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I woke up yesterday to a Facebook message from a random account. The account sent me a photo that looked like it had been take off another phone screen. It was a girl standing named in the bathroom with a black guy standing behind her. I slow realized that the girl was my sister. Now seeing that my sister is 16 I messaged the person back telling the that having the photo is possession of child pornography and since they sent it to me that its now distribution. I called my sister and she said it was her boyfriends ex. (my sister lives with my dad and I live with my mom.)
She then changes her voice so its more quite and she tells me that she has something to tell me in person. I ask if she's pregnant and she says yes, I freak out and hang up the photo to try and calm down. It was around the afternoon that the account replied back with "I'm bringing this to your attention as the bigger concern is actually the black pedophile behind the "child" as he is a 26 year old drug dealer with 3 children with 2 different woman." my heart drops and the only thing i can think of is that i want this guy dead. My sister has begged me not to tell my mother but I feel like i should so she can have this guy taken and put behind bars. Also my sister talks as if they will be together forever, and when i told her that he had 3 kids she was shocked. If you have anything to ask to fill in the blanks then i will. Im just at a point where i want to go and fuck this guy up myself but i know that won't end well. any and all help would be great, sorry for any spelling or grammatical errors.
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Ask that random account if they have any more info, tell mother and father, contact police. Your sister still has time to abort if she wants to because this guy is going to fuck up her life forever
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BLACKED
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You need to get that anonymous account and the guy put into prison

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So I am currently dating a 19 y/o. I am 27. The age difference doesn't really mean much to me, and I hardly if ever notice it. We kind of got into it though a few hours ago. I am just sitting there on my day off wanting to chill, and she is currently getting paper work set up. She goes to the office and comes home and immidately asks me for help.

I don't mind when the questions that she asks are legitimate, but I feel like she just asks me shit because she is too lazy to figure it out on her own. She asked me to help her scan some documents, and I told her that walking her through something that she could easily look up on Google is not something I want to be wasting my day on. I also walked her through her tax documentation when she said "I don't understand what this means," and I told her to look the words up.

I never had someone baby me through anything. I had to learn things by researching, and actually being resourceful. Am I being a dick?
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>>17682739
>Am I being a dick?

No you're an adult dating a child.

>he age difference doesn't really mean much to me

Obviously it does, that is exactly what you are describing.
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>>17682739

It probably has less to do with age and more to so with her being lazy and/or retarded. Plenty of 19yos can handle their own shit. If she can't, maybe ask yourself if you're really prepared to be with a person like that, because it could be permanent and just her personality trait.
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>>17682745
>adult dating a child
>child
Nope. I opted for the better option within my league. It's either parasitic single mothers, women who are not married for a reason (psychotic, non-nurturing), or women who are younger.
There has been a study done correlating the amount of a woman's sexual partners, and the success rate of those women's relationship. The women who have had the least amount of sexual partners stayed with their husbands more often then not. Unfortunately, the obvious way to getting women who have low, or no sexual partners is to date young.

You sound like an angry cuck who will never have a young trained female to raise your children with unwavering loyalty.

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>Match with girl on tinder
>Agree to meet for a drink
>Ask for number
>Receive number
>Text her a suggestion for somewhere to go
>No response
>She unmatched me on tinder
>wtf did I do wrong?
>Get a text this morning apologising and saying her signal is terrible, and then sends me a text she typed yesterday but apparently didn't send properly. She still seems keen to meet up
>I reply, ask if we're still on for tonight
>No response

She asked me in her earlier text if I had Whatsapp. I've since installed it and found her on there... do I now message her on that too? I don't wanna be the creep who won't stop pestering but she did say herself that her signal sucked.

I feel like I'm being taken along for a ride but not sure why.

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I would try whatsapp. If she didn't want you to text/message her she wouldn't have bothered sending a message back after waiting that long.
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Looks like she's blocked me on there.

Bitches be crazy. I have literally no idea where I went wrong.
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>>17682533
Forget her, shes not interested man.

Find other girls.

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Has anyone been able to get rid of black heads permanently? If you have please share how.
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>>17682383
just pull them out
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Just use an exfoliating scrub twice a day and you're good
St ives green tea scrub works really good imo. They wont go away permanently as long as you're alive and sweating. The only thing you can do it keep your pores clean
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It's genetics, to minimize the amount you get you exfoliate.

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Is there a bigger red flag in a girl than "I'm not like other girls"?
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>>17682280
Being a white single mother with a black child.
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>>17682280
Literally every girl says that though
>>17682290
This is a real red flag
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>>17682280

Most people I know (myself included) want to believe they are not like the rest.

If that's the worst you can imagine her saying, then you have lived a very good life.

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Where and how do you purchase your bitcoin preferably while remaining anonyms? explain it to me as if I were a forrest gump type
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>>17681852
Localbitcoins.com if you're from europe. Yes sorry that the rstes are terrible. Welcome to europoor.
Anyway make an account there.

You'll need a bank account or a debit card. He'll give you his card details and you need to send the money to his bank account then he'll send the bitcoins to your localbitcoin wallet from where you can send it to any wallet or platform you want.
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For US, Circle would be your best bet. Create a wallet on your computer using a program like Electrum (very simple). You'll be given a set of bitcoin addresses that go to your wallet that you access via Electrum. I think its something like 10. Create an account on Circle. Youll need debit/credit. Purchase the bitcoins through them and send them to your Electrum wallet AND ONLY YOUR OWN WALLET. Preferrably using only one of yiur addresses. Dont send bitcoins directly from Circle to the person youre buying goods from. When you go to purchase your illegal goods, youll transfer the bitcoins that you sent to your Electrum wallet to the seller. Youre basically laundering your bitcoins. If you send coins directly from Circle or any BTC marketplace to too many different addresses in large amounts, theyll get suspicious. Coinbase is especially notorious for monitoring transactions so dont use them.
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While still on the matter can someone educate me on altcoin trading platforms? I know Yobit is dogshit mean to scam you and I know Poloniex is the best one out there. What other platforms are out there for making money?

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Welcome to the NEET/shut-in improvement thread!

>old thread
>>17663561

>Discord
https://discord.gg/AAhJ6eR

Join us for help on improving your life, becoming more social or just helping people with these things!
All are welcome, as long as you follow the rules.

>What do I do in the threads?
Ask people for advice on your NEET-related/social problems, or join our discord group to do the same.

>Wait, is this some super-secret cool kids' club where you can only be some sort of shut-in freak to participate in?
No, anybody is free to enter and help our group. Feel free to participate, just don't be a dick.


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Is wage cuck worse than being a NEET?
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>>17680906
Depends where you work honestly. Good coworkers or work you like makes work great, and if you have nothing going on in your life you'll begin to dread the weekends. Shit ones or a shit job and the reverse is true.
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My biggest problem is my anxiety and self-doubt. I can't open up to people. I have a hard time speaking to others. I feel small compared to others and unreliable because I always feel like I'm going to fail.

I'm technically not a NEET. I was one for about 3 years. I go to school now, but I don't talk to anyone. I have a job, but I hate it because I have to talk to people. I thought this would help me with my social anxiety, but it's been 2 years now and I'm still awkward as fuck. I don't really talk to any of my co-workers. It's so hard for me to even go to work, but I've never taken a day off because I'm too scared to ask for one even when I'm sick.

I've also begun driving more using my parent's car. I used to hate driving and I still kind of do, but it's not so bad now that I'm getting used to it. I'm still too scared to go anywhere outside of my town though.

Honestly I just want a friend to talk to, but I can't open up to people. I can feel it in my chest when I talk to people.

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Has anyone ever just hopped on a train/bus/plane with like $1000 dollars to start over somewhere new?
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>>17680846
Read into the wild

Great book.
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>>17680846

kinda. i had 1200 and the promise of more money coming via student loans.

got a studio apartment in los angeles for 550 a month, paid first and last up front and had 100 to spend on bus and food until the loan money came in.
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sure, many have

where do you think homeless people come from

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Why aren't women interested in femininity anymore?
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it takes commitment

(?)
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Some girls are still
come to california where everyone is cute
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Because men are such pussies these days that we have to step into their role.

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FUCKING THING OUT YA MOFO
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I want to find a qt girl who was abused like I was to commit mass murder with

I've watched NBK too many times
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When I got to school today I saw a sign at the entrance that said "PLAY FOR A CURE" (referring to cancer) and it really pissed me off because sports have nothing to do with cancer and I want to go write "fuck you" on the sign.
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Today is likelly the day.
For the past 5-8 years I've sort of unconciously lowered myself into a worse adn worse situation.
In the thought that maby if it gets bad enough I'm finally gonna do something about it. For (hopefully) better or worse.

Specifically, Im talking about being depressed.
I've told no-one and I'm not sure how many thinks of me that way.
But in the light of todays events(of which detail I won't get into here) I feel somewhat ready to come clean about it.

Any advice on how to open up about it?
Presumably to parents first. Even about that, I don't know if I'm able when I get home and have to look in their eyes before doing it.

Halp?

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Is crying really a bad way to release stress? Personally i feel like emotions build up to a certain point, and then i just cry my heart out. Afterwards i usually feel alot better and way more calm.

Things just become too heavy sometimes, and i feel like crying is the only way i can cope with these things. Is it Ok to use crying as some sort of '' stress-relief'' or should i seek other ways?
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Who on this great green earth ever said that crying was not a good way to relieve stress?
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>>17684195
It just feels kind of tragic and dramatic. My gf does not know about this and im kind of scared of telling her.. We've been together for 5 months or so now and i feel she might look at me as just a self-pitying drama-queen..
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>>17684215

Don't need to share with others just cry in the shower or something if you need to, it does help, but I find I only cry in situations of extreme grief. If you need to cry from day to day stresses then go for it, but don't expect others to understand, theres really no need to share that fact anyway.

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What are the possible causes of insecurity with your sexual self?

Because I feel like I cannot match whatever any other man can offer to a girl.
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I have the same problem. The main reason of this is watching porn, it gives you unrealistic expectations. Look this problem up there's alot of information about it, but above all, quit porn fully. This is a big problem in today's society and the fact that porn causes all this isn't recognized yet. Give it a few years, and society's approach to porn will be way different.
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>>17684049
Interesting you do have a point. Even in amateur porn you do see girls who are so sexually liberated you immediately feel like you cannot give a single thing to them. And then when you face a girl you wonder "oh what if she likes this thing I cannot do myself?"

Hell today I saw a very, VERY cute girl with tattoos in her arms. And because of reasons I immediately assume they can withstand, or hell, even like pain far more than whatever I could give or receive. So my mind was running with thoughts like

>Is it a good idea to talk to her more
>What if she has a bf
>She doesn't seem interested
>I'm nervous somebody help me
>She's so cute though
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>>17684015
OP, could it have something to do with your perceived size of your manhood like >>17684049 pointed out?

I'm dealing with this same issue right now but I'm not confused as to why. My GF (4+ years) bought a new toy off amazon because she's gone to uni for a couple years and Ill only be able to visit on the weekends. Thing is, she didnt read the dimensions on it because she was really concerned about discrete packaging and only looked for that in the description. This thing is well above average bot not out of the realm of possibility and It's caused me a lot of grief lately because I know the girth more than anything makes a difference for her in a big way. Cant help but feel in that one aspect it does more for her in that one way than ever I can, and I just want to be excellent for her.

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hello /adv/ i'm a young girl & i crave attention sooo much, it's hard for me to have any self esteem unless i have someone telling me i'm attractive. i don't know why i don't see it & it hurts. i'm not sure what to do about it. i'm homeschooled so i'm not very social but i am perfectly fine with interacting with others, & i have a few friends online. it's sad to say but some days i just end up whoring myself out to boost my ego. i'm not sure how to change.. please help ):
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>>17684014
My advice to you is to not homeschool your children so they don't end up feeling how you feel right now.

Really, you probably just need more in-person social interaction. Join a club/team at your local school. Make yourself uncomfortable.
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I may not be useful, but you can accept you are just a human being. If you really like the feeling of getting attention, maybe you will do fine if you get out more and do more friends or rather get out with your already made friends. You just need more real life human interaction, in my own point of view, I may be wrong, but do as you please.
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>>17684014
>Tripfag.
You didn't come here for advice... You said it yourself:
>it's sad to say but some days i just end up whoring myself out to boost my ego.
Kindly, fuck off.

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>Be me 18
>6'5
>Line I use with short girls on dating sites (tinder)
>Girl must be under 5'3 to use line
>Line: Damn you could probably give me a bj while standing up lmao

What should I say if I did meet up with her a short girl? "Wanna test this theory" Help /adv/ I got a date with a 4'8 girl

>pic semi related, kinda looks like her
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>>17683985
How do you even get bitches, you faggot. I'm 6'5" too and everyone is scared of me...
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You're fucking pathetic
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>>17683994
Confidence/be a funny dude...
Girls love your height anon trust me. Just be socialable and be open :)

>>17683995
F U m8

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Femanon here. How do I make friends at college?
Recently my two best friends severed ties with me for petty reasons and revealed some pretty harsh things they think about me.
Lately I've been having problems with my boyfriend (he doesn't take my issues seriously, essentially tells me to just get over it, things will change eventually and its not the end of the world when what I really need is support, not being brushed off)
I sort of realized I need to make friends ASAP. I can't keep pitying myself and I know I have to get out there. My relationship probably is going to be over soon because he is very dismissive, and it's pretty unhealthy that he's the only person I talk to the vast majority of days.
There are a few people in my classes I think are cool (from what I can tell) and would be good potential friends, but everyone always leaves the second the professor is done talking and everyone just sits where they sat the first day.
How do I approach these people I want to be friends with? What kinds of things do I say?
I don't want to come off too strong or creepy. I'm kind of afraid of that if I just sit next to someome.

And yes, I realize I'm coming off as full cancer right now. Keep in mind 2 friends were from middle school and my parents were/are EXTREMELY over protective. I wasn't allowed to do many things with other kids growing up such as trick or treating and local fair. I didn't have a phone until I was a sophomore.
I always have felt like an outcast, thus socially awkward.

Please help.
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Nice blog post. You already know what you have to do, fuck off.
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>>17683780
>blog
Sorry for providing background info. And no, I don't. I want to know how to go about it.
I'm not new here ty and would appreciate actual advice.
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>>17683780
Do you know where you are?

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