>were in london in holidays for a few days
>my boyriend was oon party, he kissed some people around because he took some mdma with friends and they found the moment so, i quote " miracle that he had to kiss them all"
>thing is this was and is a no-no in our realtionship
>we got in an argument and somehow to managed to go back to normal between us
>still i am hurt as fuck and just can not be relaxed when his friends are around me
>in a few weeks his best friend is holding a party again and they want to take that mdma stuff or maybe even ectasy again, no problem with that but im feared of it happing again, seeing my love kissing someone else and feeling like shit even more
>when i tried to do so he just said i should get over it and learn to handle my feelings bc he can not turn past back for my sake
>since those word i`m having horrible nightmares especially about him and his friends,
>should i tell him again about my all this, or am i just a dummy for staying with him/thinking to much about this whole thing?
He seems extremely ignorant, that's very rude to tell your partner to just "Get over it" simply because it's already happened. If I was in your situation I'd break up with him.
>>17719720
he doesn't seem like he respects you. recently i had to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years because he didn't respect me as a person. it's hard at first, but you deserve respect and you'll be happier in the long run
>>17719720
He wants to have fun, be as high as him or you'll not get along that well
And I'd hate to be around people whos on mdma come down
He may not respect you very much but who knows he's him? Be more understanding about that but if you can't forget about him
OP here
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>>17719748
thank you all for your answers, i will overthink the option of breaking up
will speaking with him tomorrow about my opionion over this topic be a good idea? or do you think i will just cause a storm that is not necessary?
Talk to him and explain that even if it is in the past it makes you feel worried about the future, and that you can be fine if he can make you feel like it won't happen again, if not you should break up with him
>>17719760
If it's something that's bothering you still then yes talk about it.