"I just need some time to think"

Don't kid yourself, they've already decided.

They waiting to see if you magically become someone else over night

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i think guys know that but they have 0 self esteem and still pursue her

Translation: 'you're inadequate'.

They've already decided but want to let you down easy.

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Did I dodge a bullet or shoot myself?
Let me explain a little

First the pros: she's 21, pretty cute 8.5/10, would do any sexual act whatsoever, going to college to get an education. She was also my first "love" if you will, also my first fuck.

The cons: has a 2 year old kid, very clingy and insecure, always wanting more from me, wanting to change me as a person, very anxious and depressed, emotional as fuck, wanted to move extremely quick

I feel like ultimately I dodged a bullet, but also took one for getting into this in the first place

Discuss my life choices.