolute bitch and nothing will make it look completely "normal".
>>17673016
Thank you, how long can this irritation last?
>>17673039
Depends on whether it's just itchiness from growing back (that usually lasts a day or two) or actually ingrown hairs/skin damage. The latter is more likely if you used a blunt razor and/or did a hasty, too dry job. In that case it can be up to a week before it feels completely normal if you're unlucky.
>cute and friendly but has few friends
>hangs around girls but are generally mutually apathetic towards them
>was a fat tomboy or extremely awkward in elementary school
>is a slut and a whore behind peoples backs and doesnt want people to know directly (Ie dresses fairly conservatively, basic or cute) but will still tell you all about as soon as she gets a chance it if she thinks you wont judge her
>cares about forwardness, trust but is neither forward or trustworthy (but can be quite forward in a basic senses like getting things to happen or having what she wants if she really wants it)
>considered "weird" (in a neutral sense) to most, but clingy or obsessive to people she likes
>wants beta orbiters and most "friends" are just losers that want her as a girlfriend that she puts actual effort into friendzoning because she doesnt know how to have real friends
>not a "im not like those other girls, girl" and is mostly describable as deeply sensitive and concerned over anything else
>worst thing that could happen to her would be if people she wanted to be with dont care IE she stops to tie her shoe and they keep walking and talking without her
>possibly a ENFP or a INTP
regrettably these are the only kinds of girls that are attracted to me but none the less I need to find out who they are easier because they're only like 2-3% of girls
>>17672944
those eyes are toxic
>>17672944
Is that her? I'd fuck the shit out of her
>>17672944
>what kind
thicc
newfag here
I need advice, 5/10, pimples all over my face
had my first and last gf 5 years ago
virgin fuck
recently met a qt3.14 8/10 on instagram
started to chat today but I dont know what to do now, im an autistic fuck too btw
She isnt apparently interested in me
I dont know what to do now. She'll probably play the 'eww who is this and what does he want, lets ignore him' game
What do???
>>17672928
Grow up and forget about her
Really people it's not that hard
Get witchazel and cotton pads and put that shit on your face
Otherwise, idk
>>17673561
Alright, thanks
>sorry anon, but I have a boyfriend
How do I rebuttal this? Anytime a girl hits me with this I loose my composure and start spilling spaghetti everywhere
>so do I
>no homo
>>17672920
There is literally no reason to say a word beyond that point. Just empty the musk from your anal gland and retreat to a safe distance.
>>17672920
Ask if he has beef with you. Then promptly state that you are a vegetarian.