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How do I be a good friend to someone with depression?
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Take him out for a walk, somewhere with lots ofnature
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>>17704542
well, it's a girl and I don't see her often. Mostly talk on the phone, see each other every couple weeks.
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>>17704560
Change "him" for "her" then...
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Not sexually attracted to my girlfriend? 2016-10-26 00:26:49 Post No.17704503
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Not sexually attracted to my girlfriend?
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Hey /adv/, I need some serious advice/sense talked in to me.
I'm 25. Broke up with my ex 2.5 years ago. I really liked her - we had a lot of fun and great sex, but she suddenly began acting weird and broke it off with me. I was crushed, went on the rebound and found a new girlfriend within a month and have been with her since.
My current girlfriend is pretty great, she says I changed her life. We now have similar interests and life plans, I could trust her with anything, we accept each others flaws, good values and family etc. She loves me, wants to get married and have kids. She's pretty much everything I ever said I wanted in a girl.
Here's the thing though, the sex is crap, for a few reasons. She's not ugly, but I guess not super hot either, and I just hardly ever want to have sex with her. When we have sex its usually because I feel so guilty for putting it off, and even then it doesn't feel good. Fapping feels better to me. When I was with my ex, the sex felt amazing and was full of passion, I wanted her so bad. I thought about it every day, didn't ever watch porn. Now I think about prostitutes, cheating, and I keep looking at the girls I work with and think about how badly I want to fuck them instead.
I know how it sounds. I'm fucked up. But I HATE the dating game and sifting through shitty women, I'm not perfect, and if I dumped my girlfriend, because of her past she would probably self harm or worse.
What do?
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Anyone?
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>>17704578
Learn to be greatful you jizz cock
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>>17704591
Pretty much. I'm trying to make sense of the situation myself.
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Are there any good online resources or maybe even online communities for illegal immigrants to the United States?
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>>17704470
Out, out, out!
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>>17704472
I'm not even in yet you freaking shitposter.
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>>17704481
>I'm not even in yet you freaking shitposter.
And you wont once Trump takes office Pablo :)
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How can I cure my oneitis? I've had a crush on this girl for 10 years. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkFfugnVeYY
Pic and vid related.
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>>17704448
Did you know her personally?
Best way to get over it is to find another girl.
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>>17704480
Yes, I used to know her. But that's like 10 years ago. I've had a gf since then and we've broken up, but my mind still wanders towards her all the time.
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>>17704514
How long have you been single?
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Got a question want advice.
Is there a place I can go to be a litteral sex object? I want to be a 24/7 publc use butt slut/cock sucker/cum dum. I don't mean a prostitute, honestly I'd do it for free. Is there a country I can go to for this?
Is there somewhere I could go to make this happen?
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do you want aids? because thats how you get aids.
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>>17704443
Did I say I cared? Because I don't think I did.
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>>17704437
if you're a girl people would probably be a lot more willing
it's improbable that you can be a cum dump in public, however I'm sure clubs and shit exist for that everywhere
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So this will be a long post so just hold on and read through it. I need advice.
I am a 22 year old guy who just graduated from a decent college with a Bachelors Degree in Criminal Justice. My friend convinced me to apply to the State Police Academy with him and so far its been going pretty well. I have been doing great on the written exams and the interviews. However, I know I will not pass the polygraph (lie detector). This is because I have a shady past (prostituting myself to men for money, drunk driving, assault, drugs, buying alcohol for minors; all of these are crimes that will deny my entrance) and my mental state is slipping as well (see pic attached). So I am not going to get in...
I work at a dead-end job that I want to leave as soon as possible and I want to leave my house (still living with my parents) because all they do is fight, work, and blame me for everything. I want to leave but my shitty part time job doesn't pay enough and I cannot find a job anywhere else. If I go into the Army, I'll go through OCS and I'll have to do a similar process and again get denied. Then i'll be stuck as a private digging shit-holes for years.
I just want to be happy and have a purpose and not be anywhere near my family or friends. I want a new start but I dont know what to do. I always wanted to be a gaming YouTuber (or gun channel) but it is damn near impossible to make a living as this unless you are an already established personality... I don't know what to do.
I want to move to either the West Coast or England... I just dont know. Help?
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They seriously still use a polygraph test?
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> all of these are crimes that will deny my entrance
And for good fucking reason. You do not belong in the police force (at least not in the civilized world)
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>>17704403
Sadly, yes. And even if I somehow pass, the interviewer can still deny me if he feels I am not ready or I am lying
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Is it normal to desire that a girl "mothers" me? I like the girl I'm with to stroke my hair and hold me when I feel down, and treat me like a little kid?
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It's hard to define normal in this context. There isn't much of a defined "normal" romantic/sexual/whathaveyou attraction.
That being said, some people will find it strange as you could always find a group of people attached to a certain preference who find it strange.
Also I hope you want more from a partner than just that.
Not sure what you wanted to hear.
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don't dude. keep manly when she strokes your hair or when you lie on her. Don't become a child again. It is normal you like that kind of affection towards you, and the only refference you have is childhood. But find a way to enjoy these things while staying manly.
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>>17704362
Had a girl stroke my hair while I laid in her lap today and it's the most comfortable I've been possibly in my life. It was so nice. I kind of felt like a kid and liked it.
>>17704812
Honestly don't know what this means. Lol how do you submit yourself to someone in a manly manner. Plus I'm not manly to begin with. I'm super feminine with the narrow shoulders weighing 130lbs
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>see thicc girl with the nicest ass i've ever seen on a woman
How are you supposed to just start a conversation with a woman out of nowhere?
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>>17704355
Just like that, you just start. The problem with doing that is the fear of rejection. You just got to start talking to her. She'll know you want some of that ass and if she's the type to hook up and likes you then she'll keep talking. If she's not, then she'll walk off and that'll be the end of it. From that point you move on to another ass and try your luck again.
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kys fat enabler
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>>17704366
Here's where I get stuck: if you approach a girl, she'll know what you're after, so now she knows the type of guy you are. Also, I don't want the type of girl who just hooks up with guys like me. She's prolly used and you won't get to fuck her more than a few times.
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How do I move on from a breakup? 2016-10-25 23:27:24 Post No.17704316
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How do I move on from a breakup?
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my girlfriend of over 2 years has opted to break up with me after 2 months of a long distance relationship because I graduated college and moved to start working.
It's been nearly a week since she broke up with me and I have started going to the gym to try and better myself but I can't get her off my mind.
How do I do this? I haven't talked to her since we broke up because ultimately I would just want to get back together with her.
I tried to use tinder to just converse with random people in my area to help me forget but that hasn't worked at all.
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Same thing happening to me dude, i just can't move on
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Don't have much advice, I'm going through a similar thing but I'm at the 2 month period. Just bumping for some answers myself.
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Collect everything that you have from her.
Doesn't have to be every little thing that reminds you of her.. but if your life would functionally not suffer without it, put it on the list.
Dispose of it.
I find physical pictures are best disposed of by burning.
Anything that a potential future partner would start asking questions about if they stumbled upon it, put it on that list.
Once you've done that.
Buy some new clothes.
Get a haircut.
Go to a bar.
Get drunk.
Lift/Run, etc..
Make new acquaintances with the opposite sex. Not necessarily to fuck or to get into a relationship with. Just get used to talking to women again.
I need some help with something.
My immediate thoughts when seeing a beautiful women are either strong distaste bordering on hate or fear. Not all women mind you just one's I think are beautiful. I've dated multiple women before, all who I thought had flaws and were more "at my level" but consequently I have a hard time getting an erection and have never once finished during sex.
So I figure if i'm ever going to have any kind of a fulfilling sex life I need to fix this neurosis. Is there anything I could read or some advice you could give me.
I've had some people say its a self image issue and I should work on myself but I already do that and it just makes me hate myself more because I feel like I fall short of an ideal version I want to be.
TL;DR: How do i learn to no longer fear and hate beautiful women.
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Switch to men.
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Sorry mate but beautiful women go for attractive guys.
Think about the average girl and how many guys check them out or hit on them. Multiply that by 5 if not 10 on a daily basis and there is your hot girl. Why would she pick an average guy like who can't pick up girls who bangable, then to all the hot guys?
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>>17704288
tried, i feel nothing for men. I can at least masturbate to women, men dont do anything
I'm doing this To answer anyone's questions no matter how harsh or how personal I will answer all questions to the best of my capabilities
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How does it feel to look that disgusting when you have to take a shower every day?
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You are merely a fat Brandon.
All Brandons must piss off because they don't listen.
Take our advice and leave.
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>>17704277
I personally don't hate the way I look and it's feels good to be clean haha
I have completely lost interest in romance and my significant other after I found hobbies. Should I leave them? Is this normal and/or cruel of me?
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fuck bitches get skillz brah
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>>17704229
Are you sure?
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>>17704227
It really doesn't matter if it is cruel or not. She deserves someone who loves her, you want to move on to other things. It is the absolute best for both of you to move on.
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My gf and I are in a ldr, see her one weedend a month
Last time I was there she told me she might get drunk and kiss a girl when I'm not there, but I'll still be the only one that gets to see her naked
I jsut told her that she should send me pictures if she does, since I find girl on girl stuff super hot
I've been thinking about it a lot though andI'm not sure how I feel about it anymore
Looking for second opinions
What would you do if your SO did something like this?
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She also said she doesn't mind if I kiss a guy, but it doesn't seem the same since I am not attracted to guys
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So you encouraged your girl to cheat on you. Nice.
She is mentally checked out of the relationship dude and most likely cheats on you. Normal people in relationships would never spring up the idea like this.
Have a talk with her and lay everything out, then ask her if this relationship is even worth it. Honestly from my point of view, I think it is pretty fucked.
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>>17704236
Basically she is saying "I am going to fuck around on you with another girl" If I were you I wouldn't accept that shit. that trade offers you fucking nothing while you she gets to do whatever the hell she wants to. Not only is she going to cuck you, you are giving her permission to do so.
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Is this all there is to life? 2016-10-25 22:14:11 Post No.17704110
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Is this all there is to life?
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Hey guys, I just started a new job in digital marketing as an account manager and I've been working for about 2 weeks now.
I'm happy to say that I really enjoy the work because its novel and I don't actually mind being engaged and productive for 8 hours a day -- Something I track with the RescueTime app.
I have a nice computer, big desk with a great office environment. A week in and my bosses have told me that they're so grateful that they found me because I do a great job and that I'm their most ideal hire so far.
I got the job by working my butt off for 3 weeks prior training myself at home on all the necessary skills, and presenting a few projects I freelanced on doing digital marketing.
Now here's my only gripe. I live just outside of the major city in my area, and it takes me about an hour to commute there and back each day. I don't make enough to live in the city because it's really damn expensive and I also can't afford a car because it'd probably eat up a huge portion of my salary.
I wake up at 7am, get ready, leave at 8, get there for 9, work until 5, and get home at around 6pm. Around 11 hours of getting ready, comuting and working.
By the time I get home I only have like 5 hours of free time to cook, hit the gym, and I try to hit bed by 11pm so I get enough sleep to perform well at work.
Is this it? Do people really get used to having only a few hours of free time each day? My job is great but I feel like I have no time for myself, and hell if I wanted to do more work or learn more skills AFTER work it'd leave me 0 time to unwind.
How do you guys get used to this? It's kinda depressing, and that's coming from someone who's fortunate enough to enjoy the work.
How do you avoid burning out from this routine? My commute isn't even as bad as my friend's in my area who work downtown, they spend up to 3 hours a day commuting, I only spend 2.
Thanks in advance /adv/
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life is shit
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I used to be just like you, except that I worked at my old job for a little over three years and hated it in the end.
It was a miserable existence.
Now I'm living the sweet NEET life off of the comfy amount of savings I made during those years of slavery.
I don't have any good advice for you, just wanted to let you know that you're not alone.
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yeah i did that with a ridiculous commute for the last 5 years or so. eventually it was the commute that killed it for me, it was taking me 2 hours to go 30 miles one way. fuck that.
so i moved and got a different job where my commute is about 15 minutes. i got kind of a throwaway low stress job that i completely leave at work so i can focus on turning what im good at into a way of actually making money. i enjoy the job too for the most part so thats pretty cool.
idk if that is helpful at all but thats what i do
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I've always considered myself a low class human.
I have fucked up teeth, I'm fat, I'm poor, I grew up with divorced parents who lives in mobile homes, I was never popular, all my friends were the weird kids, I was a weird kid. I spent most of my time playing computer games and never did anything in sports, and never excelled in school either, I actually dropped out because I was failing all my classes, even gym.
Since then, I've done a lot to try and climb up the social ladder, I'm at a normal weight, I work a normal job, I own a car, rent a house, and even managed to have a girlfriend for the past few years. But, there's still things I feel like are holding me back from actually developing as a productive normal person in society.
Was I born to be a loser? Am I genetically inclined to be weird? Can I actually climb out of the poor/low class of people I'm currently in?
I want real friends, I want to be like Ted Mosby, or Jerry Seinfeld, or Chevy Chase.
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What do you think is holding you back?
Also, now that you have a job, do you have some savings?
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>>17704113
Personal things I'm still working on. My teeth are a big one.
I don't have any legit savings that I'm absolutely not touching or anything, but I think my account is sitting at over 1000 with all expenses covered and bills paid.
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>>17704121
Okay, because to be honest, a lot of the problems you might have regarding materials (so also your teeth) can usually be fixed with a bit of cash. Don't worry about those. Save some money and get it fixed. What's more important is the non-material stuff. You said you have a girlfriend, but also want real friends. Do you have friends outside of family/gf? How many and are you close friends with them?