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Posted in ask the opposite gender, barely getting attention, and I need to see if this holds true.

I want to know if you girls with tattoos, piercings, and other body modifications (except basic surgery) like to go rough or enjoy sexual pain, including being into BDSM.

I ask because I have this prejudice about people with body mods and their sexual preferences, and I want to test how much of it is true. It's also going to be useful to judge people based on that if it turns out to be mostly true (I know that not having them doesn't mean that you don't like pain, by the way!), or to not care as much as I currently do if it turns out to be mostly false.

So, girls with body mods, how do you like your sex? Rough, BDSM levels of rough, or am I wrong and you do like it gentler?
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>>17692329
I luv it when my man sticks his foot in my coochie
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>>17692337
Sorry I'm too dumb for this, but you are implying you do like it rough, aren't you?
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>>17692329
seems like you don't get out of your basement very often ?

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>girl i used to like started to like me back after a month of her being seemingly not attracted to me
>dont like her much romantically anymore, I see her flaws now that ive gotten to know her
>her hotter friend seems like she could be into me
>girl has been trying to come onto me for a week now, I like her but I dont like her in that way
>but I like her friend in that way
>dont wanna make shit awkward with my ladyfriend who made it painfully obvious she likes me


what do
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I dont know good luck
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>>17692305
ok thanks
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>>17692305
In all my years of browsing this shit board, this has been the most honest answer.

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What's the opposite of having anxiety?
And I don't mean like the healthy opposite I mean the extreme opposite of it ,like you just don't give a fuck about anyone or anything and just have an "oh well" attitude all the time?
What's the name to that disorder?
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Sociopathy?
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>>17692283
Apathy? Catatonia?
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Depression.

People often think that depression is feeling sad and crying all the time.

In reality, it feels like nothing.

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Two things I need help with
>monotone voice; i can't express emotion whatsoever
>sarcasm; nearly everything i say is somehow sarcastic
Any assistance in reducing either of these issues would be greatly appreciated! :D
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Practice talking like other people unironically.
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>>17692258
Oh god that's me. I hate being sarcastic so much, but I was raised by a mother who was sarcastic about everything and encouraged me to do the same. It's terrible because I know sarcasm pisses other people off.
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i think sarcasm is entertaining even endearing. try to find people who appreciate you for who you are -- they're out there

help me friends. I use the word nigger, not nigga, in actual conversation all the fucking time. how can i flush this out of my sytem?

are there writing exercises or something that might help?
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try to use your aggression and channel it for something productive like making art or doing work
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Hire a black person to follow you around and slap you whenever you use that word.
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>>17692280
Or this
https://youtu.be/G39AJrNlWw4

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help what do you do when you get made fun of. i got made fun of publicly tonight and i feel like shit. i feel like killing myself. any advice appreciate thanks
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>>17692205
stop hanging out with those people? surround yourself with people you enjoy being with and they enjoy you.
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>>17692205
Kill them
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>>17692205
Just hide in your room for a few days until it blows over. Consider jerking it to cartoons to make yourself feel better.
Hope this helps :)

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>gf caught me cheating
>ghosted on all my sides
>have like 5 different girls blowing up my phone
>i'm crying thinking of all the side pussy I'm giving up rn

How do I suppress my urges and be faithful?
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>>17692122
Too late faglord. Better to start letting your probably now ex gf go.
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>>17692122
This has to be bait.
If not, just be in a poly relationship.
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>>17692233

thats a no go.

>>17692133

nah. not too late.

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so I met this guy - great fucking guy: real alpha, fucks the shit out of me, always fun to be with, no bullshit, and his mindgames are better than sex (which says a lot!!!), but yesturday he told me that he wants to be honest with me and said that he had raped some girls and he doesn't feel guilty.

what should I do?? is it okay that I just don't want to leave him anyway?
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>>17692110
this has got to be bait
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>>17692110
Bait. Reported.
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>>17692110
I was raped once by somebody who totally fit your description and let me tell you: you know the answer already, you just don't wanna hear it.

I'm gay.

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Is it okay to ogle anime boys when you're in a relationship? My boyfriend gets annoyed that I find anime boys attractive, and collect merchandise of them. I sometimes tweet about them being cute, and how it would be fun to be in their universe with them. Not in a serious way, just in a "wouldn't that be cute" way. My boyfriend says I am making him look like a cuck by doing this. Am I cucking my bf with anime boys?
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that's funny but i kind of understand how he feels

but nah you aren't cucking him

just tell him it's all fun and games, unfortunately it's harder for people who don't spend time on 4chan to grasp this kind of thing
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Nah, you just have a fetish for jerking it to cartoons. It's perfectly healthy. He's only upset about it because he's feeling alienated. Try and incorporate him into your fetish!

Try making masks of cute anime boys you love and ask him to wear them when you make love. Be sure to reward him, by telling him how fucking hot he looks in those anime masks. Over time, try and merge his sexual identity with anime boys by calling out their name during sex , or similar tricks. Be creative! When he identifies as your qt anime bf he won't have a problem at all when you talk about them, because in his mind you will be talking about him. Good luck, and enjoy a lifetime of jerking it to cartoons without your pesky 3d bf getting in the way :)
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Now when you say boy how young are we talking here?

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How do I raise my self-worth to a healthy level without a significant other or friends?
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Work out. Volunteer to help others frequently. Make a life plan with small achievable steps to who you want to be and cross one off every day
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>>17692114
>Make a life plan with small achievable steps to who you want to be and cross one off every day
Not OP but I like this idea
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That's a slow method that requires lots of devotion and effort. Never worked for me. What I recommend is that you do something bananas. Do something you always wanted to do or just do whatever pops into your head that you think you can accomplish. I was sad and miserable for years until one day I decided I had to leave. I drove across country living in my car until I went broke then I figured something out. Best thing I ever did. It didn't fix me forever but now I have a neat story people love to hear and something to be proud of.

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So I'm 27, just had my first experience with my current girlfriend. I never told her I was a virgin, but did say it had been over a year and said I was nervous.

She was so nice about it and made me feel comfortable. I had trouble getting fully hard. Do she was sat on me and giving me a hand job and I ended up finishing in about 30 seconds... I was mortified and apologies profusely and she just insisted it was totally fine. She told me to tell her when I was ready to go again. I ended up fingering her and she said she orgasmed, the couch was absolutely soaking so I don't think she said it just to make me feel better...

Anyway I was ready to go again and finally got in, and lasted less than a minute! At this point I am really stressed out about my performance. I resumed the foreplay and we ended up doing it one more time.

I found it to be an amazing experience, she was so nice to me! And she said she came a bunch of times so I have nothing to apologise for. But she did say "now imagine that but 1000x better, if only it was your dick and not your finger" after she climaxed, so yeah I feel pretty mortified that I wasn't able to last more than a minute once. And especially mortified at the first attempt...

Now it is likely to happen again tomorrow (our anniversary) but I am as stressed as I am excited. How do I stop myself from finishing so soon?

Very sorry if this made you cringe
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>>17692089
The only thing that made me cringe is your attitude.
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>>17692097
How do you mean?
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>>17692103
Your repeated "mortification" at something your gf didn't even have a problem with. The goal of sex is getting each other off, not to have it mirror porn.

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I am immune to advice, lazy to the core, have no motivation nor will power, and my life is spiraling down the drain. What can I do except kms?
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>>17692086
meth
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>>17692100
i don't want to do meth
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>>17692140
why not? it will fix every problem you just listed

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I'm ugly as fuck, I will never have a gf, I have nothing to offer anyone, even though I would be getting a doctorate degree if I stayed alive I have fucking nothing to offer anyone. I've been universally rejected by everyone I've ever met because I'm ugly as fuck. And I've been so socially isolated for so long, I have no chance at fixing my social retardation and emotional bankruptcy.

Is there any reason to continue living?
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>>17692003
I don't believe you're gonna get a PhD. The quest for knowledge and truth is the ultimate form of satisfaction in this life.
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>>17692008
No it's not a PhD
>not knowing there are more than Doctors of Philsophy

baka t b h
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>>17692015
oh alright

maybe get into astrophysics or something.

Where do you live? Im sure you have enough money to go get a thai massage at least once a week. ~$40-$60 per hour. That should reduce tension, if you get a HE even better,

Is it possible to get a white girlfriend if you're an ugly 5'3" adult hispanic male?
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>>17691927
But if you're a hispanic male, why not get a hispanic female?
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>>17691927
Sure. I see fat white women with mexicans on the daily
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Forget the ugly and hispanic part, anyone can work with those, but at 5'3" the only girlfriend you're getting is going to be unfuckably ugly or a midget. Pick one.

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I'm a fucking beta cunt and I know it. Even though I have a lot of prospective gfs, I managed to get myself a oneitis again and it drives me crazy. I know I should just ask her out and be done with it, but I haven't done anything abouty feelings for her for months even though I believe she likes me too, so I dread the good old "lets be friends" bs because I just couldn't grow some fucking balls.

Is the friendzone a meme or is it real? Does waiting more than a couple of weeks automatically put you into it or do you always have a shot if she likes you back?

Ffs I'm in my twenties and still doing this shit FBM.
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desperate bump
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>>17691867

Stop using 4chan memes to quantify the things happening in your life. Life is not 4chan.
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>>17691885
...but we are on 4chan right now.

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