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Hi /adv/. I am trying to get into Arizona State University or the University of Arizona next year. Apparently, I have been told that my GPA is too low. How am I supposed to get in? Please help.
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>>17694957
bump
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>>17694957

Don't. Go to a nice community college and get a degree without putting yourself into lots of debt.

Also if you can't hack high school, you'll drown down in a big state school. But mostly the money thing.
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>>17694957

Super high SAT/ACT.

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I have this weird sort of burning/irrating sensation in my urethra. When I pee the pain goes away, but it starts to come back after. The pain is mild but still uncomfortable.

I got a handy from some random girl 2 days ago. 24 hours later I felt a slight tingling feeling in the urethra bit it went away quickly. Then 12 hours after I start getting this very mild burning. It's been almost 48 hours and it's slightly worse but nothing extremely painful or anything, just uncomfortable.

It could be some sort of infection, I'm scared I may have gotten herpes from that girl maybe?

Anyone got clue? I plan to go to the doctors first thing in the morning.
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>>17694949
Sounds like an infection of your urethra, but could be wrong. Go to your doctor tell him whats wrong and hell help you with it.
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That happens to me when I'm really dehydrated. My Vyvanse prescription can dry me out bad, and if you are taking a lot of pisses that are a tad dark, the concentration of uric acid can cause irritation in your urethra.

Drop what you're doing and slam a bottle of water, maybe two. When you have to take a leak, wait about twenty minutes if you can.

Stay hydrated and keep your urine as colorless as possible for a day or two and it should go away. If it doesn't, then you actually have an issue.

I hope you're just dehydrated.
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It could be irritation or microtears, or what the anon above me said.

If you feel like you also have to pee more often or go to pee and only a little comes out but you still feel like you have to pee, then you might have a UTI. Either way, your doctor will figure it out.

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I need help deciphering whether or not my gf's behavior is normal. Keep in mind this all happened today, in the span of a day.

I go to her house to pick her up so we can go to the movies. She comes out excited, we hug and kiss and ton, energy is high. She went out with her friends to a bar last night. I ask how it was. She said some shit happened, but not with her. I ask her what exactly.

She tells me her best friend cheated on her boyfriend of 2 years. This IMMEDIATELY bums me out for the moment, because A) I know that friend, and her boyfriend, B) She has always been one of the biggest supporters of our relationship, so I find that depressing to hear and C) I have personally been cheated on by my frist love and am very sensitive about it.

To make matters worse, she starts trying to justify her friends' actions, saying "Well, she did it because she wanted to, I'm not gonna judge her and say it was wrong" and telling me she told her friend "if God wanted it to happen, it would've happened anyway." This bums me out further, because I find it reprehensible and unnaceptable to make excuses for cheating, and it makes me questions her integrity. We have a mini argument over this. She fails to understand my side completely, stating she hopes I'd understand hers instead, but we just leave it and go to the mall.

Things are good on the way to the mall, but at the mall itself, she is cranky. She makes a bunch of dry remarks over everything, asks what seats I want for the theater, then immediately ignores and picks other ones, glosses over most of what I try to say, etc. We sit down, I tell her she's complaining a lot, she says she's stressed, doesn't know the reason, and it's "a phase." We go get something to eat.

To be continued.
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Go fuck a hooker then tell her "god wanted it to happen"

some people need examples to understand y'know.
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Then we get something to eat, and IMMEDIATELY afterwards she's chipper as fuck. She's laughing a shitton and telling me stories that happened and talking about work and everything. We stay in this good mood all the way through watching the movie, and after we leave the mall, she starts getting a bit bitter again. She's irritated. I don't know why.

On the ride home I feel a bit sad. I discovered yesterday I tore a piece of my knee and it will never be the same basically. Surgery can have horrible effects and otherwise I'll live with it fucked. So I'm sad. She asks me in a very irritated manner what's wrong, I tell her, and she starts going off about how she knows I won't take care of myself, and how I only see the worst in things, and so on. We get to her house, and she can see I'm upset, so she starts crying. A lot. She says she feels like a horrible human being to everybody, because everyone gets upset at her honesty.

We sit in front of her house, I try to cheer her up, she blatantly says it won't work and that it's a phase again and this and that and keeps crying and being angry and I don't really know what for. Then things get sort of alright, but not really I guess, and she goes in.

All of these emotions in a single day, and I don't know what to think. Is this normal?
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>>17694956
One detail I forgot to mention:

I got the movie tickets from work, so we didn't pay anything, and it was free. We picked a terrible movie. We were surrounded by couples kissing and being cuddly and shit, but she didn't wanna do any of that. Instead, she kept complaining during the entire movie about how bad it was whenever anything happened, but kept watching it, and then said "why don't you like it when I talk?"

I'm not joking, she commented over a dozen times on how bad the movie was, during the movie.

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Relationship of 6 years
First 3 years were okay despite her hanging out exclusively with my best friend for the 6 months I studied abroad. He confessed to her and as far as I know she led him on and definitely developed feeling for him despite saying otherwise.
Fourth year of relationship I supported her into following her fitbrah dreams where she had a reciprocated infatuation with someone else. At this point I lost all sense of self worth and have hated myself ever since. Watching them get closer and closer until I found hard evidence on her blog shared publicly in her facebook bio saying that she wanted to fuck him. They had been going on dates. I told her to tell him that she actually already had a boyfriend,as if he didn't already know though. However, she didn't do it until a week later when I realised from their conversations that despite her saying that she had done so, she obviously hadn't.
She moved on unphased by this event, I'm still fucked up by the memories and have a complete lack of self worth.
We moved on to another gym and she found another guy a year later. I tried to address this within the first few days to no luck. A month later I'm studying interstate and she's doing god knows what and putting more effort into doing in than she has in 6 years of our relationship.
I'm isolated and she says we need to see a relationship therapist so I spend my literal last cents getting back to her state (don't even have enough money for a taxi ride from the airport). Nothing was resolved.
I finally get back from study and she admits finally that she has cheated on me. She's told me so many lies and stories that I don't know if even one of them is true.
>>Worst liar or best liar, hard to tell.
Went back to therapist out of willingness to show kindness and resolution but got nothing from it.
It's been 5 months since then. I hate kissing her, I hate touching her. I feel like a piece of shit.
Unsure of what to do from now
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She cheated on you, nothing is going to stop her from doing it again considering she just brushed it over and honestly she's probably doing it as you write that message. You said yourself you hate kissing and touching her and nothing will ever give you your peace of mind back. Break the fuck up with her already and do yourself a favour. Save up your money and focus on yourself and studies, and completely cut contact with her. Don't feel inclined to stay with her just because you've been going out for over 6 years, there are millions of other girls out there and a lot of them will be more trustworthy than she has been to you.
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I know it sucks to hear but there is no fixing this relationship, man. You need to break up with her ASAP. This is going to hurt alot, probably for many months; but it is better than the alternative of staying in a dysfunctional relationship for who knows how long. end it. good luck buddy.
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>>17694945
Break up with her. You are a worthless case of a weakling with no self worth. I dont thino there is any hope for you. After the first fucking caze of infatuation with that gym buddy, you should have left her and never looked back.
Only redemption for you would be to beat the living shit out of her and never looking back. Faggot

I just want to be able to smoke weed, sit in my couch, relax and enjoy a movie and be immersed in it, then fall asleep

Instead, even pure indica strains make my mind hyperactive and I begin overthinking literally everything. Is life real? Is this all just an illusion? How do I get the best life? What is morality? Is there an objective one? Are we all innately selfish? Can we really trust anyone? Should we be self reliant? Does being self reliant result in loneliness?

Stupid questions like this which I want to STOP thinking about but instead weed makes me think about them more. I want to enjoy life and relax, why can't I find that. Alcohol is pretty good for it but I want weed level relaxation people claim to get

How do I get couch locked and rest my mind?
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IMO set and setting. i have the same problem if i'm worried about anything in life; weed won't help at all.

if i've had a long day, did a lot of work, and i'm just tired, it does the trick
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>>17694923
Damn. I always am worried. So I guess I can never enjoy weed.
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Try a lower dose.

It's possible it's just not your thing. There are other drugs out there that can give you that mega chill feeling. I'd recommend a low dose of xanax, maybe painkillers. Weed is really lame imo, and has such varying effects on different people that it's really a crapshoot

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I NEED TO MAKE AN INFORMATIVE SPEECH ON SOMETHING, GIVE ME A NON OFFENSIVE TOPIC PLEASE HELP
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About why black women were great slaves
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>>17694890
for some reason i thought /adv/ was the tumblr equivalent on this site
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Mah nigger harambe who was shot for a dam kid

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-Ever since the birth of our son last year, my wife's sex drive is non existent, and she is emotionally unsupportive

-This has caused us to argue and fight more often

-I met a few people from my old high school a few months back, including a girl from my class

-We've been exchanging messages and texts secretly, and we feel a connection to each other

-Essentially i want to marry her but to keep my first wife for the sake of our son, but i feel that it can get a whole lot worse if i don't execute this right. For one polygamy can get me arrested here. So what should i do?
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She does not understand your position at all? Maybe uts stress because babies can drive you nuts.
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>essentially i want to marry her
ok bud take it easy

what do you mean by emotionally unsupportive? also she probably doesnt have a sex drive because she gave birth to a fucking kid. like a person came out of her vagina. i would probably lose my sex drive too.
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>>17696027
OP is from a country where you get punished for cheating by the giving government.... he's in an other culture entirely probebly.
Marrying wouldn't be so extreme there maybay?

After a year you can have sex again. As long as you want it or so.
She's right now miss behaving in his disadvantage. He deserves more

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My aunt has sent me a friend request on facebook. I was at a family event last night and some photos were taken. She has tried to add me so she can add the photos to the timeline. I know the photos will be lame and I don't really want them on my timeline.

How do I politely get out of it? She sent me a text saying she added me on fb to add the photos to my timeline but I really don't want them.
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>>17694879
Is there a way to make it so that the photos she puts on my timeline can only be seen by me?
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Probably the best thing to do would be to politely tell her you would rather not have those photos on your timeline. Maybe make some shit up about only wanting you to put stuff on your timeline rather than other people doing it too.
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>>17694904
thank you, I may try this

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How do you know you love someone?

I've been with my highschool sweetheart for 10 years and we're getting married next year and things have changed for me.

I don't feel much for her anymore. Like this vague affection and care are there but , the desire to do everything I can to make her happy has disappeared.

I don't miss her when we're apart. I don't want to seduce her. I don't have thoughtful gifts or poems.

Sex fluctuates from time to time but it works. And when it does its good.

I just work , exercise, do class , homework, clean the house and whatever time we have together is nice but it's like the relationship is completely blaise to me and I just feel uninterested in improving it because some base genetic attraction has faded.

I care for her , but I don't know if I even love her anymore. Or maybe I actually love her and I just miss lust.

I'm worried I'm not capable of love. Like if the lust is gone idgaf anymore. That concerns me.
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i'm in a similar position. 6 years in.

i'm more worried about commitment and would rather regret something i have done (leave + explore life) than regret something i havent (stay with her forever).

Its a little more complicated than that, but let me know if you find an answer
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>>17695006
Ha yeah I guess.

I see why Islam is so popular.

Multiple wives.
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Hi lee

Do you introverted, CS/IT, shy guys ever fall in love? Do you show it?

Or do you just want to get laid?

Long story short, after almost a year of being with my boyfriend (quite asocial, introverted af, never off his PC, shy, you get the clue) whom I love very much (hopelessly, may I add), he never told me once that he loves me.

He says he "doesn't know" if he does.

He's super open about sex though.

My girl friends absolutely despise him, to an extent where one came up to him and tol him that he's boring, shallow and should stay away from me. They say he's not making an effort.

I understand that guys aren't too keen on talking about their feelings (or are they?), and even though I try to gently talk to him about it, he just won't. He will shut up and say nothing, or that I worry too much.

Worth to add I am his first girlfriend ever. I am 20, he's 21.

Any idea?
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He's smart.

Neither of you know what love is yet.

Just go with the flow. Give it a few years.
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>>17694861
I'm an introverted shy CS guy and I fell in love. I thought my girlfriend was the most beautiful woman I had ever met. I wanted to spend my life with her, to have nice sweet moments sitting on our front porch drinking tea. To travel the world together and laugh and have fun. To cuddle each other and take care of one another when we were sick. I loved her.

Sex was important too, we all want sex to some degree. But I was with her for love mainly and sex was simply a great method to express that love to one another

If he says he doesn't know if he loves you, he might just be too shy to say it and admit it. It puts you in a really vulnerable place, especially for a guy

You must understand, from a young age we're told to ignore and hide our feelings, and that they don't matter.

I don't know you or your boyfriend. But you should take the first step and be strong for both of you. Being open is clearly his weakness, and if you have it as a strength in comparison to him, make use of it for both of you, for both of your benefit

Sit him down and say you love him and it upsets you that he won't say it back. Ask him to tell you what he thinks of you for real, that he has to be open and honest. Hug him and cuddle up close to him and kiss him and ask him if he loves you. Be vulnerable for him because he is introverted and it's hard for us
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Also I might add that if he says he doesn't know it might because love is a strong feeling and he doesn't want to say it without complete 110% certainty. If he insists on not knowing try to get him to express his feelings differently, some people might be in love but not realise it is love. He might be scared. Though there is of course a chance he's not worth it, I don't know the guy and you should do what you think is gonna make you happy in the long run.
But honestly you just have to talk with him.

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Shit. My girlfriend wants me come over to her best friends house to meet her. What do?
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>>17694816
Has she been your girlfriend for a decent period of time?

If not, don't do this.
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>>17694818
What can go wrong? She wants to introduce someone important to him
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>>17694816
>My girlfriend wants me come over to her best friends house to meet her. What do?
Stop mucking about and get over there, sharpish. For all you know you might be about to get a threeway.

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Going to illigally immigrate to the US. Any advises? Which state is better for me?
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kill yourself mi amigo
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None of them. We're full up. Make wherever the fuck you live better.
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>which state is better for me
California
At least we can contain you fucking vermin there

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How do I stop falling in love with every girl who's being nice to me?
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thats not love faggot
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Observe them more carefully and try to find their flaws. Not like a sperglord, but like someone that's looking for his future wife and doesn't want to fuck up.
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By not trusting your impulses

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I avoid confrontation and avoid making enemies, particularly at work. I don't gossip because it's not my place to talk about that kind of shit.

I've been told that I try too hard to be on people's good side. I don't try to suck up to anybody, it's just how I am.

On top of all that, I don't want to disappoint anyone I have a friendship or relationship with. How can I snap out of this?
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>>17694789
Nietzsche- Will to Power.
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>>17694789
Be more selfish.
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>>17694807

What does that look like, socially?

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So basically I am 23 and I have been a loner for 60% of my life. I live with my mom and grandma (not complaining) and they would always tell me I need to get out of the house and do things. It didn't really hit me until a few weeks ago when a certain situation caused me to actually realize how lonely I was. I decided to attempt to get out and change. My grandma wants to pay for me to get this Comptia A+ cert so I can find a job in the IT field. We were looking at a school for classes to study for the Cert. It is called New Horizon. Everything seemed fine and dandy until they dropped the prices on us. They want $2,500 each class with the total being $13,500 or so. Isn't that kind of expensive for classes to study for a Comptia A+ Certification? Now you are probably saying to just study for it at home by myself but that really isn't an option. It isn't going to make me meet new people and I can guarantee I wont study for it seriously while at home.


Anyone have any input on this matter?
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>>17694787
My motto about this type of thing is "If the world gives you a chance to win, take it".

I don't know how much that cert is usually but if your grandma wants to pay for SOMETHING, let her. Don't question it, let it happen. Just make sure it's something that will actually elevate you.
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>>17694787
Just go onto warez-bb and download the eBook. That school is a scam
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>>17694787
Do NOT pay that outrageous amount for a fucking cert. Hell, the good study guides cost maybe $100 then you can sign up to take the test yourself.

Please don't let you grandma waste that amount of money.

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