How to introduce my gf to pegging?
I'm a 25 y old bisexual male. I've been with my gf for 3 years, sex is pretty awesome we usually practice BDSM and she helped me to discover my submissive part.
Some time ago I asked her to peg me, but she answered me that she doesn't want to "have a dick". For me that idea is stupid but I don't know if she has any other problem with it (like "awakening" the gay inside me).
Any tips to have my desire full filled soon?
Let me bump it
>>17719611
It's unfair to ask her to do something she's not into.
You already asked her to peg you, she doesn't want to do it.
Why do you have to force it on her?
>>17719679
I don't want to force her, I want to make her know that there is nothing weird in pegging. She told me that she doesn't want to have a dick and I want her to know that I don't think she is a guy just for wearing a strap on.
But of course, no means no and I won't do anything she doesn't want
>>17719611
>t. nu male cuck
kys yourself ''male''
>>17719699
>there is nothing weird in pegging
You have to go back
>>17719699
Honestly, I can sort of relate with her.
I love femdom. I absolutely adore being in charge, I love playing with my boyfriend's butt, but I am turned off by pegging because it makes ME feel less feminine and uncomfortable with myself. It's not my thing.
I feel like I cannot satisfy you the way I am, you need something extra to get off, I'm not enough. I ultimately don't want to fuck you like a guy would fuck you, I want to be a woman and be in charge.
Of course it doesn't make me a man magically, but still. It ruins it to me.
>>17719717
Never saw it from that point of view, I always saw the strap on as an accessory, just like any other dildo but with the advantage that it lets your hand's free. Not as something that make her feel "different". Thank you
>>17719611
You already asked her what her feelings were on it, and she wasn't into it. You cannot convince her if she doesn't want to do it, and most likely will only strain your relationship if you push it. Even if you think her reasoning is stupid, you gotta understand sex is weird and vulnerable. If she aint comfortable with it, it doesn't matter how stupid her reasoning is. She isn't comfortable.
I'm assuming you didn't have a lengthy conversation about it outside sexy time. I would try that as a last ditch attempt to just air both of your opinions and views. Maybe she has a different reason but didn't want to offend you, maybe it really is as simple as she doesn't want to feel masculine or like she has a dick. The best you can do at this point is just simply ask if she thinks she would ever be willing to just try it once in some circumstance, and she can quit whenever she wants during, or if it's just 100% off the table she won't even try it. Maybe she'll try it, maybe she won't. If she still says no, then tell her that's ok and you'll drop it. And mean it too.
Everyone's got their limits.