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Well guys, I don't know what to do, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months, bout I'm afraid he's not the right person for me, I was wrong. I wan to leave him, but I don't know how to do it without hurting him. Also, my parents really like him, I don't know how to tell them about this. Please help me
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Just sit him down and explain that you're not that into it & your sorry. That's the best you can do.
Good luck!!
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Where should I do it? My house? In a cafe?
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>>17693694
Invite him for coffee at a cafe and tell him what you told us, basically it's not working out and you don't think he's the one for you. Then get up an leave.
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Why do women under 20 be textin' "hahahaha lol" in reaction to simple questions and statements?
>"Did you get milk at the store?"
>"Hahahaha yes lol"
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Because they are under 20.
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>>17693676
Hahaha I don't know lol
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>>17693676
Because some other guy is "tickling" them.
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first date at her house? 2016-10-22 15:40:19 Post No.17693671
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hello /adv/
i planned a date with a girl that i have class with to the movies, but this morning she messages me saying that there's no good movies out and that i should just go over to her house.
honestly i dont know this girl all that well, we flirt a lot through text but unfortunately dont talk much in person.
for this reason i was quite taken aback by her invitation to her house. this would be our first date and first time being with each other outside of school.
tips? i havent gone on a date in a while and none of them were really successful or went anywhere, this girl is definitely interested in me although to what extent im not sure. whats a good movie to chill to?
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It's October man.. literally the scary movie month. And don't over think it dude she'll think your a weirdo just go over be courteous and respectful of her and her home ask her if she'd like you to bring something over to drink or like a desert if it's a dinner date. Just don't overthink it or you'll kill it.
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>I have zero clue that she just wants to bang
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Bring condoms with you and try not to fuck it up.
My bf and I were in more of an "open relationship" (I guess) when we first met. We were both 25 and met randomly and for the first 2 years we never had a talk about being exclusive. He was not with anyone else, but I had some trysts. Then we moved to California for a while and I had cut my long hair right before moving, not knowing what I was in for. He hooked up with 2 girls out there. It was the first time he ever was with anyone else. We had a disussion when I found out and he said that since we had never had "the talk" it wasn't clear, but he wanted to be exclusive and be a couple and not just dating or whatever.
Since then no one has cheated and I have grown my hair back quite long. We live in a different state so its pretty pronounced because people dont value long hair like they do in Cali. He compliments me on my hair all the time.
But it always reminds me of how he was with these other girls and that he only ever got with anyone else when I was sporting a shorter haircut. It makes me wonder how long their hair was and if he liked it better. He always avoids talking about it much.
His dad called me once and told me that my bf has never been a player or a ladies man and has always kind of had trouble with girls and not to worry. My bf also said the girls were
Not that hot and they came on to him and he was on drugs and feeling peer pressure and that he thinks I am beautiful.
I still feel so insecure though. When he plays with my hair or compliments it it makes me want to cry.
We are trying really hard to reset our relationship but how do I get past this trigger response about hair length?
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>>17693656
I didn't even bother finiah reading this post. Jesus you seem fucking insufferable. I am sorry but there is no problem this is what happens when you are a whore and start an "open" relationship with a cuckold. Fuck off with your stupidity and weeb faggotry and let people with actual problems post.
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>>17693668
Finish*
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>>17693656
Lets get this out of the way. The length of you hair hasn't got a damn thing to do with any of your relationship issues.
People that commit to another person never need the "exclusive" talk to make it official, they just stop fucking other people. Your bf committed to you early and you continued fucking others. So for him it wasn't open but for you it was open from the first until you moved away from your fuck buddies. What you failed to grasp as you fucked other people he was unable to understand why if you really cared. Over time he understood you would never stop so when the opportunity arose when you moved he took them and unfortunately for you, your opportunities dried up. Had you moved and had chances you would still be fucking even if he had none. For you to be insecure now when you lack the opportunities to fuck around is hilarious. Reset the relationship? Does that mean you long for the days when he wouldn't fuck other women but you fucked other men?
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one of my frieds (25) has a new gf for 4 months now (23).
5/10 at most on looks + her personality really stinks ( 260lb on 5,2 + bitch behavior2).
He has a talent for picking the worst woman he can possibly find and it always ends in drama fast.
Now he tells our group of friends that he and the big unfriendly woman with the tatoo stating :" if you dont fight you already lost" are going to move in together.
I srly dont now how to react. I told him so manny times to fucking take his time in order to get to know the other person but he seams so urgend find find someone that he only reacts angry and just goes ahead like stubborn 9 year old.
Should i take distance from this friendship?
I dont know what to tell him.
I think it's a really stupid move by his side.
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>>17693629
Your friend knows how you feel. Some people have insecurity issues, so they constantly put themselves in relationships like this. Don't give your friend any ultimatums, but you can slowly drift out of the picture if that's what you want. Try to make it known the next couple of times you talk to him, you only really want to see him and not his girlfriend. If he asks why, don't go too much into detail, just tell him you'd rather have it like that.
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>>17693629
As the best friend of a girl who collected, over the last 10 years around 4 physically or mentally abusive boyfriends and managed to cheat on the only good guy she got, give up on that.
Stop giving him advice, stop taking his life so much at heart, stop worrying so much about what he does. Be there for him, help him if he asks, but some people don't want to be helped and you cannot save people who don't want to be saved.
Some people are genuinely idiots in relationship. It's not your responsibility to look after them.
Let him do his thing, give him your advice once and only if he asks to, whatever he does next is their business only.
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>>17693643
Curious, but how is your friend? Is she miserable? Regretful?
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good idea to go to ex's birthday? 2016-10-22 15:12:55 Post No.17693610
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good idea to go to ex's birthday?
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>ex left me 4 weeks ago
>been no contact since
>her birthday is coming up in a week
>sends me a message asking if im coming
i really dont want to go because i still have strong feelings for her and it will probably kill me to see her
but some of my friends are telling me to go out of respect and whatnot.
good/bad idea? why?
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>>17693610
you don't owe her SHIT op
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>>17693610
Your friends are retarded. Listen, your ex broke up with you, she needs to be the one to put the work in if she wants to get back together with you. This means, she needs to reach out EVERY time you speak for a while, the first couple of times you hang out needs to be on your terms, and you need to worry about yourself, not her. Fuck her "respect". Respect yourself. If you did something wrong in the relationship too, that's fine, but she's the one who unilaterally changed the conditions of your relationship, so she needs to be the one to change it back if she wants that. Don't be her friend. Don't be there for her. She's going to be okay, and you're going to be okay. When you were no contact what steps did you take to improve yourself? How long were you together? What were the reasons behind her breaking up with you? If she contacts you, keep conversations to a two-three minute maximum. End every conversation with something like "Hey, it was nice hearing from you, but I have to run". If you still love this girl, if you want her back, or if you're definitely not over her in your heart, do not go to the birthday party. Stop looking at her facebook, stop talking to her completely, and continue improving yourself. Life's short.
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>match with girls on tinder
>talk for a bit
>she's super into it
>agrees to meet up
>last minute she freaks out and unmatches me
has happened over a hundred times. Wtf is wrong. I bet if I was good looking they'd meet up
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>Girls who aren't approached by men IRL turn out to be weird flaky spaz cunts.
Gee who would've known.
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>>17693611
are hookers and clubs really the only way to get laid? I hate clubs and hookers are smelly
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>>17693617
The majority of the fucking Earth is made up of women. Consider getting a circle of friends or joining a club.
I befriend a girl three years ago (i was 19, she was 20, both in college). She was really nice and good looking, and was sort of comic geek and weaboo (she is hot, but it seems he wasn't on highschool).
Whatever... in time i realized that she only talked to me when she had problems with men. She even said to me once "Why can i fall in love with guys like you?", which was very painful because i had feelings even though i knew it was never going to happen.
Whatever... she always sort of eluded me when i asked her to do something (just like friends). She used to say: "i am depressed right now because of somehing that happened" or "i'm really busy". 2 months later: already had and broke up with some guy. This happened a lot, so i started to distrust her. I admit she was there when i was feeling bad about someone or something, but those things really pissed mi off.
She used to invite me to like the "comicon" of our city every year. I said no this year (i stopped talking to her a few weeks before that), she asked why, and i told her why: that she only wanted me to comfort her for her bad romantic decisions whilst she eluded me all the time when she was fine.
She went mad: i leaved it the way it was, and a week after i tried to talk to her. After all, maybe i did not tell her this in an appropriate way. She told me it was useless, she know knew what i thought about her, and that she didn't have time for stupid drama.
I found out by chance that she is going to go to the comiccon like event with a friend of her whom she stopped talking because "become too close with her ex, and the people who hates her". My question is: i trully lost a friend, or nothing of value was lost? This situation vex me greatly, because i have few friends (like her and another two).
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>>17693591
Nothing , you lost literally nothing . She's not your friend , she deliberately used you . It's not like you would have slayed her any time soon either . The faster that relationships that are built on dishonesty and lies like this crumble , the better .
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>>17693594
She really made me think i was a jerk.
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>>17693591
As you sensed, she was a user of people. One trait of users is that when they treat you badly, they convince you it was your fault.
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How could I acquire some of this stuff
I would like to try it so bad
Any help would be much appreciated thanks
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Oh honey, you have to make it. Cough syrup, sprite and jolly ranchers. Have a blast
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Just takes some painkiller in pill form, they do the same thing
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>>17693588
Lol i was at the pharmacy the other day. In front of me:
Male customer about 30: can I get promethazene syrup?
Pharmacist: do you have a prescription?
Man: whats that?
pharmacist: you need a prescription from your doctor
Man: how do I get that?
Pharmacist; your doctor writes it for you
Man: can you give me the doctors number
Pharmacist: no. I am a pharmacist. Everyone has their own doctor.
Man: so you cantjust selll it to me?
Pharmacist; no
Man: i really need it though.
I dont have a doctor.
Pharmacist; wel you should have a primarycare doctor.
Man: so you are saying i have to go find a doctor and ask him for a prescription before i can buy it?
Pharmacist: yes
Man: oh man,
Alright. Well ill try that.
Walks away.
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I had a big dinner with family for my 21st the other day. My cousins fiance who I have known for about 6 years and have become quite close to didn't come. He was at a bar 15 minutes away from where I had my bday dinner. I found this pretty appalling that he couldn't even come with my cousin to say happy birthday at the very minimum (my cousin went to the bar after my bday dinner).
Is this extremely rude of him? I feel almost betrayed and I want to cut him loose. How should I let him know that I am not happy about it at all? I would cut him loose and consider him dead to me but since he is marrying my cousin I will have to see him many times. I just feel pretty hurt that someone who I thought of like family couldn't make the effort to even come..
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>>17693586
Did you invite him?
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>>17693595
This. Because if you didn't invite him and just thought he'd show up with your cousin, you have no call to be mad as he probably felt you didn't want him there.
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>>17693595
Yes I did. I've known him for 6 years and is basically apart of the family
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how do I get people to stop thinking I'm gay? 2016-10-22 14:52:19 Post No.17693583
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how do I get people to stop thinking I'm gay?
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Hey /adv/, first time in this board so apologies if this post is shit or goes against any rules or something
My friends all think im gay. No matter what I tell them, about how I'm into girls and stuff like that they still won't believe me and think I'm lying. They assume I'm just embarrassed of my sexuality and hiding in the closet.
This doesn't even just apply to my friends. I've had guys hitting on me before and I had to tell them I'm straight multiple times for them to leave me. A girl I confessed my crush to about a year ago also thought I was her gay friend all along.
How the hell do I stop people thinking I'm gay? I don't want to go through the trouble of changing my whole image because I've looked the same my whole life, and I don't talk like a stereotypical gay guy either. Im just relatively short, skinny, and have shoulder length hair.
I tried gymming a while ago but all I did was lose more weight and not gain a muscle. I have no time to work out now so just tell me all the things that would lead you to think that a guy is gay so that I can avoid doing those things or if you have any suggestions just say them please. Thanks :)
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Stop acting like a god damn queer. This has nothing to do with getting /fit/, it's about your attitude and demeanor. If you have a high pitched squeaky voice and girly mannerisms there might be no hope for you. Have you tried being gay before? On a side note, why would you think going to the gym would help? There's nothing more gay than a man who is obsessed with his physique. Only women do that. Just stop giving a fuck, smoke cigarettes to roughen your voice, and be more assertive with everyone.
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>>17693583
Show us a picture of how you dress
>>17693648
>ld you think going to the gym would help? There's nothing more gay than a man who is obsessed with his physique.
so everyone on /fit/ is gay?
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>>17693648
Ummm ok? I'm not planning to get buff anymore anyway
>Have you tried being gay before?
What does that even mean
And is there any way other than smoking to lower voice?
>>17693657
Not going to post a pic but I just wear basic stuff, nothing too out of the ordinary
Mostly jeans/track pants with a shirt/sweater/tank top. And usually they are black/blue/grey
Most of the time i'll just wear a black sweater with jeans
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why do people get pissy with politics? 2016-10-22 13:45:08 Post No.17693516
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why do people get pissy with politics?
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Why do people get so offended when you talk about politics with them? was just speaking to some random person online and the discussion turned political. i stated some of my political opinions and he suddenly got really aggressive with. he believed in collective consciousness and was opposed to hierarchies. I stated respectfully why i believe in hierarchies. he got really pissy with me, started insulting me and left the chat room.
im kind of shocked because we having a nice discussion and he suddenly flipped on me.
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tl;dr
BECAUSE THE OTHER GUY IS WRONNNNG
REEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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also, enjoy eternally being in the lower echelons of the pyramid schemes you call hierarchies, moron.
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>>17693517
Pretty much this. People don't like being questioned or having to explain their beliefs and just get shitty about it.
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>me talking to gf on whatsapp
> Gf -"we havent set our fb profile status to relationship"
>Me "i dont like to, its not that big of a deal for me and my family members would just spam it with comments"
>Gf gets mad
How badly did i fuck up?
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Pretty badly. You revealed you were underage b&. You must be 18 or older to post here, friendo.
>>>/9gag/
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>>17693492
6/10 but it is salvagable
tell her that relationship is between you two not some advertisement on social media. Stand your ground OP
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>>17693492
Grow some balls, son.
Also this. >>17693501
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So I started talking to this guy about a week or two ago and we hit it off. It's just come to my attention that he has this thing (also friends with benefits) with another chick but they aren't dating.
On the other hand, there's a guy who I live near who I don't usually talk to but when I do the conversation seems to last ages and we have heaps of things in common. BUT he wants to drop out of school and join the army (in less than a year).
Tl;dr Do I pursue the guy who has a thing with someone else but is hitting on me or the guy that is perfect for me, wants to join the army and doesn't show any feelings towards me.
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>>17693491
the latter
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someone else entirely both those people you describe are terrible
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>>17693491
You don't want to do a LDR with a army guy.