Young Girlfriend

>>17682739
>Am I being a dick?

No you're an adult dating a child.

>he age difference doesn't really mean much to me

Obviously it does, that is exactly what you are describing.

>>17682739

It probably has less to do with age and more to so with her being lazy and/or retarded. Plenty of 19yos can handle their own shit. If she can't, maybe ask yourself if you're really prepared to be with a person like that, because it could be permanent and just her personality trait.

>>17682745
>adult dating a child
>child
Nope. I opted for the better option within my league. It's either parasitic single mothers, women who are not married for a reason (psychotic, non-nurturing), or women who are younger.
There has been a study done correlating the amount of a woman's sexual partners, and the success rate of those women's relationship. The women who have had the least amount of sexual partners stayed with their husbands more often then not. Unfortunately, the obvious way to getting women who have low, or no sexual partners is to date young.

You sound like an angry cuck who will never have a young trained female to raise your children with unwavering loyalty.

>>17682773
Dude, you're in your mid-late twenties, dating a teenager -- not even a particularly mature teenager, from your post. By my standards she'd be a child. Apparently the only women you can attract who aren't children are single mothers or psychotic. And you lashed out at a relatively innocuous post and called the poster (not me, incidentally) an "angry cuck" (which doesn't speak very well to your own maturity) for stating something that's flatly true -- that the age difference plainly is an issue, even if you wish it wasn't.

I don't really think you're in a position to be talking down to anybody, do you?

>>17682798
>By my standards she'd be a child.

I think you're confusing someone being a child with immaturity. Stating someone is a child simply because your flexible definitions allow for it is dishonest. It's congruent with the idiots who hijack the word rape.

>>17682739
You are being a dick

She is asking for help and acknowledges that you have been dealing with this shit for a much longer time than she has. Why not just help her? Why do you want to watch her struggle. It appears that you don't really respect her.

It is a very painful thing to admit that you are struggling with something only to find that the person you care about more than anything tells you to deal with it on your own.

Just fucking help her with the tax returns, she will soon be able to sort it out on her own

>>17682739
>The age difference doesn't really mean much to me, and I hardly if ever notice it.
>proceed to explain how you often notice it

I'm sorry but you're a walking catchphrase, this is what everyone in your position says, until the moment you break up.

Your experience is not unique, many "normal women" date much older men when they are young, then you break up and they date someone who's on the same level. If you want the relationship to work you will have to get used to teaching her all about life, that's just how it is. She will never stop asking for help, so get used to it. That's part of dating someone younger than you.

>>17682879
Also you will never escape the social stigma. Don't kid yourself, the age gap will never stop being an issue no matter how much you try to ignore it. People in these relationships usually are in a massive amount of denial about their circumstances. But it's not like anything I say will change your opinion, because of said denial. You will break up eventually, just try to enjoy the young vag while it lasts. Your next mate will undoubtedly be worse.

>>17682739

You're being a dick, and you're very much acting like an old man. I mean, you actually told her to "google it", dude? wtf is wrong with you? Get her up to speed with you. You'll be helping both her, and yourself, you surly fuck. You better hope she's a co-dependent, otherwise you're about to be out of a young piece of ass.

Also, you're not wrong about women you're age. I'm older than you, I would know. Appreciate her a little bit more, geez.

>>17682739

Don't listen to this sour cunt>>17682745
>>17682798

She's just salty that she's approaching the wall and her only value is quickly diminishing.

There is nothing wrong with dating a 19 year old, no matter how old you are.

I was 23 when I met my 17 year old girlfriend 5 years ago, we've been a happy couple since.

>>17682739
She is still a young girl. Be patient with her, or Try dating other women who are a bit older.

>>17682739
>dates a child-teenager
>bitches about her acting like one

>>17682773
>young trained female to raise your child with unwavering loyalty

if you're with a girl like this why would you expect her to be smart? you sound like a bitter /pol/faggot who wants to have their cake and eat it too

also why did you start this thread if you're just going to argue with people calling you a dick/giving you advice? you don't ask for advice and then get mad when it's not the answer you like

>>17682798
Well you should let all of the world know that your definition of child is the correct one, since literally all nations on Earth disagree with you. Cunt.

OP, I see nothing wrong with you fucking your cunnyfu.