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go hermit mode. Buy some solar panels and live in the woods on your computer, occasionally jerking it to cartoons on the internet. Something like this guy, but substitiuting bombs with qt anime grills.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ted_Kaczynski

>>17694776
Find a new passion for life, because it's clear if you thought you would spend forever with her, you were passionate about her. Pick up a new hobby, set your sights on a new career or any goal in particular. Lift weights, run, etc.

Learn how to be a better boyfriend for the next girl and don't repeat the same mistakes.

>>17694739
>someone who has feelings for me and who I have feelings for
Well you can't force that, so the harder you try to make it happen, the less likely you are to find success.

>>17694756
So basically there's nothing I can do?

>>17694739
>going clubbing
First, decide what type of person you're looking for, then think where they would go, and go there. Make sure you're able to show that you're interested in people and able to tell of people are interested in you

>>17694702
She could very well be caught for this and her life would be RUINED. Legit RUINED.

I love my boyfriend and friends to the moon and back, and understand her murderous rage, but this is just plain stupid. Fuck worrying about someone suffering, some people deserve it. But she's being reckless and stupid. If I were her, I'd go a much more subtle route, calling wherever she gets hired to get her fired and possibly convincing her family she's involved in drugs or gang activity so they drop her as well.

Also- HOW does no one know this girl was a cunt to her bf? Why is her bf such a pussy he won't tell anyone? What did she actually DO to deserve this? I'll need you to elaborate.

>>17694702
Anonymously contact the police and voice your concerns, I mean she'll probably know it was you if you're the only person she's told this too but you will never forgive yourself if you let this happen to another human being.

>>17694720

Basically, Ex cheated on Bf twice, with a friend (one of best friends, I think?). And, apparently, Boyfriend thought of keeping it quiet because of shame and maybe to not ruin her life pointlessly.

But that was years ago, if I am not mistaken, and this girl life is already ruined. Best Friend says it doesn't count because it's unrelated to the fact that she was a bitch, so she has to suffer some more.

And what fucking right does she have to do this? I would somewhat understand it if it was the boyfriend wanting revenge (which he does not, at all), or if it was so recent that it could be considered wanting to protect the people close to you... But she has no fucking right. It's been like two and half years since this shit.

I could understand WANTING to kill her, but to actually do it... She has no fucking right at all.

>>17694722

I'm inclined to do that. But I fear to cause her trouble in the slight chance that she actually doesn't do it... or that she feels betrayed, because she wasn't to actually do it and our relationship is murdered for good.

But I'll probably do that.

>>17694597
Bump

>>17694597
I think you need to ask her how she feels, then explain yourself, but without bullshiting her, just say what you said to us, and then ask if you both can start over again and ask her what does she want to do when you both start over.

Ye but like we dont even talk in school, we'r not even friends on facebook, i thought i was getting all the go signs to make out but apparently not and after we talked like normal after but it was awkward, we went back in and everyone was like "eyy you go anon" and she was like "Nah"

>>17694593
Get money. The easiest way is to let your rich mom or dad die. Then just book hotels or buy an rv you fucking idiot.

>>17694599
Come from a poor background, no amount of dead relatives can fund my round the world odyssey, really I'm looking for the cheap way, I've never left the country on my own either so I have no clue what to do

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>>17694593
I have a cousin who traveled the world without spending a dime (or at least not a fortune) .
What he basically did is volunteering. He worked for food and room... then after few weeks he moved to next city or country.
Search on the Internet for these volunteer jobs. Everyone can do this!

Good Luck.

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>obsessing about a "girl" online from 10 years ago

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>>17694601

>>17694591
Search on Google,Facebook,Twitter,Instagram. I hope you are lucky to find her. But she could have different name there.
How did you remember her after 10 years?

Nah, just jack it to cartoons instead and shitpost on dead boards.

Are you willing to destroy your whole relationship with your family for one quick fuck?

You might find each other attractive for obvious reasons but she's not gonna fuck her husband's son if she's level-headed.

Alcohol's probably your best ally. Or kill your father.

You'd have to be quite the master manipulator or she'd have to be quite insecure.

On a more serious note, date like a normal person you fucking psychopath.

>>17694558

thats an oxymoron, like jumbo shrimp, or female president.


you cannot 'manipulate' someone into falling in love with you. only with some perception of who you are.

that being said, if you have to ask 4chan, you're already too dumb to figure it out. what are we going to do, write a ten step guide?

>>17694558
message her a lot and care about her feelings

Nah dude you're not doomed, i was in a situation like this before and i completely fucked up, the thing about shy girls is even though they might never engage anything with you, but it doesn't mean they don't want to, i fucked up with my first gf and i thought she didnt want to do anything with me, we had a massive fight and broke it off, and as we were fighting i found out that she wanted to do all sorts of crazy sexy shit but she didn't want to start it, basically go in and fuck her right in the pussy

^ I agree

>>17694554
Just talk to her, dumbass

Don't kid yourself, they've already decided.

They waiting to see if you magically become someone else over night

>>17694545
i think guys know that but they have 0 self esteem and still pursue her

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>>17694538
You mentioned sex like 3+ times during your spiel about an existential crisis. Pick any one of pic related except hedonism, which obviously isn't working out for you.

(You fucking idiot)

>>17694602

Not him but would you mind volunteering your favorite(s)?

>>17694605
If you're asking that question a good starting point would be Viktor Frankl- Man's Search for Meaning

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it could be any number of things.

but with what little context we got, it just sounds like you're leading an unfulfilling life.

are you in school? are you in the work force?

are you actually building towards something greater or are you just living life as is indefinitely?

>>17694644
In school for programming, work weekends at a shitty fast food job for gas money (live with parents, drive back and fourth to school everyday)

My best guess is my depression has to do with how my social anxiety limits me socially

>>17694669

you mean how you limit yourself.

>>17694502
revenge doesnt work because hes a spoiled brat

>>17694502
I just listen to this song:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=cmpRLQZkTb8

>>17694519
thats a sad song though

you are correct, in moderate use.

but what are the benefits of this? like what do you learn from this drug experience?

The problem is when twice a month becomes every week and when you build up a tolerance to that twice a month and have to up the dosage.

>>17694479
this. the twice-a-month thing won't last, OP. enjoy it while you can, but as soon as you start feeling the urge to do it more often than that, it's time to quit, pronto.

>>17694451
Just grab her by the pussy, OP

>>17694451
>>17694451
>eye contact
>unnecessary physical interaction/touch
>physical proximity
>laughing at your shitty humor
>looks to you when gauging reactions
>optional communication

>mentioning free/spare time, boredom
>being overly interested in your taste in women/crushes (can be using the guise of potentially setting you up to question you about what you find attractive)
>domestic stuff like baking you cookies, giving handmade gifts/cards (unless that's what they're always doing), "just thinking of you"/"x reminded me of you" texts
>showing a surprisingly keen memory for trivial shit you told her
>putting more effort into her appearance when she's around you than otherwise/wearing or doing something more often after you told her that you found it attractive (on her)
>giving you nicknames, creating inside jokes, stuff like "work boy/girlfriend" "oh it's like we're an old married couple", teasing you more than other people
>randomly showing up in places where you are, seemingly happening to wind up around you a lot at parties/events, stuff like that
>volunteering that she's single ("my friends always joke that I'll be an old cat lady!")
>looking at you a lot - especially if she looks at you right away when someone makes a joke or does something funny/shocking in a group setting, that's a dead giveaway
>she tries to get you alone (like asking you to walk her home or intentionally dropping you off last)
>her friends act flustered/giggly/taunting when you're around - bonus points if she tries to be cool and completely ignore it
>she finds excuses to touch you a lot, even if it's straightening your shirt or something
>in case of some shy girls: she is very chatty/cheery to everyone else, but seems to freeze up around you
>sending you romantic poems/quotes/stories
>instigating talks about life, love, the past and future etc
>being very aware of your "needs", like bringing you a cup coffee at work if she noticed that you didn't get one yet
>comparing you positively to men she admires/is attracted to

To give some examples.