Theres this girl I like and I`ve had a crush on her for three years. This is my last year in high school so this is the whole story
>for the all of my years hes had classes with me
>the last year his when I really fell for her since we used to both sit beside each other during science class
>we started to hang outside of school but not alone it was always with another girl and another guy
>we even met at the summer once
>the thing is this year I cant stop thinking about her
>her friends know me and my friends know her
>noone knows that I like her
>during the years some of her friends called me cute
>I always respond with something like "I know" or some smug shit like that
>this went on for a while at random times
>out of nowhere (recently) she just goes up to me and says "anon I love you" but in the completely casual joke sort of way
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>takes me a second to recover and precess what just happend and come out with a lousy "what"
>she doesnt stop saying it that day but I ended up adapting with a more confident "same", "I know", "everyone does"
>she keeps saying it after that day and for the next three weeks (presentday)
I know what you might be thinking "OP you faggot its obvious that she loves you just ask her out"
The thing is shes actually joking and I know this as when were alone she`s like "I think I shouldnt keep this up when were alone cause then thats like it this was real" I agree with her but only after a small part of my soul vanishes into the unforgiving abyss.
Also she has crushes on some people that I know are real (and not me)
each time she says she loves me I feel like im being shot at and the bullets dont go through me, instead they just stay and make my chest feel heavy.
Since its my last year I plan on telling her how I feel on the last day of school.
How do I stop this pain /adv/ how do/Should I get over her?
>>17723569
Why dont you just try inviting her somewhere and kissing her. Telling someone how you feel is gay. If you ust ask her to a private thing and then kiss her she'll know.
>>17723590
>just kiss her
dude I can hardly even handle her telling me that she loves me I dont think I have the courage to just kiss her
>>17723594
Well people can only give you advice. No one can make you not be a little bitch.
Ask if her if she wants to watch a movie with you.
Okay im in uni. There's this girl in my one class didn't notice her right away buy yah. Total dime. I Really want to ask her out but just tell me what you think.
If I ask her out and then get turned down im in class with her for x amont of more time. Which may be awkward. not necessarily a pro either. Should I just say hey talk to her for 5 minutes then ask if she wants to get food or something?
Secondly, Ive been working on a strategy lately of just befriending females and seeing if anything happens.. But that hasn't really worked out either for me.
>>17723551
Just try to get her number first, and then see how the text go...
>>17723566
Okay wait please dont leave. THats what I meant. So you think when I am like talking to her in the hall way I ask for her number.
Then what? How long should i wait to text her, and what should i do when I see her in class again. I definetly wont sit next to her, but after class what hould i do?
>>17723566
dnt leave me hanging brother.
Is clinical depression real?
>>17723492
Yes, it is a diagnosed mental illness that the scientific and medical community agrees on.
The fuck made you think it wasn't?
>>17723498
I stopped taking antidepressants completely after reading some stuff on /pol/, also personally i feel like they made me too comfortable
>>17723506
look man i love pol but don't try to take everything they say seriously. i know they'll try to say that anti depressants or ritalin is degenerate and a threat to whitetopia and whitetopia only works if you tough through everything but depression is real and antidepressants can and do help some people.
Hi /adv/,
hope you can help me, because this issue is making me feel very depressed.
So, almost 2 years since last time I fucked someone (my ex gf).
My best friend's friend starts dating again after an 8 year old relationship.
I start talkin to her over facebook chat.
After a month, I had to play guitar at a friend's bday in a bar. She comes to see me (with two of my friends that know her for a long time already).
She tells me that liked the show, we talked for an hour.
Some days later I invite her to go out for a drink.
We get drunk, she comes with me to my place.
I'm rock solid while making out, once we go to my bedroom, put on the condom and my wiener dies...I just couldn't get an erection anymore.
I'm devastated, did anybody go through this at some point?
I'm really depressed and have no one to discuss this with.
What shall I do?
At some point in life, it happens to all of us.
My only /adv/ for you is to try to relax and then go for it one more time.
Remember, as long as you keep trying, you can never lose.
>>17723464
Do you like this girl? Do you think she is pretty or you're just doing it for sport?
>>17723517
I'm 30 and it has yet to happen to me.
Today has been shit, couldn't bring myself to enjoy a second of it...I feel all my friends and family forgot or just didn't give a shit.
Never had a girlfriend
Never has a first kiss
Never had sex
I don't have it as bad as others but I feel like a complete failure.
>>17723438
Happy birthday Anon!
>>17723448
Thanks, kind Anon.
>>17723438
So me and my gf have a strict don't talk to our ex's rule but today I did some name searching on google and found one of my ex'a tumblr and she posted "I need help" so I sent an anon message basically saying "hey life isn't worth dying over don't kill yourself" I feel really guilty about this message who should I do?
>>17723325
don't fuckin do it again and keep your mouth shut but also know she is likely sending tit pics to her ex right now
>>17723325
Just don't talk about it. You did nothing wrong.
>>17723325
Be smart and realise honest is not the best policy. You didn't sleep with your ex. Realise you did wrong and shut the fuck up. You will not improve the life of yourself or your gf by bringing it up. Ignorance is bliss.
Is it possible to stop being asexual?
Are you asking for yourself or a friend?
My guess would be probably not unless the low sex drive is being caused by some health issue or medication.
>>17723257
I'm asking for myself. Not having anything that feels nice or fun or being able to make life interesting is getting old.
>>17723280
I think a lot of those outcomes can result from way more things than just sex, like your hobbies and interests. What sort of asexual are you? By that I mean, are you apathetic towards sex, don't get pleasure out of it, or repulsed by it?
Girl I'm interested in is seeing a guy that's married.
I found the guy and his wife. I'm debating if I should tell his wife.
What should I do?
>>17723213
Once you tell the married guy, your crush will be sure to rush in to your arms then! Good thinking, petty, jealous, sad little man!
I'm sure that's going to make her fall for you
>>17723213
Depends on how you found out about the girl you like being the other woman.
Whatever the outcome, you should reconsider dating a girl who is knowingly the other woman, anyone who partakes in cheating is probably going to do the same to you.
Alright mother fuckers. I suspect my gf is cheating on me. How difficult is it to hack/obtain her fb or gmail? I don't have access to her phone, but in due time I should be able to obtain it briefly (feel free to give advice on how to obtain her phone). I'm willing to spend a nice amount of cash on a spy app for Android. Looking for suggestions or advice on any of these concerns. Would be willing to pay an anon if he can somehow obtain her gmail and/or fb.
Someone knows how to do it, but as a non techie, let me tell you that I'm sorry.
Shit situation, hope it isn't true.
>>17722949
I find my GF's phone is most vulnerabe when she stays the night. An innocent midnight bathroom trip with her phone in hand might be all it takes, but other opportunities may present themself.
When I hacked my ex GF to find out she was cheating, I knew one of her old passwords, which just so happened to work for her email, which I was just so able to track her social media accounts bound to, and then reset their passwords through her email I had access to, and then accessed her other accounts.
It leaves a lot of evidence, because you actively change her passwords to those of your own choice, so be sure when you make this breach, as there's no going back.
My girlfriend was in fact cheating on me, just like my gut told me.
>>17722949
Nigga, you're cray. Just break up with her.
God fucking shit /adv/, I need your help like never before.
A couple of hours ago I was working on a .css file with Brackets.
Saved the file, as usual, put my laptop to sleep and packed to go home (was working at uni).
Got home and as I got my laptop, I accidentally pulled out the battery, so the pc shut down.
I turnedit back on and the file is suddenly empty, but the HTML I also had open with brackets seems intact.
What the fuck happened and how do I get my file back as it was?
I tried opening the .css file with notepad and wordpad and it's completely blank.
I'm freaking out, I have a project due in a few hours.
>>17722887
then it's gone
>>17722871
How do I delete this stupid nigger-tier halloween skin?
Hey /adv/
So today at school we were having a debate about the election and there was this stupid white guy who said he hopes that Trump will win the election. What kind of racist thing is that to say?! I get really sad on behalf of the people of the colors when he says that. They were sitting right next to him! Therefore I'm asking you what I should do about it? Should I take revenge? Should I comfort the people of the colors? I'm really upset about this
>>17722869
Why would you want to comfort niggers? Statistically, they don't have too much to lose, so if Trump wins it's the white guys who will get shafted. Comfort the racist idiot instead.
3/10 bait
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>>17722879
excuse me? I can clearly see that you're American just by your racist rude language and how you describe African Americans. Maybe you should look yourself in the mirror
ok, I need /adv/ice only anonymous posters can give.
I have this old hag for a landlord. Life is a bit tough right now and I took a room in an apartment close to my work place. It is owned by this old woman.
It wouldn't be such a problem if I didn't start to notice things getting displaced in my room when I come back from work. Little things, like wardrobe doors would be open or a window that I left open on purpose would get closed.
So, I installed this camera software on my laptop and recorded what goes on in my room during the day. It turns out she enters my room couple of times during the day EVERY day! She would go through my dresser, or look through my trash. Today she was examining the souls of my slippers for god knows what reason.
Any way I wan't to set her up. I will keep recording her and I want to record her doing something nasty shit. The problem is I have no idea what to do. I could leave some money out but meh.
tl dr, how to record someone doing shit in others room.
pic related - its her going through by plastic bag drawer and steeling one.
Why don't you just confront her about this like an adult?
She owns all of your stuff now, it was in the lease.
>>17722872
Well I did ask her to respect my privacy, but the response was literally >>17722876
So I wan't to let some steam go this way. I handed my 30 day before leaving notice. And so I would like to get back at this discussing person.
I want to get a service dog because I am a recovering agorphobic with a serve panic disorder. My husband does not want it stating that the dog would only bound with me but he does not get the point of the dog to help me be able to gain more independence.
I have talked to him about it but he is still against it. My doctor agrees that I do need a service dog. I am not sure this is causing distance in our relationship and this is the first time I have been hopeful about something.
Why dont you get two dogs
>>17722817
He already has a dog. We can not train his because he is too protective in public.
I don't understand the big deal. What does it matter that your husband is skeptical if you have faith in it? I mean, if he worries about costs/time investment etc that combination would make sense, but simply not agreeing on your own personal treatment because he doesn't think it'll work?? That's not his place.
On top of that it surprises me that a dog owner would not realize that dogs are the perfect ice breaker, attract a friendly kind of attention and force you to get out of the house.
Dig deeper. I feel like he's not telling you all about his objections.
There's a girl I like, she went to other city to work on a project. We're nothing but we agreed to tell eachother if someone didn't felt love anymore. She promised me to tell me anything that happened regarding feelings or if she found another guy.
Yesterday her best friend came to my house to edit a video (she doesn't have a PC), she left her FB open and I found out she kissed other guy a month ago.
Last week she talked with me like nothing happened, telling me that she loves me and that she didn't forget her promise of looking for me when she comes back.
I feel shitty, extremely, I know there's nothing I can do to stop her from liking other guys, that's pretty normal. The lie and the fact that she broke her own promise and pretending like i'm stupid makes me feel disappointed.
My plan atm is to do nothing, just stop talking with her, don't go to the airport and prevent that meeting. It's been a month since that happened and she couldn't be honest about it.
Any other tips?
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>I know there's nothing I can do to stop her from liking other guys, that's pretty normal.
Don't try to normalize cheating when you're a monogamist.
>We're nothing but we agreed to tell eachother if someone didn't felt love anymore.
In the future, avoid making bullshit arrangements like this in your relationship if you are a monogamist. Next girl you meet, make her your girlfriend, agree that the foundation for your relationship together is that you won't think about other people like that and you sure as shit won't kiss them.
Sorry she broke your heart
>>17722818
Thank you very much, I'll keep my mouth shut and will try to learn as much as possible from this. Didn't thought she would lie that bad. But meh. Have a nice day
My gf and I can't have sex. We are both 22 and virgins. We have tried twice. First time my dick went limp when I put on a condom. Second time I got it in for a minute and it started hurting her and my dick fell out and I couldn't get it back in.
My dick just curves to the side like there is nowhere for it to go.
Just keep at it. It's not easy your first time, don't get discouraged.
>>17722756
You need to look up positions for that curve. Do not assume the standard ones work.
>>17722756
Jesus christ kill me kids cant even fuck properly
When i fucked i didnt complain about pain because im not a pussy bitch
Tell her to grow a pair the weak cunt