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Consult your doctor.

There's nothing wrong with cosmetic surgery if you are being responsible. (with both your health and money).

A lot of it is personal preference or medically related.

>>17720466
Most guys dislike fake boobs. Its a clear sign of a poor body image.

>>17720480
Hmm, I don't think most guys have 'body image' in mind when they see a pair of tits.

Am I just being too fucking insecure about all this? Do I just have trust issues and just cant believe she wants to change her life ?

Any1

your fucked op, your not a good enough sociopath to not give a fuck now her ex is gonna want to knock your teeth out. Good luck. You reap what you sow.

>>17720300
>Is it selfish to jump in front of a train?
Yes. Sorry. It's incredibly selfish.

I really doubt you have literally zero people in your life who'll give a shit if you kill yourself. So you have to try to make your life bearable. There are people who can help with that, of course; you don't have to do it alone.

>>17720300
>>17720300
If you thought the world hated you before - jumping in front of a train is probably a poor way to go.

Want to talk about it some, Anon? I haven't had friends since junior high, I know what it's like to have no one.

>>17720320
There are 3, maybe 4 people that would notice I'm dead.

If this country had guns, I would go out to a woods or something and hit the off switch. But that too, is not an option. People will care for all of 10 minutes when I'm dead, if that, my fear is leaving some random person with emotional scars.

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>>17720045

Negative actions have far more impact than others especially in close knit communities/friend groups.

STudies have shown that if someone in a friend group gets divorced, others in that same group are 40% more likely to get divorced, and similar numbers occur for suicides, drug use, etc. The fact that it is a small town compounds the effect.

No man can read another mans thoughts. People who argue that "Oh, this person seemed normal" or "That dude's a freak" never really understand other people. John Gacy seemed like a normal dude, my friend used to mow his lawn. What people see and what is actually there are two vastly different things, and you have to constantly check yourself from doing it.

As for how to respond. Just take a look at your own life and try to make better decisions, and live a life you would be honored in continue to live in.

>>17720045
This is actually a fairly common thing, called a suicide cluster. When someone kills themselves it removes the taboo for others, for example relatives of a suicide are much likelier to suicide themselves. For these highschool clusters what can happen is after the first suicide others see the attention that suicide got, and how former tormenters are racked with guilt.

>>17720045
Similar thing happened near me a while back

Don't get sucked into it. Keep an eye out for each other

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bridgend_suicide_incidents

I never liked the pastebin of the resources, I'm going old school with this:

>Our Ongoing Google Doc!
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1MOL822Z70BLJZNmDsVQeB5PEeFCFgpIbVLFkfb5eELw/edit?usp=sharing

>Need some career ideas?
http://www.sokanu.com/

>How to detect and handle emotionally abusive parents:
http://m.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Emotionally-Abusive-Parents
http://www.fortrefuge.com/Emotional-Abuse-Narcissistic-Mothers.html

>Convict Conditioning, a PDF that might help you get in shape if you're restricted to your room:
http://www.mediafire.com/download/d7x4sv6jdj2csix/CC.pdf

>U.S. Health Center finder (for those uninsured)
http://findahealthcenter.hrsa.gov/Search_HCC.aspx

>MBTI Personality Test
https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

>MBTI Career Finder - must know your Myers-Briggs type first
http://www-old.wsc.edu/advising_services/career_planning/exploration/personality_careers/

>Workbooks for dealing with a wide range of psychological and social conditions (Highly Recommended)
http://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/resources/consumers.cfm

>A general guide to self improvement
http://www.arcitea.com/2012/03/transform-yourself-guide-to-self.html

>Khan Academy "a free, world-class education"
https://www.khanacademy.org/

>Quackerson's Needy NEET guide
http://pastebin.com/4YeJAUbT (embed)

>Text based suicide/help hotlines for those of you with phone phobias:
US: http://www.crisistextline.org/get-help-now/
UK: http://www.callhelpline.org.uk/TextService.asp
Canada: http://www.thelifelinecanada.ca/
http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html

These are the videos I used for the NEETworkout, they work if you do them 2 - 3 times a week and will keep you in above average shape:

Level 1:

Chest:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nV80y796Gwk

Abdominals:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x59f9A1l0ao

Legs:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lGNtgLNn-Tc


Level 2:

Chest (same as level 1 but do regular push ups for the entire video)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nV80y796Gwk

Abdominals:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQlJGTdD8qI

Legs:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KKI0RnaN54I


Level 3:

Chest:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x09fwyJERj4

Abdominals and Legs stay the same.


If there's some demand for it I might hold a public NEETworkout this coming Tuesday, 11/1 at 8pm ET to get you guys started.

Flase neets are the scum of the Earth.

>>17722722
Sex got way better and relationship overall improved after. Not a big deal. If it is for you you should consider therapy, might be an addiction

>>17722722

what kind of difficulties? what advice are you looking for?

how to watch more porn or how to kick it or waht?

Settle for cosplayers on facebook, make sure you don't accidentally like their pictures, clear your search history on your phone each time, but then fill it back up with 3-4 random wife approved searches.

Kill her

>>17722383

Just listen to what she has to say. Dont show any emotions, dont speak anything apart from "go on" or "then what?" etc

When she will end her story, say calmly "you understand that this ends everything between us? I dont have a place in my life for cheaters and liers. You should go now"

>>17722383
Dump. Once a cheater Always a cheater

Do it don't be a pussy it's a 3 year difference. I'm with a 15 yr old as an 18 yr old and as far as I'm aware it's not legal here as well, but i don't give a shit. No one will catch ya

>>17722304
So what do I tell the police if they catch me? It's only a 3 year difference? I'm not trying to be rude, but I wouldn't know how to get away with it otherwise.

3 years is no age difference at all. Doesn't matter.

Her being 15 matters. She's a kid. Legal or not, you will be unable to stomach her teenager behavior and tantrums.

>>17722231
If you're white, hell no.
If you move to LA if you're white you could do it.

>>17722231
"Yo, uh, check it check it
I'm a miracle, spiritual, lyrical"

You realize how many people want to become rappers?

>>17722251
That's hip hop I wanna do that 21 savage shit

>>17722205
You sound like a narcissistic fucking asshole, and she's better off without you. Literally a fucking narcissist. Get a therapist, tell them exactly what you wrote her, and take their advice. Go fuck yourself.

>>17722205
haha, this is b8

2/10

Basically how do I let them know that they let me down in the biggest ways? We have a pretty shit relationship as of now and I barely even talk to them as it is. I have let them know they failed as parents and consider them jokes. I attribute the colorful wording to the fact that I needed to be a big loud or mean to even get their attention. asking politely never worked in my house..also let me explain...they always kind of bullied me into "being nice" and "respecting them" just because the word parent. As I grew older I realized I dont need to because they never put int effort with me. That being said parents are parents and I still do love them...how can i forget their shortcomings and have good relations with my parents again?

>>17722223

1 off

>>17722140
>Parents let me live at home as a 25 year old NEET
>Parents are too stifling.

No, OP, you can't have it both ways. If you really find them "giant pussies" then stop taking advantage of them and their generosity. If you are going to continue sponging off them, then don't criticize them for being spineless.

(2/3, because I suck at math)
3. I've slowly turned into an alcoholic. I've been socially drinking since I was a junior in high school but in the past few months I've hit the sauce pretty hard. Partying? Get plastered. Alone? Drink the sorrows away. It's gotten really bad, almost to the point where I laid a subtle hint to my roommate which was a cry for help. He probably thought I was joking. I could also be a 'partyholic' too, in that I go to parties and socialize in order to feel better.

4. Women. I am absolutely in love with a girl from my old hometown, and she goes to a community college there, although she often rolls through my campus some weekends to party. I'm not dating her, but I've had many opportunities to ask her out and I'm pretty sure she's even implied that she'd love to go out with me. My self esteem is terribly low and she lives 2 hours away... Oh, and other than having drunk sex this one time in high school of which I have no recollection of, I'm basically a virgin.

(3/3)
5. My family. Even though my dad has bipolar, my parents used to fight only as often as average parents did. That changed when my dad's stupid fucking chink psychiatrist decided that lithium was no longer working for him, even though a retarded chimpanzee could tell you he just was taking it incorrectly. So now he takes a medicine that barely even works, not to mention that he's one of the worst cases of bipolar disorder many doctors have ever seen. He tries, he can still be a good father but he won't listen to reason. My other family members regardless of side won't listen to my mother because my dad somehow convinced them she's a drug addict (she was in rehab for a short time a long time ago for an addiction to painkillers because she had to use them after a surgery to remove a benign tumor in 07), which is ironic because he uses mary jane all the time, convinced it will heal him even though studies say pot makes bipolar worse. I was the moderator of arguments during my last two years living with them. I thought moving to college far away from them would help, and it does but it also makes me worry like crazy.

Part of me wants to stay, but I am about 6 months from just jumping off a cliff. What I'm doing feels so vanilla and I hate it. I want to leave, but I don't know how my parents would feel, and I'd have to go back to living in a shitty situation until I get a place on my own, although I wouldn't mind having a shit job for a while if I'm trying to make it into entertainment.

What the fuck am I going to do?

Shameless bump

>>17722123

What does she mean by you never went after her?

If there's love still there and the circumstances that lead to the break up can be repaired then I don't see why not.

>>17722126
she would leave my place and i never went after her to comfort her.

>>17722133

Leave your place after a fight? and this happened often?

You need to give more details man, but if you're having fights that often which cause her to storm out of your house then that's not the best sign.You sound like you deal with conflict very differently.

No.

>>17722115
Maybe.

Straigth girls get off to lesbian porn surprisingly often.

The signs you should be worried about is her getting a new girlfriend that is constantly over.

Idk Tesco or Sailsburrys or whatever other stores are over there lmao

>>17722350
It's not over the counter.

>>17722361
Okay then you'd quite obviously need to go to a pharmacy then brit