Best friend no more

>>17694702
She could very well be caught for this and her life would be RUINED. Legit RUINED.

I love my boyfriend and friends to the moon and back, and understand her murderous rage, but this is just plain stupid. Fuck worrying about someone suffering, some people deserve it. But she's being reckless and stupid. If I were her, I'd go a much more subtle route, calling wherever she gets hired to get her fired and possibly convincing her family she's involved in drugs or gang activity so they drop her as well.

Also- HOW does no one know this girl was a cunt to her bf? Why is her bf such a pussy he won't tell anyone? What did she actually DO to deserve this? I'll need you to elaborate.

>>17694702
Anonymously contact the police and voice your concerns, I mean she'll probably know it was you if you're the only person she's told this too but you will never forgive yourself if you let this happen to another human being.

>>17694720

Basically, Ex cheated on Bf twice, with a friend (one of best friends, I think?). And, apparently, Boyfriend thought of keeping it quiet because of shame and maybe to not ruin her life pointlessly.

But that was years ago, if I am not mistaken, and this girl life is already ruined. Best Friend says it doesn't count because it's unrelated to the fact that she was a bitch, so she has to suffer some more.

And what fucking right does she have to do this? I would somewhat understand it if it was the boyfriend wanting revenge (which he does not, at all), or if it was so recent that it could be considered wanting to protect the people close to you... But she has no fucking right. It's been like two and half years since this shit.

I could understand WANTING to kill her, but to actually do it... She has no fucking right at all.

>>17694722

I'm inclined to do that. But I fear to cause her trouble in the slight chance that she actually doesn't do it... or that she feels betrayed, because she wasn't to actually do it and our relationship is murdered for good.

But I'll probably do that.

>>17694748
Yeah no. She's already won. It's not like this girl needs to be knocked off her pedestal to be shown that treating people like that is not ok- her life already sucks. I WILL say, however, I don't agree with the boyfriend keeping his mouth shut about it. It's his choice, but I would feel weird about him continuing to protect her reputation. If he himself is just embarrassed, that's different. I bet that's where this is really stemming from. She's upset he's 'protecting' her reputation still or some dumb shit.

Or... has your best friend ever seemed this reckless and illogical? Or violent? This is insane, I thought the ex raped a child or some shit judging by the way she's acting about it.

If you're worried about the police, maybe talk to her bf and tell him about it if she refuses to heed you. He seems like a level-headed person.

>>17694720
Buy the girl who is getting potentially stabbed/beaten/raped isn't having her life ruined? You need to look past your bias, yes this person is your friend but at the end of the day this is something very serious. Yes, she may be venting, but you need to weigh your options carefully. Does she have the capacity to do something like this? If she keeps talking about it I would nip this in the bud immediately. I know it's hard to think you're betraying your friend but you seriously need to talk some goddamn sense into her.

>>17694702
Whoa. Not gonna lie, that is some pretty deep, pretty fucked up shit

But I see what you need to say to her

You need to tell her this main point: if she does this, she would do something worse than whatever that other girl has done, and is the risks really worth it? Tell her that teaching her a lesson about being more evil than the other girl will teach her nothing that she wants, but a better way to teach her a lesson is to set the example of what the other girl should have been.

What's done is done, and whatever she does is not going to reverse it, but what she can do is be the kinder hand to lead the other girl on a path to help prevent it in the future.

If I could, I would just personally go up to her to tell all that needs to be said, but I can't, so you need to tell her all this, before it's too late, and learns this lesson the hard way.

>>17694763

That's what I am worried about. She is indeed capable of doing this, or at the very least, confident that she can do it and get away with it.

But, even with the seriousness she told me this, there's the slightiest chance that she wasn't actually going to. And then, am I going to cause her potential trouble for something that might not happen? I really want to, but I'm not sure about the consequences. Guess I'll have to talk to her.

>>17694786

The only thing that will not work about the general speech is the part about the risk, because, true or not, she feels really confident about the whole plan. But it is what I'll have to do.

Thank you for your kind words, anons. And thanks, Black Raptor.

>>17694801
No problem, I say the risk thing because although it seems like she could get away with that, she wouldn't, I have studied forensics and even if she didn't do the deed, they will use 1 of many methods to find a way to link her, figure out she is lying, and charge her. That is what I know of her potential result, as I will be too much work to keep her hires quite, and not leave anything linking it to her, that is part of the reason why I wish I had a 1 on 1 talk with her

>>17694822
yeah seriously. Does she not realize EVERYONE EVER CAUGHT thought they could get away with it too? You can always find the idiot in the room. Look for someone who thinks they're smarter than everyone else.

>>17694702
You should stop associating with this person. You may consider her your best friend but it's plain that she does not return the favor. She is exhibiting a dark, unstable nature that sooner or later will end in disaster. If you are still around when it happens, she will drag you down with her. Cut you losses.