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ls a life of bad sex worth a gf that's perfect in every other way?
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>>17671082
Bad sex likely isn't the root of the problem, merely a symptom.
So maybe - I don't know you or your gf.
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Bad sex is better than being with someone unattractive
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Bad sex is almost always a curable disease.
So yeah.
Why is is bad?
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creeped out my fwb how do i get her back 2016-10-15 05:16:21 Post No.17671068
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creeped out my fwb how do i get her back
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So I met a nineteen yr old highschooler on okcupid, she was really cute and seemed sweet on her profile and we hit it off. She also seemed a bit low self esteem, probably because she's a tad fatty. When we finally met eachother not 10 minutes in she was blowing me. Apparently she wasn't interested in a relationship but just friends with benefits. She's a virgin and wanted to explore her sexuality with someone. I also found out she wasn't like the person on okcupid at all, in terms of perosnality. She's a pretty mean spirited person, but I loved chubby chicks and she was a virgin so I didn't care. We only hung out for that day. The next time we were about to meet I had jerked off in a few days and took some supplements that'd make me extra horny for the occasion. I was waiting in my car for her parents to leave house. Be waiting for an hour and my dick is driving me nuts. I find the nearest girl in the neighborhood to talk to, to distract myself. And by the end of the conversation I decide to kiss her on the cheek because fuck it and she screams and run's to her house. Feeling guilty I told my fwb and she called me disgusting and to leave her alone. 7 hours later I responded in a nonchalant manner that after thinking on it, what I did wasn't that bad and she was kinda being bitch. Its been a day and she hasn't responded.
Notably, she finds me really attractive and I agreed to be her hook up for alcohol, however I get the feeling she isn't attached at all. Also she deleted her okcupid account the same day we met.
I'm thinking about waiting a week before simply asking if she wants to hang out. The suspense is killing me someone please help.
>tl;dr I creeped out my fwb, how do I get her back
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>>17671068
>I decide to kiss her on the cheek because fuck it and she screams and run's to her house.
How old was this girl? Also, we'll need some more context to this part of the story.
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>>17671114
>waiting in my car for fwb to give me the go ahead
>see girl walking on the side walk
>boner tells me to talk to her
>get out of car and talk to grill
>carrying conversation though she seems reserved
>finally reach her house
>she beings walking to her door and says bye
>yolo
>go in to kiss her on the cheek as she's walking away
>she screams like its rape and runs for the house
>can't help but laugh nervously then run to my car and drive out of the neighborhood
>fwb's parents never left that night so didn't get to hang out
Bonus
>go home
>guilt panic
>Thinking about how she'll always be scared to walk in her neighborhood
>thinking about how she might tell everyone at her school about a creepy dude with circular glasses trying to rape her or something
>thinking about how my fwb might hear and break things off
>decide to confide in fwb next morning
and now I'm here.
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>>17671134
So you jumped out of your car, chatted up a random chick, then decided to kill her? Nope that's not creepy at all anon.
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General advice from an alright guy 2016-10-15 05:13:35 Post No.17671059
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General advice from an alright guy
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I'm bored, just got off of work, and will probably be wired and unable to sleep for the majority of the night.
So if you want some general advice from an alright guy with his own place and a solid job, feel free to ask away.
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>>17671059
Can you help me do a objective study of myself? I'm terrible with women and wondering if you can help me find why.
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>>17671098
Not sure if troll, but I'll bite.
So what aspects about interacting with women do you feel are really holding you back?
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HEY I'm in constant pain and my dreams are always nightmares. I just want to die. Do you think you replay the same life over and over for eternity? Or experience another being's life? Either would suck. Life sucks.
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I'm thinking of hiring prostitute to take my virginity. Should I?
I'm not totally unattractive but I'm awkward and can't really meet people in my current position
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>>17671044
Well whatever you do is ultimately up to you, if you find that it's really holding you back that much being a virgn, it's unlikely that passionless and potentially dangerous sex with a prostitute is going to change anything for you.
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>>17671044
No, youll lose any self respect you have. You will never be able to tell others because you know they will lose any respect they had for you. Sex doesnt feel that good dude. The best part of the orgasm is cumming inside of someone you really like and are attracted to.
Think of sex as a multiplayer game. The single player mode is probably more polished overall, but nothing beats having fun with a girl you are attracted to. Now imagine hiring a girl to play games with you. Sounds empty as fuck. Might as well masturbate to porn.
My family bought me a ticket for a cruise a few months back without asking me and now I have no choice but to go. We're boarding tomorrow. I'm scared shitless of boats. How do I stay safe on a cruise? Will I enjoy it?
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>>17671032
Like "panic attack" afraid of boats? Or like passively nervous about the idea?
I suggest getting drunk, swimming, tanning, and trying to have a good, relaxing time away from work and all the bullshit.
It's a vacation, don't let the idea of a boat get in the way of your happiness.
Who knows, maybe this will be a great moment for you in your life - you'll discover you really have a passion for boats.
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>>17671032
Boats are more afraid of you than you are of them. Maintain eye contact and don't show any signs of weakness. Good luck.
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>>17671035
this, and in the future, don't let your family guilt-trip you into feeling forced to do things. you do have a choice whether to go or not, you just don't like the alternative.
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Ask me anything about how my interactions with people changed and Ill tell you what its like on both sides.
Biggest conversion method was losing weight. I wasnt fat at all. 180lbs at 6'. But I picked up running 5 miles a day and lifting weights. For me fat builds the fastest on my face so when I dropped down to 167.5lbs I had really prominent facial features that got me more attraction.
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>>17671008
Would you have considered yourself a conventionally unattractive person before you made these changes in your life?
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how does it feel to define yourself with labels?
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>>17671011
Sometimes yes. Very much so. Like I said fat builds at my face the fastest, so Ive had a fairly chubby round face all my life. That along with receding hair line at 17 and sinus causing permanent red eyes and a scar on my lip made me feel ugly quite often. Though I generally liked to stay out of the mirror.
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OK so I am not sure this is the right place for this but I wasent sure where to post... So I have recently been trying to build my credit the only thing on my credit report is an unpaid electric bill from about 5 years ago... I have been working at a fairly good job for about a year now and just applied for a secured capital one credit card and was denied does anyone have any advise on how to move forward and start building my credit up??
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>>17670981
>I have been working at a fairly good
why do you need credit?
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>>17670981
Try for a different credit card, that's really the best way to build credit.
It's possible that you just don't have much credit aside from that one unpaid utilities bill.
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Yea that's the problem I have no credit aside from that and the more cards I apply for the worse my credit will get so I'm looking for a card that is pretty much as close as u can get to guaranteed approval don't care if I have to secure it with like 500 or $1000
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Hi /adv/, I've got a bit of a relationship problem that I could use some help with. So I'm in a long distance relationship with someone I care deeply about, however recently I ran into one of my ex's and it's really stirred me up emotionally. Me and this ex weren't together very long, but we were very close for a very long period of time before we became a couple. We broke it off barely after a week, and it was a good 6-7 months until I got with my current girlfriend. We broke it off on strange terms with little closure, and I'm pretty sure that's the reason it stirred up old emotions. However, I've been beating myself up emotionally recently because I absolutely love the girl I'm with, but I feel guilty about these feelings that have been brought back from my ex. I want to move on with my life with my current girlfriend, and finally let this old one go and out of my heart.
Can provide my information if needed
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>>17670968
first : acknowledge your feelings and don't feel bad for having them
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>>17670968
Please tell us more. What happened between you and your ex?
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>>17670995
So I accidentally confessed to her early that I loved her(because of our long history beforehand she goated it out of me as a joke and got the real answer), and this put her off the relationship pretty quickly as would be expected. She veered off from our relationship, and that's when we ended up breaking up. I kind of lingered onto her for a bit, but in the end I distanced myself from her completely cutting off contact to move on with my life. Ended up getting with the girl I'm with now a bit later, and have been with her for about 7 months. Ran into ex recently at a get together with some friends watching movies, and we had mild chats at each other rather than to each other so not much interaction.
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Met a girl recently. Talked to her a bit. Started to really like her. Want to ask her out. Planned to ask her to dinner today, but I never saw her so I never got a chance. Not sure when I might see her one-on-one next, so I don't really know when I'll get a chance to do this. Is it acceptable to ask her out to dinner over text? For some reason I think this would come off as weird or weak, so I want to do it in person, but I'm not sure when I'll get the chance.
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Chances are everywhere OP you need to grasp it, claw with your fingernails.
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>>17670960
I appreciate the words of encouragement. I guess my question boils down to this: how do I meet up with her one-on-one to ask her, or, if I can't manage that, is it acceptable to just ask over text?
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>>17670987
>is it acceptable
What do u think? What would she thinks? Also have u considered phone call? Skype?
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No bf, guy friend wants to cuddle 2016-10-15 03:56:30 Post No.17670919
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Hi /adv/
I'm a lonely girl with two problems, I suspect they are joined.
One, I haven't had a relationship since high school. I'm a college senior, and since I don't sleep around I have literally no bedroom experience. Whenever I like a guy, he always loses interest after a few dates.
Two, I'm having trouble setting boundaries with friends. This one friend of mine keeps asking to cuddle. He knows he's not my type, and I encourage him to date girls he thinks are cute, but at the end of the week I know he is lonely. I feel bad saying no when he asks to cuddle, but the idea of cuddling him is also really rubbing me against the fur.
I feel mean, not good enough to attract what I really want, and kind of like a failure of a girl. What should I do to be happier?
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Be confident that you don't need a dick inside of you to be an accomplished and well-respected individual, regardless of sex.
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>>17670919
What particularly makes him not your type?
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>>17670919
Drop some pounds.
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Do women feel flattered knowing a guy masturbates thinking about them?
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>>17670903
Y'all niggers need to stop asking questions with "do men..." or "do women..."
Some women will. Some will not.
I know I really like the thought and will get flattered even if I don't know the guy, really. I know a friend who might get nauseous. I know another who 'd only want her boyfriend to do that. etc...
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Depends on how good looking he is/how much you like him
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Some probably do, more probably dont
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Hey I'm a shut-in with social anxiety I'm sort of an autist and I'm trying to turn my life around and become a functioning male adult instead of the manbaby I am. I haven't really socialized since I was 12 and the socialization I did have was mostly online. Is it just that people aren't as committed to people they meet online? I haven't really tried meeting people offline yet.
I'd really like to make people like me and want to hang out with me and do things with me but I don't really know how. I find I make the mistake of not asking people how they are when they ask me how I am like usually people say "And you" or something but I always forget. I did this in real life too. People usually say I come across as disinterested or distanced. It seems like most of the time people want nothing to do with me and I'm just a second thought.
Maybe I'm too clingy? Should I not reply to people right away when they message me? I don't really understand what makes people seem to avoid me rather than be attracted to me. Maybe I whine to much?
I'm in therapy for social anxiety and its going great so far but I'm basically a manchild when it comes to socialization I haven't gotten the slightest clue. I have NVLD too so that doesn't help that much since I'm bad at body language.
The only thing is I can't seem to get many people to like me on the internet which gives me the idea I'm going to have the same experience with people offline.
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How old are you, anon?
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>>17670902
When you talk to people, what is their reaction?
Do they speak normally to you? Do they avoid conversations?
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How do I keep a girl from thinking I'm a loser when I have nothing planned and no close friends?
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>>17670865
Take up some interesting hobbies. Learn to play an instrument, get into something like photography or literature. Show her that you are passionate and dedicated about something.
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starting hitting the gym
when she asks what you're doing this friday, say working out
people respect that
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>>17670873
>Learn to play an instrument
Those can take years to become proficient with
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Hey /adv/ I have a bit of a situation I'm in at the moment and Im kind of stuck on what to do.
Basically, my fiend had been cheating on his fiance for a whole with some other girl and I have proof and such that I can show to her, but he's been giving me death threats. What should I do? Honestly, I feel bad for his fiance because she has no idea, but my friend says he's going to break up with the girl he was cheating with next week
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>>17670849
death threats ? you should go to the police
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Slay him and eat his heart to gain his courage.
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Death threats aren't really friend like.
Tell her.
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I understand that once you get to know someone, their personality matters more than their appearance. However, I was wondering what your stance is if the person does not meet your standards or if you're not interested in that person right off the bat if they are not decent appearance wise.
Of course this varies from person to person so it all depends, but in the end would you say that the appearance of someone effects how you view them romantically? What would make you shy away from a person if they were a decent person but just not decent appearance wise? Just curious.
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>>17670814
>but in the end would you say that the appearance of someone effects how you view them romantically?
I'm a hideous man and I can say from experience that yes, it does very much.
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>>17670814
yes looks matter
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As a guy who is both ugly & unpleasant, I think confidence & wit are more important.