How do people even progress relationships?

You feel a spark.
I was on a work break getting high in a park on a rainy day when a stranger asked if I had a light. I offered him to sit under my umbrella. We exchanged numbers and met up for a date about a week later. Talking to him, I felt sparks. I wanted to have sex but I was worried he might not have the penis type I like. He did. We had crazy sex.
I went to a wedding the next day and had a feeling it was a sign.
5 years later we have a family together.

>>17670686

what happens if you feel no sparks. ever. or maybe you feel it and they don't?

Then what?

>>17670689
Then there is no progression

>>17670695

sounds kind of shitty. I feel as if I spent my whole life liking women and I get the spark but they don't.

I hate just waiting for shit to fall into my lap. I feel as if I must do something but it seems like the only thing that matters in dating is RNG.

Its one big RNG shit fest.

>>17670702
Like any MMO you can train and develop your skills. Such is life

>>17670702
I never thought about it that way but i guess thats totally true. Every relationship ive been in has a strong random element to it. but that doesnt mean you it happens without putting in amy effort. you gotta learn when your rng is coming up with favorable results. its an acquired instinct.