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Guy here. Today I saw some random girl around my age on the bus that was crying. Of course everyone was ignoring her. Should I have comforted her?
This is the third time I see some stranger crying on a bus and I feel like I should do something.
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>>17722587
I broke up with my ex and she was on the next greyhound to Seattle, tears and all.

You probably could've gotten lucky if you showed some interest.
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>>17722587

If you are gong with this Anon's attitude: >>17722597, then don't comfort people.

You don't HAVE to do it, and most people will tell you to go the fuck away. But if you really want to help, you can try next time. You don't feel you "must" try.
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>>17722587
No, nope, don't.

im 20 and im starting to see some nasolabial folds as well as some dark under eyes.
disregarding surgery, what can i do besides diet sleep and exercise?
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>>17722458
Same here with the dark under eyes.
What can I do besides sleep?
I am terribly afraid of sleeping.
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>>17722458
>>17722474
Die young, so you guys can look beautiful in your coffins <3
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>>17722497
i mean it.

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>girlfriend regularly expresses fear that I'd want her to fulfill her gender roles (doesn't want to be a full time mother, doesn't want to have to cook or clean all the time, etc)
>praises me for not being an "average guy" and generally likes that I'm not the stereotypical guy (unemotional, insensitive, harsh, etc)
>but she gets annoyed when I don't fulfill a gender role that's convenient for her
>uses phrases like "well you're the man" when I don't fulfill roles convenient for her (usually when I ask her to help me with something and I'm supposed to just do it on my own because I'm the man)

What does she mean by this?
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>>17722440
Shes a retard. Dump her now.
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>>17722440
Respond back "that's right, you can't do it cause your a girl. I forgot women suck at ____"
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>>17722440
Ask her why you should fill your gender roles but she shouldn't have to fill hers.
I personally think gender roles are shit, but they work just fine for some people. Just make sure you're both on the same page.

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Yo. I'm a NEET. I get $850 a month because I have a fuckton of mental illnesses.

Problem I want some advice on is that I spend my cash like a fucking madman. Even when I was broke as fuck, eating at a homeless shelter, I'd waste my money.

I'm extremely impulsive when it comes to spending. I bring my balance down to $0 as soon as I get my money. Take care of my rent and bills, but that's all.

It literally feels like my money is burning a hole in my pocket. I also feel a strong need to buy everything I want. I'll buy all the DLC for the games I own, I'll buy Collector's Editions, etc. etc.

Pretty worried 'cause I'll be getting twenty or thirty thousand in a month or two.

All I need to do is change my perspective. I don't want to become a stingy Jew, but I'd like to be more conservative.

Any advice on how I can do that?
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Get a job and stop stealing of my payroll you mooch. Then you will learn the value of money. If you can play games you can get a shitty job at Burger King.
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>>17722392
I live in Canada, nigger.
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>>17722392
Also, I've worked before. Still blew my cash.

Try to be less faggy next time you post.

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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How long in a relationship until you fug a guy?
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Shameless self bumb
>>17722337
>>17722337
>>17722337
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>>17722351
Its probably going to a be a long term issue because 5 kids is a lot. Save yourselves the time and pursue other people

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I am 18 and my transexual girlfriend is 16 (we have been together for a year). Although she is a transexual, she has probably been one of the best girlfriends I have ever had. She is so nice and caring while being overall such a useful girlfriend.

I love her a lot, but I have always been nervous about our relationship. We have always kept our relationship VERY private because we don't want anyone (especially our family) to know we are together. I hold great respect to my family and I don't want to keep hiding the fact that I have a girlfriend, especially a transexual one at that, but I can't imagine myself admitting to them that I am in love with one.

My girlfriend is really passable and she does look nice, usually the only time people start to think she is a transexual is because they start seeing her non existent chest. So it's not impossible to hide her as a girl, but I don't want to do this forever.

I know I sound like an in denial ass when I write this, but I was wondering if someone has experienced anything like this and if they are able to, tell me what they did when such happened.
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I am fervently against degeneracy so I'm not gonna shit up your thread.

What I will say is, he is fucking 16. He will grow out of this shit but you gotta give it time.
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Is he transexual, i.e. he identifies as a woman in his family, school, society?

Or is he a crossdresser and just dresses when hes with you?

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Hey adv, this is a long one, I appologize.

Today I called in sick. I'm not physically sick, just mentally. I work for a small residential construction company..as in my boss and myself.

I've worked with him for 3 years now, and I love the work. The pay is decent and I really feel competent with what I do. I show up every day with a smile.

I couldn't do that today. My boss called me yesterday and started bitching me out because he couldn't find some tools, sure we left them at a job. It's a good possibility, it's happened before, and I've been bitched at before. I've been told to search each jobsite and double check for tools, which I do. Whenever a tool is out of place in the van, he makes some snide comment about it being in the wrong place. The thing is, I put every tool where it belongs.

It's his van, and he always leaves it a mess. If I clean it at a job, I'm wasting time. Everything is always a rush, and always catch 22. His garage is a disaster. His organizational skills are so terrible he can't even find customers from a week ago.

It's not just organizational problems, either. God forbid something takes longer than expected, to which he makes sure to ask "want me to do it?" in a condescending tone.

He constantly underestimates the time period a project demands, resulting in a ragefit the last few days of a job, complete with panic, tool smashing/throwing, and of course anger directed towards me...not to mention more mistakes, which leads to more time and rage, etc.

When we subcontract work from other contractors, I am positive he throws me under the bus for every mistake. I've caught him doing it, even to an employee at Home Depot for a door that had dents in it we couldnt origanally see, claiming his helper didn't look it over. When he found out I was right behind him he laughed it off as a joke. I thought it was funny, too, considering I had only worked with him for about a month at the time.
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>>17722242

Not sure what advice you're looking for here, but everyone needs a mental health day here or there.

I'm not sure if that's a sign of a job you hate, or if people who like their jobs do it too.
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Cont.

But, now, contractors treat me differently. I've heard one speak with him in the other room about how he "knows it wasn't you" who made whatever mistake. It was a cabinet, and I was installing baseboard - he did the cabinet.

He thinks he is funny. He thinks he is the smartest guy in the world. When we eat lunch he can't help but talk about this hot chick or that. He is in his 50's yet can't stop talking about how cool he was, or who he fucked in the past. Backhanded comments that put him higher and put me down are constant.

I don't understand why I dont quit. I have multiple job offers from other companies. I'm afraid to quit, I guess, like it's the wrong thing to do. Like I should just tough it out like I already have. I care about him, I don't want to let him down, I feel like leaving would out him in a bad spot.

There is so much more to say, I'll leave it at that for now. I had to warn in the first post it would be long after I ran out of characters.

I'm stressed. I'm a little afraid, guilty, and anxious. I called in sick today when I knew he needed me for a new project with another contractor, one he holds with the highest esteem. I called him and gave him a big, virtual fuck you, and he knows it. I haven't spoken with him since earlier this morning.

So, yeah, what would you do? Thanks for the vent, guys.
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>>17722256
Sorry, typing on my phone, should have mentioned i'd be continuing.

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Hey,
Can anyone offer advice for creating a good profile that gives you an edge over other people?
What kind of photos should I be putting up? What type of settlng? Any advice welcome.
I've been getting numbers but I would like to get those finer women.
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>>17722013
Be
>tall
>attractive
>able to lead a conversation
>white (or black if you meet all the other requirements.)
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>>17722013
just to warn you
>>>/b/709991856
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>>17722044
Thanks

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How easy is it to buy a gun in the US? I live in canada but its only a few hour drive to get to seattle. how easy would it be to drive there and get a gun? I plan on killing myself there, so I wont need to smuggle it back.
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>>17721942
You'd have to be an American citizen first of all dumbass
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Jump from a tall building, why the hassle
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>>17722365
Unless you have a hunting license, retard
If the faggot formerly known as OP wants to an hero, a cheap shotgun would do

What the fuck is wrong with me? Only once in my life did I sleep with someone without developing some romantic feelings for them.
All the other times I have had to break it off or confront them with the hope the feelings were shared (which ofc they werent)

Just this last month did I hang out with this girl a couple of times, and I even started thinking about her before we had sex! Im still seeing her, but im gonna have to break it off before I mess myself up.

Jesus christ. Im just gonna be a fucking monk. Fuck this shit.
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normiefag
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Let's turn the tables.

How do I get a girl to stop liking me and just hang out as friends with me?

She is super cool, and her friends are great. But I don't have any romantic feelings for her.
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>>17722951
Initials? Can't help but worry.

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Hey guys so i met this guy online, we have talked a lot. Seems really nice, I think he's handsome too, but recently we have been flirting more and he sent me a body pic, and he's pretty overweight, I'm not sure to what extent this is a deal breaker or not. How fat is too fat?
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We can't decide what is too fat for you. You said yourself you like this guy, think he is handsome, etc

If you want a personal opinion though, he isn't too fat, he's just got a bit of a belly going on which is easily fixed. Whatever you wish to do is up to you, if you can't handle it then in the most tactful way possible encourage him to lose some weight.

Whatever you do, don't crush him. He trusted you with showing this picture and you have shown it to us, so really you should delete this thread.
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>>17721774
i agree with anon
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>pretty overweight
Thanks chunky but not severely overweight. Honestly that's just the fault of male bodypics, anything that isn't chiseled gym bod is fucking gross to get pictures of.

I mean, look at it. Look at the angle, the lighting, how he's positioning himself. That's not a "sexy selfie", that's a one-time-try picture that you'd send to a doctor.
Guys are fucking bad at selfies. This dude is flabby for sure but he looks, I don't know, maybe 220-230lb?
He'll still be able to pin you against a wall and fuck you, and if he cuddles you you're going to feel very snuggly and safe because he's just physically much larger than you.

He's 100% out of shape but I wouldn't call that "dealbreaker" out of shape, unless you're a cardiobunny yourself or something.

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/adv/, i think i have interest in cp
no, i wont rape somebody's children, just the content.
what to do?
>pic semi related
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It's good that you have no interest to act upon it. Seeking real CP is dangerously illegal and morally dubious. I would recommend that you get off to drawn porn, if possible.
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>>17721620
i said that i have interest in it, but i still jack off to grown up women with big tits. Its just that i don't find cp disgusting nor repulsing, like what other people say
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>>17721639
How young until you find it immoral.
Surely you wouldnt dick a newborn.

How did the popular kids at your highschool turn out? For me half of them literally ended up getting pregnant right after graduation
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Some are successful, other aren't. What advice do you want?
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The QB to the football team got a full ride scholarship to one of the best state schools in the nation. He proceeded to rob 3-5 banks and went to prison.

Other popular kids got knocked up or have never left the town they were born in.
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>>17721499

"popular kid" is a totally vague description

I was on the less popular side of "popular", I was a stoner and n athlete. I'm about to get my master's degree in psychology at the end of this school year

another popular kid who got laid a lot in high school just killed himself a week ago

there's a large variance, just like any other population

Welcome to the NEET/shut-in improvement thread!

>old thread
>>17714474

>Discord
https://discord.gg/AAhJ6eR

Join us for help on improving your life, becoming more social or just helping people with these things! All are welcome, as long as you follow the rules.

>What do I do in the threads?
Ask people for advice on your NEET-related/social problems, or join our discord group to do the same.

>Wait, is this some super-secret cool kids' club where you can only be some sort of shut-in freak to participate in?
No, anybody is free to enter and help our group. Feel free to participate, just don't be a dick.


NEET IMPROVEMENT RULES
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1. Preventing your suicide is not our responsibility. If you need someone to talk you out of hurting yourself and/or others, please call a suicide hotline.
2. No doxxing or spamming. If you post any personal information of another user without their consent, you will be banned. Spamming will result in temporary loss of text privileges.
3. Please try to genuinely improve your lot in life. We're not here to circlejerk about how horrible our lives are. We'll all slip up or need to vent sometimes, but overall you should try to be positive and move upwards.
4.The #support channel is for advice only. Check #rules for a description of all other channels and rules.

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Self-help resources: http://pastebin.com/BSZDiAKd
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nice job letting the thread die
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b u m p

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How should I ask my gf if shes had an abortion before. Weve only been dating for 3 months but for some reason a few conversations weve had has me thinking its possible shes had one before. While its probably too early to share information like this, now that I have doubts I dont know if I can continue. If shes had an abortion before Id definitely break up with her now. I dont want to keep falling for her only to have to break up later. This is a huge red flag for me. Probably the largest possible.
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It's not really any of your business, OP. If you're that worried about something that doesn't even effect you, and something you have no context for, then you should just break up with her now.
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>>17720497
you sound like an asshole but i'll give you advice anyways.
just ask her what you guys would do if you accidentally got her pregnant. and if she says abortion is okay ask her if she's had one before.
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>>17720528
>It's not really any of your business
-person with something to hide

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