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Bait.

>>17695272
What makes you think this is bait? This is my number 1 crisis

Go to places/develop hobbies where you can socialize with other girls.

I'd be friends with you but we probably live very, very far away.

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Wut m8

>>17695259
no and no

>>17695259
fuck year dinosaur

>>17695240
Don't believe him.

Yeah. It's bullshit.

If there's a red flag that he's just trying to get in your pants, end it.

My third girlfriend is probably my 30 something sex partner. I didn't ask her out to get in her pants, I was tired of casual sex and wanted a relationship again. Hell, we didn't even have sex until about a month into dating. Your own circumstances could vary, but this could also be the case with your boyfriend.

But like I said, keep an eye out for red flags.

>>17695240
Work on your insecurity, the past is the past. If you can't handle it it's best to break it off.

Personally I follow the 'less history more mystery' rule which prevents any jealousy. Usually around date 2 or 3 is when I bring up that I'd rather be ignorant about stuff like that.

> get a shrink
> ask for wellbutrin (or another drug that increases norepinephrine and dopamine)
> do nofap (it works i fucking promise)
> leave your comfort zone ONCE per day, no matter what. No matter how small, it's up to you to determine what counts.
> Now that you're on drugs and doing nofap and are getting used to leaving your comfort zone, approach groups of people that seem cool. Inbroduce yourself, if they don't seem like your people, *next*, if they do? Great, get contact info.

Therapy helps dude. Therapy + meds are great. Please find a psychiatrist, preferably a young male (women are fucking worthless and incapable of rational-logical thought.

Idk mane. Just my 2 cents. Hope this somehow helps you.

Therapy is pretty good. It's only as effective as you make it though. You have to open up and speak your mind with your therapist. Take some time to get comfortable with them.

May help you, may not. Regardless, I'd say go for it and keep an open mind; it's more or less up to you what you get out of it.

I personally don't think therapy did much for me in the long run, but in the overall scheme of things I think it's good that I at last gave it, among a bunch of other things, a shot.

Try it. The best thing I can say is try to best to do something, anything every day. And even though you might be joking, just in case: don't an hero you fuck

Have you tried asking her?

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> Asexual

>>17695230
No I haven't because she acts fine one on one but I'm thinking I should.

>>17695237
That's seriously what she claims, hell I've shown her pics of naked men and women and she just says "meh, don't really care about that"

>>17695179
Honestly, you have more experience than a lot of 24 year olds. If she's a cool chick it won't be a big deal, and I doubt you'll be getting deep into specifics early on.

I know it's easier said than done, but stop worrying about it so much. Don't bring it up, and if it comes up, be honest but DONT OVERSHARE. It's less of a big deal than you think.

>>17695179
You don't need to explain shit. I'm not "unexperienced" but no woman has ever asked me about my past like that.

Just work on yourself. It's cliche but women will flock to success and confidence like vultures to a recently deceased human. Just put yourself out there.

>>17695188
>>17695201
Don't at some point in a relationship you talk about your exes though?

At one point I was texting a women and she asked me about my relationships and it was awkward after she remarked that it's surprising I had only dated 2 women each for a span of a few months. I wasn't too broken up about it cause I later realized she was crazy anyway, but I still worry about it happening again.

No real advice except so see a cenote sometime while you're down there. They're friggen awesome.

Food is excellent, I miss carboncitos in playa del carmen. The quality and price is great.

>>17695242
Yo thanks
Any cheap bar btw?

>>17695158

Sign her up for shit online.

Maybe find a nazi website and sign up for it and set up calls or some shit

OP, forgot to mention but I have her address, not her number.

>>17695158
you have no legal recourse?

How much money? How did she scam you?
Do you know where she works? Her schedule?

By the way, the reason I'm bring this up now is because last week I suggested she try cooking what we redid together. She tries and failed at it. She wasn't crying but she was down in the dumps. I told her we'll keep working at it, and it must be her talents in baking that is skewing her cooking abilities. I think that cheered her up a bit...

>>17695105

Some people legitimately don't know how to cook, and it's really not her fault.

Literally just tell her to follow a recipe or something and give that to her along with instructions.

That's literally how to do it, she can't fuck it up if she's following a manual.

Buy her cooking classes. She's under cooking everything and will eventually kill you from food poisoning if she doesn't learn how to safely cook.

Do that or just cook your portion beforehand and become a microwave warrior.

>>17695100
Harvard Business School

>>17695100
Early decision boosts your chances? Really? I was under the impression it hurts your chances. I suppose you could go ahead and try going for wharton if your counselor says you have a shot at UPenn.
Mind if I ask what your stats are?

>>17695569
Early decision is legally binding. If they take you, you have to go. That's why it's higher chances, that's when schools get students who are absolutely sure they want to attend the school, apart from the clusterfuck rejection acceptance system during common app.

>>17695069
How does it feel being average looking yet you still can pull above average guys?

>>17695069
Post a pic.

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Why are you on /adv/ when you clearly don't need advice

>>17695062
Fap literally right before you have sex, spend an hour eating pussy and then she won't care if you cum in seconds

>>17695062
>Getting better at penetrative sex is literally impossible without medical intervention

Then it sounds like you need to get on that medical intervention, famalam. If there's help for your clinical condition, then you need to get it.

>>17695062
I'm the melanin-enriched gentleman your girlfriend stares at in public with X-ray vision.

Regardless, get a medical intervention or start lifting weights to get your T pumping. Do you watch porn? If so, stop.

In in the same boat pls halp

>>17695054

Fap before your meet her. Now you can think straight

If you can still get it up when you meet, you bypassed your jitters.

If you can't call it off and go back to hunting.

>>17695054
Might be adrenaline

>>17695037
u should try to avoid considering hurting her for a second and decide for a second if you want to fuck around for a few yrs and then settle down. cause u cant just quit her for one girl. otherwise its just a temporary feeling.

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>>17695037
You did the right thing in leaving, in my opinion. Think about the consuquences that would have risen if you actually persued her. You're in a relationship and a taboo in being in a relationship is to cheat. You would of dissapointed a lot of people just to get your dick wet.

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>>17695037
You have a great girl and you{re thinking in dropping a, in your own words, a great relationship with a person you respect for someone that's a bit better looking but there's a high chance it's not gonna be as good as your current relationship.

You can get beautiful and funny women no matter your age as long as you play your cards right, you're getting way too panicked and falling for the grass is greener on the other side meme.

Enjoy what you have because what you have seems to be great and don't let your dick rule your life.

>>17694977
Dont go to college, get a trade. You will make more money and being an apprentice is a way more personal and rewarding experience. Plus you get paid to learn, not the other way around. There already isnt enough physical laborers and we will be able to charge whatever we want for our work. Im 23 and already a residential wireman, all my friends went to school and have a fuckload of debt and a shitty entry level job. I make the same if not more than them. Plus its a good feeling doing hard work, and it makes your body strong.

>>17695153
90% of welding jobs will be done by robots by 2025 just fyi. Trades aren't always a great idea.

>>17695161
But getting a degree that will be obsolete in less time is?