Where do I meet women that are not normies? Every girl I meet either listens to Indie Rock and suffers from mental illness or only listens to mainstream garbage and tags me in those shitty ghetto compressed memes with 300 emojis that snapchats something every fucking 5 minutes. Where do I find a girl that's not like this?
>>17684205
and snapchats something every fucking 5 minutes*
>normie
>suffers from mental illness
Pick one
>>17684225
Being a mentally ill chick with daddy issues who wears chokers and listens to indie rock everyday is pretty normie now. Maybe they fake their illness, but annoying regardless
hi /adv/ this is all hypothetical but I wanted to know other peoples opinions on it.
would you be offended if you partner/spouse asked for a prenup before you were married?
now, for the back story. the vast majority of my family has passed away. most of them barely having enough to make ends meet or were in debt up to their ears. recently, my mother passed away, she had a life policy and while its not a huge amount of money it is still a sizable amount for the beginnings of an okay life. now before my mother died, she always stated she wanted her boys to be taken cares of. my brother recently died before my mother leaving me as the recipient. the house and everything else went to my step father. so all i have is this money.
would a life partner find it extremely rude or unfair of me to ask that a prenup be signed? If / when married I fully intend to use the money for our life but i've been/seen too many situations where it hasn't worked and someone was taken to the cleaners. I would only want the agreement for this sum of money as my mother intended it for me to be able to create a home for myself. of course if my partner wanted their own agreement I would agree to it. this is the only money i stand to inherit, so it is important to me.
any opinions?
If you are a girl I strongly recommend it.
If you are a boy, you better have a lot of intangibles to offer in exchange for the girl giving up the tangible.
I have an easy out: I told my parents that they should not give their permission for me to get married without a prenup. So I can wash my hands off it when the time comes. Unfortunately it looks like it's not something you can do.
>>17684168
i bring more to the table than money... if that's what you're saying.
>>17684169
yeah... unfortunately no
>female friend seems to like me
>I've acted a bit hot and cold with her
>she's becoming a bit distant with me, still trying to get close to be but also dodging physical contact as well
Am I fucked or is there still hope for me?
I did want to say you still have chance, but you pretty mess up by being distant. Howerver, I will like to belive that there's still a chance since she is trying to get close, as you said. The other part of this is that she never liked you and everything is in your head.
Date another girl, see if she gets jealous.
>>17684151
Yeah, like that's going to go down well.
So...I've been REALLY trying to hold onto whatever shred of life and fight is left in me for so long I've lost track of time, and tonight I really feel like I've just hit my breaking point. I don't know if I can do this anymore it just feels like it's too much. Like it's not worth it. Can someone just tell me something, anything, to hold onto? I need a reason to live because right now I just can't find one. Please.
I don't know if it's that bad... do it ?
good luck anon
Puppy
There's this cute girl in my classes, and I talked to her and her friend for like 5 or 10 minutes after an exam walking to a class we all had together.
She seemed really receptive, but I kinda fucked up at the end since I was about to end it with, "Well thanks for the help, I'm anon."
But stupidly, her friend pulls out an assignment for a class I have with the friend, I ask if it's for the class we're both in and the girl goes, "Oh are we in the same class?" and I fucking sounded weird. I mentioned how I noticed her in a class prior to this, and she was like, "Oh are we in the same class? I didn't know." It's been almost 2 months into the semester now, how the fuck do you not know the general faces of the kids in your smaller classes?
As that fucking happened, another friend walks by, starts talking to the girl, and they both walk into the class we were outside waiting for.
So I just say bye quickly as they all walk into the class we share and we go back to our usual spots.
Did I fuck up? Am I weird to them?
I did catch the girl looking at me once or twice during the lecture, so I don't think it was too bad if I did, and she honestly seemed pretty relaxed and interested in the conversation we had about the exam and studying, wasn't like off put at all and gave me full attention almost the entire time.
Should I just sit near/next to her next class? We both usually show up early I've noticed and she's alone for the most part for like 5-10 minutes before any of her friends show up, I was thinking I could sit down and say, "Hey thanks for the exam explanation the other day. By the way, I'm anon." and go from there.
Or am I a complete creep in her and her friends' eyes now? I feel like I mumbled by and walked off awkwardly, but I know it's probably 10x worse than it seems in my head.
>>17684108
>probably 10x worse than it seems in my head.
Oops, I meant 10x worse in my head than it seems.
>>17684108
No help? :(
Anyone think my idea of sitting next to her is a good idea, at all?
I've gotta to sleep, but honestly I just want to know if I should sit next to her and say something about her helping me and then introducing my name, really want to get to know this girl more and I can't tell if I fucked up and already seem creepy to her or not.
Will drinking alcohol, taking sleeping pills and going for a swim make for an easy painless death? I'm betting on passing out and then drowning, what do you guys think?
if you shoot yourself in the head its a sure thing and i cant imagine it would hurt for more than a fraction of a second
>>17684101
Head shots are extremely painful...and there is no guarantee you will die if you fail to execute it properly.
Dont kill yourself man, its really not worth it. I actually cant stress that enough to you. The first thing you need to do is never get on this website again. I know its cliche but its fucking true, things will get better. Theres always a reason to live you just need to find it
Can anyone help me with the following question.
Its for an international law class, undergraduate.
Question 1
--In circumstances precluding wrongness…
A)The State in question has complied with all its obligations,
therefore there is no reason for claims of reparations
B)The State in question has an excuse for non compliance that does not equate to a breach of obligation towards another State
C)The State damaged cannot seek further reparation
D)The international court has strengthen the violation of obligation of the State in question
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Question 2
-Are claimant states still entitled to seek for compensation/reparation even
after the State which violated its obligation with the claimant State has successfully claimed it acted under ‘a circumstance that precludes wrongness’ such as distress?
A) a priori yes
B)usually no
C) depends on the circumstances precluding wrongness, not all circumstances entitles to reparation.
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Question 9
-States cannot be considered crime doers, only wrongdoers. Why?
A)States do not violate international law
B)States are incapable of actus reus
C)It is argued that States, as fictional entities, are incapable of mens rea (wrongful intention)
D) Because States are not people
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Question 10
- In order to know if a State has violated its international obligations, one needs to look at:
A) Customary law and all the treaties/conventions the State is party to
B)Treaties that the State is party to, exclusively
C)UNGA declarations and UNSC resolutions
D)In the State’s constitution
10 is definitely A
>>17684118
Thank you kind sir
Any help is greatly appreciated.
I have a crush on some person who sits across from me (pale skin long black hair slightly shorter than me) and I'm currently in a relationship that's about to hit the 3 year milestone in a couple weeks. I already feel pretty shitty about it but I'm not leaving because I'm hoping that this is just gonna be a small thing that'll fade away.It has already been a month and I still have these feelings. This nearly 3-year relationship has been my only one so far so I don't have much experience on what to do or what might have caused this please help
How old are you and your partner?
>>17684088 Do you still like the person you're in a relationship with?
>>17684103
I'm 18 and she's 17 (there's a 3 month difference)
>>17684105
Yeah I still have some emotional attachment but I try to constantly prepare myself for a break up because it was a high school relationship and if it does happen, It won't hold me down too much.
I got a female friend, named "A" thats kinda territorial over me.
we grew up with each other/family friends. she's like my sister, and she treats me like her family/brother. nothing intimate just "platonic" friend love.
i visited A today (she live in another city) and went to her crib and she was talking about "promise me you'll hang out with me all day" (I rarely see her, maybe like 1-2 times a month).
the problem was i had other plans with another chick, name "S" for some pussy and A knew that.
so i went to the other chick for several hours. A despises the S and calls her satanic and other foul things. i just see it as petty girl talk.
i return to A's crib i knocked and texted her but she ignored my messages, i let myself in (she gave me a key) and she was just chilling in the living room, she said to me "was the pussy worth it" and then ignored me like i was invisible.
we're all college aged adults btw
i feel bad, should I apologize? how would i?
if you care about your relationship with her then call her on it and have her explain herself.
from what youve written here though all i can take away from it is that a girl youre not involved with romantically is trying to cockblock you by guiltripping you which is bullshit that nobody needs
>>17684080
>childhood friend
>OP has no interest in her
>she (apparently) has no interest in him
>gets territorial
Are we going anime again?
OP answer me this, is she a tomboy?
>>17684112
no, she's pretty feminine. girly girl
Is it possible to lose my sense of smell?
I've felt like I've lost a good portion of my ability to smell for a good year now.
I just always feel like I can't get a good smell of the air or anything unless I take a HUGE sniff and even when I do that, I get this burning sensation in my nose.
Is there a way to improve it/get it back?
I'll list some details that I think might factor in to this:
>almost 20
>been getting chronic nosebleeds since freshman year of high school
>been sleeping in a basement most nights since 2010
>been using nasal spray for a year now
>nose ALWAYS feels puckered out when I'm at work(grocery store)
>showers are one of the only things that help me clear my nasal passages
I should also mention that I'm in the Basement most of the time.
I do know it is possible for a person to lose their sense of smell. After a surgery my dad can no longer smell at all.
Basemend- could be mold
Also prolonged use of nasal spray (1 yr) is waay to long.
Go to an doctor and tell them what you told us.
I want to try something genuinely frightening, but want to keep it as legal as possible. I've been dying to get scared but movies and all aren't doing it for me. Something visceral. Any suggestions?
be white and go to detroit
drop amusement rides and coasters
fight and/or wrestle with a strong wild animal
embracing the absurdity of our existence
>>17684546
I don't think this will be possible.
Hey /adv/, I've got a pretty expansive problem that's been happening for years now, and I could really use some help on how to confront it (or to not confront it)
When I was 6 my sister and I started wrestling. She'd pin me down and spit on me sometimes, I'd bite her, normal kid stuff, but sometimes she'd tell me to pull out my "privates", because that's what we called em at the time. You know, kid-speak. She's 7 years and a 1 month older than me though, so that's where I've found the whole "experimenting" argument gets tossed out the window. I remember cuddling naked with her a lot, I can sternly hear the words "Listen to your older sister" in the back of my mind when i try to remember it happening, and it's making me worse and worse, mentally.
She's caring and nurturing, always has been, but I feel like that side of her that I'm only just now beginning to remember is really fucking with me. She beat up my bullies and comforted me when I cried since my parents were always too busy fighting, but at the same time, I kinda feel, in the back of my mind, like this was all just so i'd trust her more. I'm not sure what to do. I feel like if I confront her, she'll deny all allegations and I'll lose one of my only friends
and if I don't confront her, it could build up and get progressively more heavy on my mind. It's made it so that I only pursue women like her, (Moderately older, around my height, smaller breasts than me, and motherly as all hell) but i've become a complete masochist, sexually and non-sexually.
tl;dr My sister groomed me for a part of my life and I'm not sure if I should confront her or just try to forget about it.
Sorry if this post is a little incoherent, I've been taking sedatives all tday
Bump
>>17684039
Gonna help you with a bump. I'd say talk to her, don't "confront", but I may be too retarded to give advice regarding this.
Worst case, ask a psychologist.
Yeah, go talk to a psychologist. It'll help you tons sort this shit out.
Is it wierd to want to fap with your brother..hes 3 yrs younger than me...we share a room with a bunk bed...and every once in a while i hear it shaking...so one time i was jerkin it...and the bed was shaking from the top...i heard him breathing kinda heavy (fap breathing) so i stopped and sorta listened to confirm...whenever hes fapping hes usualt laying completely strait with his blanket tight over him..and his hand seemingly in the middle of him...anyways so i stopped and got up and asked if he wanted to jack off with me...he sorta played dumb abd asked what it was so i sorta explained it...he said okay so i sorta sat in ny chair and was jerkin while he was doin it in his bed...no lights on so we dint really see each other all too well..and i explained to him about cumming and stuff...i gueds he finished first by what he told me....then i told him i was gonna bust into a sock which i did...it was a bit akward after but we said gnight to each other and went to bed....a few montjs later ....same situation..i asked him right after we got into bed and he angerly said no...to persuade him i sat in my chair again...and he acted ad if moving in his sleeo to position himself to watcj me....after a while hes like...i cant sleep over and over...so i asked him if he wanted to jack off and same thing....only diffrence is that i asked if he wantrd to watch "some stuff" on my phone...so hes like sure...so showed him some porn...and he liked it...we finished said goodnight and went to bed again....anyone else fap with their bro? Reason i decided to actualy go through with this is cuz...ive been board with myself latly...it wouldnt hurt to mention im pretty bicurious
>>17683895
No that's fucking weird and you know it. What the fuck? Seriously this has to be bait
Y so wierd? Like...really a legit reason?...and not bait...
>>17683904
Kinda gay, u should listen to your brother
How do
>>17683823
What's wrong? And is it really a reason to kill yourself?
try holding your breath
>>17683823
You can get rope at your nearest warehouse. Look up how to tie a noose and practice with some rope until you get it down. Then tie your best noose to some stable support and find some stool or something, something that'll get you high enough from the ground and that you can kick away from under you easily. Put your head through the noose and kick away. Keep in mind that it'll take you 10-15 seconds to black out, but ideally the moment you're suspended in the air is the point of no return and your pain will subside along with your loss of consciousness. Good luck anon, and don't falter like I did.
Can I smoke a pipe in my non-smoking room at uni, which has a smoke alarm?
>Can I smoke
>in my non-smoking room
You're clearly far too stupid to be at uni
Get rekt.
>>17683813
On the contrary, you have to be this stupid to decide to go to uni.